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ibkayee:
Lol ok bros

akinjojo1234:
Hmmmmmm, real words. I admire your mature chain of thought. It's rare these days on this forum

akinjojo1234:
You are very correct bro. How I wish we fit just do without woman, life for just dey smooth. This chasing of pussy has been our undoing right from the time of Noah

lexy2014:
Solution:

Abstain if u don't want large VJ, slut shame etc
Be faithful
Condomise sex 2 avoid preg, abortions &STDs

RiyaGoddess:
Uhmmm.
Since I came to this world, I no get the head of a man giving me money instead it's the other way round. Shile can you please send me 2k, I'm stranded where I am. Shile there's this thing I'm working on, and I need this certain amount of money, please borrow me I will pay back. Shile send me airtime I'm having difficulty getting one here. If I don't give, no more flash from them again till Jesus comes. The last was, me I'm going to my stylist to make my hair. Guy: No make it at XYZ salon downstream the road. Me: Haa no ooo. I don't have the money for such places o. I can't afford it abeg. Guy: Don't worry I will pay. Me: No let me go to my own salon where I can afford. Guy: No do it here I will pay se. Me:OK o. Me went to the big salon. loosen my hair and get it relaxed. My brothers and sisters only relax o. No setting nothing. I was through and my mind uncle will pay. I went home. No one challenged me o. In my mind, uncle has settled them. Only for uncle to call me the following morning asking why I no pay the stylist. I was like pay bawo. You told me you will pay. Uncle said but I should have at least paid. Uncle then said the stylist said it's 6,500. I said for what? Wetin I do? Just to retouch? Am I to pay for the AC, movies and light refreshment given to me at the salon? Anyway I already told you I don't have the money for such places and my own stylist won't collect more than 1k and that's if na generator she use. Uncle said I should go and pay. I said me no get the money o. Na your cross be that carry am. Na so stylist call me o. Uncle don carry number give stylist. I told uncle stylist that I won't pay that kind of money because I tell the other uncle say no be my type of person dey come una salon. I am not a slay queen. I no get sugar daddy wey dey throw money give me. I be confirm okirika and food hustler. Na uncle say him go pay say make I come. Anyway I be wan go my own salon wey no go collect pass 1k. I will pay you 1k last. I no dey for all that sakamanje level. Na so I pay 1k ooo. Till today that oda uncle no flash my phone me sef no mind. I face my front.
So all these babes wey men dey throwey money give, how do they do it Where dem dey see these guys sef because I no just get that head at all. Man go dey beside me and I go dey pay for my food, the man no go even shake body say make e even pay for water at least. I'm so used to footing my bills that's why I no even dey look their side again. I don't depend on anyone money. Like Op said we both have 24 hours. Work!
Anyway God bless all the ladies out there hustling without any male support. May we reap the reward of our hustling soon. Amin

imitateMe:
You're one of them. I'll hunt you'll very soon. I've disappointed 3 girls yesterday by turning down their requests at the 11th hour e pain them die, after sending their account numbers

lefulefu:
so with all dese curves wey i dey see for ur dp u mean to tell me dat men no dey offer to look after u financially? not even sugardaddies? abi no be ur real pix be dat?

ibkayee:
Abstain? Why should they have it give up such a great recreational activity just because of other people’s ignorance?

Be faithful? So only people who cheat go through what I mentioned?

Condom? Ideally safe sex should be practiced, realistically this isn’t always the case, men push for raw sex too, it isn’t just women ‘forgetting’ or not being responsible

RiyaGoddess:
Uhmmm.
Since I came to this world, I no get the head of a man giving me money instead it's the other way round. Shile can you please send me 2k, I'm stranded where I am. Shile there's this thing I'm working on, and I need this certain amount of money, please borrow me I will pay back. Shile send me airtime I'm having difficulty getting one here. If I don't give, no more flash from them again till Jesus comes. The last was, me I'm going to my stylist to make my hair. Guy: No make it at XYZ salon downstream the road. Me: Haa no ooo. I don't have the money for such places o. I can't afford it abeg. Guy: Don't worry I will pay. Me: No let me go to my own salon where I can afford. Guy: No do it here I will pay se. Me:OK o. Me went to the big salon. loosen my hair and get it relaxed. My brothers and sisters only relax o. No setting nothing. I was through and my mind uncle will pay. I went home. No one challenged me o. In my mind, uncle has settled them. Only for uncle to call me the following morning asking why I no pay the stylist. I was like pay bawo. You told me you will pay. Uncle said but I should have at least paid. Uncle then said the stylist said it's 6,500. I said for what? Wetin I do? Just to retouch? Am I to pay for the AC, movies and light refreshment given to me at the salon? Anyway I already told you I don't have the money for such places and my own stylist won't collect more than 1k and that's if na generator she use. Uncle said I should go and pay. I said me no get the money o. Na your cross be that carry am. Na so stylist call me o. Uncle don carry number give stylist. I told uncle stylist that I won't pay that kind of money because I tell the other uncle say no be my type of person dey come una salon. I am not a slay queen. I no get sugar daddy wey dey throw money give me. I be confirm okirika and food hustler. Na uncle say him go pay say make I come. Anyway I be wan go my own salon wey no go collect pass 1k. I will pay you 1k last. I no dey for all that sakamanje level. Na so I pay 1k ooo. Till today that oda uncle no flash my phone me sef no mind. I face my front.
So all these babes wey men dey throwey money give, how do they do it Where dem dey see these guys sef because I no just get that head at all. Man go dey beside me and I go dey pay for my food, the man no go even shake body say make e even pay for water at least. I'm so used to footing my bills that's why I no even dey look their side again. I don't depend on anyone money. Like Op said we both have 24 hours. Work!
Anyway God bless all the ladies out there hustling without any male support. May we reap the reward of our hustling soon. Amin

lefulefu:
bros make u enter ashawo beer palour thread and u will see guys who say dem dey maintain ashawo with 300k-400k monthly and other claim na 150k weekly. Guy ehn some men spend thru their nose just to get pussy.

luminouz:
Lmaoooo...nice story

If you really are a hustler like u said,I respect u die... I always support hardworking women.

