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I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Akinpresident: 4:51pm On Nov 17, 2020
Hello guys

There's this girl that I love.
I believe I love her because she's respectful, well reserved, intelligent and hard-working.

We just got talking and trying to get along.

But she's much younger than me.
She's 16, I'm 26.

She likes me but not with any emotional attachment.

I haven't asked her out yet but I know she'll agree if I do.

I am established running my own business and would love to settle down anytime soon.

Is it a good idea to date her and allow her to come up with age and marry her or should I keep our relationship platonic?

Honestly I wouldn't want to lose her.

It's not as if I don't know what I want.
But the truth is that, I'd love to learn from the wisdom of you all about my situation.

Kindly advice me.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Tloc(m): 4:53pm On Nov 17, 2020
She is still young dude, allow her mature.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by SmileDance(f): 4:54pm On Nov 17, 2020
I won’t say a word

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by BusinessCity: 4:55pm On Nov 17, 2020
Aboki. That's lust

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Kestolove(f): 4:56pm On Nov 17, 2020
Age is just a number ma guy, go for her

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Edyice: 4:57pm On Nov 17, 2020
Honestly I don't want to lose her bla bla bla ..

Leave that pikin alone Na

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by phorget(m): 4:57pm On Nov 17, 2020
Girl of that age are still very much naive. Allow her come of age please.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Kestolove(f): 4:57pm On Nov 17, 2020
Tloc:
She is still young dude, allow her mature.
catch Dem young ND dey shall b urs forever..I get one babe for my area na 12 she be, she don dey fvck walahi

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by lawrenzooo: 5:00pm On Nov 17, 2020
At 16 you want to distract her with love. My brother allow her come of age.
If she is yours she would be yours.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by abiolert(m): 5:01pm On Nov 17, 2020
Kestolove:
catch Dem young ND dey shall b urs forever..I get one babe for my area na 12 she be, she don dey fvck walahi
Kai confirm he goat spotted

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Pusyiter(m): 5:03pm On Nov 17, 2020
You are your best adviser on this matter.
Allow her to mature is at your own peril because she might change her mind when she later meets dude like us grin
Take advantage of her now would be considered an act of pedophile which is a crime.
I wish you well as you saddle between two civilization. WELL DONE

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Firstorderwizard(m): 5:05pm On Nov 17, 2020
Guy leave that small girl alone to face her studies and pursue her dream undecided

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Nobody: 5:10pm On Nov 17, 2020
Kestolove:
catch Dem young ND dey shall b urs forever..I get one babe for my area na 12 she be, she don dey fvck walahi

Hmm i don finally confirm say this moniker nah man with sagggy balls

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by fati2001(m): 5:21pm On Nov 17, 2020
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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Nobody: 5:22pm On Nov 17, 2020
At that age,my mother was my police,men are weird sha. At an early age i was already experiencing advances and marriage promises from strangers and sons of family friends,It made me very wise in handling men, some men are really really weird,reason every mother should be well involved in her daughter's life.Though I will love my man to be much older and matured ,I can consider a man 20yrs older than me

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Akinpresident: 5:32pm On Nov 17, 2020
grin

Pusyiter:
You are your best adviser on this matter.
Allow her to mature is at your own peril because she might change her mind when she later meets dude like us grin
Take advantage of her now would be considered an act of pedophile which is a crime.
I wish you well as you saddle between two civilization. WELL DONE
Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Akinpresident: 5:33pm On Nov 17, 2020
Like what age?

lawrenzooo:
At 16 you want to distract her with love. My brother allow her come of age.
If she is yours she would be yours.
Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 5:41pm On Nov 17, 2020
The fact she doesn't have any emotional attachment with you says a lot.

I beg you not to assume and read meaning to things that aren't there. She's in my opinion way too young to even start having thoughts of marriage with.

Akinpresident:
Hello guys

There's this girl that I love.
I believe I love her because she's respectful, well reserved, intelligent and hard-working.

We just got talking and trying to get along.

But she's much younger than me.
She's 16, I'm 26.

She likes me but not with any emotional attachment.

I haven't asked her out yet but I know she'll agree if I do.

I am established running my own business and would love to settle down anytime soon.

Is it a good idea to date her and allow her to come up with age and marry her or should I keep our relationship platonic?

Honestly I wouldn't want to lose her.

It's not as if I don't know what I want.
But the truth is that, I'd love to learn from the wisdom of you all about my situation.

Kindly advice me.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Nobody: 5:43pm On Nov 17, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
The fact she doesn't have any emotional attachment with you says a lot.

I beg you not to assume and read meaning to things that aren't there. She's in my opinion way too young to even start having thoughts of marriage with.

Uncle is just looking for a tight pvssy. grin
Love ko, loaf ni. undecided
16 year old..

