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How To Tell If A Lady Likes You [no. 1 Is A Killer] by NwibanaEmmanuel(m): 2:46pm On May 21, 2019
If a girl is into you, you wanna be able to recognize that straight a way because that gives you a chance to
actually act on it and maximize your opportunity with her.

Basically, you snooze; you lose. In this post, I will teach you the seven true indications that she really likes you.

It means that you can control and lead the date in a way that you want it to go as well as also tap into what will make her to want you more and emotionally attach herself to you.

So, here are the seven signs that she is into you:

7. She finds reasons to be close to you or touch you: Basically, when a girl is into you, she wanna make some sort of physical contact with you as soon as possible.

This means that she might move a little bit closer to you and try and brush her leg against yours or making her arms touch you.

Now, because she is nervous and she really likes you, she's going to this in subtle sort of ways.

This might be something as simple as fixing your collar or brushing something off your shoulder or maybe even
ruffling your hair.

Either way she's going to find some sort of excuse to be able to touch you and be as close to you as possible

6. She laughs and smiles a lot: the best indication if a girl is into you is that its evident that she feels joyful in your company.
This means that she is laughing at what it is that you are saying and she is really smiling and engaging in every-way that she can to communicate that she enjoys being with you.

On the contrary, if a girl isn't into you she'll smile but she won't be showing any tip and she won't be having any of those subtle smiley eyes and she'll probably be fidgeting with something not because she is nervous but because she is bold and she can't wait to get out of there.

5. She sends flirty text messages: Texting is a great way to really flirt with somebody and work out or not if they are into you and one of the simplest way to work out if a girl is into you is by what she texts you and if she actually adds little emojis.

Now a classy example could be something as "I saw this picture and it made me think of you �) or
"Maybe one day you might get to take me for a test drive ��".

Its really obvious that a girl likes you because she would be responding to your messages instantly or pretty much within a short time frame. She will also be asking you questions because she wants to keep the conversation going.

Now, if a girl isn't into you then chances are her responses will be really far in between, they will be short, they will be cold and their will be no emojis.

4. She gets nervous when she is around you: It is a really obvious sign if a girl likes you because she is nervous and she has all this extra energy and she doesn't know what to do with it.

So, most of the time she ends up blushing, she speaks too fast, she gets a sweaty palm, maybe she tears a serviette up because she doesn't no what to do with her hands or she knocks things over.

Either way, this is a perfect time for you to step up and be a real gentle man and put her fears to rest.

Now, you could simply do this by drawing her into you big strong arm, or maybe taking her hand and just making her feel at ease and peace.

What this does is that it shows that you are actually responsive, that you are able to take control and it also comes across as romantic and chivalrous.

3. She introduces you to her friends: Honestly, when girls really like a guy, the first thing they do is they go and tell their five best friends, their neighbor, their co-worker and any other person that they really want to. You know why ?, because you're on their mind and they can't stop thinking about you.

Have you had a co-worker hers work up to you and ask if you were so so and so ?, boom, that's it right
there. If the co-worker confesses that she told them about you, just know that you're on her mind.

It is really important that you set the right impression on her friends, co-workers or colleagues because as soon as you leave, they are gonna influence her decision whether or not she should continue to see you.

One very important thing you should put in mind when you come across her friends is to remember their names because it shows them that you esteem them which will in turn cause them to like you and influence her to go on with you.

Note: Don't flirt with her friends or give them too much attention than is needed.

2. She is trying to impress you: If a girl is into you, she is basically wanting to try and win you over as well and she will do this sometimes obviously or subtly. For example, she might put in a little bit of extra effort with her experience or she might remember something that you said and actually go out and make that happen.

For example you might have offhandedly said, I love Fried rice but detest salad creams, and then she's literally go out buy a take away for you and herself but ensures that yours don't have creams whereas hers do.

She wants to communicate that she values you and that she is interested in your life.

