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Why?. sex? you can as well go to a brothel for that coz before and after having sex with your "girlfriend" she's gonna demand something from you (maybe money) which is the same concept of a prostitute?

ERORR404:
Why?. sex? you can as well go to a brothel for that coz before and after having sex with your "girlfriend" she's gonna demand something from you (maybe money) which is the same concept of a prostitute?

it's not always about sex,the drama that comes with it can be fun though.
And don't compare your gf with a h*oe because she seeks your help,the only exemption is when she's demanding

Which kind question be this..

Even those that are married didn't intend to get married

There's a motive behind every action we take..

Dating = Sex
Marriage = Sex and kids.

Now if you remove these two things from any of the unions above, you will see that the world would be full of roaming single males and females..

Companionship.

Putting marriage as a reason upfront might be too much pressure, enjoy each other's company and down the line marriage can happen. When the friendship is real, getting the government involved wouldn't be a big deal.

My opinion.

ERORR404:
Why?. sex? you can as well go to a brothel for that coz before and after having sex with your "girlfriend" she's gonna demand something from you (maybe money) which is the same concept of a prostitute?

Are you so immature.... have you never heard of loneliness, or fake friends? These days when there is no one who genuinely likes another person without seeking something to obtain... LOVE or INTIMACY is the only cure for such things. Dating is not always about marriage or sex or money... sometimes you need someone you can trust

missimelda01:
Companionship.

Putting marriage as a reason upfront might be too much pressure, enjoy each other's company and down the line marriage can happen. When the friendship is real, getting the government involved wouldn't be a big deal.

My opinion.

yr head is there, the op is suffering from home training

Dating and marriage are both for love and companionship.....we date who we're attracted to... not just by physical appearance, but by heart and words......we get married to who we get fond of and end up loving....it always starts with having a date.....I pray you get a soul mate so you'll understand this.

ojun50:
yr head is there, the op is suffering from home training

Says the guy who can't simply quote without throwing Insult.

ikh777:
Are you so immature.... have you never heard of loneliness, or fake friends? These days when there is no one who genuinely likes another person without seeking something to obtain... LOVE or INTIMACY is the only cure for such things. Dating is not always about marriage or sex or money... sometimes you need someone you can trust

If you read the headline with an open mind, you'd figured i wasn't asking because "i don't don't know why I'm dating" but rather just to here from other people what their own reasons are. So why not just make a point and not try to show the world how matured you are and how "immature" I am.

To gather 20 yrs experience before applying for marital job

Oluromantic:
To gather 20 yrs experience before applying for marital job

Marriage is not for everyone.. Besides, it's overrated. Trust me, I know. Or you can ask Mikel Obi

Why would someone’s girlfriend demand money after sex? Lol I can’t imagine doing that to my boyfriend. Maybe I don’t understand the way some women are in Nigeria seeing as I’ve only been back for 2 years but that’s bizarre.

The most Foolish Question for the week.

Does Animals get married? So why are they in companionship? Territorial Intimacy and all?

Listen, Marriage is an arrangement, but Companionship is our nature.

All animals are sexual in nature, except for the impotent and infertile. Procreation don't necessarily go through marriage.

Where we get it wrong as humans is laying emphasis on things that are not truly fundamental as they are.

Many began to judge their lives based on things that are not compulsory.

afonjabreed:
it's not always about sex,the drama that comes with it can be fun though.
And don't compare your gf with a h*oe because she seeks your help,the only exemption is when she's demanding

so you date because of drama?...drama lots of.people.are running from
..nice knowing

CloudKickin:
Why would someone’s girlfriend demand money after sex? Lol I can’t imagine doing that to my boyfriend. Maybe I don’t understand the way some women are in Nigeria seeing as I’ve only been back for 2 years but that’s bizarre.

relationship is Nigeria is mostly a business transaction... she gives you sex,you give her money...every other exchanged BTW both of you is secondary

ERORR404:
Why?. sex? you can as well go to a brothel for that coz before and after having sex with your "girlfriend" she's gonna demand something from you (maybe money) which is the same concept of a prostitute?

Sleeping around makes one empty, it's different from companionship. Well speaking for me sha it might be different for others. I know some can sleep around and be fulfilled with that, but some of us want something deeper #pun

To get experience before applying for the permanent job. Besides life's lonely without someone by your side... Personal opinion Sha

vikkimimi:
Dating and marriage are both for love and companionship.....we date who we're attracted to... not just by physical appearance, but by heart and words......we get married to who we get fond of and end up loving....it always starts with having a date.....I pray you get a soul mate so you'll understand this.

"we date who we are attracted to,not just by physical appearance but by heart And words''.......not entirely true


We get married to who we get fond of and end of loving,it always start with having a date........ also not entirely true....some people get married because the other person can provide financial security for her and children.....she is fond of his money..not him
....and we have lots of arranged marriages ,whuch those not start with a date,,,somw of these marriages last longer sef

babyfaceafrica:
"we date who we are attracted to,not just by physical appearance but by heart And words''.......not entirely true


We get married to who we get fond of and end of loving,it always start with having a date........ also not entirely true....some people get married because the other person can provide financial security for her and children.....she is fond of his money..not him
....and we have lots of arranged marriages ,whuch those not start with a date,,,somw of these marriages last longer sef

That sounds sad to me, but hey it works for others. Marriage without love God forbid.

babyfaceafrica:
relationship is Nigeria is mostly a business transaction... she gives you sex,you give her money...every other exchanged BTW both of you is secondary

Wow, first I’m hearing about this! that’s awful.

Dating is just internship
To get prepared for the main Job called .. Marriage

CloudKickin:
Wow, first I’m hearing about this! that’s awful.

lolz...so u think Regina Daniels live Ned nwok0?..u mean 22 year old love to be the 4th wife of a billionaire based on love?

colly1860:
Dating is just internship
To get prepared for the main Job called .. Marriage

internship with benefits