Ostrogoth:


The same awkaetiti that dishes feminist poo and stuff on this forum?!?! These girls no get joy ooo!!

See na, she even commented on the first page, spewing shït as usual .
Hungry girls chai which gods have we offended in this country.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Here to read lies o. Cos I can't imagine making demands on a first date! Unless you don't like the guy and wanna chase him off

My brothers.
I nor dey bother with Nigerian girls again. God Forbid!
My advice to men living in Nigeria - Dust your passport, look for visa free countries in Africa. Travel there and have a nice time with girls from other African countries. When you are sure of one, pick that one to be your wife in Nigeria. Let these Nigerian girls and their stinky, greedy attitude go into extinction.
No time for rubbish.

cocolacec:


What Nigerian men dont understand is that the Nigerian women suffer from some obstacles as a woman and suffers from female poverty most times in their lives.
The woman have limited possiblities in many spheres of life in the job sector,religious,political,marital etc.

Another reason is that the Demanding women are a reflection of what the men has turn women to become as a result of enticing women ,luxury with money over generations.People are a reflection of what the society.

In Europe women are supported with finances like social benefits,student loans etc.That is why they dont need men’s money.

u see..even in that Europe men are supported too..cos govt pay them..so it's not an excuse

kennygee:
Ladies. See the comments in this post. The one that really saddened me was the sweet girl who got dumped cause she was "demanding". Were her demands really a necessity or were they vain demands?

If you can afford to help out a woman you claim you love when she was in need, not out of vanity, is that a bad thing?

Maybe she was poor and couldn't afford those things she needed, if you could afford it and you've ascertained it is a necessity, is it too bad to help her out?

I pray she is able to hustle, get through this poor phase of her life by getting a decent job or business so she can stand on her own.

If you hustle your way through and become financially independent, they'll say you won't be submissive. If you ask them for money for needs, they'll say you're demanding.

If you dim your light so they can shine, they'll say you lack ambition. If you go to school, gather degrees paid for by yourself and your parents, they'll say you won't be submissive.

If you're a working career woman, they'll say you are not fulfilling your wifely duties, if you're a house wife, you're a liability.

The Nigerian woman is screwed either ways.

Make your own money ladies, work hard to achieve your dreams. Carve a path for your self and observe and look out for the one worth committing to.

In all these, stay off fornication and live the kind of life Christ wants you to live.

Shalom.

You made some really good points. I actually feel Nigerian ladies are unfairly vilified at every turn generally and on this forum especially. I have met some really desirable and decent women. However, being submissive and independent should not be mutually exclusive. You can be independent, success-driven and still be respectful to your man. A woman's greatest asset is her character.

A decent lady should know not to over-burden a man with incessant requests. Everything should be done moderately and in order. If a man truly loves you anyway, he'll do much more than what you expect or ask cos he knows your needs. Personally, I have spent over 250k on an ex for shopping. She deserved it cos she was there for me when the going was tough. However, the relationship wasn't meant to be but I have no regrets whatsoever over everything I did for her.

Mariangeles:
Look on the bright side bro...she made you step up your game.
Don't hate. Appreciate.

Cant Argue with you about. it was a motivation, tho a negative one. but all motivations are good. but i really liked this girl, as strong as i pretend to be, when she left me, it melted my heart & i might be ashamed to admit it, but i was in my bed crying for almost 3hrs . never dated anyone else since her, nd it's been 2yrs plus now. i became rude to ladies after that. it became all pleasure till m ready to settle down

Smartii:
Chiommy123, what outrageous demand have you ever made on a first date?

non swthrt I just eat the free food and go home

AwkaetitiBabe:
Here to read lies o. Cos I can't imagine making demands on a first date! Unless you don't like the guy and wanna chase him off

Are you not the same awkaetiti they are talking about on the comments section on the tenth page who asked someone to dassh her his benz to sell for startup? Are you the local babe with thick lips they are talking about?? If so I think I can understand you better!

Mariangeles:
Nice!

Cc: Crowley and Nwanneni

why that guy they fall our hand na. ok 1 in 50

imitateMe:

Fish brain..Alas

You don't seem like you have much upstairs to offer yourself dude!

zed7:
Not first date. Actually she agreed to date me and we dated for a while. Then the billing started, house rent, clothes, this and that and I had to flee. I really liked her and wanted to marry her. Funny enough she's a sweet girl with a great personality but i don't know what the whole demanding was about. It's been almost 10 years now. Whilst I have since gotten married, babe is still single. If she wasn't so demanding I believe she would have been my wife now. I hope she finds someone as she was a real sweet girl.

10 solid years
She should be in her mid 30's now!!
God help her.

crowley:

Cant Argue with you about. it was a motivation, tho a negative one. but all motivations are good. but i really liked this girl, as strong as i pretend to be, when she left me, it melted my heart & and i might be ashamed to admit it, but i was in my bed crying for almost 3hrs . never dated anyone else since her, nd it been 2yrs plus now. i became rude to ladies after that. it became all pleasure till m ready to settle down

nwanneni:
How did I entice her with money?
I wasn't even in the mood to talk o!na she come meet me dey engage conversations.

Maybe you were looking too fresh. Or wearing too much bling. And her "maga" detector began to notify her ... "Target in sight"!

Arijude:
Same here bro. I don't know how to love and i don't take any girl serious. Been thinking whether it's normal

Your situation is not unique bro, it could be shyness, fear of rejection, your looks or even, financial constraint and lets not forget your background; how you grew up in your family. But then you should ask yourself if you are really ready to love and be loved, if you are ready for all the storms involved in relationships. You could be the type who dates only one gal, you could be the sincere type, but would you find your type? I would suggest you work on yourself, improve your standard and them gals would come asking you out, then you make your pick or use them all however you want.