1. She initiates the kissing: This is a perfect example of how to tell if a woman actually likes you. What you can do is, as you are flirting and teasing, move in for the kiss but don't actually do the kiss.

Allow just enough room for her to move in and seal the deal if she wants to have that kiss. Use the 90/10 rule, where you do 90 percent of the
work but then you leave that 10 percent as an opportunity for her to either step up and kiss you or step back, and if she steps back then
clearly, she's not into you.

So, what you need to do is lock eyes with her, you need to lean in just enough to see her close her eyes, tilt her head back, feel the breath
of her on your face and then stop. Then, If she really is to you, she will continue the kiss the rest of the way.

Guys, you don't want to have to be the first one to initiate what it is that you want to happen in the date, sometimes leaving things half way, gives her the the opportunity to step up and meet you at that point.

It also means you can work out if this girl really likes you or if she is just using and playing you. Now, guys if you wanna learn how I flirt with ladies without feeling creepy and ruining things up, I encourage you to read my other trending article on "How I Flirt With Ladies without Feeling" Creepy ----> https://www.nairaland.com/5199080/how-flirt-ladies-without-being

You'll learn the six steps I always use to flirt with any lady I want at anytime I want. Enjoy!, and always keep your eyes on my signature for more articles concerning your relationship wahalas.

Re: How To Tell If A Lady Likes You [no. 1 Is A Killer] by Uzomavictor(m): 3:14pm On May 21, 2019
laslasss
Re: How To Tell If A Lady Likes You [no. 1 Is A Killer] by Zephd(m): 3:19pm On May 21, 2019
If you get no. 1 first, then bross na olosho you dey fall in love with.

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Re: How To Tell If A Lady Likes You [no. 1 Is A Killer] by Nobody: 3:33pm On May 21, 2019
Dem never tell dis one before say show of likeness fit be for real or fake interest
Re: How To Tell If A Lady Likes You [no. 1 Is A Killer] by Dechymmytv(f): 3:38pm On May 21, 2019
My bestie can do all this thing's , but I know he doesn't love me that way (if only he knows how I wish )
Re: How To Tell If A Lady Likes You [no. 1 Is A Killer] by czarina(f): 4:08pm On May 21, 2019
Dechymmytv:
My bestie can do all this thing's , but I know he doesn't love me that way (if only he knows how I wish )
Is your so-called "bestie" even supposed to do that with you?

If you like him, tell him. You've done practically everything, so what's left?

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Re: How To Tell If A Lady Likes You [no. 1 Is A Killer] by Nobody: 4:32pm On May 21, 2019
czarina:
Is your so-called "bestie" even supposed to do that with you?

If you like him, tell him. You've done practically everything, so what's left?

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Re: How To Tell If A Lady Likes You [no. 1 Is A Killer] by iTearHerToto: 5:41pm On May 21, 2019
Dechymmytv:
My bestie can do all this thing's , but I know he doesn't love me that way (if only he knows how I wish )
Sham Hoes souls be lamenting for being unvalued


Pukes angry
Re: How To Tell If A Lady Likes You [no. 1 Is A Killer] by press005: 12:05am On May 22, 2019
Love is overrated here..In fact, It doesn't exist in Nigeria. All the above can happen just within the first two months, after which everything dwindles with immediate effect.

At last, the regular routine becomes regular sex and how to yoke the guy with financial demands.

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Re: How To Tell If A Lady Likes You [no. 1 Is A Killer] by anthonyuncle(m): 7:03am On May 22, 2019
a lot will do all dz to u, yet,
no single likeness
Re: How To Tell If A Lady Likes You [no. 1 Is A Killer] by united442(m): 7:05pm On May 22, 2019
press005:
Love is overrated here..In fact, It doesn't exist in Nigeria. All the above can happen just within the first two months, after which everything dwindles with immediate effect.

At last, the regular routine becomes regular sex and how to yoke the guy with financial demands.



wise saying..
only this experienced and wise one will understand

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