ibkayee:

Haha how do you mean?

pocohantas:


Exactly!
I feel same about married women complaining of non-performing husbands. Just find a married fckmate and enjoy yourselves.

zicoraads:

You often try not to be 'FOR' or 'AGAINST' any argument or discussion.

You often do what the English language would term 'Sitting on the Fence'.

ibkayee:

Gbam, minute the Mr. just isn't cutting it anymore we begin the side man roll call.

funmisticqueen:
The woman is smart Jare, sex should be the least of his worries because he can impregnate her, can he afford a pregnancy, much less a child while he is jobless? At least she is giving him once a month. so who is now footing the bills? the woman? Abeg the man should go and find a job or start a business instead of focusing on what is between his legs

AntiBrutus:


No time o.
Men are even easier to get. If you visit 3 men, 2 will surely wanna fck you.

AntiBrutus:


No time o.
Men are even easier to get. If you visit 3 men, 2 will surely wanna fck you.

ibkayee:
He said he has investments that are covering for their basic expenses, doesn’t sound like their standard of living has changed to the point of not being able to eat, he’s still providing to the nest of his current ability. His job loss could be the reason but I’m thinking it may be something else too.
But if she’s refusing sex solely because he lost his job that’s low of her.

I feel sorry for guys in this predicament, but then I can’t help but remember how wives get tossed aside and cheated on for smaller ‘set backs’ out of their control and are even blamed. Eeyah

pocohantas:


I lie?

DonSageII:


Well, I see the need to try help the guy by sharing your opinion, but, I'm startled you had to start playing the sentimental card towards the end of ur assertion.

Basically, in as much as you try to sound balanced and create an air of equality, pls, remember that in matters like these, it's more important to stick to condemning the act perpetrated by whichever gender.

If it were a woman going through this same phase, I won't hesitate to criticise the husband. I'd try as much as possible to squeeze the urge to sound biased or sentimental. That way, the act is being condemned; likewise the perpetrator.

ibkayee:

Wasn’t trying to sound balanced tbh, I said that on purpose to sound biased even though it may look like I’m trying to look out for both lol

Liliyann:
Shameless man! Is sex your next point of action? What stops you from looking for something to do? This is exactly one of the reasons why i can't marry struggling guys! Always complaining! Never satisfied! Always finding fault!

amakadihot87:
My own point is that the man should check well and see if he has offended his wife in any way,when women are bitter they refuse sex.......... moreover marital sex always gets to a point when it becomes boring.........at that time all a couple should do is to forget sex for sometime ,after the break sex can have some new spark......... mostly women that makes phone their companion lack communication,if you discuss and chat with your wife always she wount remember her phone

hamid6249:
Your sense don run away from you

funmisticqueen:
i am not a feminist all you simple minded men will call any educated woman whose viewpoint is different from yours a feminist. you actually refused to answer my question, can he take care of the extra responsiblity of a pregnancy if it comes in? condom can burst o.

cowardafonja:


And you ended up justifying her actions..

pocohantas:


Men do not like marrying struggling women, but men take these decisions with their egos and dicks. Their ego loves struggling women.

So, men will keep on marrying struggling women. Struggling women will remain covered!

SmellingAnus:
Don't you know that lack of money makes the pussy very dry...

SmellingAnus:
Don't you know that lack of money makes the pussy very dry...

zicoraads:

You seem like someone who doesn't like to offend.

Mcslize:


No be every man dey release every time during sex o. Ayam an example. Condom burst or e no burst ,nothing go pour inside.

Abeg, the woman should allow the man to fulfil his marital right. He paid bride price for chirst sake.

Dizzytee:

DO you read or u are just dumb.. did dey state he wsnt look for another job, is it possible a man with family should stay idle n where do u want him to get money 4 biz

pcguru1:


I have never met any guy in this kinda predicament, because most of the friends I know that are married, I can bet they will easily move to side chics. Most guys I've met either have side chic or one person that it happens once in a while. Which is a shock to think issues like this still happen.

SmellingAnus:
Don't you know that lack of money makes the pussy very dry...

Oyindidi:
Hmmmm....

kneehighbootz:


pcguru hi. I'm a big fan. I want to get into software development. where do I start?

pcguru1:


Wow thanks bro, hmmm it depends on what branch but mehn I will recommend code.org and also which aspect of software dev you are interested in. Hit me up via NL messaging so I can reply properly

sodiqapril:
lock up, masturbate till u get your life together..when you have money make her pay for every single shxt she did to you...

SmellingAnus:
my darling... I go try show on Thursday

Oyindidi:
I dey Bayelsa

SmellingAnus:
oh I see... You dey enzoy o

Oyindidi:
No be small enjoyment