So sad

I'm so sad right now. Before now, we've had many face off concerning the fact that she is cheating. I've seen her in suspicious poses with some guys many a time. There were several instances she received calls from different guys and she keeps claiming they are all friends(note that throughout these calls, you wouldn't be able to hold anything against her). Countless times after confronting her, she would make it seem that I'm jealous and over-reacting. Although, I was always sure she had been cheating all along, there hadn't been a strong evidence to back it. I would have called it a quit with her, but I needed an evidence to avoid any form of emotional blackmail and manipulation. Fast forward to today, her phone rang and I picked the phone to give to her; when I checked who the caller was, it read "Ariyo mi"-( which means 'my joy'). When I asked her who that was, she claimed it was a female friend(very silly). I asked why she would save her name as such, and she claimed that is how the other girl saved hers too. Fine.
After a while, I sensed she was doctoring some things on her phone. Later, I checked her call log and the viola, ' Ariyo mi' had disappeared!!!When I confronted her with that fact, she couldn't say anything.
Am I justified to call it a quit now?
N.B: The girl has had an abortion for me before.

Good luck to you

You should have picked the call and let the caller speak first.

This girl is messing up your head......don't be a sissy, end the scam cause she's a cheat and a smart one at that.

Olalan:
This girl is messing up your head......don't be a sissy, end the scam cause she's a cheat and a smart one at that.

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Thumb up boss.
She is still beside me. She just arrived this morning( from Lagos, I'm Ife based).
Originally, she was to leave on Thursday. Should I tell her to leave tomorrow morning or I should keep fucking her till Thursday and gradually discharge her; or how do I go from here?

it's in their DNA

My advice for you is to think it very well, so you won't regret your action.

Olalan:
This girl is messing up your head......don't be a sissy, end the scam cause she's a cheat and a smart one at that.

Don't mind the sissy head jare.

That girl is obviously way smarter than he is.

You don't need a gf bro. Your life would be better without them

You are too jealous.

Mann11:
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Thumb up boss.
She is still beside me. She just arrived this morning( from Lagos, I'm Ife based).
Originally, she was to leave on Thursday. Should I tell her to leave tomorrow morning or I should keep fucking her till Thursday and gradually discharge her; or how do I go from here?

Ogbeni, grow up and be a man and stop asking all these silly questions.

If there is no trust in a relationship, no point staying in it! Learn well in this one and get equipped before venturing into another one.

My one cent!

I am sorry I may sound harsh, but I guess it is what you need to hear.

You are a sissy and that girl had already found out and she is playing her game really well. Until she straff your neighbor or your friend before you can have the so called "strong evidence" you are busy looking for!

Mann11:
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Thumb up boss.
She is still beside me. She just arrived this morning( from Lagos, I'm Ife based).
Originally, she was to leave on Thursday. Should I tell her to leave tomorrow morning or I should keep fucking her till Thursday and gradually discharge her; or how do I go from here?

4rm ur comment i can tell its a distance relationship nd distance relationship are hard 2 keep. One party may end up been unfaithful nd then lack of trust cums in. Dnt send her away, allow her go wen she ought 2 go... Even if u are brkin up wit her, pls date smeone who wil always be close nd nt dis distance stuf

Youngsenate1993:
4rm ur comment i can tell its a distance relationship nd distance relationship are hard 2 keep. One party may end up been unfaithful nd then lack of trust cums in. Dnt send her away, allow her go wen she ought 2 go... Even if u are brkin up wit her, pls date smeone who wil always be close nd nt dis distance stuf

Thanks so much boss

Mann11:
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Thumb up boss.
She is still beside me. She just arrived this morning( from Lagos, I'm Ife based).
Originally, she was to leave on Thursday. Should I tell her to leave tomorrow morning or I should keep fucking her till Thursday and gradually discharge her; or how do I go from here?

If you are not engaged to that lady, and you two are having a distance relationship, how do you expect such lady to put her eggs in one basket, for her to have abortion for you means you are not yet ready to be a father or a husband, my advice is if this lady loves you and you see that wife material in her, and you love her, don't break up with her cause of this, pls hurry up and do the needful, cause as long as you haven't there is room for another guy

Deepfeel:

If you are not engaged to that lady, and you two are having a distance relationship, how do you expect such lady to put her eggs in one basket, 53[b]for her to have abortion for you means you are not yet ready to be a father or a husband[/b] my advice is if this lady loves you and you see that wife material in her, and you love her, don't break up with her cause of this, pls hurry up and do the needful, cause as long as you haven't there is room for another guy

Far from it, am way too ready. She demanded the abortion because she is still an undergraduate.

decatalyst:


Ogbeni, grow up and be a man and stop asking all these silly questions.

If there is no trust in a relationship, no point staying in it! Learn well in this one and get equipped before venturing into another one.

My one cent!

I am sorry I may sound harsh, but I guess it is what you need to hear.

You are a sissy and that girl had already found out and she is playing her game really well. Until she straff your neighbor or your friend before you can have the so called "strong evidence" you are busy looking for!

Dumping her is not the problem. My problem is the lies she will be telling people about me, particularly because she was not properly caught(until now Sha o)
You may wonder why what she is telling people is any of my business; it's my nature, I hate being portrayed as the betrayer

I'm tired of reading cheating stories.

You’re stressing yourself for no good reason.

