Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,165,397 members, 7,861,111 topics. Date: Saturday, 15 June 2024 at 12:49 AM

I'm Doomed - Romance (6) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / I'm Doomed (46634 Views)

I'm Doomed I Just Got A Girl Pregnant / If Your Girl Once Dated Yahoo Boy ..you Are Doomed(see Reason And Pics) / I'm Doomed (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (16) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: I'm Doomed by OgaBuhari: 3:57am On Apr 25, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Too bad. I'll advice u get her to take her meds and if possible marry. Na she give u, so u both can live lovely. P. S you both can have negative babies
tah commot dia.
See useless advice
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 3:58am On Apr 25, 2019
Karrma:
I have been feeling sick ever since i had sex with my girlfriend, so i went for a test today only to find out she's infected me with HIV. This is someone i trusted with everything. I've learned my lesson the hard way. My life is ruined right now, I've cried my eyes out and suicide is the only thing coming to my mind now. I'm still alive because of the thought of my mother, butt I'm not sure i can hold on.

Please be careful with who you say you love.
.
Re: I'm Doomed by OgaBuhari: 3:59am On Apr 25, 2019
cuteguy14911:




Well I don't know you but then let me tell you that am also in your shoe. I was diagnosed of HIV last 2 week and guess what man.. am just 23... Like still an undergraduate.

I'll be visiting the doc today cos I've started treatment since 2weeks now. No body knows cos am still living my normal life although the first few days were depressing owing to the fact that am the only one in the university out of my family and currently on a good grade (4.2) aiming higher.


My own say is this... Start your treatment now. It'll be better with time.


Sometimes I forget that am HIV + and I'll still masturbate. I just masturbated now tongue grin. So man, face it, you're the architect of your success story!!!
gosh.
I hope you're joking?
BTW where they any symptoms before you got yourself tested and did u engage on unprotected sex?
Re: I'm Doomed by OgaBuhari: 4:07am On Apr 25, 2019
zerozz:

lol
(revelation 9:6)
And in those days shall men seek death, and shall not find it; and shall desire to die, and death shall flee from them.
And the shapes of the locusts were like unto horses prepared unto battle; and on their heads were as it were crowns like gold, and their faces were as the faces of men.


the second paragraph is a perfect description of the HIV virus when viewed under a microscope
the op is finished!!! enjoy your torment
lmao grin tho this ain't a laughing matter tho.
Have you seen an HIV virus in the microscope before?
Re: I'm Doomed by xpac01(m): 7:08am On Apr 25, 2019
Karrma:

I can't tell them Sir, I have disappointed them already. What am i to tell them?? that the son they suffered for under the rain and sun to make sure he's a graduate and have a bright future has gotten HIV. The thought alone can harm my mother and my father will be let down because he even uses me a standard to other people.

Please don't tell your parents nada. Just go ahead and start your life newly somewhere bro.

Save yourself and your parents the emotional trauma that will erupt after the discovery.

BTW: How long after sex did you start having the symptoms?
Re: I'm Doomed by izic911: 7:18am On Apr 25, 2019
Karrma:

Do you know know what it is to be on pills for the rest of your life?
shey u ejoy am wen u dey do d thing

1 Like 2 Shares

Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 8:02am On Apr 25, 2019
cuteguy14911:




Well I don't know you but then let me tell you that am also in your shoe. I was diagnosed of HIV last 2 week and guess what man.. am just 23... Like still an undergraduate.

I'll be visiting the doc today cos I've started treatment since 2weeks now. No body knows cos am still living my normal life although the first few days were depressing owing to the fact that am the only one in the university out of my family and currently on a good grade (4.2) aiming higher.


My own say is this... Start your treatment now. It'll be better with time.


