maxwell530:
what are you saying exactly?
After you have clocked 35, you now dump the "bad guys" when he might have fvcked and explored everything, you then take the leftovers to the "nice guy"? It's actually the 'bad guy' that dumped you cuz he knows he's done with you and nothing new to gain from you anymore.


You end up validating the fact that nice guys always end up with retired runs girl.

Seems you really have a long way to go in falling inline with coherent and cognitive understanding.
Can't you read and understand properly? Geese!!

There are good girls who choose their love lives without complicating their lives. They are all for the good guys.
And there are bad girls, just like bad guys; they like to explore and driven by thrills. When they wanna settles, they abandon these smokers, club freaks to marry the decent men in their lives. Same way some guys hook up with runs girls and at the end, look for a decent woman to marry. Will you now say that it was the runs girls that dumped the said Guys?
Be reasonable please.

QueenSekxy:

Thank you

Welcome

AntiBrutus:


Okay...

Case in point:
I work in a consulting firm which is a 100% rule based and strict environment where certain behaviour is expected at all times e.g manner of communication, email etiquettes, relationship with superiors, filling of time sheets, punctuality, etc.
In my first year, i flouted all the rules and was always running into troubles. Consequently, my mid year appraisal took a hit. I didn't submit my timesheets on time, i was a truant, i’d flout dressing rules and all not because i wanted to per se but because i’m more of a maverick or a non conformist.
Interestingly, certain ladies started to throw themselves at me helplessly through gestures and snide remarks. One of them confirmed to me that my carefree attitude drew her to me. This was a square lady and a high flyer at work. At the point when i began to succumb to her emotional yearnings, surprisingly she started to push me away.
I’ve heard many guys share similar stories. I don't believe these are coincidences, rather i believe there is a common trigger.

theoptimist298:


You just validated the theory ( not that you’re qualified to because its beyond you) yet you’re still missing the point. Let me break it down for u.

1. The bad boy is not interested in settling down so in actuality, he heaves a sigh of relief when his target settles down with a nice guy. Girls hooked to bad boys usually become nuissance to them after a while.

2. You said once ladies grow and start looking to settle, they dump the bad ones. That is the whole point! The bad guy would have enjoyed them in their prime while the nice guy is left with whatever is left of her. In some cases, married girls still cheat on nice guys with bad boys. I read a similar anonymous confession from a lady here some days back.

Cc Ubunja

yes.

This is what I spent the whole evening try to impress on these broads. You put it better than I did.

They ALL start by loving Bad Boys in their younger years. It's only later that they go for the Nice Guys. Then at that stage they claim they don't love Bad Boys! But it goes over their heads that EARLIER IN THEIR LIVES THEY DID.

Women are so dumb it hurts.

theoptimist298:


Case in point:
I work in a consulting firm which is a 100% rule based and strict environment where certain behaviour is expected at all times e.g manner of communication, email etiquettes, relationship with superiors, filling of time sheets, punctuality, etc.
In my first year, i flouted all the rules and was always running into troubles. Consequently, my mid year appraisal took a hit. I didn't submit my timesheets on time, i was a truant, i’d flout dressing rules and all not because i wanted to per se but because i’m more of a maverick or a non conformist.
Interestingly, certain ladies started to throw themselves at me helplessly through gestures and snide remarks. One of them confirmed to me that my carefree attitude drew her to me. This was a square lady and a high flyer at work. At the point when i began to succumb to her emotional yearnings, surprisingly she started to push me away.
I’ve heard many guys share similar stories. I don't believe these are coincidences, rather i believe there is a common trigger.

Lol. She got attracted to her kind of person.
It's not a big deal. Are you trying to tell me that there are no bad girls or what? Bad girls float with negative energies depicted by their counterpart. Why is this so hard for you guys to understand. All through my life, I've always been a principled lady that the people I roll with must maintain such attitude or a puke you out.
There are also ladies in that your wprk that y0u appear to as being abnormal and has an obnoxious character.

In the case of settling down, these same bad girls will choose the good guys after the thrills with the bad boys. Lool, they dump these so called bad boys and marry a decent man.
PS:
I'm not talking of a decent girl who has chosen her life style since she was a teenager, rather the bad girls who are also club freaks, smokers and all.
Cos that's what the so called bad boys have to offer them, and since they roll in the same mud; they'd mingle faster than anything.

ubunja 4 bottles of gulder for u, the man wey sabi

Its like females have started creating male monikers what the Hell am i seeing here

any sense man will go for fresh, sweet &tight 18 to 22 yrs or better still a VIRGIN than all dis damage over use pussies, 'evening newspaper's'

ubunja:
you see your problem?

