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4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says - Romance (2) - Nairaland

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Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jun 18, 2019
How does it feel to realise, the only reason your wife wants to be with you, is because you are the best offer she can find, to feed, clothe and cater for her, for as long as it last angry
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Deepfeel(m): 2:45pm On Jun 18, 2019
kennygee:
Yes. And vice versa.

I wish them luck sha.
Thank you, ladies should change this statement from I can't marry a man who earns 50k a month to am earning too little for me as a lady to marry sounds fair enough right smiley
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nasri100(m): 2:48pm On Jun 18, 2019
Deepfeel:
In that case men earning little should go for ladies that earn higher so she can balance his weak salary right?
RETWEET.
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Deepfeel(m): 2:51pm On Jun 18, 2019
LuciferBible:
I love the way you replied with logic.

Once you engage feminists with intellect, they usually flee. They will start avoiding you henceforth because they always pick fights with those effeminate male monikers that apologize for being right & suck up to them.

They cowardly reported me enmasse just now (10 year ban grin) because my comments must have hurt them deeply.



You are my son in who I am well pleased. cheesy
Pick any olosho you desire from the Ashawo / Beer parlour thread and I shall see it come true.
Lol who is your son grin am not here to fight anyone o ladies want gender equality and I as a man accepts it so just keeping it on a 50/50 level
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Skmoda360(m): 2:52pm On Jun 18, 2019
40secondsguy:
pocohantas ..AntiBrutus huh huh

I didn't say anything oo grin
Poco....na talkative...she will just be ranting upandan...a nomad feminist grin grin grin
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by pocohantas(f): 2:52pm On Jun 18, 2019
I wouldn't marry a man earning 50k.
I won't even marry myself if I am earning 50k.

There are Nigerians that survive on that salary scale, but I do not want to be that Nigerian.

The important thing should be, are those women doing any better? Lets assume they see a man earning 200k, do they have the qualities he would want? If yes, then they are good to go.

Once again, I wouldn't marry a man earning 50k.
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Deepfeel(m): 2:54pm On Jun 18, 2019
Nasri100:
Haha this reply is a deepfeel indeed
I think we African men should just accept gender equality to end this long conflict between men and women let's share the responsibilities 50/50 grin
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nobody: 2:59pm On Jun 18, 2019
Deepfeel:
Thank you, ladies should change this statement from I can't marry a man who earns 50k a month to am earning too little for me as a lady to marry sounds fair enough right smiley
You men these days wanta working woman and make it your right that she splits the bills with you and still submit to you?

If she's sharing the bills with you, doesn't that make you both husbands?

I'm no feminist but you men are really letting feminism become stronger.

I'm done with replying on topics like this.

In short, the entire Romance section.

Like someone rightly told me this morning on one of the topics, y'all can't take it.
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jun 18, 2019
Even if he has rubbish in his hands and offers it to you, they want you to accept it and say thank you afterwards. Put that rubbish on your head and bow down to worship him, because he is still the head of the home. You are having a laugh mate lol. Is that not stupidity?
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by MJBOLT: 3:03pm On Jun 18, 2019
are you a feminist?

ibkayee:
I’ve always said I focus on what the guy’s earning potential is (e.g. ambitions and the their practicality, credentials etc) and not necessarily what he’s earning right now. Everyone has to start from somewhere and I don’t look at a man less for small beginnings

That saying, lmao I earn more than 50k a day so if you want to troll me with such things come correct this guy cheesy
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by MJBOLT: 3:07pm On Jun 18, 2019
LuciferBible:
preeqahontas don change tori! grin
It's amazing how the need for a preeq & missed calls from menopause can transform a feminist's brain.

Nairaland's Resident Elder Feminist Evening Newspaper Olosho (REFENOL) went from "men are scum" to "women should try too".

This is why testosterone is superior to oestrogen.
She started gender wars on Nairaland in 2017 but today, she is running from her own evil creation. She can no longer handle the heat she brought upon herself and unfortunately, the entire female folk on Nairaland.

If you are a female reading this & you're sick & tired of the bashing women receive on this forum, attack pocohantas.
Go after her. She is the author of your misery.

Rubbish!



*spits angry

Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nobody: 3:08pm On Jun 18, 2019
You are not the head of the home simply because you are the man. You are the head of the home because you carry out the responsibilities that it takes to be called the head. If you are splitting the financial responsibilities equally with your wife, you are equally the wife in the house and you should bend down and tie wrapper around your waist, since you are dragging to be in competition with your partner.
LuciferTruth:
What happened to the wife? Is she dead? Are they not her kids too?
Isn't she supposed to contribute equally since, according to your feminist doctrines, they are equal?

Husband's 50k + Wife's 50k = Family's 100k
Shikena

Why is the woman suddenly out of the picture once it comes to bills?


Bloody hypocrite!!!

[img]https://media1./images/4ec47d7b87a9ce093642fc8a3c2969e7/tenor.gif?itemid=12667518[/img]
*spits angry
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by ibkayee(f): 3:09pm On Jun 18, 2019
MJBOLT:
are you a feminist?
Nah misandrist
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jun 18, 2019
pocohantas:
I wouldn't marry a man earning 50k.
I won't even marry myself if I am earning 50k.

