She is your wife. Fight for what is yours.

Why has ur wife not barred him yet?






Be careful

Vcent50:
Good day ladies and gentlemen,i have something bothering me in my mind.

I dated my wife almost 3 years before I later got married to her and she gave birth to my daughter last year.

I met her when she broke up with her ex, which was her first love, during our courtship she told me about the guy and many other stuff I can't say here.

But lately this same guy keep calling my wife that he wanted to come back, despite this guy knows fully well that my wife is nursing my baby, my wife told me but I was thinking if I should call him and warn him to desist from my wife or I should got him arrested for invading my home,.

Please how can I handle this situation without loosing my self worth

Try calmly talk to your wife and get where he works.

Trust me, With just 50k, He will be a dead man. Its that cheap. Just get info from your wife. No need talking to him due to suspicion.

Vcent50:
Good day ladies and gentlemen,i have something bothering me in my mind.

I dated my wife almost 3 years before I later got married to her and she gave birth to my daughter last year.

I met her when she broke up with her ex, which was her first love, during our courtship she told me about the guy and many other stuff I can't say here.

But lately this same guy keep calling my wife that he wanted to come back, despite this guy knows fully well that my wife is nursing my baby, my wife told me but I was thinking if I should call him and warn him to desist from my wife or I should got him arrested for invading my home,.

Please how can I handle this situation without loosing my self worth

no need to call him...just dey monitor your wife...this is the perfect opportunity to know whether she's truly your wife

carry sars go open case for n head ... no go learn how to maintain n lane

For real?

fatymore:
Leave him alone.

ask your wife to change her sim and cut all communications with her.

He should cut communication with his wife?... How would he resolve this delicate matter........

AwkaetitiBabe:
Only God will send lightening to fry those men deceiving ladies with marriage. Karma will visit all of you rifraffs.

Sister take am easy na... Somebody don do am to u before no carry vex enter the topic na

[quote author=Vcent50 post=79678433]Good day ladies and gentlemen,i have something bothering me in my mind.

I dated my wife almost 3 years before I later got married to her and she gave birth to my daughter last year.

I met her when she broke up with her ex, which was her first love, during our courtship she told me about the guy and many other stuff I can't say here.

But lately this same guy keep calling my wife that he wanted to come back, despite this guy knows fully well that my wife is nursing my baby, my wife told me but I was thinking if I should call him and warn him to desist from my wife or I should got him arrested for invading my home,.

Please how can I handle this situation without loosing my self worth.


YOUR WIFE IS NOT A GOOD WOMAN.
Why entertaining her ex calls

Your wife is cooking another exlove story..she knew what she was doing..ko je simi ni obirin gba fokunrin.....let her decide..

Benekruku:


Try calmly talk to your wife and get where he works.

Trust me, With just 50k, He will be a dead man. Its that cheap. Just get info from your wife. No need talking to him due to suspicion.

Are you offering your services or you know them.....

mods Abeg bring this match to FP biko

no Mikel for line up, Simon Moses in, that's a good start anyway

You are very patient op .

I would have tricked him to one corner and me and guys would mend him to almost cripple state .

Many people here talk without questions....

Is your wife really clean on this?
Is he aware she is married?
How did the break-up go?

Our Girls these days,some can kill...

I dated a girl for over 5 years,work made us co-opt at most once in a year or two,cos of distance though we spoke virtually every day. She had married and didn't tell me...till a cousin of hers who is my person filtered it to me; yet I called her on her wedding day without knowing....

Oga,leave the matter for your wife...Let her tell you what is truly happening....You couldn't have dated close to 3 years and the guy starts calling now....

Your wife is not telling you something you need to know...

Realist5:
You are a liar. As at January 15, this year, one of your topics stated that you wanted a relationship that will lead to marriage. How comes again you're here saying you got married and have a baby already and someone is disturbing your wife? You have already lost your worth with this kind of lies.

this guy is more intelligent than our service chiefs and buhari combined

AwkaetitiBabe:
Only God will send lightening to fry those men deceiving ladies with marriage. Karma will visit all of you rifraffs.

Abeg forgive them...

All of you are senseless u and ur wife and that ex

Realist5:
You are a liar. As at January 15, this year, one of your topics stated that you wanted a relationship that will lead to marriage. How comes again you're here saying you got married and have a baby already and someone is disturbing your wife? You have already lost your worth with this kind of lies.

