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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Alhajiemeritus: 9:50pm On Jun 01, 2019
kennygee:
This is sad.

Just cause they were friends with benefits doesn't mean that a rape cannot occur.

A rape kit would have helped her case if a rape really happened.

But rape kits even dey naija?
something that was reported 3 months after?

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Nobody: 9:51pm On Jun 01, 2019
Alhajiemeritus:
something that was reported 3 months after?

That's why I said if a rape really happened.
Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by GraGra247(m): 9:56pm On Jun 01, 2019
UceeGod:
The world is moving to a point where rape allegations will be ignored. With increase in real rape cases, I see a world where real rapist will start going scot-free. That's exactly what the devil wants.

That's because ladies are abusing the privilege and find it easy to lie about rape. Click my username and see just a minute fraction of similar cases of lies.

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jun 01, 2019
kennygee:


The judge did say if there was a medical evidence which there wasn't.

The judge was mistaken, then.

In a rape accusation involving parties that are somewhat linked romantically or sexually, where none of the parties is disputing that intercourse took place, where the only substance of the entire case is whether or not the intercourse was consensual, then I'm afraid medical evidence is useless. ONLY audio-visual evidence would prove anything beyond reasonable doubt. Provide audio or video recordings of the encounter, otherwise simply go home and lick your wounds quietly.

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Smeek(m): 9:57pm On Jun 01, 2019
80% of rape case allegations are especially like this, ladies claiming victims when things don't go their way

Surviving R. Kelly comes to mind




Yea

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by HMarshal(m): 9:58pm On Jun 01, 2019
Interlectual Judge�, highly sensible,it's time most of this rape accusations are thoroughly investigated.this post made my night ...fucking alakobas every where

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Smeek(m): 10:00pm On Jun 01, 2019
Smeek:

80% of rape case allegations are especially like this, ladies claiming victims when things don't go their way

Surviving R. Kelly comes to mind




Yea

Yea

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jun 01, 2019
Hedonini:


The judge was mistaken, then.

In a rape accusation involving parties that are somewhat linked romantically or sexually, where none of the parties is disputing that intercourse took place, where the only substance of the entire case is whether or not the intercourse was consensual, then I'm afraid medical evidence is useless. ONLY audio-visual evidence would prove anything beyond reasonable doubt. Provide audio or video recordings of the encounter, otherwise simply go home and lick your wounds quietly.

I'm saying that just cause they are friends with benefits doesn't mean a rape can't occur and if it does, the woman can report to a hospital where a rape kit can be administered and if she chooses to prosecute the offender, the evidence will be there.

But for her to not report it and them still dey enjoy themselves after the alleged rape, her story is doubtful.

That's all I'm saying.

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by 1x2x3: 10:03pm On Jun 01, 2019
UceeGod:
The world is moving to a point where rape allegations will be ignored. With increase in real rape cases, I see a world where real rapist will start going scot-free. That's exactly what the devil wants.

How do you know what devil wants? Are you his son? I bet you didn't read through or you know better than the judge.

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by GraGra247(m): 10:04pm On Jun 01, 2019
bukatyne:


That's why I think false rape allegations should carry same penalty as rape itself.

Else, real rape victims would never get justice.

For once I agree with you on this specific factor everyone appears to ignore. Even though you hate me, I applaud your courage to say the truth in this circumstance.

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Smeek(m): 10:05pm On Jun 01, 2019
kennygee:
This is sad.

Just cause they were friends with benefits doesn't mean that a rape cannot occur.

A rape kit would have helped her case if a rape really happened.

But rape kits even dey naija?

From the defendant's statement, it's a clear case of NO RAPE.
Perhaps, you should see this line... "The sexual intercourse we had was not forced, it was consensual. She nagged after the intercourse that I ejaculated inside her.

“I asked if she had salt and potash in her house and she said, “Yes”. She added the salt and potash inside the water and drank it.

“This was in September 2017; I have had several rounds of sexual intercourse with her after that occasion. I can’t count the number of times we had sex,” he said.
I think I go with the judge's verdict.

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by harley88(m): 10:10pm On Jun 01, 2019
kennygee:
This is sad.

Just cause they were friends with benefits doesn't mean that a rape cannot occur.

A rape kit would have helped her case if a rape really happened.

But rape kits even dey naija?

A rape kit for an event that happened in 2017....Nairaland has tire me

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Haykinsofficial: 10:13pm On Jun 01, 2019
They were just fvcckmates with benefits

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Advancedman(m): 10:16pm On Jun 01, 2019
SIRTee15:
Why should this even get to court...
It makes no sense at all...

Naija police and the feminist are just too stupid.
This is a case the DPO could have resolved with wisdom getting the truth from the lady.
Yet pacifying her.
The prosecutor didn't even know the basics in rape case hence it was just what was reported by the lady they took to court.
If wasting court time and false claims to mislead the court is enact here just as in senator Adeleke and the acting IGP that the court awarded money to this lady will get the sense she discarded.
Thanks to the Judge she gave a motherly judgement.

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Laryne(m): 10:19pm On Jun 01, 2019
kennygee:
This is sad.

Just cause they were friends with benefits doesn't mean that a rape cannot occur.

