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OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Please Haunty we ain't talking about me here. You can use the word *he*.. *He* could be any a guy out there.
Very much unethical of you to start questioning a question. Answer the question then ask your own question. If you're incapable/unwilling to answer my question, you can as well tell me. Simple. If not, your evasion technique won't work on me.

Fountainofyouth:
This your comment is just lalalalalalalalalalalala no full stop, no comma, you no go school? That said, this was your previous comment below;




You said you assume all ladies are olosho and my previous comment was typed based on your word, now, if you assume they all are olosho and you want to give her money for hair and probably t-fare, of which as time goes on, you will diick her, what does that make you? A BROLOSHO, hope you get it now.

Modified: you actually want to make her your girlfriend after meeting three days ago and whining about hair money, and calling her part of the oloshos, hypocritical whining lily liver sissies abound here in abundance, they make mouth online and do the exact opposite in real life, Dundee heads them.

ImaIma1:
It's the guys that encourage it. When they want her to come and scratch their itch and she says she doesn't have tfare, they give her. Now it has become her right

If she doesn't have money, she should sit down at home till she has.

victorian:
Must we have sex, if I decide to visit?

Can't I just pay my tfare my self, visit have fun time, he takes me to the movies, we watch a lovely film, we drink, eat, talk. And he foots the bill because he wants to be a gentleman here , he needs a woman to talk to and share ideas and time with but will not end up requesting I open my legs for sex at the end of the day.

My dear such guys exist

Everything should not end with sex.

And any lady visiting a male friend or stranger shouldn't be coerced to have sex for free. Haba !
If you know as a guy, all you want is sex! Biko order Uber to go pick her up and drop her back home. It's that simple, only if she agrees.

cy4eve:
What's the big deal in giving your woman money for Tfair, it shows dat u care....i see no reason y u should cry a river all bcus ur giving her chikili money.......I believe in caring nd sharing.

QueenSekxy:
I don't know why you enjoy lying.

victorian:
Oh I thought u are a guy.

It was meant for a guy to answer not you.

Apologies.


And to the question, I would want to ask you, do any woman who ask for money a prostitute? Cos u invariably said why should she ask for money? Is she a prostitute?

So please answer your question? Is she?

BossDante:
Lol. You will learn the hard way to despise the free lunch

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Of course, I'm a guy.
You're still answering a question with a question.
I guess we've to agree to disagree. Good day!!!

Deepfeel:
So the question the op asked is already answered by you

classicdessy:
truly you have a problem reading and understanding with your masters degree now what am saying is! I like the girl and wish to start a relationship with her though we are yet to meet but talk over the phone, now when I got to meet her at the point she decided we meet to know each other on casual basis. I was amazed by the fact that she ask me to give her money to make her hair just like that as though I walk along with bag of money, not like she ask of it before meeting her. First impression they say matters alot. Now if you don't still understand my sister your brain need factory reset Na them

Fountainofyouth:
Obviously.....

victorian:
Oh! I don't have your time today.

Good day!

victorian:
Before I trust a guy to go visit, without him expecting I should open my legs for him in return, I would have drilled him for days about his personality and made him understand that guy! I'm not coming for sex. If not lemme stay my house jeje.
I have a friend like that. He's a guy. He has a gf.. And I have a guy I'm dating.
He invited me the first time, I told him my reservations about guys and rape stories and guys expecting sex. He made me understand he's different.
All he wants is to enjoy my company around him, cook and be comfortable that's all. His babe resides out of Lagos , my man travels to and fro, Nigeria to China, sometimes to US, then comes back.
So basically both of us are committed to our own individual relationships.

So the third invite, I went to his place and he's such a charming good guy. I like him, I was impressed. That's my experience recently anyways. Not every meeting MUST end with sex!

