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Jinad50:
Bros in my opinion, BJ is an unnatural way of life.



The wife needs help.

Well it might be unnatural but what can we do we are stock with it now it's becoming part of our lifestyle

Be a man,take the bull by the horn and challenge her to her face..if she is not ready to open up ,send her to her people and live your life as you deem fit..Never allow anyone to cause you pain when it is within your ability to curtail it..marriage is not bondage..stop tolerating nonsense

Hyacenth22:
she isnt even good with sex, 15 mins of thrusting and she will complain of pains, she never satisfied me because i mostly pull out erected and wanting more, she herself is sad she does not satisfy me, secondly I do 99% of the work on her to get her in the mood without receiving any, thirdly did not marry her a virgin

Modified
Pls i actually dated this said lady for over 4 years before marriage, sex was never our issues, my stuff is about 8 to 10 inch long more reasons I believed she complains of pains after about 15 mins thrusting.
I have never cheated and i can start that oral thing as it irritates me, i dont demand for it either.
Am just ashamed of how things are going because she isnt opening up no matter how hard i ask her, am i feel stupid if this will lead me for a divorce.
And also no child yet more reasons am worried.
Can STD be gotten from toilet or any other means aside body contact??

Boss, She’s cheating and don’t be surprised she’s cheating with a man. Wise up!

Hyacenth22:
I married my wife 2 years ago, it was all rossy till last year when she had a family issue which was very fatal, we solved it half way so the issues still lingers and bothers her anyway.

Early this year i started noticing lack of sexual urge for me, i practically have to beg her or rather ask for sex was thinking it might be the family issues she was facing, am very faithful to a fault, the issues has lingered on for long now that i have to engage sexual lubricant in other to have sex with her as she is never Hot or sexually stimulated, doesn't miss me or even initiate any form of sexual act with me, does not ask for sex, even during any sex i succeed to imitate she never acts intrested, i just have to stroke till am tired and pull out, she just lay like a dead wood with little or no moan.

This was a lady who was actually always demanding we make love.

I have discussed with her on this issues alot and what seems to be the problem is giving head, when i meet my wife i was very conscious of our sexual orientations as at then MouthAction was something we both agreed to wave off because she complains my dick shocks her and myself never enjoy giving head.

The whole pre intimacy was boiled down to kissing, smooching and fingering which was what normally excites her the most.

She later confessed to me that her female friend talk her into how exciting receiving head seems and after i tried it once she now needs to receive head before she can get Hot, have seen lots of her searched histroy are on lesbian pussy sucking, just last month we both ended up treating an STD she gave me, the last time i tried giving her head she told me i wasn't doing it well, i was lost in thoughts because this was my second time giving her head and i improved as compared to the first time.

Am worried over all these because am begining to think she is cheating on me, the worst nightmare to me is being that any attempt to touch her down there is being resisted and she always says fingering now pains her, it's either i give her head or nothing, i haven't gotten much evidence as to her sleeping around because i haven't done much scoping on her.

Am just confused as i type this because i need clarity and opinions on these how possible can a lady sexual preferences change this fast , if she is actually cheating already is there any good way to find out am just confused.

Please pardon my typos

Tell her your sexual orientation has changed too. That you now prefer her sucking your anus. Also learn how to give her good head. Watch videos and let her know no head is so superior to the next. It's just a matter of first love, she fell in love with the first heading she got. Thus yours is not sweet.

TELL HER TO SUCK YOUR ANUS

elmagnifico411:
Now we know the problem isn’t the ‘fatal issue’ in her family. She’s experienced something different and she wants u to live up to the nonsense. I sometimes give my wife head and I’ve never contacted any std. oga, your madam dey waka

Which one is head n which one is mouth action?

Hyacenth22:
I married my wife 2 years ago, it was all rossy till last year when she had a family issue which was very fatal, we solved it half way so the issues still lingers and bothers her anyway.

Early this year i started noticing lack of sexual urge for me, i practically have to beg her or rather ask for sex was thinking it might be the family issues she was facing, am very faithful to a fault, the issues has lingered on for long now that i have to engage sexual lubricant in other to have sex with her as she is never Hot or sexually stimulated, doesn't miss me or even initiate any form of sexual act with me, does not ask for sex, even during any sex i succeed to imitate she never acts intrested, i just have to stroke till am tired and pull out, she just lay like a dead wood with little or no moan.

