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In all my short experience on mother earth, i have never met a broke player...it is funny how people call themselves players and still live with their parent and still collect money from mummy and daddy.

Guys who call themselves players are infact not players..just because you had some sexual episode in school with different girls doesn't make you a player or a bad boy, you just had fun simple as abc. having sexual relationship in school is different from having sexual fun in the real world after school, it is in more harder to have fun after school than in school..so stop all your nonsense and all your wannabe attitude.in school, you live in a small community that think alike and have the same financial problems/status like you, you see each other every day and met each other, so why try hard when you get get what you want easily, in the real world, it is a different bargain, people have different priorities and aspirations, it is a big world of diverse people where you are a little ant. in the real world, you have to be extremely unique to stand out to get that sexual favour

the player lifestyle is financially consuming, it can means going to restaurants with different beautiful girls who you have no intention of having any relationship with, entertainment and traveling to different countries to have fun with beautiful girls and this takes cash, time, energy, only financially able men like millionaires and billionaires can live that lifestyle without complaining, not some unemployed boy getting free sex from one girl down the street and beating his chest like a gorilla-like he has accomplished a task

just because you read a book on how to be a player or bad boy does mean you will turn one or be one, what it means is that you are just fantasizing, even if you know how to talk at the end of the day, your money will have to do the talking for you in the real world, who is gonna buy the drinks, who is gonna pay for the entertainment, hotels and the trips, i guess not the woman but you. so stop these your nonsense play boy or bad boy wannabe mentality, a playboy persona is not for broke boys.

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lemme scratch my hairs around my dick

Lol. You should have just said being a player in school is much more easier than being a player in the "real world." Anyway, I am not surprised as I have never expected logical consistency and rationality from you.

Martinez39:
Lol. You should have just said being a player in school is much more easier than being a player in the "real world." Anyway, I am not surprised as I have never expected logical consistency and rationality from you.

not always suprised...people that cant comprehend and only read what suits them will always have an opinion

This Op is so useless. One minute ur fighting against men who are "obsessed" with sex (even though ur moniker is more useless) The next ur trying to teach people what u have no idea of. Let me school u a little.

A player is a person who doesn't want to commit but makes his partner believe he does. It doesn't mean u need to be stinky rich to be one... its just a way of life. He is a womanizer & the pipe can't be for just one girl so what he does is make every lady in his life believe he belongs to her and her alone. A player is unfaithful, disrespectful and is to be trusted at ur own peril. It has absolutely nothing with being wealthy as the op claims. A good player will get a string of wealthy females to fund his flamboyant lifestyle should he choose to live on the high side and they would be so glad spending it on him and i'm not talking about asking women directly for favors like a beggar. There are ways to make them commit themselves financially to ur favor as a player. A player knows what to say and do to his different ladies at the right time to make them feel he's committed to them alone. That's what playing is. He just wants to play the dating game for his selfish interests and leave the scene when he's done with the other partner. Women play too as a matter of fact we have more of women players in the game now.

You don't need to take a lady shopping in Dubai or Milan before she can be happy. The player lifestyle is never financially consuming... Just look good, dress good and be very very smart and intelligent with little money ur good to go. Intelligence over money.. Op is still a child i guess

lilwetdick:
not always suprised...people that cant comprehend and only read what suits them will always have an opinion

Lol. I dare you to point out any flaw in my write up. You are too proud, arrogant and stubborn. You are never willing to learn and you are too opinionated. If you are going to grow and be a better man, you must be willing to change your mind and admit that you are wrong when you are shown to be wrong.

Also, logic and reasoning are not your strong points instead stupidity, ignorance(maybe) & stubbornness are your strong points. You need to grow up. Concerning your topic, a player is a player. Because being a player is way harder in the "real world" doesn't mean that players in secondary schools and universities are not players. It's much harder after school because people have grown and girls have realised that it's now all about the money hence, in their gold searching, they are only attracted to guys with cash. That's why successful players after school are guys that are loaded.

