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| Staying Single by Nobody: 2:04am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Ok now, this is not to advocate for anything but to talk about myself. I am an atheist,so this has nothing to do with any holy-holy stuff... Some years ago I came out of a relationship that lasted months,and I decided to stay single for a decade. Yes,ten years! Why? I needed time for myself,the dating game is like someone intruding into my life! As an introvert,I value my space and time,can't put up with receiving daily calls, messages etc I have been single most of my life (dated just once for some months),so I can go on like that.... Also I need to focus on some big projects,and achieve alot.... Singlehood is so much fun, I get to watch animes,play games, watch cartoons, I love to club as well,and I play God of War. I have an amazing ,fun filled life.... Am in my twenties and so far I have MANY more years remaining to complete the ten years goal before I get to the dating game. Just wanna know why people hop from one relationship to another. Why is a taboo to be single for just a year? Met amazing suitors and toasters but I just wanna be alone....for now. I know am doing fine! If you are reading this and you are out of a relationship,can you stay single for a year? A year of loving and pampering yourself! A year of focusing on your goals and building your career. A year of exploring nature.... don't worry, the boys/girls will not get exhausted! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Staying Single by obowunmi(m): 2:33am On Jun 17, 2019 |
If you are a woman sha, the biological clock is ticking. |
| Re: Staying Single by selfwife(f): 4:28am On Jun 17, 2019 |
obowunmi:Is life about children only? what happened to devoting my time to myself? should she now go down with a man for the sole purpose of child birthing? not everyone can make the sacrifices of motherhood therefore, it isn't for everyone. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Staying Single by Tajbol4splend(m): 4:50am On Jun 17, 2019 |
selfwife:If your moma had reasoned this way, you wouldn't have lived, try have a progeny, nobody is forcing you to marry, even the oyinbos whose thinking is controlling your thinking have progeny, don't be stupid to say it is choice to not have progeny, it is a very bad choice, excess wisdom is stupidity, be wise but don't be too wise, my penny. 4 Likes |
| Re: Staying Single by obowunmi(m): 5:08am On Jun 17, 2019 |
selfwife:Shut up. You know having kids are important. 1 Like |
| Re: Staying Single by dingbang(m): 6:31am On Jun 17, 2019 |
No go dey do pass yourself. You only live once and I can see that you are stupidly punishing yourself. Go out there, have fun, meet people, fall in love, do mad things, enjoy life. 5 Likes |
| Re: Staying Single by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:37am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Tajbol4splend:@bold,The thing is none of us asked to be born And yes whatever you choose to do with your life relationships,marriage, pregnancy and what have you it is a choice not a must. 4 Likes |
| Re: Staying Single by Nasri100(m): 8:58am On Jun 17, 2019 |
dingbang:Op dont follow this misleading advice. It’s all good till you do mad things and get aids. You are not punishing yourself. It’s only a problem when you think it’s a problem. You are even lucky that you can enjoy your own company, some people can’t then get into trouble looking for company that culminates to heartbreaks and sniper fanfare. Do what you love doing. Yolo. |
| Re: Staying Single by Regiomontanus(m): 2:57pm On Jun 18, 2019 |
Live life the way you want, define yourself and enjoy the ride. Life is short, long, insignificant in contrast with the universe and precious enough to toll for it's betterment, comfort and enjoyment. Michellekabod2, carry go.  |
| Re: Staying Single by Regiomontanus(m): 2:57pm On Jun 18, 2019 |
Live life the way you want, define yourself and enjoy the ride. Life is short, long, insignificant in contrast with the universe yet precious enough that it is worthy of our toil for it's betterment, comfort and enjoyment. Michellekabod2, carry go. |
| Re: Staying Single by ThothHermes: 3:07pm On Jun 18, 2019 |
Frustration. You are struggling with your "decision". That's why you need to open a thread. Seeking validation upandan. 2 Likes |
| Re: Staying Single by SkinnyNigga: 3:09pm On Jun 18, 2019 |
till konji comes |
| Re: Staying Single by Magnoliaa(f): 7:52pm On Jun 18, 2019 |
All you've described (not every single thing, lol) is totally me! But I relate with most of it. I'm single too, always been and loving it. Not because there aren't people around to date... life is huge. You can hardly finish doing stuffs—so many other things to experience and engage in. And a lot of relationships these days are pointless. Just an avenue for ache, pain, betrayal, misconceptions about the genders and life etc... What's the need for it? Michellekabod2: 1 Like |
| Re: Staying Single by Magnoliaa(f): 7:57pm On Jun 18, 2019 |
dingbang:She stated in her post that she's doing all of that. How is it a 'punishment' when one chooses not to go into a relationship? |
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