AwkaetitiBabe:
He's my grandfather. Any problem?

Be famsing Obasanjo there. You do look like him in many things except face!

DimkpaBini:
The girl chose ShopRite for our first date
That should have tipped me off.I pulled out all the stops trying to impress her, bought the biggest chicken there, ice cream etc.She was forming ajebo for me.She said she wasn't hungry but made sure she packed everything

She then told me she wanted to go shopping and I foolishly agreed....big mistake
The Mumu girl almost finished my one month salary at one go and had the frigging nerve to tell me that it was a good start.I didn't say anything but as soon as she left I blocked her.
Mehn this chick was desperate,she even went as far as contacting my siblings to complain that I was ignoring her
I learnt never to take a girl to ShopRite on a date.If we can't do it somewhere else.. forget it

hehehe! taking her to shoprite, is akin to giving an assassin who is after you, a gun to finish you. lol

Cocao:


What are you saying exactly?

Where did I mention that others do not do "it"? Whatever you mean by that?

Please read for optimal understanding.

very funny.
maybe you should be one to think before typing.
"You said the guys sud check themselves maybe is there fault the lady do such to them*
But after D's ur reply it seems you are one them........so I understand the frustration.

chiommy123:
non swthrt I just eat the free food and go home

Huh! What if one asked you to foot the bill?

Mariangeles:
You don't seem like you have much upstairs to offer yourself dude!

If you are sure of yourself why don't you remove that arsenal logo on ur dp and replace it with your real face so we can know what this girl who seems so perfect really looks like!!

Kenneth10110:
PS4 in 2013 hmmm

With love from uganda

nwanneni:
best response to the cheating girl.
I can't wait to be able to afford my dream 013 C63 AMG men
Make all the girls that left me regret it

Girl nd benz na gold diggers girl you wan dey carry abi? me na to get one halfcast baby dey my next agenda now. . i am nt really the marriage kind off guy. maybe if i see a decent girl, na to just carry her out of the country nd start life. if u stay Nigeria, all these our girl go give person stroke

argon500:
Todays date is 15th of June

Abi no be that date op dey talk about?

Na the fruit called "Date" him dey talk about

women are our big problem here on earth, see how det won kill guys because of there smelling pvssy.

Ostrogoth:


If you are sure of yourself why don't you remove that arsenal logo on ur dp and replace it with your real face so we can know what this girl who seems so perfect really looks like!!

What has my face got to do with my intellect ?
What business do you have with my face ? Face front bro

chieme123:


Maybe you were looking too fresh. Or wearing too much bling. And her "maga" detector began to notify her ... "Target in sight"!

lol I don't wear bling

engrelvis:
Most guys form big boys when toasting girls so y won't wont dey make demands? Besides main reason y boys toast girls these days is because of sex .girls know dat hence demands.lastly poverty is making our boys cing every girl as being "hungry". Any little demand makes dem feel dey r being exploited.even in Europe power of benjamins makes pussy easier to get.d only difference is over there d society is so structured n good girls dnt v to depend on men for survival.

Benjamins is actually US not Europe

Riele:
let me throw my mat here...

Who wants to take me on a date

the devil might be interested... Ask him

Ostrogoth:


Be famsing Obasanjo there. You do look like him in many things except face!

Be bold to show us your pix let's see who is more beautiful between you and a monkey

AngelicBeing:
Lol, I don't want to recant my own experiences here because lots of posters have done justice to the thread, as a rule of thumb, I am very good at smelling a leech from planet Jupiter, ordinary phone calls / whatsapp chat is enough for me not to schedule a date with hungry poverty stricken damsels, and if I ever get to the stage of fixing a date, it has to be my terms and conditions , l am strong willed and I don't allow the daughters of Eve in any part of the world to play poker with my head, I specialize in blocking and deleting them very fast and I also abandoned some of them at eateries / restaurant / pubs and bars and zoom off once I smell stupidity, I don't give a fvck, no time for nonsense with them, we have over 3 billion females in the world to choose from, so why get myself worked up by a leeche that has nothing to bring to the table except their garden of Eden, rubbish

Ma nig'ga

kennygee:
Ladies. See the comments in this post. The one that really saddened me was the sweet girl who got dumped cause she was "demanding". Were her demands really a necessity or were they vain demands?

If you can afford to help out a woman you claim you love when she was in need, not out of vanity, is that a bad thing?

Maybe she was poor and couldn't afford those things she needed, if you could afford it and you've ascertained it is a necessity, is it too bad to help her out?

I pray she is able to hustle, get through this poor phase of her life by getting a decent job or business so she can stand on her own.

If you hustle your way through and become financially independent, they'll say you won't be submissive. If you ask them for money for needs, they'll say you're demanding.

If you dim your light so they can shine, they'll say you lack ambition. If you go to school, gather degrees paid for by yourself and your parents, they'll say you won't be submissive.

If you're a working career woman, they'll say you are not fulfilling your wifely duties, if you're a house wife, you're a liability.

The Nigerian woman is screwed either ways.

Make your own money ladies, work hard to achieve your dreams. Carve a path for your self and observe and look out for the one worth committing to.

In all these, stay off fornication and live the kind of life Christ wants you to live.

Shalom.

you know, kenny, it's either you're dyslexic or your sentiment is too opaque to allow the ray of objectivity and rationality to sift through.

how is asking for an iPhone as a proviso for marriage, tantamount to 'genuine' demand. or you just feel like yelping without comprehending what the guy said.

Godoverevery:

very funny.
maybe you should be one to think before typing.
"You said the guys sud check themselves maybe is there fault the lady do such to them*
But after D's ur reply it seems you are one them........so I understand the frustration.

Noted Sir.

Cocao:

Noted Sir.