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ladies and gentlemen on NL please am not trolling as many of you may think this is a very personal matter and its really eating me up.Am a kind of guy many of you ladies may call a playboy true but its for a reason I fear heartbreak like plague so I guard my heart diligently whenever am in a relationship I luv with both my head and my heart I ave many 2 girlfriends and many female admirers too.despite being a player am always lucky with loyal girls ,am always meeting girls who love me wholeheartedly and willing to give me their all .

but here is the problem i am always taking the ones who love me genuinely for granted, i mean I don't reciprocate the love or feel the same way I have tried to change but to no avail as a result I end up loosing the girls .I have lost 2 good girls this same now am about to loose my current babe who has given her all to me and it feels bad

for the first time in our relationship she refused to pick my calls I ave called her 3 times today but to no avail .I WhatsApped her she did not reply.I don't care so much about loosing her but I just want to change my attitude towards relationships please help.

In what way if I may ask? You said, you're ready to loose her.

tee59:
In what way if I may ask? You said, you're ready to loose her.

i mean am scared to loose her but am more concerned with changing my attitude towards relationships.

bigpriik:
ladies and gentlemen on NL please am not trolling as many of you may think this is a very personal matter and its really eating me up.Am a kind of guy many of you ladies may call a playboy true but its for a reason I fear heartbreak like plague so I guard my heart diligently whenever am in a relationship I luv with both my head and my heart I ave many 2 girlfriends and many female admirers too.despite being a player am always lucky with loyal girls ,am always meeting girls who love me wholeheartedly and willing to give me their all .

but here is the problem i am always taking the ones who love me genuinely for granted, i mean I don't reciprocate the love or feel the same way I have tried to change but to no avail as a result I end up loosing the girls .I have lost 2 good girls this same now am about to loose my current babe who has given her all to me and it feels bad

for the first time in our relationship she refused to pick my calls I ave called her 3 times today but to no avail .I WhatsApped her she did not reply.I don't care so much about loosing her but I just want to change my attitude towards relationships please help.

You sir are a Narcissist.
This is not about the girl it’s all about you,
This is about the dent this will have on your ego. Let the girl in question find peace and happiness elsewhere all you will do is break her hurt and make her hate men.