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Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
1. Only a Nigerian with Italian spouse can tell you something realistic. 2. Love is for risk takers. 3. Marrying your blood sister doesn't guarantee conjugal happiness There is fun in adventure- Risk has its own beauty- Follow that small voice in your head. 4 Likes |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by dingbang(m): 12:22am On Jun 17, 2019 |
A good lady. Marry her. |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by cr7lomo: 12:50am On Jun 17, 2019 |
tolani91: U still de think am?? It's certain that village people are calling for ur head and that Yoruba girl is their Ring leader 1 Like |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by cr7lomo: 12:57am On Jun 17, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: GrabHisBalls: babyfaceafrica: AwkaetitiBabe: ibkayee: Fountainofyouth: blissgregory: Na dem 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Nobody: 1:27am On Jun 17, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:naso. Working class babes here still dey collect from men 4 Likes |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by ibkayee(f): 4:22am On Jun 17, 2019 |
cr7lomo: |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Holamic: 5:26am On Jun 17, 2019 |
It beem amazing reading all this crab, do you mean nigerian girl can't do better than her. If your believe is to come back home to marry do it right. Come to naija do as if you re poor i swear it has work for many i knw in one way or anoda. It easy to control when you re from d same language rather than stock up with fancy of life in italian 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by femi4: 5:43am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:But that's true. Even ordinary S.Africa here, she came visiting and I tried to give her t.fare. She was like what for ..... 1 Like |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by partnerbizz5(f): 6:52am On Jun 17, 2019 |
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Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by cvibe2: 6:52am On Jun 17, 2019 |
tolani91: Tolani, you must be crazy if you are thinking of dropping Gold to come and pick up stones. Who says you cannot bring your Italian to Nigeria and let her learn the Yoruba things you are missing in her? Your Italian is already wired to support her man ..I pity you if you turn her down ..Sorry is your case. Your Italian will show you true love...the other one you are contemplating will show you pretend love...Now, decide what you want...true love with support or pretend love with demands? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by DavidEsq(m): 7:15am On Jun 17, 2019 |
ifex370:Hahahahah hahaha. Dis na early morning. Abeg make I no begin sound like crase for here. I dey beg u. 4 Likes
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Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Nobody: 7:41am On Jun 17, 2019 |
carter009:Why exactly? Money is to be spent. I ain't taking one naira to d grave so why hoard it? If I don't share it with loved ones, who will I share it with? 1 Like |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by yinkeys(m): 7:47am On Jun 17, 2019 |
@tolani91 you are street smart learning car marketing methods on your own. Just 3 months into dating and you want to get married. It's not enough time to know someone. Funny you're craving a Yoruba woman. It's up to you at the end of the day. |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Nobody: 7:51am On Jun 17, 2019 |
pansophist:Perhaps relegation wasn't the right word to use. It will take time for people to break out of that culture of looking up to the man for their needs. Isn't it possible these ladies see their fathers providing all for their mothers and subconsciously feel a man should provide theirs? Mind u as a sociologist I tend to observe social activities, factors leading to the social problems we have. Mind you, I'm not defending anyone but trying to draw out perhaps a concrete argument |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by pansophist(m): 8:34am On Jun 17, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Using your same logic, isn't it possible that men saw their mothers giving their father sex and subconsciously feel a woman should give it to them? if this doesn't make any sense to you, then that's exactly I feel with your logic. So far, you are still absolving Nigerian women of their responsibility to be financially independent. you seem to pamper women's leechy attitude and attribute it to external factors. I think we can both agree that a woman knows the difference between her father and other men. I also want to believe that she knows that the responsibility of her father towards her is not the responsibility of other men. If not, then you are inadvertently admitting that women are dumb and can't differentiate that a man owes her nothing. So tell me (in the context of a non-conjugal relationship), what exactly has to be done, and how long more will it take for women to understand that men do not want to bear their responsibilities, that men owe them nothing, just as women owe no man sex? Women are quick to denounce their contempt for fvckboys, but somehow, go around and justify why they should continue to leech on men. It is hypocritical. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by damzy88: 8:35am On Jun 17, 2019 |
J111333:I have been considering this lately. I don't know maybe it is only me. I don't think it is worth going back to Nigeria to find a wife once you have left. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by chapmanapr: 9:07am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Bro, opportunity come but once. If it's me, I will propose to her the following week and start marriage plans. She's very nice! No Nigerian woman will do such! She's young and beautiful and she has a lot to offer you. I remember when I was studying in England, I met this Romanian chick, she would disagree with me when it comes to paying the bills on dates as she wanted us to split the bills, being an African man, I told where am from men pay the bills. She would tell me she wants to settle down with me, and couldn't wait for us to visit her parents in Romania. This was back in 2010, she was good looking, I was in my early twenties and wasn't ready to settle down as marriage freaked me out, I thought I was too young (African man mentality), and also to the thought of not marrying an ibo girl. So my judgment got the best of me. I dumped her and moved on. I have since returned back to Nigeria. I can tell you straight! I am regretting it till this day. A lot of Africans pay over 6,000 pounds to get arranged marriage for resident permit. I got mine on platter of gold and flipped it. Bro, there are a lot things you would gain from her. Free world class education for your children, Italian (EU) passport to travel the world without visa, free health care for your entire family! Beautiful mixed race children and many more Since I have been in Nigeria, I have been in few relationships, met nice beautiful but really broke ass Nigerian babes, with nothing to offer but sex. Am currently planning my second trip. I know my wife is somewhere in Europe! 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Nobody: 9:10am On Jun 17, 2019 |