When I said "...,I am not surprised as I have never expected logical consistency and rationality from you.", I meant it and I still do. This expectation follows from our previous conversations and clashes. When you are crushed in an argument and have no reasonable counter, you diss me and disappear.

dairykidd:
This Op is so useless. One minute ur fighting against men who are "obsessed" with sex (even though ur moniker is more useless) The next ur trying to teach people what u have no idea of. Let me school u a little.

A player is a person who doesn't want to commit but makes his partner believe he does. It doesn't mean u need to be stinky rich to be one... its just a way of life. He is a womanizer & the pipe can't be for just one girl so what he does is make every lady in his life believe he belongs to her and her alone. A player is unfaithful, disrespectful and is to be trusted at ur own peril. It has absolutely nothing with being wealthy as the op claims. A good player will get a string of wealthy females to fund his flamboyant lifestyle should he choose to live on the high side and they would be so glad spending it on him and i'm not talking about asking women directly for favors like a beggar. There are ways to make them commit themselves financially to ur favor as a player. A player knows what to say and do to his different ladies at the right time to make them feel he's committed to them alone. That's what playing is. He just wants to play the dating game for his selfish interests and leave the scene when he's done with the other partner. Women play too as a matter of fact we have more of women players in the game now.

You don't need to take a lady shopping in Dubai or Milan before she can be happy. The player lifestyle is never financially consuming... Just look good, dress good and be very very smart and intelligent with little money ur good to go. Intelligence over money.. Op is still a child i guess

it is always good to read when stupid people write or copy and paste exactly what they read from the internet..... even guys that goes about cheating know how expensive is it talkless of a player... just because you dress nice and look good doesnt mean you are going to get anything...and let's talk about looking good and dressing nice..do you think they come cheap..

you just wrote a text book version of what you fantasise about...do you think womanising is cheap..pls check again

and where in this world are players disrespectful..village boy

continuing reading your nonsense player text book and lets see how you will fair in real life.

Martinez39:
Lol. I dare you to point out any flaw in my write up. You are too proud, arrogant and stubborn. You are never willing to learn and you are too opinionated. If you are going to grow and be a better man, you must be willing to change your mind and admit that you are wrong when you are shown to be wrong.

Also, logic and reasoning are not your strong points instead stupidity, ignorance(maybe) & stubbornness are your strong points. You need to grow up. Concerning your topic, a player is a player. Because being a player is way harder in the "real world" doesn't mean that players in secondary schools and universities are not players. It's much harder after school because people have grown and girls have realised that it's now all about the money hence, in their gold searching, they are only attracted to guys with cash. That's why successful players after school are guys that are loaded.

When I said "...,I am not surprised as I have never expected logical consistency and rationality from you.", I meant it and I still do. This expectation follows from our previous conversations and clashes. When you are crushed in an argument and have no reasonable counter, you diss me and disappear.

shut up and go and sleep, what do you know about logic... you spit trash all day and then lecture me on logic and rationality.... very interesting

funny what you write successful players are loaded because as you wrote women are attracted to cash now what is the difference between my topic i have never seen a broke player and what you wrote up there..so you admitted that cash is needed to be a successful player. wonderful.

so those unsuccessful "players" can we say they are not player because they don't have cash

the so-called "players" in school..should we say due to their environment, they used their opportunity due to the fact that they live in a small community... but then again how does a player call himself a player when his choice of women is limited or just secluded to a given environment.

and lastly, so are you trying to tell me that boys like you in school couldnt figure out that women naturally will date someone with financial stability rather than a broke person...damn! dummy, i wonder what you were doing in school.. i sometimes,think that most guys that write like you have low self esteem and the reason they call women gold diggers, it is because they cant afford basic amenities and then see women who want a goodlife as a threat to their existence.

lilwetdick:
shut up and go and sleep, what do you know about logic... you spit trash all day and then lecture me on logic and rationality.... very interesting

Exactly!

...You are too proud, arrogant and stubborn. You are never willing to learn and you are too opinionated.

