MrBrownJay1:


So, with a list that long, you still believe he didn't meet her demands?! Ok no big deal, but then she should bring back the gift/money he spent, and then let her go find the mumu who will meet her demands. Case closed!

You are just pained. We need more than just money on The table oga.

CosmicPhoenix:

i find that hard to believe

Your prerogative then.

MrBrownJay1:


But sista, if that is the case, shouldn't the above babe play her tricks solely on a Hausa man then?

Also, should we all act like Hausas now, to please criminal women who defraud men in pretense of marriage?

The man is hausa, it's obvious from his write up, also, she didn't Defraud the man, he was not forced to lavish money on her at gun point, she was in love and no more in love, feelings come and go, you dont force love or someone to marry you.

I laugh in Spanish He simply invested in bear bear bank(bank of no return/profit) he should just dust his ass up and move on. It's not compulsory for one to end up marrying whoever he/she dates.

QueenSekxy:

You are just pained. We need more than just money on The table oga.

We all know that but sadly so many Nigerian women are too busy collecting gifts than to think this through.... And think they can just play with men. Then when she ends up dead you women will be the ones blaming men. If this babe had issues with that dude then it's not when he suddenly want marriage that she should bring nonsense to the table, now that her rent has been paid and school fees too

Btw, if 16-17 is indeed to pay some kind of bride price and asking her hand in marriage to her parent....and parents accepted the money then this babe best refund EVERYTHING.

Fountainofyouth:

The man is hausa, it's obvious from his write up, also, she didn't Defraud the man, he was not forced to lavish money on her at gun point, she was in love and no more in love, feelings come and go, you dont force love or someone to marry you.

And you think she should keep it all? Really? After the parents have accepted 16/17?! Come on, who do you take men for?!
These were not gifts, they were obvious DEMANDS from said babe....

MrBrownJay1:


We all know that but sadly so many Nigerian women are too busy collecting gifts than to think this through.... And think they can just play with men. Then when she ends up dead you women will be the ones blaming men. If this babe had issues with that dude then it's not when he suddenly want marriage that she should bring nonsense to the table, now that her rent has been paid and school fees too

Btw, if 16-17 is indeed to pay some kind of bride price and asking her hand in marriage to her parent....and parents accepted the money then this babe best refund EVERYTHING.

Why should you advocate for her death cos she choose a better path for herself? Can you just listen to yourself? Men do this often to ladies and hell has not let loose.

And I insist, did he pay those stuffs at gun point? Stop prevaricating and answer my question.
He should better take his loss and move on.

QueenSekxy:
It's not a must every relationship will end in marriage.
You spent money and she spent her time being with an immature boy like you. No wonder she dumped your stupid ass. It's obvious you are still a mama's boy.

I hate to hear not every relationship must end in marriage...we all know that already

But What is the essence of relationship if you don't have aim or just to sleep with each other?

I always prefer you do your best in any relationship and then watch as things unfolds...


In this case, is very obvious they were still together and the guy was spending all that thinking they are in this together, not knowing he was dating himself...


I'm not supporting the man but the woman is wrong too...most guys won't spend such on a girl without marriage intentions, I'm sure she no carry gold for waist....

She could have discharged the guy earlier...The man was probably training another man's wife in school is a pity.

Airtimex:



I hate to hear not every relationship must end in marriage...we all know that already

But What is the essence of relationship if you don't have aim or just to sleep with each other?

I always prefer you do your best in any relationship and then watch as things unfolds...


In this case, is very obvious they were still together and the guy was spending all that thinking they are in this together, not knowing he was dating himself...


I'm not supporting the man but the woman is wrong too...most guys won't spend such on a girl without marriage intentions, I'm sure she no carry gold for waist....

She could have discharged the guy earlier...The man was probably training another man's wife in school is a pity.

Ok.

QueenSekxy:

Why should you advocate for her death cos she choose a better path for herself? Can you just listen to yourself? Men do this often to ladies and hell has not let loose.

I do not advocate for her death, but we have to be realistic... As I certainly UNDERSTAND why so many ladies die unnecessarily because of these cheap tricks. How can you date a man for so long, demand for god knows what (which he agrees because of the desire to please his greedy future wife), and after he has done all she asked, some other dude is gonna profit from his hard labor?!

