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kazyhm:
That's what you think.........but this is the reality

As the cycle spins innocent people receive the spill over effect of crappy people.


Where's Toks2008 Missjoy29


Akwaetitibabe you no talk babe?

The lady might not have good character which prompted the man's action to marry someone else

uuzba:
The other lady? Abi you mean confirm Wife material?

essenceplus:
As the cycle spins innocent people receive the spill over effect of crappy people.


Where's Toks2008 Missjoy29


Akwaetitibabe you no talk babe?

Let me tell you......the lady in question was/is not serious with the guy in the first place.....

You can't be dating someone that is dating someone else for two fucking years and you wouldn't know......

The lady was not considering the guy as a potential husband, he probably was a back up. She was only surprise the guy could pull that up

kazyhm:
Let me tell you......the lady in question was/is not serious with the guy in the first place.....

You can't be dating someone that is dating someone else for two fucking years and you wouldn't know......

The lady was not considering the guy as a potential husband, he probably was a back up. She was only surprise the guy could pull that up

You keep seeing her faults. Was it her faults/character that also organized her marriage with the other person


See if we don't want people let's cut ties in dignified ways and not humiliate them making them look stvpid abeg. Stop supporting rubbish. If she didn't know she could have been layer along on the sidelines even for as long as five years and even more


Let's stop cheerleading bad attitude

princechurchill:
She's a nagging woman that's why he left ur sorry ass

You won't be surprised that the one he married is worse.

He was bleeping her even while married. What if she had invited him over for the normal rolling only to snuff him out cos he's a nincompoop.

Kingosytex:
jennifer chill! your boy friend wants to kill two birds with one stone

lol, I always compare comments between twitter and Nairaland, NL they always go opposite of twitter's opinion

Pekkelly:
Wow!!!!

See gobe!

you are beautiful

Duggedised12:
If you can't get along, then call it off,is it that hard? Why lead her on and even get married behind her back?

not as easy as you think my dear

1daboi:
not as easy as you think my dear

Not easy abi. If it was the other way around we all know how males would be ranting here does the truth have a dick?

essenceplus:
You keep seeing her faults. Was it her faults/character that also organized her marriage with the other person


See if we don't want people let's cut ties in dignified ways and not humiliate them making them look stvpid abeg. Stop supporting rubbish. If she didn't know she could have been layer along on the sidelines even for as long as five years and even more


Let's stop cheerleading bad attitude

Things you do intentionally cannot be classify as fault........I never in any of my comment say she is a bad lady or having fault....read between the lines

She was not serious in the relationship herself... That's my conclusion

kazyhm:
Things you do intentionally cannot be classify as fault........I never in any of my comment say she is a bad lady or having fault....read between the lines

She was not serious in the relationship herself... That's my conclusion

Is it her unseriousness that organized the other wedding?

Its about individual perspective,I respect yours. Were brothers,no need to argue back and forth. We see things differently.

Stay cool bro


One thing I know the truth isn't masculine

essenceplus:
Is it her unseriousness that organized the other wedding?

Its about individual perspective,I respect yours. Were brothers,no need to argue back and forth. We see things differently.

Stay cool bro

The guy got commitment somewhere else probably and do the needful rather than waiting on someone that is playing with your head

kazyhm:
The guy got commitment somewhere else probably and do the needful rather than waiting on someone that is playing with your head

Its a mans job to give commitment as men are custodians of commitment while women the custodians of sex,so why would he be needing commitment.


If he had doubt why fvcking her for two years.

Its a woman's responsibility to own the right of refusal,if they visited her family doesn't that mean approval to you :-


I repeat the truth isn't masculine bro

Its a mans job to propose. If he was been played , why visit her parents two weeks before. You're hating on women
You hate women more than you love the truth bro

essenceplus:
Its a mans job to propose. If they got played , why visit her parents two weeks before. You're hating on women
You hate women more than you love the truth bro

My mind told me you'll mention this in your next quote and you did.


Did she disclosed what they went there for?


You've not really be in a relationship with ladies......

Nbote:
Considering she saved his name as Narcissist, was she really going to settle down with Him? U called him a Narcissist why U com dey vex wen him show love to himself by marrying anoda person

See the way some people dey reason sha, they just jump into conclusion without knowing how it started.


Don't you think she change his name to that after discovering what he did?

You mean someone will save the person name she claim they have been dating for 2 years as narcissist and still get hurt for finding out he is married?
Use ur head naa.

kazyhm:
My mind told me you'll mention this in your next quote and you did.


Did she disclosed what they went there ?


You've not really be in a relationship with ladies......

You keep speculating


1. Your mind is my mind



2. I've not been in relationship with ladies



3. That I quoted anything beyond what was said



Guy its about perspective, let's not argue. But I choose to see things objectively and would say the truth isn't masculine. What is bad,is bad

O my God I need a good wife....