Sometimes I forget that am HIV + and I'll still masturbate. I just masturbated now tongue grin. So man, face it, you're the architect of your success story!!!
Hi, i don't know how true this is or maybe trying to catch fun, but can i pm you?
Re: I'm Doomed by 420active: 8:45am On Apr 25, 2019
Op suck it up and stop acting like a wuss. He don happen he don happen be that. If u can't live with it go kill ya self. Abi which one is all the negative vibes u are giving your sef. Talking trash like "I can't get a job blah blah blah" . Bobo life goes one .. I got a friend that's go HIV since the late 90s, then drugs were not available like now but dude was positive about life. He's living well. Got a nice job has side business and a loving family. Go for counseling, see the doctors, live a healthy life and chase your dreams... Things will work out.

5 Likes

Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 9:35am On Apr 25, 2019
OgaBuhari:
lmao grin tho this ain't a laughing matter tho.
Have you seen an HIV virus in the microscope before?
just Google microscopic view of HIV
the op is already a corp lipsrsealed
Re: I'm Doomed by Uyi168: 9:57am On Apr 25, 2019
IntrovertedK:
you forget diabetic patient that take injections every single day until they die or miracle happen.
..
Not all diabetic patients take injections..
In fact,only few do..
We have oral drugs..
And yeah, it's everyday
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 10:04am On Apr 25, 2019
fvck shocked
Re: I'm Doomed by Uyi168: 10:16am On Apr 25, 2019
cuteguy14911:




Well I don't know you but then let me tell you that am also in your shoe. I was diagnosed of HIV last 2 week and guess what man.. am just 23... Like still an undergraduate.

I'll be visiting the doc today cos I've started treatment since 2weeks now. No body knows cos am still living my normal life although the first few days were depressing owing to the fact that am the only one in the university out of my family and currently on a good grade (4.2) aiming higher.


My own say is this... Start your treatment now. It'll be better with time.


Sometimes I forget that am HIV + and I'll still masturbate. I just masturbated now tongue grin. So man, face it, you're the architect of your success story!!!
..
grin..
Sad,but funny..
Re: I'm Doomed by ghettochild4u(m): 5:29pm On Apr 25, 2019
Karrma:
Thank you
to everyone who tried to make me feel better, but truth be told it's not helping. I'm miserable right now and may just end everything tonight. God bless you all.

Inbox me +27737839889
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 7:42pm On Apr 25, 2019
Karrma:

Hi, i don't know how true this is or maybe trying to catch fun, but can i pm you?

No p... Went to the hospital today... Collected another two weeks appointment. I got the cd4+ test result and it's 214. cheesy (Normal should be above 200) .

Your own is better nah... You had sex, me I don't have a girlfriend not to talk of having sex . But you know, life must go on.

The hospital session was very tiring embarassed

4 Likes

Re: I'm Doomed by czarina(f): 7:54pm On Apr 25, 2019
cuteguy14911:


No p... Went to the hospital today... Collected another two weeks appointment. I got the cd4+ test result and it's 214. cheesy (Normal should be above 200) .

Your own is better nah... You had sex, me I don't have a girlfriend not to talk of having sex . But you know, life must go on.

The hospital session was very tiring embarassed
Did you run confirmatory tests?

You can't start taking drugs like that without finding out with tests especially since you're certain it wasn't sexually transmitted.

3 Likes

Re: I'm Doomed by czarina(f): 8:28pm On Apr 25, 2019
cuteguy14911:



Nope am not bro... You've only got one life to live.

Yea I started having itching sensation on my skin and whenever I scratch it, it swells and disappears in the evening. It started since last year. Sometimes I would sleep and wake up with a swollen lip.

I was treating it with Normal over-the-counter drugs, and it would start again once I stop taking them. I searched for different solution and even created a thread on this platform about my condition but still there was no solution.

After visiting the school clinic countless times with the same complaint, I was referred to the state hospital to see a dermatologist. I finally got to see one after many failed attempts(strikes, going late to the clinic, et al).

