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Sellfish:
When you were selling Agege Bread and Industrial butter, and sharing pussy to drunk conductors under Ikeja Bridge, this man stood by you despite your cheap slattery....

Monkey has been worn Agbada...Now Monkey is claiming to be owner of Zoo...

Her next Sugar daddy will give her HIV

Mark my words

vlhow did u know she shared pussy.she share for u.do u know what she went through.why will u wish her hiv.na ur daughter.what of her kids??pls be reasonable ND drop reasonable comments

tohyorsih2:
I said that because men would always be jealous when a lady is richer than them. which will always cause problem in the family. They automatically see you as a prostitute when you're richer. With that, you will not be able to express your feelings. Whenever you try to correct him, he will always see it as disrespect. When you dress to much he will tell you that you're going to to your concubin's place and why you're dressed like that. He will always quarell over any little thing.

He may be pretending to be in support of you but deep down he is jealous.

I said that in other to avoid troubles. I don't have strength

Sorry for the misunderstanding.
I Agree with some of your points you made in this post.

philip0906:
Sup Bro? I have seen a number of your comments...are you a feminist?

let's just say I'm sympathetic to the plight of women

maasoap:
May be we should ask you too what were they doing together back then? Why divorcing now? I'm still looking for the hard work that made her what she is today.

keep looking for the hard work and while you are at it may be you should also tell the husband to go and work his own work too and stop whining.

And they didn't divorce cos they were never married.

First a man who will knock up a woman twice without paying her bride price is nothing but an irresponsible man, and in some cultures ,he is regarded as a thief who stole their daughter

Secondly a man who has something going on in his life will not have time to be carrying his wife's handbag up and down . Only a shameless man will do that.

And only a freeloader will want his so called baby mama to use her money to sponsor their wedding of which that was probably what he was expecting when he finally wanted to marry her after the fame. I am a real man not some pussy ass idiot who depends on a woman for food.

people hate to swallow the truth and you must be one of them. most women take care of their homes,some women earn more than their huabands ,I have seen, but that has never been an issue but some men are just lazy and laid back ,and its disgusting.

Ugosample:
let's just say I'm sympathetic to the plight of women

Lol...Mind sharing what their “plight” is?

Money brings out ur hidden character, sas the small girl dey invite thunder to herself because she don get change, no stress, she no go live forever if she no knw

Sally97:
Pls what was the man's occupation or was he solely relying on the woman's source of income and turning the woman to he's ATM because that's the part we forget easily

OK you're saying he's not been taking care of his home before money n fame came to jumoke? Or that money came to her (the type of money he can't contend with) he has suddenly become incapable? I don't get you.

frozen70:
Well marriage is not something to manage with both parties to an extent

Once the love is no longer there and your happiness is no longer guaranteed, just walk out gently without maiming any one

shut up......all these young women of this generation sef

Burgerlomo:
I'm fully loaded baby gat 30b in my akant

30b is too small joor

Gratefulheart01:
No mind dem people. When she dey alone dey sell bread with kids, where the hubby dey? People are too judgmental, especially Nigerians.

Nigerians are the most evil human on earth.

hubby or husby wey dey somewhere dey enjoy in life wey Jummy dey hawk bread for sun in Lagos she even try carry him along for some time sef

[color=#990000][/color]you lie. Most men cannot stand the success of their wives. It brushes their ego and suffocate them. Don't be surprised that her husband started picking her up on things he used to overlook before fame.

desmond2pk:
The truth is, poverty humbles people and money brings out the real personality.
I once dated a girl who was damn poor and very humble. I was happy because i was a kind of light to her life, a girl of date status, dating s guy with 2 cars and living in a flat. At a time, her sister pushed her out and i told her to stay with me.
Then, one day she told me she won american visa lottery someone played for her. We were all happy together. Her father was poor and nobody from her family to pay the visa fee and ticket and other fees. I took it as my responsibility.
I paid for the visa. Ticket. BTA and clothes and plenty of weavon to sell there. Everything was going on well until she started work in america and started saving money. In all her money, she didn't remember to buy sicks, or boxers and shirts for me who made sure she came to America. Within a year, she started telling me she had a boy friend and that i should deal with it. That her father said that she shouldn't marry me because i am a Christian. My dear humble ajokeade became an arrogant lady in America.
And that became the end of that Relationship. Its been about 11 Years no calls or message from her, to even know how i am doing. This is a girl i thought we were in love and i was doing my best to assist.
Olajumoke was not a good person. Money just revealed how true personality.