A rape kit would have helped her case if a rape really happened.

But rape kits even dey naija?

Abeg get out...
That's how you people will go about tarnishing someone's image up and down. Aside from the cases of pedophiles, 80% of reported rape cases are really not rape.
Anyway, it is in the nature of a woman to destroy a man the way they did Adam.

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Nobody: 10:25pm On Jun 01, 2019
Laryne:


Abeg get out...
That's how you people will go about tarnishing someone's image up and down. Aside from the cases of pedophiles, 80% of reported rape cases are really not rape.
Anyway, it is in the nature of a woman to destroy a man the way they did Adam.

Please speak for yourself and don't insult me.

Maybe if you don't go about sleeping around, a scorned woman won't cry rape on you. Don't let me face you.

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by 12inchess: 10:27pm On Jun 01, 2019
Thank God for this just Judge. After dating and sleeping with a guy got over 3 years you now come and be claiming rape. Enough guys have fallen for this already.

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by lexy2014: 10:31pm On Jun 01, 2019
kennygee:
This is sad.

Just cause they were friends with benefits doesn't mean that a rape cannot occur.

A rape kit would have helped her case if a rape really happened.

But rape kits even dey naija?

But d complainant wasn't able to establish that there was rape

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by luluman: 10:31pm On Jun 01, 2019
aladura1:

What is d benefit?
Pay & Chop
Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by kayo80(m): 10:39pm On Jun 01, 2019
ofurufu:
LOL. A judge knows "friend with benefits".

Must be a slay judge.

lol
Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Beaubussy(f): 10:39pm On Jun 01, 2019
wetin sex go cause in this life ehn. 5 minutes enjoymen!
Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jun 01, 2019
Story doesn't add up. How can a rapist come back with his sister to charge her phone after the deed has been done and you didn't do nothing ?

I guess that's why the case was dismissed?

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by kayo80(m): 10:41pm On Jun 01, 2019
kennygee:
This is sad.

Just cause they were friends with benefits doesn't mean that a rape cannot occur.

A rape kit would have helped her case if a rape really happened.

But rape kits even dey naija?

Did you read the full story? The guy said the girl only nagged after the sex cos he came inside her...and he even came back with his sister to charge phone in her house that same day. That doesn't sound like a case of rape to me.

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by DarkJeddi(m): 10:42pm On Jun 01, 2019
kennygee:
This is sad.

Just cause they were friends with benefits doesn't mean that a rape cannot occur.

A rape kit would have helped her case if a rape really happened.

But rape kits even dey naija?
So,

After she was raped..

She conveniently went back to the rapist,for more samplings of the d1ckundecided

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Laryne(m): 10:44pm On Jun 01, 2019
kennygee:


Please speak for yourself and don't insult me.

Maybe if you don't go about sleeping around, a scorned woman won't cry rape on you. Don't let me face you.

Lol... now here is a lady threatening me... later they'll start calling men unprintable names.

By the way, there are other ways to get back at a man wey say him no do again... something like, get another man and move ahead with your life, instead of the 'rape game'.

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by DarkJeddi(m): 10:47pm On Jun 01, 2019
UceeGod:
The world is moving to a point where rape allegations will be ignored. With increase in real rape cases, I see a world where real rapist will start going scot-free. That's exactly what the devil wants.
Yes,

Maybe before anyone shouts rape,

They should be sure that they were raped and not trying to rope an innocent man in.

For a crime he didn't commit..

Or did you ever consider the emotional impact of being accused and ridiculed for a crime you never committed..

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by imam07: 10:47pm On Jun 01, 2019
kennygee:
This is sad.

Just cause they were friends with benefits doesn't mean that a rape cannot occur.

A rape kit would have helped her case if a rape really happened.

But rape kits even dey naija?
go sit down somewhere jo. Bird of the same feathers. If Quadri were to be your brother, will u be saying the same thing u said here. Rape kit ko rape kite nii.

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by senbonzakurakageyoshi(m): 10:47pm On Jun 01, 2019
So...because you regularly have sex with someone, it suddenly becomes impossible for the person to rape you.

Rape is about consent. Even if we've had sex over 1000 times, if at the 1001st time, I refuse to give consent and you force yourself on me, then it is rape.

If the judge made that judgment based just on the fact that the accused and accuser were friends with benefits, then it is a very kangaroo judgment

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by DarkJeddi(m): 10:50pm On Jun 01, 2019
senbonzakurakageyoshi:
So...because you regularly have sex with someone, it suddenly becomes impossible for the person to rape you.

Rape is about consent. Even if we've had sex over 1000 times, if at the 1001st time, I refuse to give consent and you force yourself on me, then it is rape.

If the judge made that judgment based just on the fact that the accused and accuser were friends with benefits, then it is a very kangaroo judgment
And you don't think it fishy that the claimant still had regular sex,SEVERALLY with the same rapist AFTER the said rape? shocked

She had sex severally before and after the said rape and that casts serious shadows on her claims..

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Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by kayo80(m): 10:57pm On Jun 01, 2019
koyyes:
Story doesn't add up. How can a rapist come back with his sister to charge her phone after the deed has been done and you didn't do nothing ?

I guess that's why the case was dismissed?

Exactly

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