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Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by OlawaleBammie: 9:14am On Jun 11, 2019
kennygee:
Thank you.

Don't mind the guy o. I still dey wait for am.
Ahahahaaha grin okeeeyy, now i understand, he's yet to propose ba?? dont worry as am sure he want to buy a beautiful ring for d proposal..
Btw, am stil sure he would have bn showing d padded ego na, even in ur relationship, men are like....
i dont care and wont move if u go for months, taaahh na wash, go for a two days and we becomes unsettled, na soo we go dey para like say its d end of d relationship
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by quivah(f): 10:18am On Jun 11, 2019
OlawaleBammie:
Ahahahaaha grin okeeeyy, now i understand, he's yet to propose ba?? dont worry as am sure he want to buy a beautiful ring for d proposal..
Btw, am stil sure he would have bn showing d padded ego na, even in ur relationship, men are like....
i dont care and wont move if u go for months, taaahh na wash, go for a two days and we becomes unsettled, na soo we go dey para like say its d end of d relationship
oga, what she's saying is that she's single and searching.

Don't be slow, it is irritating.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by OlawaleBammie: 10:49am On Jun 11, 2019
quivah:
oga, what she's saying is that she's single and searching.

Don't be slow, it is irritating.
Am sorry, i didn't knw, i didn't read inbetwn d lines joo, maybe its cus am busy with my cocoa grin
Kennygee u hav to forgiv me, i swear i didn't knw, i was just trying to flow along.

hey!! quivah , u re too harsh na, ahh grin small small for my head.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by Timbuktuo: 11:10am On Jun 11, 2019
JoannaSedley:
Exactly. That's what I keep repeating especially to ladies. If he stops giving you sex find it somewhere else. Life is too short damn it.
Spot on. IMO, sèx in a relationship is a duty. It is absolutely within your power to engage in it. If your partner isn't complying, just shake your head and hit up the backup. No time.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jun 11, 2019
OlawaleBammie:
Am sorry, i didn't knw, i didn't read inbetwn d lines joo, maybe its cus am busy with my cocoa grin
Kennygee u hav to forgiv me, i swear i didn't knw, i was just trying to flow along.

hey!! quivah , u re too harsh na, ahh grin small small for my head.
Single, yes, searching, no.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by zicoraads: 2:05pm On Jun 11, 2019
kennygee:
Single, yes, searching, no.

Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by OlawaleBammie: 2:15pm On Jun 11, 2019
kennygee:
Single, yes, searching, no.
Hmm. yanga don start, dont worry, either u re searching or not, dat is nt our concern, all i knw is we are goin to make advance.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by Nobody: 2:19pm On Jun 11, 2019
OlawaleBammie:
Hmm. yanga don start, dont worry, either u re searching or not, dat is nt our concern, all i knw is we are goin to make advance.
Me that is tired of searching. I no search again.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by OlawaleBammie: 2:26pm On Jun 11, 2019
kennygee:
Me that is tired of searching. I no search again.
hey!! i can see u smiling but i see much pains behind it, pls if u dont mind, can we go private, i mean off this open corridorhuh
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by qtx(m): 2:30pm On Jun 11, 2019
Fbblog9ja:
A man is in need of serious help after revealing that his wife has been denying him s*x as he now begs for it.
A Nigerian man has revealed the dilemma he has found himself in as his wife has refused to offer him his conjugal rights. While asking for help on what to do, the man revealed that he begs his wife just to sleep with her.
See the post below:-

http://www.fbblog9ja.com.ng/my-wife-denied-me-from-having-sx-since-i-lost-my-job-nigerian-man-cries/
Your wife denies you sex and the first place you feel you need an answer is social media.

I laff in swahili.

Wait marriage is a sacred and private union, the person you are reporting to here has no right to know.
First, have you had any close(heart to heart)) discussion on the matter with your wife? you guys need to talk.
Do not get angry over her denial of sex with you.
Be nice to her and provide what you are capable of providing.

Treat her well and smile even in the face of such denial.

