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AwkaetitiBabe:
What's ur main account

Regiomontanus:
I am worth 2.0478 billion naira. Come and hypergamy my life. Drain all my money while I... you know.

AwkaetitiBabe:
I don't need your money

Regiomontanus:
The only reason women would admit to their secret is if it's already in the open and they cannot hide. Even then they admit with justifications and rationalisations as much as possible. For example, unlike before, many men are realising that women are heartless gold diggers and many women are now coming out and admitting this with many rationalisation and defense mechanism eg. "so what? I am a gold digger. I like money, who doesn't?", "is it a crime to like a rich man?" etc.

Regiomontanus:
The only reason women would admit to their secret is if it's already in the open and they cannot hide. Even then they admit with justifications and rationalisations as much as possible. For example, unlike before, many men are realising that women are heartless gold diggers and many women are now coming out and admitting this with many rationalisation and defense mechanism eg. "so what? I am a gold digger. I like money, who doesn't?", "is it a crime to like a rich man?" etc.

derrydinny:
and which law states that it I only the man that should make the conversation lively?


but the man f up true true, wtf is what does gloria likes to do?

SageMK:
From being a gentleman to a cad. That escalated fast.

But the lady was actually rude. WTF
There are 999 ways to politely shut him off.

Her rushing to twitter to post their chats answers the question “what Gloria likes to do” — likes being a bítch.

pocohantas:
If one has a job he/she is proud of, why will that question be a problem?

Go for organizations dinner parties, you see people introducing themselves and asking these questions. No one gets angry, maybe because it is a gathering of professionals or because they are seeing physically.

Him: What do you do?

She: I am a doctor, a baker, a cook, an olosho...

Throw the question back at him. What do you do too? If they are in similar sectors, fine. Another topic done commot o!

If for confidential reasons she isn't ready to disclose that, she can politely decline.

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, have the lady on the defense from the go; then swoop in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which.."

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignore the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.

MariaLavina:
I have a feeling the lady is a nairalander

AntiBrutus:
Na you na

pocohantas:
The guy is a civil guy.

He started with salutations. GOOD!!

She gave that "fyn nd u"

For me, (fyn nd u)= abort mission. I can't be typing in full and you reply me with that nonsense. Not at this point in my life.

Anyway, he didn't stop. He proceeded to introduce himself. EXCELLENT!!!

Now, he didn't need to ask/beg for her name. Her response to his introduction should be her own name and some nitro!!! NOT THAT DUMB "OKAY".

Okay what? Okay the name is fine?
Okay, continue talking while I reply in 4 letter words?

She says he is interviewing her. It is an interview because she was not giving him cue. When someone starts a conversation, you reply and add something to keep it going.

Don't say, "Gloria" then shut up.
Don't say "Okay", that's dismissive.

Finally, she says "MUMU...COMMON MEANINGFUL CHAT WITH A GIRL, YOU CANT DO".

She just had to finish work with that entitlement mentality of sit back and allow a young man stress himself to keep you talking.

Chick is actually an ODE, the guy is right on that one. Bye

pansophist:
Got it. I don vex

I'm a content writer, I write on fiverr, and other writing platforms like quora, so writing a book actually takes me nothing, just laziness as you said lol, to sit down and write books going into at least 100 pages, mehn. Na who get time for that one na ? But all what I wrote here on nairaland today already surpassed two pages, if I write even a page everyday, I'll reach 150 pages before the year runs out.

I'll make it a goal to write one book before the year runs out, and if I do, I'll PM and send you a copy.

Challenge accepted

pocohantas:
The guy is a civil guy.

He started with salutations. GOOD!!

She gave that "fyn nd u"

For me, (fyn nd u)= abort mission. I can't be typing in full and you reply me with that nonsense. Not at this point in my life.

Anyway, he didn't stop. He proceeded to introduce himself. EXCELLENT!!!

Now, he didn't need to ask/beg for her name. Her response to his introduction should be her own name and some nitro!!! NOT THAT DUMB "OKAY".

Okay what? Okay the name is fine?
Okay, continue talking while I reply in 4 letter words?

She says he is interviewing her. It is an interview because she was not giving him cue. When someone starts a conversation, you reply and add something to keep it going.

Don't say, "Gloria" then shut up.
Don't say "Okay", that's dismissive.

Finally, she says "MUMU...COMMON MEANINGFUL CHAT WITH A GIRL, YOU CANT DO".

She just had to finish work with that entitlement mentality of sit back and allow a young man stress himself to keep you talking.

Chick is actually an ODE, the guy is right on that one. Bye

pocohantas:
If one has a job he/she is proud of, why will that question be a problem?

Go for organizations dinner parties, you see people introducing themselves and asking these questions. No one gets angry, maybe because it is a gathering of professionals or because they are seeing physically.

Him: What do you do?

She: I am a doctor, a baker, a cook, an olosho...

Throw the question back at him. What do you do too? If they are in similar sectors, fine. Another topic done commot o!

If for confidential reasons she isn't ready to disclose that, she can politely decline.

lefulefu:
i refuse to believe a full grown man will sit on a chair hours upon hours sendin chats to a random stange girl on instagram.girl wey i no know...just cos i saw one fake edited pix.some guys dey try abeg.

pansophist:
The number one cardinal rule in human relationship dynamics is that the Male should not impress the female directly by chatting, spending, wooing etc, but impressing her indirectly with the lifestyle he has built for himself.