When truth defeats you, you get emotional and aim to hurt the speaker of truth by bringing in his mother and sisters.

You are too weak. I'm not like you who worships women. So when you say "Including your mother and sisters" I say YES OF COURSE

why are you angry? You wrote all women are whoress, i replied including your mum and sis, you went all emotional and on a rant rampage.

Anyway i will love a 3some with ur mum and sis. I hope u can organise it.

QueenSekxy:

Lol. She got attracted to her kind of person.
It's not a big deal. Are you trying to tell me that there are no bad girls or what? Bad girls float with negative energies depicted by their counterpart. Why is this so hard for you guys to understand. All through my life, I've always been a principled lady that the people I roll with must maintain such attitude or a puke you out.
There are also ladies in that your wprk that y0u appear to as being abnormal and has an obnoxious character.

In the case of settling down, these same bad girls will choose the good guys after the thrills with the bad boys. Lool, they dump these so called bad boys and marry a decent man.
PS:
I'm not talking of a decent girl who has chosen her life style since she was a teenager, rather the bad girls who are also club freaks, smokers and all.
Cos that's what the so called bad boys have to offer them, and since they roll in the same mud; they'd mingle faster than anything.

You seem not to have a superior understanding of the concept of being a bad boy. You limit it to smoking, drinking and vices, yet these are just side effects. It is much more encompassing.

A bad boy is someone who dares to live outside the norm. As such, he becomes an outlier. Such a daring lifestyle naturally comes with certain attributes which are like magnets to women. Eg confidence, strenght of conviction, not being agreeable, pride, arrogance, etc. Get it?

Cc Ubunja

theoptimist298:


Case in point:
I work in a consulting firm which is a 100% rule based and strict environment where certain behaviour is expected at all times e.g manner of communication, email etiquettes, relationship with superiors, filling of time sheets, punctuality, etc.
In my first year, i flouted all the rules and was always running into troubles. Consequently, my mid year appraisal took a hit. I didn't submit my timesheets on time, i was a truant, i’d flout dressing rules and all not because i wanted to per se but because i’m more of a maverick or a non conformist.
Interestingly, certain ladies started to throw themselves at me helplessly through gestures and snide remarks. One of them confirmed to me that my carefree attitude drew her to me. This was a square lady and a high flyer at work. At the point when i began to succumb to her emotional yearnings, surprisingly she started to push me away.
I’ve heard many guys share similar stories. I don't believe these are coincidences, rather i believe there is a common trigger.

to any kids reading this let me clarify what is said here:
Someone who is a Square is someone who lives by the rules and conforms to everything. Nice Guys are the biggest squares. And so are Betas.

That part where he says he started to fall for the Lady only to start being rejected is the same part this guy talks of here in another thread:

soul95:


But that's what ladies like. By nature, I'm an altruist, I believe in doing good not for any hidden motive,but because that's my nature. My major observation with the ladies is that women mostly disrespect you if you are good to them (and no I'm not asking them out or intending to sleep with them, I'm just being me, sincere, principled and honest), and funny enough some of the girls are not even my level (no pride, as a rule I don't discriminate, I feel very much comfortable taking with a homeless man as talking with some corporate big shot), but the girls just start being deliberately disrespectful. So most times it just ends there.

Then there was a time I went through serious depression (when I'm depressed I don't cry, but I get easily upset and have this mean cold Machiavellian face), guest what: the ladies were flashing the green light left right centre, surprise breakfasts from neighbours in night gowns with nothing under, the winks, the bosom pressing against the arm, the flirty texts. Funny thing was I did not even respond to any, I was hurting deep inside to care about stuff like that (and no I don't use sex or any thing to drown my sorrows, except maybe music).

I've had a very pretty girlfriend that used to mess up big time, once I got tired of her matter (na school my papa send me, make i focus on studies), I just completely fash her matter, this girl just got my keys, started so much attention, she would spend 3 days and 5 nights out of the week in my house, cook food with her money (I didn't tell her to), sometimes I would go on field trips to facilities only to come back and see a well prepared meal and sexy lingerie, man got tired. But anytime I truly showed this girl that I love her, if you see the kind of way she will misbehave eh...(you would think she is in partnership with my village people to destroy my soul). Last last, I just ended the matter, got serious with God,no sexual relationships for a while till marriage. But I've seen that behavioral pattern especially amongst pretty girls(highly educated by the way).