You don’t need any evidence to get out of this relationship. She’s giving her attention to Ariyo as well. If you can’t share then leave. Or just convert her to side chick and find yourself a new main chick.

She's had an abortion for you, but she has had two for ariyomi and three for adebayomi...better move on before she dash you another person belle

Mann11:

N.B: The girl has had an abortion for me before.

What was the purpose of this? Not trying to be hostile, but are you trying to tell us that your girl loves you without outright saying it?

Admin401:


What was the purpose of this? Not trying to be hostile, but are you trying to tell us that your girl loves you without outright saying it?

I think he feels somewhat responsible for her cause of that.

Mann11:
So sad

I'm so sad right now. Before now, we've had many face off concerning the fact that she is cheating. I've seen her in suspicious poses with some guys many a time. There were several instances she received calls from different guys and she keeps claiming they are all friends(note that throughout these calls, you wouldn't be able to hold anything against her). Countless times after confronting her, she would make it seem that I'm jealous and over-reacting. Although, I was always sure she had been cheating all along, there hadn't been a strong evidence to back it. I would have called it a quit with her, but I needed an evidence to avoid any form of emotional blackmail and manipulation. Fast forward to today, her phone rang and I picked the phone to give to her; when I checked who the caller was, it read "Ariyo mi"-( which means 'my joy'). When I asked her who that was, she claimed it was a female friend(very silly). I asked why she would save her name as such, and she claimed that is how the other girl saved hers too. Fine.
After a while, I sensed she was doctoring some things on her phone. Later, I checked her call log and the viola, ' Ariyo mi' had disappeared!!!When I confronted her with that fact, she couldn't say anything.
Am I justified to call it a quit now?
N.B: The girl has had an abortion for me before.

Lool...e be like say i don date dis girl b4..

Everything u describe here dey related. My advice is dat u dump her emotionally but continue banging her physically

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Mann11:
So sad

I'm so sad right now. Before now, we've had many face off concerning the fact that she is cheating. I've seen her in suspicious poses with some guys many a time. There were several instances she received calls from different guys and she keeps claiming they are all friends(note that throughout these calls, you wouldn't be able to hold anything against her). Countless times after confronting her, she would make it seem that I'm jealous and over-reacting. Although, I was always sure she had been cheating all along, there hadn't been a strong evidence to back it. I would have called it a quit with her, but I needed an evidence to avoid any form of emotional blackmail and manipulation. Fast forward to today, her phone rang and I picked the phone to give to her; when I checked who the caller was, it read "Ariyo mi"-( which means 'my joy'). When I asked her who that was, she claimed it was a female friend(very silly). I asked why she would save her name as such, and she claimed that is how the other girl saved hers too. Fine.
After a while, I sensed she was doctoring some things on her phone. Later, I checked her call log and the viola, ' Ariyo mi' had disappeared!!!When I confronted her with that fact, she couldn't say anything.
Am I justified to call it a quit now?
N.B: The girl has had an abortion for me before.

is it this same girl that’s talking to her ex

Your moniker should be change to ARIYO MI


Mod's pls takes note

Deepfeel:

If you are not engaged to that lady, and you two are having a distance relationship, how do you expect such lady to put her eggs in one basket, for her to have abortion for you means you are not yet ready to be a father or a husband, my advice is if this lady loves you and you see that wife material in her, and you love her, don't break up with her cause of this, pls hurry up and do the needful, cause as long as you haven't there is room for another guy

Men like you disgusts me,just quietly read this your write-up and see how foolish you sound..

Altern8:
You’re stressing yourself for no good reason.

You don’t need any evidence to get out of this relationship. She’s giving her attention to Ariyo as well. If you can’t share then leave. Or just convert her to side chick and find yourself a new main chick.

The way you guys say this thing eh... Someone that is already invested should just convert her to side chick just like that. Una no get heart again sir, that thing don turn to stone

A lot of you don't know how to deal with cheating partners, honestly I've never had one in my life but the moment you have caught her red handed, stop initiating things with her, calls, chats, conversation and outing, just let her be, know this and know peace, relationship should never be a source of worry for you, you two don't necessarily have to agree on just about everything but if your relationship brings you worries most of the time, just know you are not with the right person and you are not in the right relationship, salud.

Mann11:
So sad

I'm so sad right now. Before now, we've had many face off concerning the fact that she is cheating. I've seen her in suspicious poses with some guys many a time. There were several instances she received calls from different guys and she keeps claiming they are all friends(note that throughout these calls, you wouldn't be able to hold anything against her). Countless times after confronting her, she would make it seem that I'm jealous and over-reacting. Although, I was always sure she had been cheating all along, there hadn't been a strong evidence to back it. I would have called it a quit with her, but I needed an evidence to avoid any form of emotional blackmail and manipulation. Fast forward to today, her phone rang and I picked the phone to give to her; when I checked who the caller was, it read "Ariyo mi"-( which means 'my joy'). When I asked her who that was, she claimed it was a female friend(very silly). I asked why she would save her name as such, and she claimed that is how the other girl saved hers too. Fine.
After a while, I sensed she was doctoring some things on her phone. Later, I checked her call log and the viola, ' Ariyo mi' had disappeared!!!When I confronted her with that fact, she couldn't say anything.
Am I justified to call it a quit now?
N.B: The girl has had an abortion for me before.

Kindly teach me the WhatsApp hack o7o12231304