This was a lady who was actually always demanding we make love.

I have discussed with her on this issues alot and what seems to be the problem is giving head, when i meet my wife i was very conscious of our sexual orientations as at then MouthAction was something we both agreed to wave off because she complains my dick shocks her and myself never enjoy giving head.

The whole pre intimacy was boiled down to kissing, smooching and fingering which was what normally excites her the most.

She later confessed to me that her female friend talk her into how exciting receiving head seems and after i tried it once she now needs to receive head before she can get Hot, have seen lots of her searched histroy are on lesbian pussy sucking, just last month we both ended up treating an STD she gave me, the last time i tried giving her head she told me i wasn't doing it well, i was lost in thoughts because this was my second time giving her head and i improved as compared to the first time.

Am worried over all these because am begining to think she is cheating on me, the worst nightmare to me is being that any attempt to touch her down there is being resisted and she always says fingering now pains her, it's either i give her head or nothing, i haven't gotten much evidence as to her sleeping around because i haven't done much scoping on her.

Am just confused as i type this because i need clarity and opinions on these how possible can a lady sexual preferences change this fast , if she is actually cheating already is there any good way to find out am just confused.

Please pardon my typos

No be family matter at all...

1...She carry STD give u, nah through sex they take carry ham nah,
2....She said her friend talked her to receiving head
3.... She said your not doing it right
4....you saw her search history which is about lesbian stuffs
5.... Her attitude change whenever u wan have sex.


All women re lesbian at heart..
Though in different classes.
If ur wife realized hers earlier she might not even marry at all.

If I were u, I go call my wife sit down and talk, I will say everything to her from A-Z and either she change and leave those friends of hers or break up in real time, no time for nonsense abeg.

owila4luv:
in other words you encourage both parties to cheat as solace for sexual satisfaction, not every man can satisfy a woman but almost all woman can satisfy men except she's sick, so cheatin is no option

No my point is this if you know your partner is not getting the sexual satisfaction he or she desires do everything possible make them satisfied, sexual satisfaction shouldn't be in favour of only men women need that satisfaction as much as the man does let's not be selfish and think about only our satisfaction when having sex cause the person u are having sex with need it as much as you

Deepfeel:
Well it might be unnatural but what can we do we are stock with it now it's becoming part of our lifestyle

I'm confuse . whether we are moving to the state of Sodom n Gomorrah or we are in Sodom n Gomorrah already

maynation:
please swerve

your reply..thought as much.
but why don't you see reasons with me?

Hyacenth22:
I married my wife 2 years ago, it was all rossy till last year when she had a family issue which was very fatal, we solved it half way so the issues still lingers and bothers her anyway.

Early this year i started noticing lack of sexual urge for me, i practically have to beg her or rather ask for sex was thinking it might be the family issues she was facing, am very faithful to a fault, the issues has lingered on for long now that i have to engage sexual lubricant in other to have sex with her as she is never Hot or sexually stimulated, doesn't miss me or even initiate any form of sexual act with me, does not ask for sex, even during any sex i succeed to imitate she never acts intrested, i just have to stroke till am tired and pull out, she just lay like a dead wood with little or no moan.

This was a lady who was actually always demanding we make love.

I have discussed with her on this issues alot and what seems to be the problem is giving head, when i meet my wife i was very conscious of our sexual orientations as at then MouthAction was something we both agreed to wave off because she complains my dick shocks her and myself never enjoy giving head.

The whole pre intimacy was boiled down to kissing, smooching and fingering which was what normally excites her the most.

She later confessed to me that her female friend talk her into how exciting receiving head seems and after i tried it once she now needs to receive head before she can get Hot, have seen lots of her searched histroy are on lesbian pussy sucking, just last month we both ended up treating an STD she gave me, the last time i tried giving her head she told me i wasn't doing it well, i was lost in thoughts because this was my second time giving her head and i improved as compared to the first time.

Am worried over all these because am begining to think she is cheating on me, the worst nightmare to me is being that any attempt to touch her down there is being resisted and she always says fingering now pains her, it's either i give her head or nothing, i haven't gotten much evidence as to her sleeping around because i haven't done much scoping on her.

Am just confused as i type this because i need clarity and opinions on these how possible can a lady sexual preferences change this fast , if she is actually cheating already is there any good way to find out am just confused.

Please pardon my typos

I try to find the problem here but I no see any problem..