This are the type of person that supposed to be MOD on this forum. You try bro

DaddySpyce:
For those of you saying he should not call the man, you all are quite wrong. Being that your wife already told you the situation means she is not comfortable with it and she doesn't want him anymore. I think it's best for you to speak with the man maturedly and remind him that you are now married to her and she has a baby for you. Make him understand that he is disrespecting you by calling her in her matrimonial home and you don't let that so he should accept the fact that she is now happily married and move on.
If you do this and find out that he is not matured enough to stop calling your wife then you can have your wife change her number and ensure he has no access to reach her anymore. If for any reason he knows your home and mistakenly dares to visit your home because he wants to see your wife then I think that is really out of order and he could be arrested for such an act being that you have spoken to him maturely.

I completely agree, she's my wife now. i will fight her battles for her if i have to. call him and let him know he had his chance with her, and now its your chance to make her all yours.

Realist5:
You are a liar. As at January 15, this year, one of your topics stated that you wanted a relationship that will lead to marriage. How comes again you're here saying you got married and have a baby already and someone is disturbing your wife? You have already lost your worth with this kind of lies.

Thanks for spotting this. Too many fake stories these days

I don't know if you told us the full gist, but going by what you wrote I think your wife is making it easy for him and putting you in the battle field.
Why didn't she block the number after the first call eventhough she informed you which is a good thing?
My take is that, she should block and keep blocking all medium of communication between her and the ex if she really value your union simple!

Vcent50:
Good day ladies and gentlemen,i have something bothering me in my mind.

I dated my wife almost 3 years before I later got married to her and she gave birth to my daughter last year.

I met her when she broke up with her ex, which was her first love, during our courtship she told me about the guy and many other stuff I can't say here.

But lately this same guy keep calling my wife that he wanted to come back, despite this guy knows fully well that my wife is nursing my baby, my wife told me but I was thinking if I should call him and warn him to desist from my wife or I should got him arrested for invading my home,.

Please how can I handle this situation without loosing my self worth

Its all up to your wife really. Permit me to be frank if your wife still wants to be with that nigger there is nothing you can do about it.

He misses the sex, if he gets what he wants �he won't disturb her again

AwkaetitiBabe:
Only God will send lightening to fry those men deceiving ladies with marriage. Karma will visit all of you rifraffs.

But hanty, women deceive me with fake boobs, fake arsè, fake hair, fake eyelash, fake face, fake orgásm, fake pregnancy, and so on...

Shall we then call on thunder to destroy all the fakeass women of this world...?

Vcent50:
Good day ladies and gentlemen,i have something bothering me in my mind.

I dated my wife almost 3 years before I later got married to her and she gave birth to my daughter last year.

I met her when she broke up with her ex, which was her first love, during our courtship she told me about the guy and many other stuff I can't say here.

But lately this same guy keep calling my wife that he wanted to come back, despite this guy knows fully well that my wife is nursing my baby, my wife told me but I was thinking if I should call him and warn him to desist from my wife or I should got him arrested for invading my home,.

Please how can I handle this situation without loosing my self worth

Vcent50:
I want a relationship with a lady that can leads to marriage, kindly pm me,I don't like show off,let's chat and know more

You are just looking for attention people please don't waste your precious time to answer this guy

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Vcent50:
Good day ladies and gentlemen,i have something bothering me in my mind.

I dated my wife almost 3 years before I later got married to her and she gave birth to my daughter last year.

I met her when she broke up with her ex, which was her first love, during our courtship she told me about the guy and many other stuff I can't say here.

But lately this same guy keep calling my wife that he wanted to come back, despite this guy knows fully well that my wife is nursing my baby, my wife told me but I was thinking if I should call him and warn him to desist from my wife or I should got him arrested for invading my home,.

Please how can I handle this situation without loosing my self worth

OP is trolling https://www.nairaland.com/4962625/serious-relationship-needed

Nasri100:


I like how you guys always check for these little things. God bless you. We cant come and be wasting advice.

lol

Realist5:
You are a liar. As at January 15, this year, one of your topics stated that you wanted a relationship that will lead to marriage. How comes again you're here saying you got married and have a baby already and someone is disturbing your wife? You have already lost your worth with this kind of lies.

Very good observation from you, the guy has soon forgotten about that post.
Jobless man seeking unnecessary comments.

meobizy:
You have two options:

1. Break her sim card and buy her a new line.
If the man keeps calling after that know it was your wife who gave him the new contact.

2. Divorce your wife, take your child and submit her back into his arms.

i'm 100% with you on this.

Realist5:
You are a liar. As at January 15, this year, one of your topics stated that you wanted a relationship that will lead to marriage. How comes again you're here saying you got married and have a baby already and someone is disturbing your wife? You have already lost your worth with this kind of lies.

He that alleges must prove,,,if the allegation you are laying on him is true, kindly post the link so we won't construe you as a rabble rouser with a hidden agenda

Well someone has provided the link.
Whenever we make serious allegations , we should always back it up

@OP
Shame on you,,,,trolling with lies to get comments