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Hello fellows am new here on nairaland. I have issues at hand. I met a guy who made it known to me that he had a good when I asked him, I was not bothered because I wasn't interested then. We became good friends , he helped me out in so many things.
Along the line he said he had feelings for me, by then I have started liking him .one thing led to the other we are already having sex even though he says he hardly see his gf due to issues they have which I hardly believe.
I don't want to be a side chick to anyone , wat do I do because I don't know how to kill my feelings for him since he still have a good and don't want to be hurt at the end.

You knew he had a gf and you started having sex with him?

Sidekicked, is you!

Rachael30:
Hello fellows am new here on nairaland. I have issues at hand. I met a guy who made it known to me that he had a good when I asked him, I was not bothered because I wasn't interested then. We became good friends , he helped me out in so many things.
Along the line he said he had feelings for me, by then I have started liking him .one thing led to the other we are already having sex even though he says he hardly see his gf due to issues they have which I hardly believe.
I don't want to be a side chick to anyone , wat do I do because I don't know how to kill my feelings for him since he still have a good and don't want to be hurt at the end.

The whole problem started with the "One thing led to the other we are already having sex"....
I mean, you can "start to like him" but when you already know that you don't want or like what he offered in the relationship between both of you but you already give him your body what do you expect
He probably feels you've accepted him and all he has to offer...
Some things should be sorted out with a man before you give him access to your body!!
Know what you want and stick to it, giving him your body makes you settle for less....

Rachael30:
Hello fellows am new here on nairaland. I have issues at hand. I met a guy who made it known to me that he had a good when I asked him, I was not bothered because I wasn't interested then. We became good friends , he helped me out in so many things.
Along the line he said he had feelings for me, by then I have started liking him .one thing led to the other we are already having sex even though he says he hardly see his gf due to issues they have which I hardly believe.
I don't want to be a side chick to anyone , wat do I do because I don't know how to kill my feelings for him since he still have a good and don't want to be hurt at the end.

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