Sometimes ladies don't know what they are missing until they try it...now she has realized that fellato is a deal maker for her so give her head recklessly...go get honey and use it to spice up her kini and lick it to stupor...you can Google sex education topics (not porn) on how to give head to your wife....bro nothing sweet pass giving head to your wife o as long as she is clean down there...infact tell her to face sit you so that she can control how she wants it.

Facesitting is when you lie down and she sits her sonething on your mouth while you eat it as she grinds on you.

Forgive my explicit description but you need to really understand that sex is responsible 70% for the growth of any marriage. All the best.

Listar:
I'm confuse . whether we are moving to the state of Sodom n Gomorrah or we are in Sodom n Gomorrah already

What is happening in this generation is 10 times more than what happened in Sodom and Gomorrah

Hyacenth22:
she isnt even good with sex, 15 mins of thrusting and she will complain of pains, she never satisfied me because i mostly pull out erected and wanting more, she herself is sad she does not satisfy me, secondly I do 99% of the work on her to get her in the mood without receiving any, thirdly did not marry her a virgin

Modified
Pls i actually dated this said lady for over 4 years before marriage, sex was never our issues, my stuff is about 8 to 10 inch long more reasons I believed she complains of pains after about 15 mins thrusting.
I have never cheated and i can start that oral thing as it irritates me, i dont demand for it either.
Am just ashamed of how things are going because she isnt opening up no matter how hard i ask her, am i feel stupid if this will lead me for a divorce.
And also no child yet more reasons am worried.
Can STD be gotten from toilet or any other means aside body contact??

Ur wife is shy to tell u that she do got climaxed through cunnilingus ( pussy sucking) which u abhors. If u want ur wife's sex perfection back, just bend down and start doing the needful else u will lose her to other women out there

My line of advice as well

J111333:
Hmmm, something is not right. Actually she may not be cheating with a man but a fellow woman or porn videos.
Oga I would've said ignore her but since she's your wife, better turn FBI on her asap.

Hyacenth22:
I married my wife 2 years ago, it was all rossy till last year when she had a family issue which was very fatal, we solved it half way so the issues still lingers and bothers her anyway.

Early this year i started noticing lack of sexual urge for me, i practically have to beg her or rather ask for sex was thinking it might be the family issues she was facing, am very faithful to a fault, the issues has lingered on for long now that i have to engage sexual lubricant in other to have sex with her as she is never Hot or sexually stimulated, doesn't miss me or even initiate any form of sexual act with me, does not ask for sex, even during any sex i succeed to imitate she never acts intrested, i just have to stroke till am tired and pull out, she just lay like a dead wood with little or no moan.

This was a lady who was actually always demanding we make love.

I have discussed with her on this issues alot and what seems to be the problem is giving head, when i meet my wife i was very conscious of our sexual orientations as at then MouthAction was something we both agreed to wave off because she complains my dick shocks her and myself never enjoy giving head.

The whole pre intimacy was boiled down to kissing, smooching and fingering which was what normally excites her the most.

She later confessed to me that her female friend talk her into how exciting receiving head seems and after i tried it once she now needs to receive head before she can get Hot, have seen lots of her searched histroy are on lesbian pussy sucking, just last month we both ended up treating an STD she gave me, the last time i tried giving her head she told me i wasn't doing it well, i was lost in thoughts because this was my second time giving her head and i improved as compared to the first time.

Am worried over all these because am begining to think she is cheating on me, the worst nightmare to me is being that any attempt to touch her down there is being resisted and she always says fingering now pains her, it's either i give her head or nothing, i haven't gotten much evidence as to her sleeping around because i haven't done much scoping on her.

Am just confused as i type this because i need clarity and opinions on these how possible can a lady sexual preferences change this fast , if she is actually cheating already is there any good way to find out am just confused.

Please pardon my typos

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maynation:
Go and read about vagina yeast infection.
Infact, the infection is so rampant and common that every lady o. earth is prone to contracting it at a point in their life. Emphasis on every lady.

Thought you wanna school me about viruses in the toilet.lol.
I would have asked for your field.




FYI,I'm a microbiologist.