.... When I said "...,I am not surprised as I have never expected logical consistency and rationality from you.", I meant it and I still do. This expectation follows from our previous conversations and clashes. When you are crushed in an argument and have no reasonable counter, you diss me and disappear.

Thanks for proving my point. I, Martinez.39, will never expect rationality from you. I have met people like you — people who are doomed to be stupid for life. Have a great day on your high horse of the illusion of knowledge. Good day.

@diarykidd
Please don't engage the op, he is incorrigible in his stupidity. He is also a white knight and a simp. He has demonstrated in the past to be someone who derives his sense of being and self worth from getting female validation and attention and getting laid.

dairykidd:
This Op is so useless. One minute ur fighting against men who are "obsessed" with sex (even though ur moniker is more useless) The next ur trying to teach people what u have no idea of. Let me school u a little.

A player is a person who doesn't want to commit but makes his partner believe he does. It doesn't mean u need to be stinky rich to be one... its just a way of life. He is a womanizer & the pipe can't be for just one girl so what he does is make every lady in his life believe he belongs to her and her alone. A player is unfaithful, disrespectful and is to be trusted at ur own peril. It has absolutely nothing with being wealthy as the op claims. A good player will get a string of wealthy females to fund his flamboyant lifestyle should he choose to live on the high side and they would be so glad spending it on him and i'm not talking about asking women directly for favors like a beggar. There are ways to make them commit themselves financially to ur favor as a player. A player knows what to say and do to his different ladies at the right time to make them feel he's committed to them alone. That's what playing is. He just wants to play the dating game for his selfish interests and leave the scene when he's done with the other partner. Women play too as a matter of fact we have more of women players in the game now.

You don't need to take a lady shopping in Dubai or Milan before she can be happy. The player lifestyle is never financially consuming... Just look good, dress good and be very very smart and intelligent with little money ur good to go. Intelligence over money.. Op is still a child i guess

it's what I'm fighting him on on his other thread.
Dude doesn't know the meaning of CONSISTENCY in his message

Martinez39:
@diarykidd
Please don't engage the op, he is incorrigible in his stupidity. He is also a white knight and a simp. He has demonstrated in the past to be someone who derives his sense of being and self worth from getting female validation and attention and getting laid.

the funny thing in this world, when a village mad man does not what to write again, he calls his fellow madmen to boost his confidence then together they start spitting out nonsense and assumptions from their mad heads...

what do you know about white knight and a simp except what you read from the world of internet pua books, you keep repeating all jargons from those books..tell us what idea that is original that you can bring out from your skull or principle that you have that is truly yours..pls if you have any..write them down.

lilwetdick:
it is always good to read when stupid people write or copy and paste exactly what they read from the internet..... even guys that goes about cheating know how expensive is it talkless of a player... just because you dress nice and look good doesnt mean you are going to get anything...and let's talk about looking good and dressing nice..do you think they come cheap..

you just wrote a text book version of what you fantasise about...do you think womanising is cheap..pls check again

and where in this world are players disrespectful..village boy

continuing reading your nonsense player text book and lets see how you will fair in real life.

Ozwor.. i never said i was a player I'm not a kid and i'm way past that kind of lifestyle . U must be a virgin boy to say womanizing is more expensive than having a steady gf. And u don't have to be wealthy to dress and look good, its a choice & u don't need to be a church rat either.Just be showing ur ignorance online local champ..

