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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by kense88: 9:23am On Jun 09, 2019
OkaNaUbe:


For that long Is the OP not providing for them? Read the post again, o Feministicqueentongue
The best way to treat such women, is to ignore her. Focus on ur job/business. Infact, mingle with other ladies. When the money starts rolling in, she will definitely come back , but do not forget to give her a good dose of her medicine. You must learn to stand with ur spouse through thick and thin. That's the vow u took.

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by habsydiamond(m): 9:26am On Jun 09, 2019
It as been said that marriage is like a 10unit course that once u carry it over that's automatically a spillover. Once u spill in marriage that's the end na divorce go settle am. There is nothing like marrying a women God has destined for u. With that u can't have any problem. In short, this man don man black market woman oo... Na to dey spend with blindfold remain oooo undecided undecided

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by Nobody: 9:39am On Jun 09, 2019
Interesting it's been a while since I've heard a Nigerian man begging for sex from his wife within my circle. Not saying they dont get rejected , but sex still happens just different arrangements. Possible OP is a strong Christian

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by 1x2x3: 9:41am On Jun 09, 2019
pocohantas:


Men do not like marrying struggling women, but men take these decisions with their egos and dicks. Their ego loves struggling women.

So, men will keep on marrying struggling women. Struggling women will remain covered!

Your point is? Is the woman right or wrong?

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by ibkayee(f): 9:45am On Jun 09, 2019
He said he has investments that are covering for their basic expenses, doesn’t sound like their standard of living has changed to the point of not being able to eat, he’s still providing to the nest of his current ability. His job loss could be the reason but I’m thinking it may be something else too.
But if she’s refusing sex solely because he lost his job that’s low of her.

I feel sorry for guys in this predicament, but then I can’t help but remember how wives get tossed aside and cheated on for smaller ‘set backs’ out of their control and are even blamed. Eeyah
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by Nobody: 9:48am On Jun 09, 2019
pocohantas:


Men do not like marrying struggling women, but men take these decisions with their egos and dicks. Their ego loves struggling women.

So, men will keep on marrying struggling women. Struggling women will remain covered!

The issues with struggling women is that you inherit their problems, and that's an extra burden on your head as the man, as you're required to provide. Those who do could be masochistic, cant imagine tying myself neck deep in financial woes all in the name of love. However struggling independent woman now would be a different issue entirely .
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by pocohantas(f): 9:48am On Jun 09, 2019
1x2x3:


Your point is? Is the woman right or wrong?

I need the other side of the story. Men love to play victim a lot, especially broke/jobless men. Maybe it is paranoia or something.

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by Nobody: 9:50am On Jun 09, 2019
ibkayee:
He said he has investments that are covering for their basic expenses, doesn’t sound like their standard of living has changed to the point of not being able to eat. I mean his job loss could be the reason but I’m thinking it may be something else.
But if she’s refusing sex solely because he lost his job that’s low of her.

I feel sorry for guys in this predicament, but then I can’t help but remember how wives get tossed aside and cheated on for smaller ‘set backs’ out of their control and are even blamed. Eeyah



I have never met any guy in this kinda predicament, because most of the friends I know that are married, I can bet they will easily move to side chics. Most guys I've met either have side chic or one person that it happens once in a while. Which is a shock to think issues like this still happen.

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by pocohantas(f): 9:52am On Jun 09, 2019
CaptainMitch:
...

I lie?

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by tunize(m): 9:53am On Jun 09, 2019
Liliyann:
Shameless man!
Is sex your next point of action? undecided
What stops you from looking for something to do?
This is exactly one of the reasons why i can't marry struggling guys!
Always complaining!
Never satisfied!
Always finding fault!
You have a small brain if not u wouldn't have written this trash u wrote, because he nvr in anyway stated that they were hungry nor himself not tryn to get anoda job. He has every right to ask of sex from the wife simple.

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by chinchonglee(m): 9:56am On Jun 09, 2019
Liliyann:
Shameless man!
Is sex your next point of action? undecided
What stops you from looking for something to do?
This is exactly one of the reasons why i can't marry struggling guys!
Always complaining!
Never satisfied!
Always finding fault!
I dnt like calling ladies fish brains because of d intelligent ones... U re a compound fool who knws ntn except for social media nd probably how to use a relaxer...

How does dis topic relates to struggling guys!
Plus how many guys in dis country re nt struggling


Pls donate ur empty head lemme use it for rituals at least it will be of use in dat area.

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by ibkayee(f): 9:58am On Jun 09, 2019
pcguru1:


I have never met any guy in this kinda predicament, because most of the friends I know that are married, I can bet they will easily move to side chics. Most guys I've met either have side chic or one person that it happens once in a while. Which is a shock to think issues like this still happen.
Lol the husband may genuinely be an outlier, or Joro has cooked up another fake story again grin
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by Mcslize: 9:58am On Jun 09, 2019
funmisticqueen:
i am not a feminist all you simple minded men will call any educated woman whose viewpoint is different from yours a feminist. you actually refused to answer my question, can he take care of the extra responsiblity of a pregnancy if it comes in? condom can burst o.

No be every man dey release every time during sex o. Ayam an example. Condom burst or e no burst ,nothing go pour inside.