There are Nigerians that survive on that salary scale, but I do not want to be that Nigerian.

The important thing should be, are those women doing any better? Lets assume they see a man earning 200k, do they have the qualities he would want? If yes, then they are good to go.
LMAO. How about me that earns 51k? angry
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by pocohantas(f): 3:14pm On Jun 18, 2019
ibkayee:
Nah misandrist
grin grin
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nobody: 3:17pm On Jun 18, 2019
distributeinc:
How does it feel to realise, the only reason your wife wants to be with you, is because you are the best offer she can find, to feed, clothe and cater for her, for as long as it last angry
it sucks doesn't it?

And guess what, all it takes to feel entitled to the good things of life is just a pair of títs and some àss to go along with. While we on the other hand should strive, scratch and claw our way to the top. To make decent men of ourselves just so we could stand a chance to be considered good enough.

Until we can get püssy off our respective pedestals, we'll all keep slaving for the love of women.
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jun 18, 2019
As long as you are providing and paying all the bills, make sure all my expenses are paid for and more. Have
Millions in the bank, you will get all the submission you need in return. Lol.
LuciferGod:
Do you...

1. Want to be equal to me in everything including responsibilities and bills which also means equal consideration in decision-making and the likes

OR

2. Want me to foot all or most bills, bear all or most of the responsibilities but you become submissive to me and know that your place is beneath me at all times?

REFENOL choose one:



*spits angry


NB: Mynd44, work go tire you today grin grin
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jun 18, 2019
kennygee:
You men these days wanta working woman and make it your right that she splits the bills with you and still submit to you?

If she's sharing the bills with you, doesn't that make you both husbands?

I'm no feminist but you men are really letting feminism become stronger.

I'm done with replying on topics like this.

In short, the entire Romance section.

Like someone rightly told me this morning on one of the topics, y'all can't take it.
On the contrary and with no bias, I think his argument is valid. It is based on the premise that women and men are equals. I.e. an ideal scenerio where both are on the same political, economic, social and technological potential. The issue of submission is null and void and so i think his submissions follow the rules of the logic correctly.
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nobody:
AwkaetitiBabe:
Well, the 50k he earns is simply a starting point. As long as he got a good head on his shoulders plus his woman's support, they'll definitely reach financial success.



As long as he earns the money and invests and doesn't yap about being broke, he's fine.
Nice comment. I thought I was hopeless as I currently earn just 40k as salary per month.
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jun 18, 2019
lilmax:
men make money, then marry women who are higher or below them financially

women make money, then marry men who are twice higher than them financially ,will never consider those who make what they make or below


hustle guys
Lol. The simple rule is

Men's money is women's money too.
But women's money is theirs alone

It is a Law. tongue
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jun 18, 2019
KristaPretty:
Their choices. I can never marry a man who earns 50k too grin
What of 51k? Atleast i exceeded the threshold. angry
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Deepfeel(m): 3:27pm On Jun 18, 2019
kennygee:
You men these days wanta working woman and make it your right that she splits the bills with you and still submit to you?

If she's sharing the bills with you, doesn't that make you both husbands?

I'm no feminist but you men are really letting feminism become stronger.

I'm done with replying on topics like this.

In short, the entire Romance section.

Like someone rightly told me this morning on one of the topics, y'all can't take it.
If she's sharing the bill with me we are both hardworking individuals in love coming together to help each other' and share in each other's strength and weaknesses depending on how strong each individual is, it shouldn't matter who earns more or less, what submittion are you talking about, Nigerian feminists are just been hard on themselves going about it the wrong way if Nigerian women really want gender equity they should work to earn it, not going about spitting on men struggling to build why they themselves asslike rich men and ride on their backs to the top they should work competitively with men without disrespecting them , is hard to find a humble feminists in Nigeria but they are a lot of humble rich men who respect women, how fair is that, 90% of Nigerian rich women don't cook or do house chores themselves so what submittion are u talking about?

Well you can't stop talking on topics like these cause Nigeria is passing through a lot of changies people are having mental changes on a lot of things from culture religion etc it will affect you one way or the other whether you talk about it or not, thank you
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nasri100(m): 3:29pm On Jun 18, 2019
Deepfeel:
I think we African men should just accept gender equality to end this long conflict between men and women let's share the responsibilities 50/50 grin
I dont even have any issues with it. If its 50/50 no qualms. I make my own money, a lot of money at that. I WANT A WOMAN WHO MAKES A LOT OF MONEY TOO. Abi grin grin grin grin
Re: 4 Single Ladies Refused To Marry Man Who Earn 50k Monthly - Nigerian Man Says by Nobody: 3:29pm On Jun 18, 2019
LuciferTruth:
What happened to the wife? Is she dead? Are they not her kids too?
Isn't she supposed to contribute equally since, according to your feminist doctrines, they are equal?

Husband's 50k + Wife's 50k = Family's 100k
Shikena

Why is the woman suddenly out of the picture once it comes to bills?


Bloody hypocrite!!!

[img]https://media1./images/4ec47d7b87a9ce093642fc8a3c2969e7/tenor.gif?itemid=12667518[/img]
*spits angry
LMAO! Good point!

What did u have for breakfast? A glass of good point juice I think grin
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