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I don't think this should be about whether she's nursing a baby or not. It should be more about whether your wife wants to leave you for him. Don't fight a wrong fight. I don't think there's need calling him; your wife can make him not to call again if she loves you that much [unless you don't think she does]; after all she married you. You calling the guy only says one thing [that your wife can't do it or doesn't want to, so that dude has got a chance] and believe me, it wouldn't solve anything. Your wife can end this, or you can call, warn him and she'll be seeing him behind the front of your back [God! I love using this expression] and you wouldn't even know [if she wants to]. Moreover these calls can be harmless but it's a good thing you have specified that he's asking her to come back.

So my advice is that you ask your wife what she has done about the incessant calls; what she wants - you or her ex. What is yours is yours; what isn't will eventually leave irrespective of how long you keep it [caretakers].


PS: This is in no form an endorsement of exes going after their married exes and shouldn't be treated as one.

chris51:
...If she doesn't encourage the man...

Yes! Yes!! Yes!!! Question is whether your wife wants to go back.


Report her to family? No! Who does that? To what end? If she doesn't want you why keep someone who doesn't want to stay with you? You'd be making both yourselves unhappy. She can nurse your child and leave when she's done [if it comes to that].

I had to comment

Mr poster!! I hope you are treating your wife well cause I don't see why she should be taking calls from her ex and telling you about he wants her back..like who does that??

I hope u haven't given her reasons to go calling her ex?
No be say your own ex go dey call u back to back, side chicks everywhere ..that kind thing can prompt a woman to seek attention elsewhere especially now ...postpartum depression is real..hope u have been giving her all d attention and support she needs

If u haven't, good and fine
Tell her to stop taking his calls, she should concentrate on her new home and new baby..u don't need to get confrontational with d ex

Sonofthunder9:
Okpara avenue
Zik Avenue
Agbani road
Where

.. Unec

Phenomenal16:
.. Unec

Agbani road

Righteousness89:
Was she Married to guy you call Ex?

No

Vcent50:
No

Then he has no right to Disturb your Home...

Your wife should do the Needful by blocking him on all contacts...

A little meddling could cause a whole lot!

She should not give a chance to the devil

Sonofthunder9:
Agbani road

.. Wow

Phenomenal16:
.. Wow

Nice having u around

booksrite001:

Wetin

seyi371:
Nairaland detectives nice job.
And one useless mod still pushed dis fake story to front page

Na their work.

trapQ:
Two stupid options.

Break her sim because

Secondly it is only an illiterate village girl that will let you take her baby in this century.

Tell me where the truth hurts. Don’t worry I may make things better using words.