While waiting , some people came to us that they were doing HIV test , yen yen yen.. So I went to their stand and was even smiling in my church mind cheesy (Wetin concern me with HIV) . I was told to check back for the result.

So I finally saw the dermatologist, and I got the shocker of my life shocked, this so called dermatologist told me am reacting to something in my environment and I should go and find out what that thing is. Like WTF? I was so angry and disappointed. Left the place in annoyance Sha and went back to the HIV stand to collect my result.

Got there, and those ones too were doing somehow, I started suspecting when one said I'll have to redo the test, this time it's gonna take place in their clinic. So I followed o. They sha took another blood sample.( Me was beginning to think whether they want to stylishly suck all my fresh blood grin)

Next thing was that I found myself sitting with the counselor where the scariest news of my life was broken to me *Sobs* That I have HIV *Sobs loudly* Lemme stop here

Oh dear! But I'm happy you bounced back. Keep it up. kiss

Cc: Karrma

2 Likes

Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 8:29pm On Apr 25, 2019
czarina:
Did you run confirmatory tests?

You can't start taking drugs like that without finding out with tests especially since you're certain it wasn't sexually transmitted.


If confirmatory tests means going to another hospital to rerun the test, then I haven't o. But then those symptoms were as a result of the virus cause since I've started treatment, the swelling stuff has been minimal.
Re: I'm Doomed by czarina(f): 8:35pm On Apr 25, 2019
cuteguy14911:



If confirmatory tests means going to another hospital to rerun the test, then I haven't o. But then those symptoms were as a result of the virus cause since I've started treatment, the swelling stuff has been minimal.
Just run another test.

You can't just catch it easily like that. It's a possibility but it's really slim.

1 Like

Re: I'm Doomed by OgaBuhari: 9:12pm On Apr 25, 2019
zerozz:

just Google microscopic view of HIV
the op is already a corp lipsrsealed
hmm bro be nice pls, he's so psychologically turned down make he no commit suicide oh
Re: I'm Doomed by chloroform: 12:57pm On Apr 26, 2019
cuteguy14911:



If confirmatory tests means going to another hospital to rerun the test, then I haven't o. But then those symptoms were as a result of the virus cause since I've started treatment, the swelling stuff has been minimal.

You should run confirmatory tests, cos I once heard having measles in the body can give out a positive status for HIV.

it's like you're not even bothered about how you contacted it even though you weren't sexually active.

5 Likes

Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 11:09pm On Apr 26, 2019
cuteguy14911:



Nope am not bro... You've only got one life to live.

Yea I started having itching sensation on my skin and whenever I scratch it, it swells and disappears in the evening. It started since last year. Sometimes I would sleep and wake up with a swollen lip.

I was treating it with Normal over-the-counter drugs, and it would start again once I stop taking them. I searched for different solution and even created a thread on this platform about my condition but still there was no solution.

After visiting the school clinic countless times with the same complaint, I was referred to the state hospital to see a dermatologist. I finally got to see one after many failed attempts(strikes, going late to the clinic, et al).

While waiting , some people came to us that they were doing HIV test , yen yen yen.. So I went to their stand and was even smiling in my church mind cheesy (Wetin concern me with HIV) . I was told to check back for the result.

So I finally saw the dermatologist, and I got the shocker of my life shocked, this so called dermatologist told me am reacting to something in my environment and I should go and find out what that thing is. Like WTF? I was so angry and disappointed. Left the place in annoyance Sha and went back to the HIV stand to collect my result.

Got there, and those ones too were doing somehow, I started suspecting when one said I'll have to redo the test, this time it's gonna take place in their clinic. So I followed o. They sha took another blood sample.( Me was beginning to think whether they want to stylishly suck all my fresh blood grin)

Next thing was that I found myself sitting with the counselor where the scariest news of my life was broken to me *Sobs* That I have HIV *Sobs loudly* Lemme stop here

I don't know how you do it, but your posts makes me smile. You and others have given me a new lease of life. I appreciate y'all.