pansophist:The sad truth is, as long as men continue to demand sex, ladies will continue to try to use that to their advantage in getting material things needed. Personally I prefer a mutually beneficial relationship.. Relationships ought not to be a competition between the two sexes. |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Nobody: 9:13am On Jun 17, 2019 |
damzy88:Its not worth it. Why waste all that resources? Marry a white and secure your future. I'd do same without looking back |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by pansophist(m): 9:47am On Jun 17, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Even men that are not demanding for sex are being tasked with a financial burden, so what's your point? A thread few days on the romance section got men describing how ladies were asking them for iPhone, and other ridiculous demands on first dates, or when they are in the meet-up phase. You just can't wrap your head around the fact that many ladies choose to be leeches, and it's not because of some external factors. Also, where is women's honor? isn't it prostitution for a woman to exchange sex for material gain? Furthermore, why is sex seen as a bargaining chip, when it an act that both engaged in consensually? every time you try to put the blame of female parasitic behaviours on externalities, you unknowingly shot yourself in the foot, because no matter how you slice it, it is unjustifiable and exposes the biases in your reasoning (lack of responsibility). 3 Likes |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Rosay15(f): 10:08am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Reading so many comments here, I can’t stop laughing but seriously why op come online and seek advice on something like this. You’re the only one that knows what is good for you and you know what you want in a woman, so why do you think the advice people will give you here will work.. lol In as much, you find happiness with her and you love her as she loves you then marry her but one thing is never rush yourself into marriage because is a lifetime contract and I don’t see any big deal in paying bills but just don’t let that blind you cus it doesn’t guarantee a good wife. Wishing you all the best.. Peace. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by davillian(m): 10:12am On Jun 17, 2019 |
You are not ready for marriage home and abroad. You will make a bad choice because you ignored love which is very important. |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Nobody: 10:21am On Jun 17, 2019 |
pansophist:You right. I pray they all change for a saner society. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Regiomontanus(m): 10:43am On Jun 17, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:Why are you too defensive and getting personal? It is not everything you respond to and you mustn't always prove a point. You can't change everyone. Just cool down and come relax in my yacht. Nigeria is stressful, you know? any of my four yachts would come in handy. You need to take some time off from the stress and come relax with daddy(me) - you deserve it. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by PapyT1212(m): 10:49am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Use your head man. |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by HIGHESTPOPORI(m): 10:51am On Jun 17, 2019 |
MJBOLT:As in killing 2 birds with 1 stone? |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Nobody: 10:56am On Jun 17, 2019 |
What is this obsession with going home to marry, when all day everyday you guys always complain about naija babes? I don’t understand it. You have independent babes in front of you, yet you still desire these so called leeches that you despise so much? Looool pitiful. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Nobody: 11:04am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Safitu:the average 9ja man needs his ego massaged. women have powerful rights there so they don't wanna marry them, they they foolishly believe home girls they bring wont also open eye later when she becomes a nurse/caregiver earning megabucks lol. see this link all this silly weak 9ja men went home to marry and later the women became nurses and begin to behave like exposed babes. the men could not take it and resorted to murder lol https://www.aljazeera.com/indepth/features/2017/05/hotline-stop-men-murdering-wives-170513062135420.html 1 Like |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Nobody: 11:44am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Regiomontanus:You right. I'd love to cruise on a yatch, bathe myself in sunlight, watch the salty ocean caress my whole existence. Son of man come let's go wild and care less about what others fink. Call me. |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by damzy88: 12:01pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:Thanks |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by kraayfeesh(m): 12:22pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: No, they won't collect it from us forcefully but most of you thinks its ypur birthright to be given tfare so we will also do good to give it to you to guarantee another visit from you and also boost our ego and dominance over you!!! |
Re: Help Me With Advice. Should I Settled Down With Her? by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:41pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
kraayfeesh: Then stop the fvcking complaint and continue giving them since it boosts your ego and dominance......give them because it's their birthright, do good because it boost your dominance and ego, isnt it fair now? Don't you feel proud of yourself? Aren't you doing good for the greater good and to humanity? 2 Likes 1 Share |
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