Okay let's say u don't want to do pizza on the first date which is very cheap. You can actually get hotel brunch/ lunch reservations for two at any 4 star hotel in lekki with superb services for less than 10k & this includes continuous filling up of ur glasses with cold champagne on request, Buffet where there would be so many Nigerian and intercontinental dishes to choose from, great ambience and standard services with sweet background music which she will enjoy. You will have time to urselves before she goes back home. If u have a car fine but if not call a cab, Uber she's not travelling and its per minute charge e no go pass 2k las las... Second date might be pizza or any fast food or movie e no expensive.. 3rd date will just be night matter at a nice lounge somewhere drinks and all.. If u wise at all b4 the 3rd date u go get am.. And when u say cheating is expensive it means u take ur wife or girl for granted because she's now urs. I say cheating is cheap because once i get what i want i will never even bother to spend even recharge card money to call u talk more say i want take u out. But in a committed relationship u need to constantly provide for and take care of ur wife, make sure the home is lacking nothing even before u can drink out peacefully with ur guys.. Its pple like u that will be living in hell holes and forming bigman outside while ur wife and children dey suffer for house.. whoever says cheating is more expensive than a committed relationship check am well him babe dey suffer even when him get the money na to dey flash for outside. I'm saying u don't need to be rich just get some cash and know how to spend it with sweet mouth she go enjoy am. From ur first post which made me attack u it seems ur saying if ur not a millionaire u can'y be a player.. ur wrong man. Well everyone to his own OT. Who wise done wise na so e be

Martinez39:
@diarykidd
Please don't engage the op, he is incorrigible in his stupidity. He is also a white knight and a simp. He has demonstrated in the past to be someone who derives his sense of being and self worth from getting female validation and attention and getting laid.

Lolzz.. I just found out

ubunja:
it's what I'm fighting him on on his other thread.
Dude doesn't know the meaning of CONSISTENCY in his message

Like someone rightly said he feeds off female validation & attention.. probably he's working on one unfortunate Nairaland babe hoping to score some points

dairykidd:
Ozwor.. i never said i was a player I'm not a kid and i'm way past that kind of lifestyle . U must be a virgin boy to say womanizing is more expensive than having a steady gf. And u don't have to be wealthy to dress and look good, its a choice & u don't need to be a church rat either.Just be showing ur ignorance online local champ..

Okay let's say u don't want to do pizza on the first date which is very cheap. You can actually get hotel brunch/ lunch reservations for two at any 4 star hotel in lekki with superb services for less than 10k & this includes continuous filling up of ur glasses with cold champagne on request, Buffet where there would be so many Nigerian and intercontinental dishes to choose from, great ambience and standard services with sweet background music which she will enjoy. You will have time to urselves before she goes back home. If u have a car fine but if not call a cab, Uber she's not travelling and its per minute charge e no go pass 2k las las... Second date might be pizza or any fast food or movie e no expensive.. 3rd date will just be night matter at a nice lounge somewhere drinks and all.. If u wise at all b4 the 3rd date u go get am.. And when u say cheating is expensive it means u take ur wife or girl for granted because she's now urs. I say cheating is cheap because once i get what i want i will never even bother to spend even recharge card money to call u talk more say i want take u out. But in a committed relationship u need to constantly provide for and take care of ur wife, make sure the home is lacking nothing even before u can drink out peacefully with ur guys.. Its pple like u that will be living in hell holes and forming bigman outside while ur wife and children dey suffer for house.. whoever says cheating is more expensive than a committed relationship check am well him babe dey suffer even when him get the money na to dey flash for outside. I'm saying u don't need to be rich just get some cash and know how to spend it with sweet mouth she go enjoy am. From ur first post which made me attack u it seems ur saying if ur not a millionaire u can'y be a player.. ur wrong man. Well everyone to his own OT. Who wise done wise na so e be

the contradiction is alarming... you keep writing places and things you cant afford to keep face.

you see why you no get sense..read the highlighted and think again where in lekki will you get all those service for 10k? pls mention places

now all these fantacies you have mentioned up and down...with what currency do you think the generous giver will pay for it with..is it with stone or with cash... then all those stuff you mentioned cant be done for 10k in a 4 star hotel in lekki, it seems you dont understand hotel rating, maybe in a roadside bar yes but in a 4 star hotel no...next time when you wanna brag about your fantasy life...keep it simple.

lilwetdick:
the funny thing in this world, when a village mad man does not what to write again, he calls his fellow madmen to boost his confidence then together they start spitting out nonsense and assumptions from their mad heads...