Women....women...women.... Stop this nonsense, you are putting your lives at risk!

And I insist, did he pay those stuffs at gun point? Stop prevaricating and answer my question.
He should better take his loss and move on.

Some men would sweep it under the rug and move on, some would take her to court and sue her, and sadly (as much as I am not advocating for it), others will just buy acid and mutilate this babe (or worse), simply because we don't know what a mad person would do....and that's exactly what that man would become: a MAD person. Women should stop tempting the devil.

Now if you really believe that ALL men will just move on quietly, then you best look around you.

QueenSekxy:

Please, let him cry for all I care. Her no is her no.
She knows what she wants.

I don't know what to say to you.
I think it would have been better if it was your brother that spent 4.2m on a girl and latter get dumped

Raydans:

I don't know what to say to you.
I think it would have been better if it was your brother that spent 4.2m on a girl and latter get dumped

His business. Who knows if he has spent more than That, it's his money.
Besides, the guy didn't spend those money at gun point.

Stop making me repeat myself.

MrBrownJay1:


I do not advocate for her death, but we have to be realistic... As I certainly UNDERSTAND why so many ladies die unnecessarily because of these cheap tricks. How can you date a man for so long, demand for god knows what (which he agrees because of the desire to please his greedy future wife), and after he has done all she asked, some other dude is gonna profit from his hard labor?!

Women....women...women.... Stop this nonsense, you are putting your lives at risk!



Some men would sweep it under the rug and move on, some would take her to court and sue her, and sadly (as much as I am not advocating for it), others will just buy acid and mutilate this babe (or worse), simply because we don't know what a mad person would do....and that's exactly what that man would become: a MAD person. Women should stop tempting the devil.

Now if you really believe that ALL men will just move on quietly, then you best look around you.

Ok.

He must be mad. I can bet one of his guys would have asked him for help and he would have told him he doesn't have yet see the amount of money he spent on girl and at the end she didn't marry his maga ass.

QueenSekxy:

His business. Who knows if he has spent more than That, it's his money.
Besides, the guy didn't spend those money at gun point.

Stop making me repeat myself.

The guy is at fault tho. He should have known better not to invest in a woman. Let her invest on her self. And when it is even, they can talk of marriage and if she declines. He goes his way

QueenSekxy:

I have never spent shi shi on a guy and will never spend a dime. Even toothbrush, I will never buy For a guy.
Please, go and die. He is a mama's boy, let him weep till death.

Na people like you go dey form Saint but are demon inside

Look at your signature and the nonsense you are vomiting

QueenSekxy:

What if she doesn't pay back? He will arrest her

Lmao, did she steal his money or robbed him at gun point? You are joking.

People go dey see this one for church dey wave hands they think they see better persin

Tufia

Animal oh 4.2 kini? Me go spend 10k b4 i bleep and discard babe? ... No no no.

He has performed his usefulness and now discarded......... Spend with sense.......

Petty... Just be a man and move on!

bloggers and lies

He should be compensated.

Once it begins with the sentence "a twitter user took to the platform to narrate..." Just know 9 times out of 10 it's lies concocted to trend.

Women are enjoying

Fountainofyouth:
I have never seen an hausa man complain about how much he spent on a lady, it is a thing of pride to them, shows they are real men among their peers.

P.S if you are not hausa or born and bred in the north, do not quote me to say rubbish.

Get the f^uck outta here c^ocksucker

What the heck is mecary crem

QueenSekxy:
It's not a must every relationship will end in marriage.
You spent money and she spent her time being with an immature boy like you. No wonder she dumped your stupid ass. It's obvious you are still a mama's boy.

my dear money can not buy time. No matter how you want to look at it. She invested time in the relationship, well so did he. The only snag here is the guy investing his money and time on something he's not sure of.

Though I'll admit he's immature for asking her to refund the money he spent on her. To think he even went further to confront the girl's dad is what truly amaze me. He should thank his God the man didn't use cutlass to chase him out of his house.

Lol...spending on a woman is a loose investment. Most times it yield negatively.

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Fountainofyouth:
I have never seen an hausa man complain about how much he spent on a lady, it is a thing of pride to them, shows they are real men among their peers.

P.S if you are not hausa or born and bred in the north, do not quote me to say rubbish.

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