Bro, tell your wife that you're no longer interested in that marriage and watch her immediate reaction. If she doesn't act extremely concerned, then just know the love is dead from her own part.
If she shows great concern and worried, then know she still loves you but has couple of secrets she's holding back.
You can take it up from there. You can't keep up with this kind of stuff for years. There's got to be a solution to it. You don't have kids yet, so divorcing won't be so much an issue as it won't affect any kid.
All in all, just know that love coconquers all. I know you love your wife so do what's best for your family

Pls what is head

Alot of you thinking i dont do it well the truth is i cant, there is no need pretending about that. Giving head is not my kind of thing.
Have confronted her alot of times she even swore to me no man has ever seen her naked since we got married
I have asked her countless times about the lesbian stuff which she denied.
Why is that now a priority to her now, i cant connect with her emotionally anymore because the more i try the more difficult it becomes.
Life is just not fair this betrayal comming from someone i would take a bullet for, it's hurt.
I cant and will not indulge myself on that Mouth Gig stuff because even if i do it does not necesaary mean she will stop cheating if she was cheating neither will it assure me she would not come up with new sexual orientations

No smoke without fire , you are dead to her heart , be careful or she will silent you if you go too far with the investigat I need thing, if she's having an affair with another woman then t hank your stars ,if na another man then you are half dead

I know a lot of people might have said so much that will probably help the OP

Let me tell you something about women.....

They like it sexy and rosy.


Start your relationship all over again, take her out, make her happy, change her wardrobe do things that will get you attracted to her again and after that work on yourself, focus on looking good for your woman if possible Change your wardrobe as well.....smell nice get that charm again and I believe it will help you trust me.

I know all the things I mentioned above might not come easily because you'll need financial support but all the same it is at the expense of your marriage as you claim you love your wife( family) so do anything to save it if that will be the cost.

Thanks.

liberalchick:
Op, it doesn’t mean your wife is cheating don’t let NL ruin your marriage. Most porn are geared towards a male viewer, so most times the only female friendly porn available are lesbian flicks. So some women that watch porn, watch lesbian porn. Straight women are not as turned off as straight men are to anything gay. Now you guys need to have a talk on why she started watching porn, I suspect she doesn’t feel sexually satisfied.

Her saying “you are not doing it well” just means she is not getting any satisfaction from the way you ‘do’ it. You don’t need to be getting ‘it’ elsewhere to know when you are not sexually satisfied. Again, talk to her, ask her what she wants and why lately she is no longer as excited as she used to be. I will look for the article about female friendly porn, will post it when I see it.

Modified
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a61995/straight-women-lesbian-porn/

Did u read everything he wrote at all?

Hyacenth22:
Alot of you thinking i dont do it well the truth is i cant, there is no need pretending about that. Giving head is not my kind of thing.
Have confronted her alot of times she even swore to me no man has ever seen her naked since we got married
I have asked her countless times about the lesbian stuff which she denied.
Why is that now a priority to her now, i cant connect with her emotionally anymore because the more i try the more difficult it becomes.
Life is just not fair this betrayal comming from someone i would take a bullet for, it's hurt.
I cant and will not indulge myself on that Mouth Gig stuff because even if i do it does not necesaary mean she will stop cheating if she was cheating neither will it assure me she would not come up with new sexual orientations

If you give her mouth gig, she will ask for Mouth Tera byte.
Your wife Is very immature. You need to be hard on her She is not supposed to be getting sexual methods from her friends only to impose it on you. That is selfish!!!

If you can't divorce her, then accuse her of infidelity...

Gentleman style will not help you...

You are being emotionally manipulated...

Sir, to be honest with you, your wife has always been a lesbian who had to pretend to be straight in order to get married due to family and sociEtal pressure.You have two options here-either do the things that will make her aroused so that you can have good sex(alost all lesbians have cunninlingus as their favorite pre-sex activity) or you leave the marriage (cos I feel it was based on deceit). Do not try to change her cos you can't. Only God can. By the way, I almost fell into this kind of predicament with a lesbian who i was planning to marry and who also kept the lesbian ish a secret until I started noticing some signs like wea ring anklets on left leg, being a feminism warrior on the most trivial of issues concerning a man and a woman etc. I had to take off and I'm glad I did. I don't know why people take delight in causing other lifelong pain.

Hyacenth22:
I married my wife 2 years ago, it was all rossy till last year when she had a family issue which was very fatal, we solved it half way so the issues still lingers and bothers her anyway.