This applies to you but you don't realise it.

what do you know about white knight and a simp except what you read from the world of internet pua books, you keep repeating all jargons from those books..tell us what idea that is original that you can bring out from your skull or principle that you have that is truly yours..pls if you have any..write them down.

Here you go again with your stupidity. The fact that a word, term, idea or principle has been used before or written in books doesn't mean it isn't valid and legitimate and can't set the standard of communication. It's not a must that all my ideas or write up must be original, as far as they are correct and understood, there should be no problem. Even if my write up on an issue is copied from somewhere on the internet, there is no problem as long as I don't take credit for it; it's relevant to the topic of discussion and they are accurate.

How else is one supposed learn if they don't read books and think? The term "white knight" has it's own clear meaning and has been used repeatedly in books and commentary, what's wrong if I use it? So if I learn a word from the dictionary, I am not worthy to use it because I did not think it up myself? How stupid and idi0tic can you get? Little wonder you are so stubborn and proud as you pride yourself in coming up with original principles and ideas and you disdain the humility to learn and use other legitimate ideas/principles/standards already in circulation.

It seems you are the one with original ideas and principles, can you tell me how many Nobel Prizes you have won? Can you tell me the original principles and ideas you have come up with? The language you are using to communicate with me, is it original? Fool! Pray tell me, who is a white knight? a simp? and a player?

I can't imagine that you live this life with such immense stupidity. What a pathetic and pitiable way of living. I shall no longer give you an ounce of attention.

lilwetdick:
the contradiction is alarming... you keep writing places and things you cant afford to keep face.

you see why you no get sense..read the highlighted and think again where in lekki will you get all those service for 10k? pls mention places

now all these fantacies you have mentioned up and down...with what currency do you think the generous giver will pay for it with..is it with stone or with cash... then all those stuff you mentioned cant be done for 10k in a 4 star hotel in lekki, it seems you dont understand hotel rating, maybe in a roadside bar yes but in a 4 star hotel no...next time when you wanna brag about your fantasy life...keep it simple.

hahahahahahahahahhahaha are u really that ignorant? U dey find expo shebi ? okay let me give u one. firstly in i wanted to type less than 10k per head but the anger in replying u quickly made me evade some words.. Its actually 7.5k per head so if ur two its 15k and if u say Lilygate for one example is a roadside then u are really mad.. Bon Voyage is a four star hotel in V.I and its 5k per head which is 10k for u and her once again not a road side thing. Again spending 20k doesn't make u a millionaire. Where u come from sef is it that bad? I no talk to u again abeg go sleep.. Abeg no mention me again ur too dull for my liking and u actually don't go out of ur house to know simple things

dairykidd:
hahahahahahahahahhahaha are u really that ignorant? U dey find expo shebi ? okay let me give u one. firstly in i wanted to type less than 10k per head but the anger in replying u quickly made me evade some words.. Its actually 7.5k per head so if ur two its 15k and if u say Lilygate for one example is a roadside then u are really mad.. Bon Voyage is a four star hotel in V.I and its 5k per head which is 10k for u and her once again not a road side thing. Again spending 20k doesn't make u a millionaire. Where u come from sef is it that bad? I no talk to u again abeg go sleep.. Abeg no mention me again ur too dull for my liking and u actually don't go out of ur house to know simple things

i really dont wanna laugh at you...pls read my write up and understand , first and foremost, can a broke person afford it for every girl he comes accross... if you think a player lifestyle is cheap, why dont the player go and do this every time he meets a girl, lets see if he will be financially stable.

lets imagine(nigerian standard, average job) he meets with 5 girls a month... that is 50,000 grand per month plus hotel bills and entertainment and all other stuff..do you think a broke person will be able to afford this lifestyle..slowpoke...

Martinez39:
This applies to you but you don't realise it.

