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What's the big deal in giving your woman money for Tfair, it shows dat u care....i see no reason y u should cry a river all bcus ur giving her chikili money.......I believe in caring nd sharing, I don't know about u reading meaning to rubbish.

MissRaine69:
If it’s paid for then that relegates me to the very realm I am exploring.
Let me direct your mindset to a certain woman that does exist you might never come across this type in your lifetime maybe in the next one if the fates choose to be kind to you. I want for nothing. I don’t demand or expect any monetary rewards or “gifts” for my sexual prowess. If and when gifts are given it’s because that person wants to not because I expect it or demand it.
Does that answer your question?

Same thing apply to girls collecting t-fare it is given to them they don't demand or expect, lol what girl would say otherwise?

whatever you tell yourself to make you feel righteous girl, *winks

cy4eve:
What's the big deal in giving your woman money for Tfair, it shows dat u care....i see no reason y u should cry a river all bcus ur giving her chikili money.......I believe in caring nd sharing, I don't know about u reading meaning to rubbish.

ABI o as if she opens her legs for free.

yawn. Captain obvious, I just said in my post the shoe fits. Some men will continue to pay for tfare for a girl to come over, some girls will always accept. It is not your lifestyle, so why question grown people on what they decide to do with their life?

P.S. This topic is already a dead horse on Nairaland.

MissRaine69:
If the shoe fits.....

you have slept with all the guys in your street and you still call your thing a private part!!!!!

#Godsaveus!!!!

QueenSekxy:
Go and die.
Yes, I said it.

Are you alright??
Even if you disagree with the Op, you can agree to disagree and move on. Simple as that.

PUSSYHOE:
ABI o as if she opens her legs for free.

even if she did not open her legs, I believe she deserves it, if you cn talk her to ya houz, b ready to pay d price.

2buffagain:
Obviously her sustenance depends on prostitution. OP is throwing stones at her industry.
More of her ilk will reveal themselves in this thread.

Lmao..... d thing pain am wella!!

Candiesramah:
That girl is fooling herself.

How this one come take be topic again?

See dem...

cy4eve:
even if she did not open her legs, I believe she deserves it, if you cn talk her to ya houz, b ready to pay d price.

So every lady have a price. Wow! Coded prostitutes in disguise.

MissRaine69:
Why should you give her money for transport? How is that different from paying for sex?

Girls are the first to demand for transport in most cases

Fountainofyouth:
With all you typed, you still didn't give a reasonable answer to the question, you coined your way around and arrived at feminism, you just couldn't hide your disdain and bile for feminists, the fact that it is eating you up deeply is really nice.

Upper cut and savage combined.
This is too much!

Fountainofyouth:
Since you know she's an olosho cos she asked for tp fare or whatever, what does that make you for sleeping with her? A BROLOSHO, yes?

its either you don't know how to read or you lack understanding before you rush to conclusion maybe you should go through again and understand my point before bringing your dirty wears to the public mind you she's a girl I consider starting a relationship with and not a sex affair else what's my biz with the attitude birds of same feathers

Deepfeel:
Girls are the first to demand for transport in most cases

And if you guys say NO for a change, will you die?

MissRaine69:
Why should you give her money for transport? How is that different from paying for sex?

Must we have sex, if I decide to visit?

Can't I just pay my tfare my self, visit have fun time, he takes me to the movies, we watch a lovely film, we drink, eat, talk. And he foots the bill because he wants to be a gentleman here , he needs a woman to talk to and share ideas and time with but will not end up requesting I open my legs for sex at the end of the day.

My dear such guys exist

Everything should not end with sex.

And any lady visiting a male friend or stranger shouldn't be coerced to have sex for free. Haba !
If you know as a guy, all you want is sex! Biko order Uber to go pick her up and drop her back home. It's that simple, only if she agrees.

Come oh...I give even guys money for tfare

What's the big deal there nah?

It's just saying thanks for coming... Except if the guy went to her place and still give her money for an immoral action.

In short E get as you go take go person place guy or chick, the person complain fit make you drop some change, no be say anything happen.

Fountainofyouth:
And if you guys say NO for a change, will you die?

Met a lady on Facebook from Lagos, we got chatting WhatsApping phone calling, the sexual attraction was there asked her to invite me over she said she lives with her parents, I said ok why not come over to Enugu she said on my own expense I said no she should pay for her transport she said it's my responsibility to pay for her transport cause am a man she's a woman

Candiesramah:
That girl is fooling herself.

How this one come take be topic again?