Women hold the rules of engagement in relationships. Once upon a time, to get the girl you had to be the best gentleman and her father must approve, so then all boys wanted to be gentleman, you know suits,hats, ball dances and all that. Nowadays, you have to be the bad boy, so boys lie, dress irresponsibly in the name of swag and even join cult to form rugged to impress women (me sef e dey baffle me). So you girls made the call, don't complain.

lilwetdick:
truth be told

all the so-called bad boys here are just reciting what they read from one book or the other, many of them are not bad boys in real life

Are you trying to say being a bad boy is genetic?

lilwetdick:


why are you angry? You wrote all women are LovePeddler, i replied including your mum and sis, you went all emotional and on a rant rampage.

Anyway i will love a party with ur mum and sis.

I just agreed with you. Even my mother and sister are whôrés.

How does that make me angry?

QueenSekxy:

Lol. She got attracted to her kind of person.
It's not a big deal. Are you trying to tell me that there are no bad girls or what? Bad girls float with negative energies depicted by their counterpart. Why is this so hard for you guys to understand. All through my life, I've always been a principled lady that the people I roll with must maintain such attitude or a puke you out.
There are also ladies in that your wprk that y0u appear to as being abnormal and has an obnoxious character.

In the case of settling down, these same bad girls will choose the good guys after the thrills with the bad boys. Lool, they dump these so called bad boys and marry a decent man.
PS:
I'm not talking of a decent girl who has chosen her life style since she was a teenager, rather the bad girls who are also club freaks, smokers and all.
Cos that's what the so called bad boys have to offer them, and since they roll in the same mud; they'd mingle faster than anything.

the lady was not a bad girl. She was a good girl. A square.

theoptimist298:


You seem not to have a superior understanding of the concept of being a bad boy. You limit it to smoking, drinking and vices, yet these are just side effects. It is much more encompassing.

A bad boy is someone who dares to live outside the norm. As such, he becomes an outlier. Such a daring lifestyle naturally comes with certain attributes which are like magnets to women. Eg Confidence, strenght of conviction, not being agreeable, pride, arroganceetc. Get it?

Are you saying that good/normal people don't also have confidence, strength of conviction, asking question when things aren't at abreast with his integrity? Lool.
A guy with such charisma is a plus and would be at a highway and progresses better than the bad boy bandwagon.
And as for the cancelled, these are the qualities of everything bad, so, both the bad boy and bad girls gets attracted to such obnoxiousness.
Let's stop over flogging this nonsense abeg.

This child rapist should stop smoking kwale weed abeg.
Highest you can go is to get another 16 year old naive gutter girl pregnant and come online to brag about your achievements.

theoptimist298:


You seem not to have a superior understanding of the concept of being a bad boy. You limit it to smoking, drinking and vices, yet these are just side effects. It is much more encompassing.

A bad boy is someone who dares to live outside the norm. As such, he becomes an outlier. Such a daring lifestyle naturally comes with certain attributes which are like magnets to women. Eg confidence, strenght of conviction, not being agreeable, pride, arrogance, etc. Get it?

Cc Ubunja

only a few days ago I had to say this to these hardheaded ignorant ones here on NL:

ubunja:
Yes sir.
guys keep coming and clarfying truth more and more.

Being a Bad Boy does not mean being a criminal and breaking the Law. It means going against the grain of society and breaking those unwritten rules that so many men live by but that are all about putting women at the centre of your life. Bad Boys put THEMSELVES at the centre of their lives. And to pussyworshipping losers that's blasphemy.

Deicide:
Are you trying to say being a bad boy is genetic?

it is not genetic but all that was written here by the boys i read them somewhere on a blog.

lilwetdick:
truth be told

all the so-called bad boys here are just reciting what they read from one book or the other, many of them are not bad boys in real life

Lol.
Even if they are, what can they achieve with it? Pussies? Even a mad man can brag about that, so, I really do not get the ado allotted to the aberrant lads.

ubunja:
I just agreed with you. Even my mother and sister are whôrés.

How does that make me angry?

i want a 3some with them

can you organise it?

I only read 50% of page 1 and laughed. You guys should keep it up. I don't argue about bad boys or nice guys. I write it in books.

Rule 1: Women are good people, but don't listen to a relationship advice from a woman even if she's experienced, mature, and intelligent.

Rule 2: If you're a nice guy, you'll always marry the ladies good-bad guys dumped. After marriage, she'll still cheat on you with the same guys who dumped her. #Fact.