Here you go again with your stupidity. The fact that a word, term, idea or principle has been used before or written in books doesn't mean it isn't valid and legitimate and can't set the standard of communication. It's not a must that all my ideas or write up must be original, as far as they are correct and understood, there should be no problem. Even if my write up on an issue is copied from somewhere on the internet, there is no problem as long as I don't take credit for it; it's relevant to the topic of discussion and they are accurate.

How else is one supposed learn if they don't read books and think? The term "white knight" has it's own clear meaning and has been used repeatedly in books and commentary, what's wrong if I use it? So if I learn a word from the dictionary, I am not worthy to use it because I did not think it up myself? How stupid and idi0tic can you get? Little wonder you are so stubborn and proud as you pride yourself in coming up with original principles and ideas and you disdain the humility to learn and use other legitimate ideas/principles/standards already in circulation.

It seems you are the one with original ideas and principles, can you tell me how many Nobel Prizes you have won? Can you tell me the original principles and ideas you have come up with? The language you are using to communicate with me, is it original? Fool! Pray tell me, who is a white knight? a simp? and a player?

I can't imagine that you live this life with such immense stupidity. What a pathetic and pitiable way of living. I shall no longer give you an ounce of attention.

now you are a complete idiot...i challenge to bring something from your head that is completely new but you couldnt..went on to write long piece of garbage for me to read.. go and sleep..when you undrstand my question, you can come back and answer me.

lilwetdick:
i really dont wanna laugh at you...pls read my write up and understand , first and foremost, can a broke person afford it for every girl he comes accross... if you think a player lifestyle is cheap, why dont the player go and do this every time he meets a girl, lets see if he will be financially stable.

lets imagine(nigerian standard, average job) he meets with 5 girls a month... that is 50,000 grand per month plus hotel bills and entertainment and all other stuff..do you think a broke person will be able to afford this lifestyle..slowpoke...

Oga only a dunce will live above his means.. I can decide to order pizza to my house on a first date while we both watch whatever she likes which is most likely home video or those indian zeeworld.. How much for pizza. collect drinks from close buy lock ourselves inside use my mouth complete the rest or u take her to the movies abi that one still too much for average salary earner again to sacrifice for the game once once The most important thing is fun and not the money... Na man dey make money, money no dey make man. If na real babe she go know say no be every time e dey pure except ur talking about farm tools.. Any where player find himself he will always get the kind of girls he wants if he's true to the game. You never carry girl out on a first date make she insist on u guys splitting the bill?

You don't have to do it with every girl every time. No one is saying u must take a girl to eat fancy foods in fancy places ahhh... You want to learn but ur acting as if u know.. I wont say anything for free except to be smart about everything u do and know when to lie while u tell the truth at the same time.

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dairykidd:
Oga only a dunce will live above his means.. I can decide to order pizza to my house on a first date while we both watch whatever she likes which is most likely home video or those indian zeeworld.. How much for pizza. collect drinks from close buy lock ourselves inside use my mouth complete the rest or u take her to the movies abi that one still too much for average salary earner again to sacrifice for the game once once The most important thing is fun and not the money... Na man dey make money, money no dey make man. If na real babe she go know say no be every time e dey pure except ur talking about farm tools.. Any where player find himself he will always get the kind of girls he wants if he's true to the game. You never carry girl out on a first date make she insist on u guys splitting the bill?

You don't have to do it with every girl every time. No one is saying u must take a girl to eat fancy foods in fancy places ahhh... You want to learn but ur acting as if u know.. I wont say anything for free except to be smart about everything u do and know when to lie while u tell the truth at the same time.

with all what you have written everthing concludes that a broke man cant be a player because of the financial cost..most players are financial buoyant and do not care about the financial implication of their acts and behaviors.

a broke man cant decide to be a player because for a man to be a player and spend money like he feels like he needs to have cash that is why i said even cheating is expensive because it comes with expenses that a broke men can not sustain..maybe having a steady girl friend might help in reducing financial cost.. but when a person decides to be a "player" he needs to have that cash ready to be able to afford expenses that come along with the what he wants