This one u dey Lagos,e go hard to see you oh..I for say make we go joint go eat better amala and isI ewu!!!!

lexy2014:
A woman is d sole protector of her body. If she can't do d needful 2 protect it, then she can't justify collecting money 4 sex which she will enjoy& which u called "a great recreational activity". This y I said earlier that ur reasons weren't cogent

lefulefu:
ehn u can always take a woman u know u can afford nau and u should know wen to say no wen she makes outragious demands. wen u too give in to all her damands thats wen she go start to dey see u finish.imagine a girl sending u whatsap text to send her 90k right now or else she stops talkin to u then u can easily tell her u dont have and if she dont want to talk to u then she is free to go.no be do or die sumptin nau.

RiyaGoddess:
*Side eyes

ibkayee:
Yeah yeah yeah. We didn’t create ourselves (biologically) and we are also didn’t create the societal rules that judge us differently for enjoying sex compared to men. Since we take the loss for things out of our control, we invest by charging

Lol I don’t even engage in this personally but I support women who reason this way, it is what it is *shrug*

lexy2014:
4d fact that women didn't create themselves, doesn't mean women don't have control over when, how& with whom they choose 2 have consensual sex. D question of societal rules is more straight forward than u make it look cos women are also part of d society. But whatever d case, d bottom line is that its only a woman that decides how she will use her body. Biology doesn't decide that neither does society. A woman is firmly in control of her body. Once again, u have only confirmed what I said about d cogency of ur argument

UyaiIncomparabl:
We have heard.

luminouz:
Dont worry babe,bills are on me...I will even pay for a new hairstyle too..

lexy2014:
4d fact that women didn't create themselves, doesn't mean women don't have control over when, how& with whom they choose 2 have consensual sex. D question of societal rules is more straight forward than u make it look cos women are also part of d society. But whatever d case, d bottom line is that its only a woman that decides how she will use her body. Biology doesn't decide that neither does society. A woman is firmly in control of her body. Once again, u have only confirmed what I said about d cogency of ur argument

ibkayee:
Yeah yeah yeah. We didn’t create ourselves (biologically) and we also didn’t create the societal rules that judge us differently for enjoying sex compared to men. Since we take the loss for things out of our control, we invest by charging

Lol I don’t even engage in this personally but I support women who reason this way, it is what it is *shrug*

RiyaGoddess:
*Side eyes
NA DEM

luminouz:
Babes...forget talk o...I'm just being humble o...I'm fvcking loaded...ask lefulefu naaaaa

liberalchick:
Sorry Nigerian guys brought this on themselves, what we are witnessing is a symptom of the excessive materialism in our culture. In the 90s and early 00s, girls were happy to receive mix tapes, handmade cards or a wooden frame with an insert of your portrait as gifts. Then internet came, ‘yahoo yahoo’ came and the game changed.

Nigerians always have some need to show off their wealth or believe the success of a man can only be measured by his wealth. Nigerians will rather worship money THAN intellect. Nigerian society only respect people with money. Who better to show off this new wealth to than girls? As time went on Nigerian men started throwing money at girls to prove they were the best suitor for her affections. The more need to show off the higher the financial expectations became.

Black Americans girls chase Nigerian dudes even though they say they’re sexist because, Nigerian guys have a reputation of out SPENDING men of other race/culture.

For example, ‘The act of proposing’, before girls were ok getting engaged without a ring. Then, boys started buying rings and the rings became more expensive. Now one dude upped the ante and started the whole ‘public proposal with a car’ now it’s almost a norm in our culture to propose with an elaborate gift and show off on Instagram.

Sorry the chickens have come home to roost.

khiaa:

luminouz:
Babes...forget talk o...I'm just being humble o...I'm fvcking loaded...ask lefulefu naaaaa

sod09:
why will you say you don't do the bolded but you support it.
More like saying you don't steal or kill but you support the act, please stay one place so we can conclude on Nigeria ladies too

luminouz:
90% of those saying that on the thread are fvcked up liars...

Been a while I went there sef!

lefulefu:
ehn u can always take a woman u know u can afford nau and u should know wen to say no wen she makes outragious demands. wen u too give in to all her damands thats wen she go start to dey see u finish.imagine a girl sending u whatsap text to send her 90k right now or else she stops talkin to u then u can easily tell her u dont have and if she dont want to talk to u then she is free to go.no be do or die sumptin nau.

lefulefu:
lol i know most of d stories are made up ..like the guy that claimed he released inside ashawo without condom and was watching his cum drain out of pussy .stories are made up but hilarious sha

luminouz:
No spoil my show o...

Go to the other room NOW