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Lol hey guys
So I met an American guy based in California last week. He came across my profile on IG, liked my pictures and requested for a video call. At first, I was like na yahoo boy jare but I gave him benefit of doubt and we had the video call.. He introduced me to his sisters right away and I was just surprised like, so soon?
His sisters said Hi on the video call and they were super nice. Everything was just happening so fast for me, I barely knew him and I was already talking to his sisters so I ended the call and texted him..
I was like guy you moving too fast and he was like once you feel an attraction for someone, why wait?
So throughout that day we chatted, the following day too we spoke all day and then on the third day, he said HE LOVED ME!
I was like, slow down.. we just met and all but he was like yeah he knows it’s crazy but then that’s how he feels. We have been talking for a week now and this guy is perfect.. we are both in our 20’s.. he’s so sweet and matured.. there was a time I said he was just pretending but he was like No, he’s not a kid and he knows what he wants and he is willing to go for it so I said okay fine..
Now he says he’s coming to Nigeria to see me in December and spend a month with me.
To be sincere, I like him too but the question is this guys;
Is it possible to fall in love with someone barely three days after meeting them online and with one video call and exchange of photos..
I have just been here thinking it’s not real but what does he have to gain pretending? Not like he wants to scam me of money, he knows I am Nigerian and I don’t have money so what else can he possibly want?
He is so serious with me and I can’t believe it’s possible to fall in love just like that!!!

A man knows when she is the one. You have from now till Dec. to study him. Don't write him off just yet. Goodluck.

Sounds sweet. Love hits us in different ways. Please and please, don't start asking him to send you money and stuffs. Don't make demands like a typical naija girl cos I can tell you convincingly that he will run like pants on fire.
Welcome him and tell him of the nice places you'll take him to when he comes around.
By the way, is a a white dude?

What is your IG handle let us confirm

delishpot:
A man knows when she is the one. You have from now till Dec. to study him. Don't write him off just yet. Goodluck.

Thanks, I appreciate

Cheap girl!! Just 3 days If na Nigerian guy, na so you go dey do shakara. I know you've always been the one calling on vids because he's white.

Nonsense!!!

Holocene:
Sounds sweet. Love hits us in different ways. Please and please, don't start asking him to send you money and stuffs. Don't make demands like a typical naija girl cos I can tell you convincingly that he will run like pants on fire.
Welcome him and tell him of the nice places you'll take him to when he comes around.
By the way, is a a white dude?

Thanks bro, yes he is white

The question is do u feel d same way for him?if yes go ahead if no Pls don't play with his emotions.

Move with the flow.That he is flying across the world to come see you means a whole lot.

Just one time video call...abeg help me with dat ur face powder.

Interesting .. to be honest with u these white guys can be crazy at times. I really feel there's smfin fishy about this. How ever he drives u crazy don't fellow him to his country if he ask u to. It's a 50/50 chance of u being lucky. Be careful

Vivianuyom:
Thanks bro, yes he is white

Cute....we already have issues with trust towards Nigerians so try to act out of the ideology they have about us.

Pls don't listen to childish talks on this forum.

TheTourist:
What is your IG handle let us confirm

them don come again aproko wuwu...

luvyaself95:
them don come again aproko wuwu...

My dear take D's advice from a brother with experience .....it is not Love at all trust me it just something that looks like similar....true love takes time to grow it doesn't just happen.... don't put ur mind totally into it.....50/50....what I will just advise you is make sure ds guy do all the necessary tests before Getting down with him cos he can't come December and nothing will happen.....be safe

Vivianuyom:
Lol hey guys
So I met an American guy based in California last week. He came across my profile on IG, liked my pictures and requested for a video call. At first, I was like na yahoo boy jare but I gave him benefit of doubt and we had the video call.. He introduced me to his sisters right away and I was just surprised like, so soon?
His sisters said Hi on the video call and they were super nice. Everything was just happening so fast for me, I barely knew him and I was already talking to his sisters so I ended the call and texted him..
I was like guy you moving too fast and he was like once you feel an attraction for someone, why wait?
So throughout that day we chatted, the following day too we spoke all day and then on the third day, he said HE LOVED ME!
I was like, slow down.. we just met and all but he was like yeah he knows it’s crazy but then that’s how he feels. We have been talking for a week now and this guy is perfect.. we are both in our 20’s.. he’s so sweet and matured.. there was a time I said he was just pretending but he was like No, he’s not a kid and he knows what he wants and he is willing to go for it so I said okay fine..
Now he says he’s coming to Nigeria to see me in December and spend a month with me.
To be sincere, I like him too but the question is this guys;
Is it possible to fall in love with someone barely three days after meeting them online and with one video call and exchange of photos..
I have just been here thinking it’s not real but what does he have to gain pretending? Not like he wants to scam me of money, he knows I am Nigerian and I don’t have money so what else can he possibly want?
He is so serious with me and I can’t believe it’s possible to fall in love just like that!!!