She may be worried about carrying another pregnancy aside from the stress, inconveniences and the money involved in the childbirth project considering you do not have any job right now.
She may have a genuine reason. Maybe she wants family planning. Put all that into consideration.

Then wake her up in the middle of the night. Tell her on a very serious note, you want both of you to have a discussion.
Get her attention and get her talking. But before that ask her if there is anything you have done wrong to her that you do not know of which you may have forgotten that warrants her change in behavior of recent.

Explain to her why you both must talk about it because it is healthy for the marriage to discuss it and resolve it not necessarily that she must open her legs but that it must be on agreement and understanding if you guys are not to do it over a period of time.

Look if you ask me, you guys hadn't any deep discussion on it if you do, it would no longer be a matter for social media discussion.
You may learn more from here too>> https://courtshipandmarriage.com/
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jun 11, 2019
OlawaleBammie:
hey!! i can see u smiling but i see much pains behind it, pls if u dont mind, can we go private, i mean off this open corridorhuh
Yes we can.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by OlawaleBammie: 2:40pm On Jun 11, 2019
kennygee:
Yes we can.
grin to protect ur privacy i didn't want to ask for ur number, pls u can reach me on this, 08163197275 WhatsApp.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by quivah(f): 2:44pm On Jun 11, 2019
OlawaleBammie:
Hmm. yanga don start, dont worry, either u re searching or not, dat is nt our concern, all i knw is we are goin to make advance.
Cocoa lover.
Don't mind that she said she isn't searching, 'ready to mingle' is written all over her replies , na normal yanga she dey go.
carry go!

kennygee:
Single, yes, searching, no.
we don't care, just port una sef go private�
cheesy
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jun 11, 2019
quivah:
Cocoa lover.
Don't mind that she said she isn't searching, 'ready to mingle' is written all over her replies , na normal yanga she dey go.
carry go!


we don't care, just port una sef go private�
cheesy
You no fit understand.

As I dey like this, na how I go better my life comot for this jungle I dey reason. No be man and relationship natter.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by Nobody: 2:59pm On Jun 11, 2019
quivah:
Cocoa lover.
Don't mind that she said she isn't searching, 'ready to mingle' is written all over her replies , na normal yanga she dey go.
carry go!


we don't care, just port una sef go private�
cheesy
You no fit understand.

As I dey like this, na how I go better my life comot for this jungle I dey reason. No be man and relationship matter.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by Nobody: 2:59pm On Jun 11, 2019
OlawaleBammie:
grin to protect ur privacy i didn't want to ask for ur number, pls u can reach me on this, 08163197275 WhatsApp.
All you had to do was send a message.

Smh.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by OlawaleBammie: 3:08pm On Jun 11, 2019
quivah:
Cocoa lover.
Don't mind that she said she isn't searching, 'ready to mingle' is written all over her replies , na normal yanga she dey go.
carry go!


we don't care, just port una sef go private�
cheesy
Lol, bad shaid, dont mind her....
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by OlawaleBammie: 3:09pm On Jun 11, 2019
kennygee:
All you had to do was send a message.

Smh.
u dont need to shake head dear, dont mind me, i dont knw how nairaland PM works joo.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by bukatyne(f): 5:21pm On Jun 11, 2019
Timbuktuo:
He should go and satisfy himself with another woman. Why should he beg for sex from his wife? She should be ready to part thighs soon as he signifies intent. Anything less is grounds for seeking alternative satisfaction of his needs
Eziokwu!
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by bukatyne(f): 5:23pm On Jun 11, 2019
crackhaus:
Not forget sex with her, not cheat. Just stop begging.
I cannot even fathom the idea of it because it is counter-productive in the long run.

Once she gets accustomed to it, every sexual encounter will now feel like a favor, and she will only accede to his pleas when she feels very satisfied. This never ends well.

Too bad he is already at this point, otherwise, my advise to him as I usually tell my friends, is to NEVER let the love for punaní become so severe that it becomes a necessity instead of just an interest. I even had a similar convo with someone to this effect on Wednesday last week.
Self-control & self-mastery is very important when it comes to anything that is very sweet. cheesy
E dey sweet, e dey sweet, no mean say pesin go die if he no get am.