Check my profile to read my Romance Stories

essenceplus:
Not easy abi. If it was the other way around we all know how males would be ranting here does the truth have a dick?

some truths are better left unsaid. Some tried to explain and got shot. At least they've settled now. Let God be the judge

Duggedised12:
If you can't get along, then call it off,is it that hard? Why lead her on and even get married behind her back?

That’s what he did by getting married to some one else.

1daboi:
some truths are better left unsaid. Some tried to explain and got shot. At least they've settled now. Let God be the judge

Respect bro. Peace.

essenceplus:
Its a mans job to give commitment as men are custodians of commitment while women the custodians of sex,so why would he be needing commitment.


If he had doubt why fvcking her for two years.

Its a woman's responsibility to own the right of refusal,if they visited her family doesn't that mean approval to you :-


I repeat the truth isn't masculine bro

Its a mans job to propose. If he was been played , why visit her parents two weeks before. You're hating on women
You hate women more than you love the truth bro

Wow! Custodian of sex ? Sex is free bro......he is not the first guy she had sex with..........

Commitment in an investment.... And if you're not getting value on your investment, the smart thing to do is to cut you loss and ride on your gain.

Marriage and dating are two different thing


A stressful relationship shouldn't lead to marriage....... If you and your boyfriend are always at loggerhead, you shouldn't expect he marry you.......

Boss13:
That’s what he did by getting married to some one else.

he was dating both currently, thats different ,if I were the wife ,I would be careful, he is not done philandering yet, he could turn out like Wendy williams husband in the coming years, there something about leopards and their spots.

If its the same planet we all are ,its not that hard to say "I nor do again". But when you are able to put up a face to both ladies,it shows just the kind of person that guy is.

Flier:
Lol you are very funny,Did you know why he relegated her to side chick or why are you judging without hearing the other side of the story
Some guys who enjoy having sex with you won’t dump you if they catch you cheating or hate your attitude but rather relegate you to side chick

Side chick and he went to see her parents?

I hope you say same to your daughter when a man does this to both of you

Humility017:
bro someone women pushed men to this level.

I am currently having issues with girlfriend now... she is no longer committed in the relationship like she was before...
she no longer show care and interest like before...I have asked her what is the matter only to tell me the last time we meet there were things she observed that she wasn't cool with
she told me some stuffs which does not make sense to me...I have apologized and promised to make up for our next meeting because we are in a long distance relationship...but still she is not committing asking me to give her more time to adjust.
I have been heartbroken since.
my friends have advised me to give in to other ladies in the city where I live showing interest in me...currently walking on starting something with one.
I have asked why girlfriend to let me know I she still want the relationship...she will reply me that it is up to me to decide...
she wants my attention and care but don't wanna reciprocate
which decide...I tell her countless times how I so much love her, we have made plans to get married mid of next year...but now she has changed all of a sudden...

I am getting tired and I can't date two women at the same time...I wanted her to let me if she is tired so that I can move on with the other lady around but she is holding me back.

so right now it's like I will be dating two ladies and still my plans to get married next year...
so you see some ladies with their non-seriousness and non-commitments make some guys double date just to see which is better and more committed

Do not use your situation to judge another person's...It is very very wrong...How can you use your own case to justify the guy dumping her like that?

I do not know the joy you males derive from blaming ladies 24/7 for your woes in life......If she was the one who dumped the guy to marry someone else ,you would have blamed ladies...now that she is dumped,you are still blaming her

Na wa for unaooo..

essenceplus:
You keep speculating


1. Your mind is my mind



2. I've not been in relationship with ladies



3. That I quoted anything beyond what was said



Guy its about perspective, let's not argue. But I choose to see things objectively and would say the truth isn't masculine. What is bad,is bad

So it is bad the guy make a choice ? Even if it didn't work out fine, he has made his choice. Relationship with female is not always what they narrates. Females talks about how things makes them feel and not what actually happened.....


She is only feeling bad because the person she has been taking for granted was actually worth to be taken serious..... And she is regretting her mistake

MEN ARE SENSIBLE:

MOST LADIES THINK THAT MEN ARE FOOLS;
WHEN YOU ARE PARTYING, CLUBBING, AND FLIRTING WITH YOUNG MEN, DO YOU THINK THEY LOVE YOU? IF THEY LOVE YOU, WOULD THEY DUMP YOU AND GET MARRIED TO THE RESPONSIBLE, REASONABLE AND/OR FAITHFUL LADIES;

HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHY MEN PREFER FAITHFUL AND HOMELY LADIES WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE? WHEN A MAN IS FLIRTING WITH YOU, HE WANTS SOMETHING FROM YOU, AND ONES HE GETS WHAT HE WANTS FROM YOU, HE DUMPS YOU IMMEDIATELY AND GOES FOR OTHER LADIES/GIRLS.
MEN ARE SLY WHEN IT COMES TO TRICKING AND/OR DECEIVING WOMEN.