From time immemorial, where ladies compete for village warriors, bountiful farmers, royal homes, princes, etc, or in the wildlife where the male gore themselves, birds dance, or the fishes builds a spotless sea bed homes to attract and secure the right to mate with the female, the modern man has gotten it completely wrong in the timeless, ever relevant ritual needed to attract the females without necessarily compromising his self-esteem, and be at the mercy of her consideration.

Movies, pick up artist, and relationship coach scammers have successfully deceived men to believe indulging in words and toasting skills will do the job. Sorry to be the usher of bad news, it doesn't, unless she has already pre-selected and finds you valuable, then it seems like your toasting skills did the job, but in reality, it was a mere confirmation to being chosen in the first place.

Anytime a man approaches a woman, she automatically in high precision, filter out who is the prize. If its you, or her. If it's her (like the topic at hand implies), you will be the object of her scorn, the interaction will be devoid of interest, honour, and you'll find yourself always pushing to squeeze out words from her which if she did, will be one words constructed with shorthand. You'll feel the pressure the keep up the conversations, and find yourself compromising to retain her interest.

Now let's flip the table round. If she realized the man is the prize, even if you write just a word, it is enough for her to reply you with a letter, retain your attention, and the conversation going smoothly. Now let's swap the guy with Davido. Do you honestly think that a guy in the caliber of Davido will be treated like she did to the guy? She even went ahead to share the conversations, to reassure herself and her followers that she is the prize, and she have endless stream of thirsty male orbiting around her, its female narcissism at its finest.

The moral of the whole write up is that men should work on themself wholly (financially, physically, intellectually, professionally etc), then you will grow higher in the sexual marketplace rank, and you will enjoy an endless stream of women who shall find you attractive, and you'll take your pick from there. Channel your energy rightly, not to woo her, but to build a admirable life for yourself, so that women who are on the lookout for viable males will find you a catch.

Pansophist

pansophist:
Guys will never listen. Temporary gratification is more important than putting in the work and rise in the sexual market place. Another observable way of reasoning in most guys is that they do not understand the dynamic of smv (sexual market value).

Women are first to reach the peak of their smv naturally, she doesn't have to do anything and her breast, ass, waist and protrude, her body becomes voluptuous, portrays definition and she appear attractive to the males who endlessly woe her, until she declines usually at age 35 for most. For men, its different. Men smv generally begins to grow from his late 20's, and peak at his early 40's. During this time, he should have built an admirable life for himself, with his finances and social class all top notch. At this age, men generally enjoy the level of attraction female enjoys in their 20's.

The difference between men and women smv is that for women, it comes naturally. For men, it has to be worked for. So a man can be in his 30's and women will ignore him if he didn't build a good life for himself.

Goalnaldo:
I have seen some intelligent fellas in this platform. Nwaamaikpe, sagemk and now you!!!

Goalnaldo:
you will do that if the girl get big waist. Nor be lefulefu again?

Goalnaldo:
you will do that if the girl get big waist. Nor be lefulefu again?

pansophist:
People wey get sense for this forum plenty na, them no de find them. you also forgot to mention lordKO, capslocked, franchasng, to name a few.

I have a deep founded respect for the aforementioned. I come across their post momentarily and admire their write up.

lefulefu:
waist wey she go probably edit like d way wey mercy aigbe edit her waist wey come affect the pillar wey she pose near for pix.na real girls with real waist i dey run after not instagram girls with fake padded china waist oo.

pocohantas:
If one has a job he/she is proud of, why will that question be a problem?

Go for organizations dinner parties, you see people introducing themselves and asking these questions. No one gets angry, maybe because it is a gathering of professionals or because they are seeing physically.

Him: What do you do?

She: I am a doctor, a baker, a cook, an olosho...

Throw the question back at him. What do you do too? If they are in similar sectors, fine. Another topic done commot o!

If for confidential reasons she isn't ready to disclose that, she can politely decline.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Men of these days are fond of the "What do you do" question, immediately you guys start chatting.
Quite annoying

pocohantas:
If one has a job he/she is proud of, why will that question be a problem?

Go for organizations dinner parties, you see people introducing themselves and asking these questions. No one gets angry, maybe because it is a gathering of professionals or because they are seeing physically.

Him: What do you do?

She: I am a doctor, a baker, a cook, an olosho...

Throw the question back at him. What do you do too? If they are in similar sectors, fine. Another topic done commot o!

If for confidential reasons she isn't ready to disclose that, she can politely decline.

JimiCoker2:
Yes it can be rather annoying when one is jobless/underemployed or still in school when your mates are working and someone asks that question, because it puts you in a situation where you have to divulge something you're ashamed/shy about. Of course ladies/men that are reasonably employed would see no big deal in such a question.

JimiCoker2:
it's a pity that it now comes as a shock to see a lady that has common sense. We should be able to take it for granted, you're not supposed to be rare. Sad.....

Regiomontanus:
Why should LesbianBoy care about your so called "blocklist"? Who the hell are you? Who the hell do you think you are?

Bloooody:
OR
Ask for her account number and watch as her laps open like freshly made eba

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, have the lady on the defense from the go; then swoop in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which.."

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignore the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.