delishpot:
This was why women were denied economic power in the olden days. They depended solely on the male folks (even if hubby dies they move her to his brother or another male in the family) they Could not escape abuse and even death. They had no hope living alone away from their husbands or husband family. If they even took the bold step to return home, Mothers would shoo them back to their husbands houses/families for fear of being shamed as a mother/father who welcomes back a married daughter. Greedy brothers and uncles would not give them land to do anything. They had to endure all types of shit in husbands House for the sake of their children who depend on the economic power of fathers to survive. Today women can earn their living, they can move on with their lives and not starve. Although society still expects women to eat shit nd endure, many bold women opt out of difficult marriages

Very true. Many women were living in hell: while being brainwashed that the hell in marriage is better than heaven outside, they were restricted from economic independence cos they know this is what making the women endure the pain as they are scared of the unseen and unexpected.

babatee100:
"He may have....." Assumption is the mother of frustration. How did you know...? Were you there? Have you heard from the guy too?

Nairalanders can pokenose for Africa

The moment you become a public figure, your life ceases being private. Assumptions are the bedrock of a successful research, especially when you don't have all the information at hand. And why are you taking this personal Are you related to the man?

AntiWailer:
House boy ?

What was the lazy idiot expecting ?

When he sit his ass at home all day.

Have have u ever seen a Man that left his house 6am to return 7/8pm complain of being treated as house boy ?

Where you there with them?...Over sabi

d greatest problem with her started the day she started to speak English

Useless woman when you av started testing different preeek why won't u reject ur baby daddy madwoman!

delishpot:
This was why women were denied economic power in the olden days. They depended solely on the male folks (even if hubby dies they move her to his brother or another male in the family) they Could not escape abuse and even death. They had no hope living alone away from their husbands or husband family. If they even took the bold step to return home, Mothers would shoo them back to their husbands houses/families for fear of being shamed as a mother/father who welcomes back a married daughter. Greedy brothers and uncles would not give them land to do anything. They had to endure all types of shit in husbands House for the sake of their children who depend on the economic power of fathers to survive. Today women can earn their living, they can move on with their lives and not starve. Although society still expects women to eat shit nd endure, many bold women opt out of difficult marriages

First sensible comment.

Gratefulheart01:
, i swear, i always thought they are useless (God forgive me). If not for their sex selling point, they will be irrelevant in life. Without women in the world, we will still have messi, guns, games, sports and russia, putin and every other important things. But without men in the world, things will be soo fcking shhiiiit.

As useless as your mum and sisters abi.

Ordinary bread seller

Lexusgs430:
But we cannot continue with this narrative....... Has marriage lost it's true core & meaning?

Why bother getting married, if at the slight show of wealth and change in status, the other party bails out.....


They say in marriage, marry your type...... They did that, so what's the next formula?.....

It's kind of confusing, right?

What's the point in getting married, going through the hassles of wedding and all the rituals that come with it, pre-wedding pictures and all when a spouse can just bail out on the other if life smiles on them. Ironically ladies are usually the ones doing the "aww, they are so cute" during weddings but are also the ones to encourage divorce at any given opportunity.

Humans are now damn selfish and self centered, and marriage is just a fuckkkinng waste of time and energy these days.

KevinDein:
It's kind of confusing, right?

What's the point in getting married, going through the hassles of wedding and all the rituals that come with it, pre-wedding pictures and all when a spouse can just bail out on the other if life smiles on them. Ironically ladies are usually the ones doing the "aww, they are so cute" during weddings but are also the ones to encourage divorce at any given opportunity.

Humans are now damn selfish and self centered, and marriage is just a fuckkkinng waste of time and energy these days.

Maybe Babymama's & Babypapa's, should be the new norm.........

Abi wetin remain...........

Ugosample:
nwanne listen....


By now you should know the way women behave


In a situation where she has no leverage, and the man is misbehaving, she will suck it up, but now the tables have changed, she is giving him the boot

I have seen this play out again and again in real life, that is why I am somewhat sympathetic to Jumoke.