I'll like to go through this journey with you, if you don't mind??

17 Likes 1 Share

Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 12:13am On Apr 27, 2019
MariaLavina:
Noted.
Number one but not the only way remember?
it's like you have HIV.FOOL
Re: I'm Doomed by NiggasInParis: 12:19am On Apr 27, 2019
This lady that kept emphasising on running confirmatory test has really done well to contribute to the Thread. Czarina weldone.

Guys, Run confirmatory tests in 2 different locations of reputable expertise before you conclude, and then come to a resolution to your fate.

6 Likes

Re: I'm Doomed by czarina(f): 12:25am On Apr 27, 2019
NiggasInParis:
This lady that kept emphasising on running confirmatory test has really done well to contribute to the Thread. Czarina weldone.

Guys, Run confirmatory tests in 2 different locations of reputable expertise before you conclude, and then come to a resolution to your fate.
smiley

6 Likes

Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 12:37am On Apr 27, 2019
well olympic sensation Ben Johnson if i am correct has been hiv positive since the 80s and he is sti alive so op hope dey for u. and besides AVR is free.anyway blame urself not ur girl cos she no put gun for ur head to do skin to skin with her.in this era in nigeria that ladies have side boyfriends and sugar daddies u still open eye slide ur condomless rod inside her chochise say cos u trust her? hm i laugh.

1 Like

Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 1:06am On Apr 27, 2019
Karrma:

She's the only one I've been with.
the time she was requesting for raw sex u ought to have insisted u both go for a hiv test first
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 1:11am On Apr 27, 2019
Karrma:

For over two weeks I've been forcing her to do it, she complained about money so i had to send her money to do it still she has refused giving one excuse or the other.
how much is it to do a hiv test sef? its free in govt hospitals.when she was making excuses of not going for d test dats when u ought to have run away.its like she even knew her status b4 she infected u sef.

2 Likes

Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 1:21am On Apr 27, 2019
MariaLavina:
Oh sorry about that.

But are you sure you didn't share any personal things with anyone? Do you have your own personal clipper? Not that this matters anymore but until she's tested you can't really be sure you got it from her.
lol MariaLavina clipper does not give hiv. the chances of the hiv virus remaiing alive in an exposed blood on the clipper is nill.what gives hiv is unprotected sex,unscreen blood transfusion,sharing blood during oath taking...in short anythin that involve sharin of blood. but if spill hiv blood on the table exposed the virus will die off.

1 Like

Re: I'm Doomed by Rosebloom: 2:59am On Apr 27, 2019
I really feel for this poor young guy.
I believe a lot of people have made insightful statements that should touch your core.
People living with leukemia go through worse, this I know firsthand. Diabetes too.

The rest of us, if you're free, Just abstain from premarital sex. Abstinence has never been known to get anyone in trouble. Sex is not food. It won't kill you to not have it.

The way it's thrust in our faces, you'll think it's a do or die affair. If you don't do you will not die.

@ Karma you go dey alright las las

6 Likes

Re: I'm Doomed by Rosebloom: 3:01am On Apr 27, 2019
Getting closer to God would also do you real good.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 7:17am On Apr 27, 2019
lefulefu:
lol MariaLavina clip per does not give hiv. the chances of the hiv virus remaiing alive in an exposed blood on the clipper is nill.what gives hiv is unprotected sex,unscreen blood transfusion,sharing blood during oath taking...in short anythin that involve sharin of blood. but if spill hiv blood on the table exposed the virus will die off.
Thank you Uncle Lefu smiley

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (16) (Reply)

Why Do Ladies Often Do This To Guys? ~ It's Really Appalling! / To The Guys: If She Is Not Yours Don't Go Nude With Her - Bamisepeter's Blog / 24-Year-Old Man: "How My Beard Got Me Sugar Mummy In Lagos"

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 60
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.