Paid sex is a hot topic.
If I give a babe money after nacking her kpekus, in my mind she is nothing but an olosho and may probably never hear from me again.
The payment is to assuage my conscience, and also to protect me from their evil curses. If I paid you, your curses no go work and my life goes on...

classicdessy:
its either you don't know how to read or you lack understanding before you rush to conclusion maybe you should go through again and understand my point before bringing your dirty wears to the public mind you she's a girl I consider starting a relationship with and not a sex affair else what's my biz with the attitude birds of same feathers

This your comment is just lalalalalalalalalalalala no full stop, no comma, you no go school? That said, this was your previous comment below;

classicdessy:
I assume all of them as olosho a girl am meeting for the first time asking me money to make her hair and insisting I gave her the money and na me go meet her o mean while its barely three days we started talking over the phone I fear girls of our generation

You said you assume all ladies are olosho and my previous comment was typed based on your word, now, if you assume they all are olosho and you want to give her money for hair and probably t-fare, of which as time goes on, you will diick her, what does that make you? A BROLOSHO, hope you get it now.

Modified: you actually want to make her your girlfriend after meeting three days ago and whining about hair money, and calling her part of the oloshos, hypocritical whining lily liver sissies abound here in abundance, they make mouth online and do the exact opposite in real life, Dundee heads them.

Deepfeel:
Met a lady on Facebook from Lagos, we got chatting WhatsApping phone calling, the sexual attraction was there asked her to invite me over she said she lives with her parents, I said ok why not come over to Enugu she said on my own expense I said no she should pay for her transport she said it's my responsibility to pay for her transport cause am a man she's a woman

And she said that, did you say NO you won't pay?

MissRaine69:
Why should you give her money for transport? How is that different from paying for sex?

The appropriate question should be ;
*why will she demand money for transport? Is she a prostitute?

Adeinfo:
So every lady have a price. Wow! Coded prostitutes in disguise.

you can channel dat to ur sisters. Ewu hausa

zomoears:
Paid sex is a hot topic.
If I give a babe money after nacking her kpekus, in my mind she is nothing but an olosho and may probably never hear from me again.
The payment is to assuage my conscience, and also to protect me from their evil curses. If I paid you, your curses no go work and my life goes on...

Even if she gives u for free.

She still won't hear from you again after three or four sessions. So what's the big deal in paying her tfare? Or booking a flight for her if she's traveling out of her state to meet with u?

I don't see any issues in it. If all you want is sex that same day of meeting up with her.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
The appropriate question should be ;
*why will she demand money for transport? Is she a prostitute?

And why will u demand or coerce her for sex on hookup?

Ain't both of you the same?

victorian:
Even if she gives u for free.

She still won't hear from you again after three or four sessions. So what's the big deal in paying her tfare? Or booking a flight for her if she's traveling interstate.

I don't see any issues in it[b]. If all you want is sex that same day of meeting up with her.[/b]

A nice good relationship gets my respect and recommendations and more reward according to the strength of my pocket.

A nack is a nack.

The attitude of the lady involved determines where she belongs.

@ bolded, I don't push for sex on 1st date/meeting.

Fountainofyouth:
And she said that, did you say NO you won't pay?

I said to her if u can't pay for ur transport then u are not serious

She started telling me she's broke cause her boss haven't paid them for too months

Deepfeel:
I said to her if u can't pay for ur transport then u are not serious

She started telling me she's broke cause her boss haven't paid them for too months

I don't know why you enjoy lying.

QueenSekxy:
I don't know why you enjoy lying.

Lol why should I lie, I could have shown u screenshots if this wasn't a public forum

Deepfeel:
I said to her if u can't pay for ur transport then u are not serious

She started telling me she's broke cause her boss haven't paid them for too months

In this case, you have two options

1) You don't give her because you simply do not want to give her or,
2) You give her out of Compassion because she is broke

This shouldn't be an issue, you obviously wasn't eager to see her, if you were, giving her the tfare wouldn't have been an issue to you, but then, it is also your choice, simple as that.

Fountainofyouth:
In this case, you have two options

1) You don't give her because you simply do not want to give her or,
2) You give her out of Compassion because she is broke

This shouldn't be an issue, you obviously wasn't eager to see her, if you were, giving her the tfare wouldn't have been an issue to you, but then, it is also your choice, simple as that.

So the question the op asked is already answered by you

zomoears:
A nice good relationship gets my respect and recommendations and more reward according to the strength of my pocket.

A nack is a nack.

The attitude of the lady involved determines where she belongs.

@ bolded, I don't push for sex on 1st date/meeting.

Good u don't push for sex on 1st date.

Cos there are girls who would want sex on 2nd, 3rd! And 4th dates.
All they want is affection, care and pamper. The dick should be placed aside. That's some girls not all.
With such girls, they won't ask for tfare, they will come to you with their own mind but pestering or placing undue pressure on them to come visit.
That's how I see it anyways.

victorian:
And why will u demand or coerce her for sex on hookup?

Ain't both of you the same?

Please Haunty we ain't talking about me here. You can use the word *he*.. *He* could be any a guy out there.
Very much unethical of you to start questioning a question. Answer the question then ask your own question. If you're incapable/unwilling to answer my question, you can as well tell me. Simple. If not, your evasion technique won't work on me.