Abeg, the woman should allow the man to fulfil his marital right. He paid bride price for chirst sake.
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by chinchonglee(m): 10:01am On Jun 09, 2019
funmisticqueen:
The woman is smart Jare, sex should be the least of his worries because he can impregnate her, can he afford a pregnancy, much less a child while he is jobless? At least she is giving him once a month. so who is now footing the bills? the woman? Abeg the man should go and find a job or start a business instead of focusing on what is between his legs
U again

Did u read d post

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by tunjilana: 10:02am On Jun 09, 2019
She didnt marry U...She married the big provider u were
...Lot of men are in your shoes...some still have a home cos thwy have a thriving means of income...Men shoukdnt marry blindlyy....test your woman's attitude to money...
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:05am On Jun 09, 2019
Liliyann:
Shameless man!
Is sex your next point of action? undecided
What stops you from looking for something to do?
This is exactly one of the reasons why i can't marry struggling guys!
Always complaining!
Never satisfied!
Always finding fault!


BS
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:10am On Jun 09, 2019
pocohantas:


Men do not like marrying struggling women, but men take these decisions with their egos and dicks. Their ego loves struggling women.

So, men will keep on marrying struggling women. Struggling women will remain covered!


Just look at you

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:14am On Jun 09, 2019
chinchonglee:

U again

Did u read d post


I really wish I could give her a hot and eye changing slap

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by Nobody: 10:16am On Jun 09, 2019
ibkayee:

Lol the husband may genuinely be an outlier, or Joro has cooked up another fake story again grin
Damn I didn't see the name joro. Obviously Joro has smoked weed and got creative and sent us this to be debating on a Sunday morning. I really hate bloggers with a passion.
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by 1x2x3: 10:23am On Jun 09, 2019
pocohantas:


I need the other side of the story. Men love to play victim a lot, especially broke/jobless men. Maybe it is paranoia or something.


Truth is that a married man with side chicks won't have time complaining about a wife at home who refuses him sex. Some women are designed to sit up only when she notices competition or when she is no longer noticed. If she's using sex as a weapon then the man should find a fresh side chick grin
I hate weak men who cry over the Internet when they can get fresh pussssy out there.

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by pocohantas(f): 10:30am On Jun 09, 2019
1x2x3:


Truth is that a married man with side chicks won't have time complaining about a wife at home who refuses him sex. Some women are designed to sit up only when she notices competition or when she is no longer noticed. If she's using sex as a weapon then the man should find a fresh side chick grin
I hate weak men who cry over the Internet when they can get fresh pussssy out there.

Exactly!
I feel same about married women complaining of non-performing husbands. Just find a married fckmate and enjoy yourselves.
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by ibkayee(f): 10:36am On Jun 09, 2019
pcguru1:

Damn I didn't see the name joro. Obviously Joro has smoked weed and got creative and sent us this to be debating on a Sunday morning. I really hate bloggers with a passion.
grin
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by ibkayee(f): 10:47am On Jun 09, 2019
pocohantas:


Exactly!
I feel same about married women complaining of non-performing husbands. Just find a married fckmate and enjoy yourselves.
Gbam, minute the Mr. just isn't cutting it anymore we begin the side man roll call.
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by zicoraads: 10:49am On Jun 09, 2019
ibkayee:
He said he has investments that are covering for their basic expenses, doesn’t sound like their standard of living has changed to the point of not being able to eat, he’s still providing to the nest of his current ability. His job loss could be the reason but I’m thinking it may be something else too.
But if she’s refusing sex solely because he lost his job that’s low of her.

I feel sorry for guys in this predicament, but then I can’t help but remember how wives get tossed aside and cheated on for smaller ‘set backs’ out of their control and are even blamed. Eeyah


You seem like someone who doesn't like to offend.

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by zicoraads: 10:50am On Jun 09, 2019
I sometimes wonder why guys beg for sex.
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by babakb: 10:58am On Jun 09, 2019
The man should take a second wife
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by odeebee: 10:59am On Jun 09, 2019
Liliyann:
Shameless man!
Is sex your next point of action? undecided
What stops you from looking for something to do?
This is exactly one of the reasons why i can't marry struggling guys!
Always complaining!
Never satisfied!
Always finding fault!


You r waiting for already made abi? Keep waiting
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by ibkayee(f): 11:01am On Jun 09, 2019
zicoraads:

You seem like someone who doesn't like to offend.
Haha how do you mean?
Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by loswhite(m): 11:02am On Jun 09, 2019
Liliyann:
Shameless man!
Is sex your next point of action? undecided
What stops you from looking for something to do?
This is exactly one of the reasons why i can't marry struggling guys!
Always complaining!
Never satisfied!
Always finding fault!
so since he lost his job he should no longer have sex again...lol. This generation of girls are just useless

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by 1x2x3: 11:06am On Jun 09, 2019
pocohantas:


Exactly!
I feel same about married women complaining of non-performing husbands. Just find a married fckmate and enjoy yourselves.

On point. I think she's doing that already hence her staying glued to the phone screen and when divorce happens the single mother phobia will set in.

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by loswhite(m): 11:08am On Jun 09, 2019
funmisticqueen:
i am not a feminist all you simple minded men will call any educated woman whose viewpoint is different from yours a feminist. you actually refused to answer my question, can he take care of the extra responsiblity of a pregnancy if it comes in? condom can burst o.
so the only reason married ppl should have sex is to make babies...lol smh.

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Re: Since I Lost My Job, I Now Beg My Wife For Sex - Nigerian Man Cries by loswhite(m): 11:14am On Jun 09, 2019
pocohantas:


I need the other side of the story. Men love to play victim a lot, especially broke/jobless men. Maybe it is paranoia or something.

Men love to play victim!!!!!! Really!. Women always play the victims and are usually very manipulative

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