ikbnice:
I am still thinking of the reason why a man will start crying publicly on a day like that. That's 'unmanly'

Those who their bride price were footed by parents

Hmmmm.very deep.Check my siggy we ship from China to Nigeria and we also pay your Chinese suppliers.

Correct. Why should a man cry on his wedding day? When the woman should be the one crying for being done a favour?

Only a very unmanly man would do such a thing.

Still looking for what will make me cry

It varies

As much as I love males expressing themselves, I have to agree on this.

Most emotionally driven males are very wicked and act like psychos.

Just be happy you are getting married to the woman of your dreams. Don't be bringing out water from your eyes. Its creepy.

What the hell?

I think she is jealous because no man will ever cry for a world rachtet slut like her who is hiding under the umbrella of a feminist.

Biglittlelois:
How does crying means he's a psycho? Mumu everywhere.

Very Emotional men are physcho when they get angry.
They are just like women and may scatterer things(even disfigure your waist) like women when angry

Mk93:

Why will a man want to cry? Crying is unmanly

This is one of the reasons some of you die in deep pains, lonely life full of misery and frustration. What's there in expressing feelings? Even animals shed tears when they loose their beloved ones or stuff like that. Is not shedding tears your definition of manliness? You African men with some stupid ideologies and awful massage of wanton egos.

You really need to be tested by rubbing some ghana pepper in your eyes.

Earthquake2:


They weep

They wail

Psychosis is just a word, and it describes a resonant tendency; a real reaction to a real issue, a signal from the environment.

Maybe there is something to learn from the psychotic spectrum of behavior, like tackling the signaling catalyst, from the environment.

Maybe the Environment is just too sick to sustain 'normal' human behavior.

Personally, I think the average of everything in specific environments are psychotic, humans and even the animals.


Stop the emblems and celebrate the death of ignorance as we know it.

maybe he's crying because of the suffering that lies ahead besides he has spent all his savings on the wedding just to Impress his wife

At least she admitted that there's nothing intelligent behind her theory so...

My mum (GRHS) always thought it was odd that a man will cry at his wedding. Interestingly the weddings I know where the man cried , they crashed

Guest007:
At least she admitted that there's nothing intelligent behind her theory so...

QueenSekxy:

This is one of the reasons some of you die in deep pains, lonely life full of misery and frustration. What's there in expressing feelings? Even animals shed tears when they loose their beloved ones or stuff like that. Is not shedding tears your definition of manliness? You African men with some stupid ideologies and awful massage of wanton egos.

You really need to be tested by rubbing some ghana pepper in your eyes.

I don't think I die in silence . just that I am not very emotional and don't see reason to cry .
at least men who don't cry can easily control themselves.
I agree with the lady point because very emotional people are more likely to be violent when angry

Guest007:
At least she admitted that there's nothing intelligent behind her theory so...

you won't see her point until you marry one

I dunno why nairaland keeps giving this dimwitted lady a platform to make her stupidity go viral, she's the same lady that glorified prostitution and openly disrespected her father. No one gives 2 fvcks about your theory

Well, maybe after many girls he dated turned out to be arrogant, gold-excavators and dating multiple guys alongside him, I guess finally finding a half way decent one is worth shedding tears of joy for.

My own theory. Shebi na love emotional affairs theory dey reign now.

ikbnice:
I am still thinking of the reason why a man will start crying publicly on a day like that. That's 'unmanly'

I did it during my wedding six years ago, it was only my bestman and my wife that notice me. A song the DJ played made me to think deep knowing fully well that my both parents were death, and I'm the only one, I saw a wider gap. Assuming they were alive, assuming I have biological brother and sister and what I passed through, all those thoughts came to limelight when the songs went on. YOU can never can tell what goes on in people's mind as they shed those tears, personally I m a very strong man still I shed tears

Cry for what? I can't even kneel to propose to any woman

Mk93:

I don't think I die in silence . just that I am not very emotional and don't see reason to cry .
at least men who don't cry can easily control themselves.
I agree with the lady point because very emotional people are more likely to be violent when angry

I don't understand where you get this from.
Cos, most times, people cry to let off their anger. It's better I cry my heart out than conceal everything in my heart, at the end, I might end up doing some crazy stuffs.

Whatever works for you though.

Saao:
I did it during my wedding six years ago, it was only my bestman and my wife that notice me. A song the DJ played made me to think deep knowing fully well that my both parents were death, and I'm the only one, I saw a wider gap. Assuming they were alive, assuming I have biological brother and sister and what I passed through, all those thoughts came to limelight when the songs went on. YOU can never can tell what goes on in people's mind as they shed those tears, personally I m a very strong man still I shed tears

Hmm, this is deep. I can feel that. That means sometimes, the tears is just about some past memories not necessarily about the event.

QueenSekxy:

I don't understand where you get this from.
Cos, most times, people cry to let off their anger. It's better I cry my heart out than conceal everything in my heart, at the end, I might end up doing some crazy stuffs.

Whatever works for you though.

from my experience girls who are emotional are more likely to confront you, some even attack you or scatter your house when you hurt them

tohyorsih2,see what I was telling you

Only weak men cry

ikbnice:
I am still thinking of the reason why a man will start crying publicly on a day like that. That's 'unmanly'

Everyone is looking at the negative the positive side of a man that cries is a man that knows the value of what he has and the journey it took them both to arrive there.

I cried this morning for the same reason overjoyed you have found someone worth sharing your life with unless your stone you may cry

Dwhy should a man cry during wedding considering the responsibilities that awaits the him after wedding. The lady is right


Nonsense