Early this year i started noticing lack of sexual urge for me, i practically have to beg her or rather ask for sex was thinking it might be the family issues she was facing, am very faithful to a fault, the issues has lingered on for long now that i have to engage sexual lubricant in other to have sex with her as she is never Hot or sexually stimulated, doesn't miss me or even initiate any form of sexual act with me, does not ask for sex, even during any sex i succeed to imitate she never acts intrested, i just have to stroke till am tired and pull out, she just lay like a dead wood with little or no moan.

This was a lady who was actually always demanding we make love.

I have discussed with her on this issues alot and what seems to be the problem is giving head, when i meet my wife i was very conscious of our sexual orientations as at then MouthAction was something we both agreed to wave off because she complains my dick shocks her and myself never enjoy giving head.

The whole pre intimacy was boiled down to kissing, smooching and fingering which was what normally excites her the most.

She later confessed to me that her female friend talk her into how exciting receiving head seems and after i tried it once she now needs to receive head before she can get Hot, have seen lots of her searched histroy are on lesbian pussy sucking, just last month we both ended up treating an STD she gave me, the last time i tried giving her head she told me i wasn't doing it well, i was lost in thoughts because this was my second time giving her head and i improved as compared to the first time.

Am worried over all these because am begining to think she is cheating on me, the worst nightmare to me is being that any attempt to touch her down there is being resisted and she always says fingering now pains her, it's either i give her head or nothing, i haven't gotten much evidence as to her sleeping around because i haven't done much scoping on her.

Am just confused as i type this because i need clarity and opinions on these how possible can a lady sexual preferences change this fast , if she is actually cheating already is there any good way to find out am just confused.

Please pardon my typos

maynation:
I know.


All the solutions being proffered can't be all useless..

He should just be mindful of the kind of advice he allows to get to him.
That's all.

Okay

BluePrincee:
How can lesbians transmit infection since they can penetrate each other?

Permit me to answer that question broadly.

1. Gays

The reason why gays are particularly prone to STDs such as AIDS is that the anus is too tight and no self-lubricating. When two gays have sex together even once, the skin surface of both sexual organs in use tends to break in too many places, allowing the exchange of fluids from one person to the other.
As you know, STDs are mainly powerful viruses and Bacteria in action. A tiny drop of sexual fluid or blood swarms with millions of these micros organisms. That is where they live.



2. Lesbians

Women in general contact and spread STDs a lot sexier than men because their sexual organ is like a lake of fluids just waiting for anything to come swim in it and get seriously infected. Unfortunately, for us men, the body of a woman is such that she can be infected with certain STDs and not know it for years while the man she slept with two days ago has already developed symptom,.

You see, during sex, lesbian make use of their mouths, fingers, dildos and all kinds of love toys to derive sexual satisfaction. When two or more lesbians use the same intimacy gadget, the same finger, the same mouth on each other, fluid is transmitted and infection occurs.



All that is necessary for infection is the transmission of body fluid from an infected person to another, getting into the bloodstream.

The number one instigator of a problem in a home doing fine is usually a very bitter wife's friend.

She is not cheating on you, but too much of watching lesbian pornography is the problem.

osato45:
is it possible that two females grinding their pussy together during the act can transmitt std to the other lady?

Lesbo po*n expert...lool!

QueenSekxy:
Oh My!! She's obviously cheating with a woman that gives her the head she needs.
How does she know you weren't doing it well if she has not been receiving it from professionals.

And you said she gave you STD, did you bother asking her where she got that disease From? You need to stop overlooking some things before she gives you a deadly and incurable disease.

The bottom line is that she's a lesbian!!!

Wow
Didn't know a woman would be this objective
Thought you were going to side the woman.

Ur wife is now a lesbian..... simple

Deepfeel:
No my point is this if you know your partner is not getting the sexual satisfaction he or she desires do everything possible make them satisfied, sexual satisfaction shouldn't be in favour of only men women need that satisfaction as much as the man does let's not be selfish and think about only our satisfaction when having sex cause the person u are having sex with need it as much as you

Isok! I understand you now. both let me ask you a question. is it ideal for a man to get his dick enlarged in the quest for for his partners sexual satisfaction?

eni4real:
This is a very sad generation.. . See what Is pulling Marriages down nowadays.. .

Putting Mouth in a Vagina

What kind of nonsense is that??

Something that the lady was not used to before Marriage...

She claimed to become aware of it from a friend? The op is too cold....

The thing tire me my brother. Can't try it no matter how clean that place is. If she is not satisfied with other techniques I'm gonna use on her then she can go.