And from the full story, the man is not even a poor person. Just someone who fell on bad times and still financially takes care of his shít at home.
If it finally gets so bad that he can't help himself anymore after ignoring her for like a month and she still isn't responding to his moves, then I crackhaus am in support of getting the cookie from the available options open to him outside.

As long as he stops begging for it and just leaves her to continue believing she kept a stash of precious stones down there, everything will probably turn out okay either for him personally or for their union.
I agree with you except the adultery part.

And ideally, it is because something dey sweet that's why long abstinence in marriage is discouraged
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by bukatyne(f): 5:24pm On Jun 11, 2019
nkwuocha:
She is a wicked woman,giving a jobless husband good sexx keeps his spirit high and his relevance ignited.

She is not a wife but a woman.
True.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by bukatyne(f): 5:28pm On Jun 11, 2019
Timbuktuo:
Spot on. IMO, sèx in a relationship is a duty. It is absolutely within your power to engage in it. If your partner isn't complying, just shake your head and hit up the backup. No time.
@Bold,

I agree too.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by Timbuktuo: 7:40pm On Jun 11, 2019
bukatyne:
Eziokwu!
I know you endorse this message. grin
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by bukatyne(f): 7:42pm On Jun 11, 2019
Timbuktuo:
I know you endorse this message. grin
Your message has three parts.

I only endorse part 2.

Cheating? Nope, nope, nope
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by Timbuktuo: 7:52pm On Jun 11, 2019
bukatyne:
Your message has three parts.

I only endorse part 2.

Cheating? Nope, nope, nope
Is denying your partner of pleasure you can easily provide not cheating? That's emotional abuse.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by bukatyne(f): 8:08pm On Jun 11, 2019
Timbuktuo:
Is denying your partner of pleasure you can easily provide not cheating? That's emotional abuse.
Is it cheating?

Nope.

Emotional abuse? More like sexual abuse.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by Timbuktuo: 8:12pm On Jun 11, 2019
bukatyne:
Is it cheating?

Nope.

Emotional abuse? More like sexual abuse.
Okay, maybe not cheating, but definitely wickedness.

Isn't sexuàl abuse similar or related to sexuàl assault?

I think it's emotional abuse.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by crackhaus: 9:24pm On Jun 11, 2019
bukatyne:
I agree with you except the adultery part.

And ideally, it is because something dey sweet that's why long abstinence in marriage is discouraged
It all depends on her.

Have you ever seen where one seller is hoarding goods that other sellers are giving away at discounted rates? cheesy
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by bukatyne(f): 9:27pm On Jun 11, 2019
Timbuktuo:
Okay, maybe not cheating, but definitely wickedness.

Isn't sexuàl abuse similar or related to sexuàl assault?

I think it's emotional abuse.
Hahahahaha @wickedness.

Sexual abuse is either denial of sex or engaging someone in sexual acts they find demeaning/humiliating.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by bukatyne(f): 9:29pm On Jun 11, 2019
crackhaus:
It all depends on her.

Have you ever seen where one seller is hoarding goods that other sellers are giving away at discounted rates? cheesy
Abeg, i am eating joor.

If the hubby joins Lagos Sweet Boys association, he knacks for a fee so he brings money home and knacks his wife.

See balling on both ends.

Sense will not kee me.
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by crackhaus: 9:38pm On Jun 11, 2019
bukatyne:
Abeg, i am eating joor.

If the hubby joins Lagos Sweet Boys association, he knacks for a fee so he brings money home and knacks his wife.

See balling on both ends.

Sense will not kee me.
cheesy
Re: My Wife Denied Me From Having S*x Since I Lost My Job Nigerian Man Cries by armyofone(m): 9:55pm On Jun 11, 2019
The thing dey very sweet ?
crackhaus:
anything that is very sweet. cheesy
E dey sweet, e dey sweet, no mean say pesin go die if he no get am.
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