Rule 3: Life is unfair, so you need to stay ahead.

Rule 4: Don't argue anything relationship with women. Your job is to satisfy her in bed, not to debate.

A woman will always win you in a debate. Why? She debates with emotion. It's time to walk away.

lilwetdick:


i want a 3some with them

can you organise it?

You won't get the emotional response you're fishing for.

iLegendd:
I only read 50% of page 1 and laughed. You guys should keep it up. I don't argue about bad boys or nice guys. I write it in books.

Rule 1: Women are good people, but don't listen to a relationship advice from a woman even if she's experienced, mature, and intelligent.

Rule 2: If you're a nice guy, you'll always marry the ladies good-bad guys dumped. After marriage, she'll still cheat on you with the same guys who dumped her. #Fact.

Rule 3: Life is unfair, so you need to stay ahead.

Rule 4: Don't argue anything relationship with women. Your job is to satisfy her in bed, not to debate.

A woman will always win you in a debate. Why? She debates with emotion. It's time to walk away.

You are free to make yourself feel better.
Aren't you the big headed isi mango that kisses under udara tree?
All these guttersnipes sef.

ubunja:
You won't get the emotional response you're fishing for.

lol. I was just asking a question. Dont turn red face.

QueenSekxy:

You are free to make yourself feel better.
Aren't you the big headed isi mango that kisses under udara tree?
All these guttersnipes sef.

i dont think u can win this guys not because you are not intellectual, but the fact that you listed some really cool character traits you have such as been prayerful , Godly , i suspect u are the bible reading type.

now ask yourself: how many women of nowadays possess such Godly virtues ?
this is why the so called bad boy philosophy these boys are advocating will continue to score high points.

now adays many ladies even detest a no sex relationship. so u get the point now ?

CANTICLES:


i dont think u can win this guys not because you are not intellectual, but the fact that you listed some really cool character traits you have such as been prayerful , Godly , i suspect u are the bible reading type.

now ask yourself: how many women of nowadays possess such Godly virtues ?
this is why the so called bad boy philosophy these boys are advocating will continue to score high points.

now adays many ladies even detest a no sex relationship. so u get the point now ?

Lool. You people are still not getting me.
Answer this question, then, I will proceed further.
Do we have bad girls?

lilwetdick:


lol. I was just asking a question. Dont turn red face.

Since you're so determined to get me emotional... Let me explain why you can't. Even in a thousand years.

When we say "All women are whôrés" we mean All women HAVE THE CAPACITY to be a whôré. Every woman has an inner whôré that the right guy can bring out. It's the moral of the Sleeping Beauty fairy tale.

The question becomes: Are you man enough to be THAT guy who can bring forth that bad side in a woman?

See: some women will never even give their husband Doggystyle but will do so for a bad boy or thug. Why? Because the husband respects her too much so any freakiness by her will reduce that respect. And women fear that.

Do you understand these issues?

QueenSekxy:

Lool. You people are still not getting me.
Answer this question, then, I will proceed further.
Do we have bad girls?

who cares whether you proceed or not?

Lol...Those ladies up there are contradicting themselves.

ubunja:

Since you're so determined to get me emotional... Let me explain why you can't. Even in a thousand years.

When we say "All women are whôrés" we mean All women HAVE THE CAPACITY to be a whôré. Every woman has an inner whôré that the right guy can bring out. It's the moral of the Sleeping Beauty fairy tale.

The question becomes: Are you man enough to be THAT guy who can bring forth that bad side in a woman?

See: some women will never even give their husband Doggystyle but will do so for a bad boy or thug. Why? Because the husband respects her too much so any freakiness by her will reduce that respect. And women fear that.

Do you understand these issues?

there is nothing new in what you just wrote down..if you understand the psychology of humans you will understand that over-familiarity brings contempt

why is it that a Nigerian will not wash plate for money in Nigeria but will be so glad to wash plate in the UK for cash because he is in the strange territory where no man knows him the same scenario happens in sex between men and women in strange lands

ennon92:
Lol...Those ladies up there are contradicting themselves.

No contradiction here.

There are bad girls that actually gets fascinated or attracted to the bad boys. Cos both belong to the same category.

There are naive/teenage girls that do not know their left from right, who doesnt know where/who to belong to; they also fall prey.

These two category of bad/feeble ladies are what the supposed bad guys ride on to feel fulfilled, does this even make sense?

And you wonder why they run away from smart and intelligent ladies??
These supposed bad boys are the weakest of them. Imagine being who you are not just to hurt people and then, feel good about yourself.