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Nobody: 5:44pm On Nov 17, 2020
Kestolove:
catch Dem young ND dey shall b urs forever..I get one babe for my area na 12 she be, she don dey fvck walahi
You're a well known pervert always supporting fellow perverts like yourself.
Shior undecided

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Akinpresident: 5:52pm On Nov 17, 2020
Far from that.
I'm not irresponsible

As a matter of fact, I've not made up my mind to date her.

Reason why I'm asking for advice is for me to see things through the minds of others so I can make better decision.

Chii59:

Uncle is just looking for a tight pvssy. grin
Love ko, loaf ni. undecided
16 year old..
Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Akinpresident: 5:55pm On Nov 17, 2020
I've not mentioned anything dating talkless of marriage to her.

We're just vibing along and I'm assisting her the much I can.

But I don't want her to have the wrong impression about me even though she likes me.


nwaezeemmanuel:
The fact she doesn't have any emotional attachment with you says a lot.

I beg you not to assume and read meaning to things that aren't there. She's in my opinion way too young to even start having thoughts of marriage with.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 5:57pm On Nov 17, 2020
Okay. This is good.

Sad thing is that you will find many comments on Nairaland that can lead you to a terrible rabbit hole.

You're 26, if you need to settle down - i think you're at a better and safer chance of hooking up with an adult like yourself - waiting for a 16 year old to come of age is silly and troubling to me.

The guys telling you so will come and blast you if you talk about how things went south. Be wise.

Akinpresident:
Far from that.
I'm not irresponsible

As a matter of fact, I've not made up my mind to date her.

Reason why I'm asking for advice is for me to see things through the minds of others so I can make better decision.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Nobody: 5:58pm On Nov 17, 2020
Akinpresident:
Far from that.
I'm not irresponsible

As a matter of fact, I've not made up my mind to date her.

Reason why I'm asking for advice is for me to see things through the minds of others so I can make better decision.

Na so them dey talk.
LEAVE HER ALONE. Come back in 3-5 years time.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by blinking001(m): 5:59pm On Nov 17, 2020
Leave kids alone.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Slyzen(m): 6:01pm On Nov 17, 2020
Akinpresident:
Hello guys

There's this girl that I love.
I believe I love her because she's respectful, well reserved, intelligent and hard-working.

We just got talking and trying to get along.

But she's much younger than me.
She's 16, I'm 26.

She likes me but not with any emotional attachment.

I haven't asked her out yet but I know she'll agree if I do.

I am established running my own business and would love to settle down anytime soon.

Is it a good idea to date her and allow her to come up with age and marry her or should I keep our relationship platonic?

Honestly I wouldn't want to lose her.

It's not as if I don't know what I want.
But the truth is that, I'd love to learn from the wisdom of you all about my situation.

Kindly advice me.

Be her friend. Advice her, guide her. Be close to her family. Get them to trust you. Get her to be free with you and to trust you. But don't propose love yet. Help her grow and make right choices whenever possible. Help her become the kind of woman you would want her to be. When she is 18, you know what to do. Good luck.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 6:02pm On Nov 17, 2020
See ehn, the idea that she likes you isn't really new or unique.

Many teenagers can grow fond of anyone without so much effort. I'm worried that you're assisting her, don't expect so much biko.

She's just 16.

Akinpresident:
I've not mentioned anything dating talkless of marriage to her.

We're just vibing along and I'm assisting her the much I can.

But I don't want her to have the wrong impression about me even though she likes me.


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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Nobody: 6:05pm On Nov 17, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
See ehn, the idea that she likes you isn't really new or unique.

Many teenagers can grow fond of anyone without so much effort. I'm worried that you're assisting her, don't expect so much biko.

She's just 16.

Only a handful of men give assistance (especially financial assistance) to females in this country without expecting to be paid in kind.
I don't trust this young man's intentions. I don't care what he says. She's 16. Far too young for him. Now if she were 21, he's 31, that won't be a problem, but she's still a child. And with the assistance he's giving her, I'd be so shocked if he doesn't end up having sex with her before she turns 18.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by Akinpresident: 6:06pm On Nov 17, 2020
Thanks a lot!!!

Slyzen:


Be her friend. Advice her, guide her. Be close to her family. Get them to trust you. Get her to be free with you and to trust you. But don't propose love yet. Help her grow and make right choices whenever possible. Help her become the kind of woman you would want her to be. When she is 18, you know what to do. Good luck.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Very Much Older Than Her by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 6:06pm On Nov 17, 2020
Things can still go wrong. I'm sure you've heard news of good Samaritan lovers that end up heartbroken because all they could offer was assistance.

A lot can happen between 16 and 18 years and she can end up not having that connection.

Remember he's 26, what happened to the women in the market that are 20+ already. They haven't vanished now.

Slyzen:


Be her friend. Advice her, guide her. Be close to her family. Get them to trust you. Get her to be free with you and to trust you. But don't propose love yet. Help her grow and make right choices whenever possible. Help her become the kind of woman you would want her to be. When she is 18, you know what to do. Good luck.

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