LADIES, HAVE YOU ASKED THE GUY THAT HAS BEEN CLUBBING, PARTYING, AND FLIRTING WITH YOU THIS QUESTION; WOULD YOU MARRY ME? AND SEE HIS RESPONSE.
HIS RESPONSE WOULD ALWAYS BE; BABY OR HONEY OR WHATEVER HE CALLS YOU, WE CAN'T DISCUSS THIS HERE. MAYBE SOME OTHER DAY. THAT IS JUST A WAY TO DISCHARGE YOU, BECAUSE HE IS AFRAID THAT, IF HE MARRIES YOU, ONE DAY YOU WILL SURELY GO OUT CLUBBING WITH ANOTHER MAN. YOU WILL NOTICE THAT HE WILL START GIVING YOU DISTANACE.

WHEN A WOMAN IS BEHAVING STRANGE, THERE ARE CERTAIN QUESTIONS YOU HAVE TO ASK YOURSELF; WHAT LED ME TO THIS ATTITUDE? IS IT IN MY FAMILY LINEAGE? OR IS SOMEONE DECEIVING ME? THEN PRAY TO GOD, I BELIEVE YOU WILL BE DELIVERED.

BE WISE!!!

Narldon:


Whenever I see your comment, I can always bet you'ld mention 'Altruism and Conscientiousness'.

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Even if it nothing to do with the topic at hand.
That guyband his big grammer sha

olasaad:
Lol this happens in naija every Saturday now

From and by both genders. Must be said.

LordKO:
"Because we can't get along..." This is a typical scenario where a too clever by half woman (a man can equally be in her stead) was hit below the belt by a sly man. A case of two disingenuous people who crossed each others path - I couldn't afford to ascribe aristocracy to the man for the obvious reason, even though his intention from the inception could had been genuine as he claimed.

Always be wary of a wo/man who comes into your life and gives you an impression that you've no need to improve on any aspect of your disposition - this isn't an encouragement of subjugation by a partner to another - because that by extension unpronounced, means s/he doesn't owe you faithfulness. Fake libertarians are worse than domineering people - the man was either the former or latter in this case.

When someone's utmost interest in you is just to taste a portion of whatever little good you can offer, he'll give you an impression that something like liberty, which is a right anyway, doesn't need conscientiousness for checks and balances. So, if you feel happy in a relationship or have peace of mind - all as a result of unchecked liberty - don't always assume and conclude that it's mutual. It may not be after all and you may be dealing with a sly partner, so consciously avoid being a victim of a pernicious act of a sly person, like in this case, by taking to altruism and conscientiousness. You can never go wrong with this in a matter of this nature. First-hand unpleasant experience like this is always avoidable.

In the end, and under normal circumstances, it's a man who chooses a woman to marry - a woman only has right of refusal.

great piece.. spot on...... All my exes, i granted em freedom of speech and freedom after speech. They called ma a nice boy, buh deep down in my mind, me saw em as intimacy gadget.

I have gone to check her on fb, a sane man will not wife such a girl, to be sincere. The guy knows what he wants and he went for it.

kenddys:
our urhobo queen where had you been?

Lol@ Urhobo Queen! I’m actually Ukwuani, I’ve been doing good! Thanks.

Humility017:
bro someone women pushed men to this level.

I am currently having issues with girlfriend now... she is no longer committed in the relationship like she was before...
she no longer show care and interest like before...I have asked her what is the matter only to tell me the last time we meet there were things she observed that she wasn't cool with
she told me some stuffs which does not make sense to me...I have apologized and promised to make up for our next meeting because we are in a long distance relationship...but still she is not committing asking me to give her more time to adjust.
I have been heartbroken since.
my friends have advised me to give in to other ladies in the city where I live showing interest in me...currently walking on starting something with one.
I have asked why girlfriend to let me know I she still want the relationship...she will reply me that it is up to me to decide...
she wants my attention and care but don't wanna reciprocate
which decide...I tell her countless times how I so much love her, we have made plans to get married mid of next year...but now she has changed all of a sudden...

I am getting tired and I can't date two women at the same time...I wanted her to let me if she is tired so that I can move on with the other lady around but she is holding me back.

so right now it's like I will be dating two ladies and still my plans to get married next year...
so you see some ladies with their non-seriousness and non-commitments make some guys double date just to see which is better and more committed

Between now and mid next year you is one year.

So let's assume you start dating the new Lady now and your girlfriend changes her ways by mid next year you guys get married

What will happen to this new lady because its obvious you "so much love " your first girlfriend

One year of deciet

You are just as wicked as your current ggirlfriend

You break things of first before involving someone else