Women with no leverage in relationships with typical naija men dey see pepper in many cases.
that is why when the opportunity comes to get even, unlike men, women are not that forgiving
they will get even ruthlessly

Ah, nice to know the emboldened.

So men if you wrong your partners, don't bother asking for forgiveness or try patching things up, it's a waste of time. Just ask for a breakup.This Man here is basically telling us they'll never forgive you and would only stick around to ruthlessly deal with you if opportunity presents itself.

Amazing creatures, women.

U mingle with people of your calibre

I must salute her husband for being married to that ugly thing amd end of being disappointed, anyway he should count his los and move

desmond2pk:
The truth is, poverty humbles people and money brings out the real personality.
I once dated a girl who was damn poor and very humble. I was happy because i was a kind of light to her life, a girl of date status, dating s guy with 2 cars and living in a flat. At a time, her sister pushed her out and i told her to stay with me.
Then, one day she told me she won american visa lottery someone played for her. We were all happy together. Her father was poor and nobody from her family to pay the visa fee and ticket and other fees. I took it as my responsibility.
I paid for the visa. Ticket. BTA and clothes and plenty of weavon to sell there. Everything was going on well until she started work in america and started saving money. In all her money, she didn't remember to buy sicks, or boxers and shirts for me who made sure she came to America. Within a year, she started telling me she had a boy friend and that i should deal with it. That her father said that she shouldn't marry me because i am a Christian. My dear humble ajokeade became an arrogant lady in America.
And that became the end of that Relationship. Its been about 11 Years no calls or message from her, to even know how i am doing. This is a girl i thought we were in love and i was doing my best to assist.
Olajumoke was not a good person. Money just revealed how true personality.

Damm!

Lexusgs430:
Maybe Babymama's & Babypapa's, should be the new norm.........

Abi wetin remain...........

Maybe, because I really don't get it.

During weddings, the preachers usually give sermons on how forgiveness is the key to a successful marriage and I see everyone nodding in agreement. But on nairaland a certain dude is saying women don't forgive and he's literally having the most likes on the thread which basically implies that the women on here actually agree they are unforgiving beings.

We just love living a lie, don't we?

Unik3030:
stfu,they were not even together b4 d fame. it was after this girl made it that they did arrangee reconciliation for them so what didn't make it work at first broke it now. so don't say what u don't know

You must be her dad, uncle or brother. Knower

KevinDein:
Maybe, because I really don't get it.

During weddings, the preachers usually give sermons on how forgiveness is the key to a successful marriage and I see everyone nodding in agreement. But on nairaland a certain dude is saying women don't forgive and he's literally having the most likes on the thread which basically implies that the women on here actually agree they are unforgiving beings.

We just love living a lie, don't we?

It simply translates to fact that the true meaning and purpose of the union has changed.....

We have simply flipped the switch.....

Misslagbaja:
As useless as your mum and sisters abi.

As useless as your smelly pssy. Bitches be wanting to be dignified, after portraying una selves as sex objects, dressing anyhow, jumping like dog from one dck to another, behaving anyhow. Una still want to have respect. NO! You will have to choose one between dignity and uselessness.

KevinDein:
Ah, nice to know the emboldened.

So men if you wrong your partners, don't bother asking for forgiveness or try patching things up, it's a waste of time. Just ask for a breakup.This Man here is basically telling us they'll never forgive you and would only stick around to ruthlessly deal with you if opportunity presents itself.

Amazing creatures, women.

only if you know how many women have bottled up grievances against their significant other and are waiting for the right time to pounce

you will fear women


but if you treat your woman right in the first place, there won't be room for the "grievances" in the first place

Ugosample:
only if you know how many women have bottled up grievances against their significant other and are waiting for the right time to pounce

you will fear women


but if you treat your woman right in the first place, there won't be room for the "grievances" in the first place

But there is literally no way you won't wrong your spouse . That's the point most of you are missing. It's what makes us humans and that's why most "good" books preach forgiveness. We'll err one way or another.

Fortune smiles on you and all of sudden you remember that time when your spouse wronged you and you feel this is the time to bail out on them kinda makes you a genuinely bad human being. And many people backing that move makes one want to give up on humanity.