watch out monitor lizard everywhere on the land they are willing to teleport into ig page. I beg no let them pour sandsand for this your Shawna and pizza.
the spot light is on you now don't be over whelmed take calm, one step at a time your heart will guide and guard you right.
the yahoo boys and girls are around watch out.,

Yes it can take that little or no time,once u know what you want...

TheTourist:
What is your IG handle let us confirm

monitor lizard association of nairaland (mlan) I hail o.

Update us after his trip in December, if the excitement last till then you are in for something real. If not we’ll best of luck all the same.

Prompto:
Update us after his trip in December, if the excitement last till then you are in for something real. If not we’ll best of luck all the same.

Alright, thank you

Vivianuyom:
Lol hey guys
So I met an American guy based in California last week. He came across my profile on IG, liked my pictures and requested for a video call. At first, I was like na yahoo boy jare but I gave him benefit of doubt and we had the video call.. He introduced me to his sisters right away and I was just surprised like, so soon?
His sisters said Hi on the video call and they were super nice. Everything was just happening so fast for me, I barely knew him and I was already talking to his sisters so I ended the call and texted him..
I was like guy you moving too fast and he was like once you feel an attraction for someone, why wait?
So throughout that day we chatted, the following day too we spoke all day and then on the third day, he said HE LOVED ME!
I was like, slow down.. we just met and all but he was like yeah he knows it’s crazy but then that’s how he feels. We have been talking for a week now and this guy is perfect.. we are both in our 20’s.. he’s so sweet and matured.. there was a time I said he was just pretending but he was like No, he’s not a kid and he knows what he wants and he is willing to go for it so I said okay fine..
Now he says he’s coming to Nigeria to see me in December and spend a month with me.
To be sincere, I like him too but the question is this guys;
Is it possible to fall in love with someone barely three days after meeting them online and with one video call and exchange of photos..
I have just been here thinking it’s not real but what does he have to gain pretending? Not like he wants to scam me of money, he knows I am Nigerian and I don’t have money so what else can he possibly want?
He is so serious with me and I can’t believe it’s possible to fall in love just like that!!!

you really don't need anyone's opinion on matters of the heart ,either you win or lose but one thing is for sure you get more experience, life itself is a risk. but one thing I am sure about it's that mountain is gonna be levelled come December. something must kill a man

U are lucky if it was a Nigerian guy he will ask for nude keep the communication flowing

He knows what he want not beating around the bush.

better grab ur chance and get d hell out of dis kuntry

Vivianuyom:
Now he says he’s coming to Nigeria to see me in December and spend a month with me.

Behold the answer you need: time & distance will tell.

From now till December, if the tempo is sustained and the flame kindled, then know for sure that something serious is in the offing.

But of course, don't get excited yet. If on his arrival in Nigeria and the burning feelings is even rekindled, be assured that you've indeed landed yourself a "Big Fish", at least by some people standard.

For now, you can only keep your fingers crossed. Good luck!

Because na oyinbo boy bah .
If its a nigerian guy the insults would still be on fire

Too fast. He loves you after THREE days?

Is he Nigerian but just based in America? It’s likely just lust, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing but he’s moving way too fast in my opinion. Be careful

Inferiority complex. I bet my mothers pot of soup you would have dismissed him if he was a Nigerian living in Nigeria. Even if he loves you is that all that matters because he is white? I thought women took their own feelings seriously? I know how many times women have uttered that word, "he's nice but I feel nothing". I bet you'll feel something by force in just 3 days cos na whitey.

I have felt this before or something similar it's called infatuation, Well whatever it is I wish you and your guy the best.

wish u all d best sis..if ur instincts go with him,u are on a safe side.if not ,it is not yt late to back out

Make I book space first

hope he doesn't need kidney??

emelda86:
U are lucky if it was a Nigerian guy he will ask for nude keep the communication flowing

He knows what he want not beating around the bush.

na indians and arabs dey ask for nude pass