MissRaine69:
I will address that later, however if you have a few minutes to spare to rustle up a post you have my full permission. Looking forward to commenting on it.

nuelyoyo:
I hope the man you are dating is not on nairaland to see this post of yours. Post like this on social media can set a relationship on fire. You went to visit another man, what if he makes you feel comfortable about your coming and ends up raping you. People will then blame you for visiting him.

victorian:
Before I trust a guy to go visit, without him expecting I should open my legs for him in return, I would have drilled him for days about his personality and made him understand that guy! I'm not coming for sex. If not lemme stay my house jeje.
I have a friend like that. He's a guy. He has a gf.. And I have a guy I'm dating.
He invited me the first time, I told him my reservations about guys and rape stories and guys expecting sex. He made me understand he's different.
All he wants is to enjoy my company around him, cook and be comfortable that's all. His babe resides out of Lagos , my man travels to and fro, Nigeria to China, sometimes to US, then comes back.
So basically both of us are committed to our own individual relationships.

So the third invite, I went to his place and he's such a charming good guy. I like him, I was impressed. That's my experience recently anyways. Not every meeting MUST end with sex!

Deepfeel:
Met a lady on Facebook from Lagos, we got chatting WhatsApping phone calling, the sexual attraction was there asked her to invite me over she said she lives with her parents, I said ok why not come over to Enugu she said on my own expense I said no she should pay for her transport she said it's my responsibility to pay for her transport cause am a man she's a woman

BossDante:
Lol. I won't want to knock another brothers game, so I'll only say I wish you well if you are sincere, with yourself you know he likes you and wanna fuvckk you, but like most females, you prefer to act naive and ignorant to deceive yourself that you never wanted it when it eventually happens or to keep enjoying the 'free' (not free) goodies. . If he wanted company and likes to spend, what happened to him inviting fellow guy.
You ladies really do make me laugh, you just come around and drop some shii like we don't have sense >:

victorian:
Before I trust a guy to go visit, without him expecting I should open my legs for him in return, I would have drilled him for days about his personality and made him understand that guy! I'm not coming for sex. If not lemme stay my house jeje.
I have a friend like that. He's a guy. He has a gf.. And I have a guy I'm dating.
He invited me the first time, I told him my reservations about guys and rape stories and guys expecting sex. He made me understand he's different.
All he wants is to enjoy my company around him, cook and be comfortable that's all. His babe resides out of Lagos , my man travels to and fro, Nigeria to China, sometimes to US, then comes back.
So basically both of us are committed to our own individual relationships.

So the third invite, I went to his place and he's such a charming good guy. I like him, I was impressed. That's my experience recently anyways. Not every meeting MUST end with sex!

TANID:
I Agree With You

But I Don't Really See Anything Wrong In Tfare

victorian:
Well?
I dont know why he didn't invite a fellow guy, you can ask him if u want.
I don't know if u have sense or not
But one thing I know he's a good guy and he doesn't think with his dick! And he loves the company of a lady around him once in a while.

Not every visit ends with sex! Take it or leave it!

BossDante:
Do your man and his girl know you both keep yourselves company or rather you both enjoy each other company when they are about their business? .. the answer to this question point already to the fact that you both already have a non oral agreement as to where this company frolicking and nice guying attributes is heading to .. I hope it's worth it at the end of the day

BossDante:
Sure not every visits ends with sex, even when in a sexual relationship .. you don't need to take it personally, but if you like you can, insults no dey gum body lol.. Maybe I don't have sense though.. good luck, I know your type, always arguing against common sense

ImaIma1:
If a lady is going to see her man, she should be able to transport herself there. And he could assist if she is low on cash. But it shouldn't be like it's written in the constitution that he must fund her tfare.

iRepNaija1:
No, thanks. Unlike you, I don't need to post about everything that bothers me. You have my permission not to respond.

yeyeosoronga:
You can still go and visit her in Enugu. Get a place to stay there for a couple of days/ weekend either at a friend's or a hotel and you guys can hook up in the park or some fun places in Enugu. If she can't afford to come to see you, then go see her. She mustn't spend the night with you. If you both are so pressed for sex, lodge in a hotel and she'll visit you there and go back home to sleep.

iRepNaija1:
No, thanks. Unlike you, I don't need to post about everything that bothers me. You have my permission not to respond.

cy4eve:
you can channel dat to ur sisters. Ewu Gauss

Adeinfo:
Your entire family members are all slaves. Brothel inhabitants. Shame on you

MissRaine69:
Why should you give her money for transport? How is that different from paying for sex?