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GOFRONT:


Las las, This rape saga will kill Coza and kill Timi's music career

Gbam. you nailed it. Exactly my point.

Nairaland I go vex for una if u no stop posting this COZA man issue

lilbest4:
All the hoes this man dumped in the past that have been bitter for decades seeing how successful he has become will all come out and accuse him

As a Christian should you be having hoes? Should you be having premarital sex at all? This Nigerian Christianity is really okrika, you pick and drop what suits you. That's why when y'all want to tear shirt and boxers about gay people, I laugh. Hypocrites.

Iyajelili:
I watched the clip on Instagram yesterday. She speaks like a child requesting for candy and I don't know what to make of her and her statement

She & Timi need to fire the movie director.

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Las las, This rape saga will kill Coza and kill Timi's music career[/quote

Gbam. You nailed it. Exactly my point.

Rape! Rape!! Rape!!! This seems to be the latest song Nigerian social media will be singing for the next couple of weeks.
As much as I am not that interested in the whole story, my point is if you are a rape victim (multiple times) for over ten years and you kept mute when you have every thing at your disposal to report your case, I must conclude that you are the real rapist and a criminal.

yourdj2:
Guys. You know say Na woman spoil this world. I heat ladies.. I rather carry my dog dey waka with it than to carry lady.

Na woman cause World War 1 and 2? Na woman cause Biafra? Na woman dey rule Nigeria since 1960 wey we no get head since? Pangolo reasoning.

I get really vexed when I see Nigerians backing up rape stories like this,first it happened when she was 17 and she didn't deem if fit to let us know how many years ago that was, secondly it wasn't at gun point and u didn't scream,bite,struggle with him u let him take a smooth dive into ur honeypot and you dare to come smear his image years after on social media? Nigerian men be wise okay, these ladies are evilllllllllllll soon as they can't have u for as long as they please, they strategise to bring you down.

KanuSE:
She & Timi need to fire the movie director.

I wasn't talking about Busola o, I mean the lady saying she shouldn't have said anything since she's married

KingAzubuike:
That's it bro.. I've been a victim of something close before so I know what I'm saying. Mine happened at my place of work. There was this lady who was fond of talking dirty things and saying thrash. A day like that rain was falling then she was like "this weather is for two o". Jokingly I told her I was available to make it a weather for two for her. She even laughed about it. 3 weeks later we had a disagreement over some missing documents which led to us not talking for days and could you believe she flashed back to the " weather for two" stuff and started telling my colleagues I was making sexual advances at her and wanted to sleep with her? ..I was so dumbfounded and shocked.

Today I've left.the job since more than 10 years now and a successful entrepreneur. I'm sure if she has the chance to prey on me again she will. After the devil, women comes next. It takes a whole lot to deceive Adam and condemn him just by manipulating him to eat a forbidden fruit.

Off point.

How is this related to the issue at hand?

MarieSucre:
As a Christiam should you be having hoes? Should you be having premarital sex at all? This Nigerian Christianity is really okrika, you pick and drop what suits you. That's why when y'all want to tear shirt and boxers about gay people, I laugh. Hypocrites.

relax my friend, I'm irregious and I don't give a shiit whom anyone decides to fucck. Women are notorious for coming after their successful ex

IneedSugarMumy1:
Why did time dakolo and his wife waited till the church suspended them before accusing the man


The pastor raped you then you continued in the same church who does that

You even got pregnant there

Because church suspended you and your husband the pastor became devil

You lots know nothing about this monsterous thing called Rape. You know nothing really.
I only pray that none of you all asking why she didn't come out early or why she continued with her life after the incident and chose to come out now, experience this or have someone close to you go through such.
I don't know the actual truth or what really happened but please, let's learn not to ask some insensitive questions when dealing with rape victims. We only end up dessuading other victims from coming out.
If some of us start recounting some horrible stuffs that happened to us, I think this country and the world at large will be better because we will get to see most people for who they really are. Anytime someone finds his/her voice to open up about such abuse, please do not question the timing.

SayNoToRape

This story will make other young girls in that church to either speak up or be more careful.... To me I believe she was so naive to have spoken up earlier beside the man is still in the act,evidence or no evidence no body should shut her up for speaking up no one knows what she went through

nephemmy:
I don't know what entered the busola dokodoko woman oo...you've got ur husband/kids..you're OK even though not very rich..you still went to say u were raped several times by baba fato..let's say he raped u which I know he didn't but anyhow the main ain't perfect..he's not JESUS...whatever you're trying to do I promise you it won't work cos the man simply said he's not gonna bang u no more so u had to blackmail the man...no worries God's watching..

how you take know he didn't...say only what you know abeg....

Monaco2:
Nawa it doesn’t really matter if she is married or not truth is she choose to come out now because she had found her voice n for those people asking her y did she not scream, not all rape victim scream or fight when they are being rapped. Some are too shock to even utter a word while some just cry in silence. So please let’s be guided n stop asking silly questions

Have you been raped b4, please let the real victims of rape enlighten us on the bolded text.

Thank you

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agbekeOreke86:
Madam Rika,irrespective of what you ma'am thinks or anybody else at that,Busola's gonna sleep peacefully with both eyes closed probably for the 1st time in 20yrs.does this look like a joke to u ma'am??molested/raped victims(either male/female) never heals ma...it can only get better when they talk about it.why do you think they send them to rehab abroad n subsuquently support groups to help them heal??u think Timi wanna expouse his wife like that??His ego is on the line here.no man wanna know who has 'been' with his woman/wife before.na strong head men dey use ooo.the reason why she could come out eventually is to find peace within herself despite the fact that she gat a happy home....sorry ma'am,marital status dosnt automatically absolve rape and molestation!!!!

Will you carry your bleaching skin out of here. Don't let me loose it...

moomoo rape is rape. stop pushing that petty narrative. It makes you and your pastor look more guilty. His penees will fight for him

IneedSugarMumy1:
Why did time dakolo and his wife waited till the church suspended them before accusing the man


The pastor raped you then you continued in the same church who does that

You even got pregnant there

Because church suspended you and your husband the pastor became devil

Zombiekiller010:
Have been wrongly accused of rape.

Let me share my story here.

When i was in my final semester in sch, there is one
ND1 pretty endowed lady(big ass) that used to catch my attention , i collected her number and we started talking and she accepted to date me, not up to a week, she came to know my hostel, i also went to visit her to know where she live outside campus, everything was going smoothly ,on my 2nd visitation to her, we smooch ,she is a churchy type (SU) telling me she is a virgin and not ready for premarital sex, been a guy with OT , i expressed my love to her and the reason why she need to open legs for me to boost our love, she lost herself in romance and we had our first sex ,no drop of blood, thou she is tight, on my 2nd visitation to her in the evening, it was already late and she told me to sleep over, we had our 2nd sex , we both enjoyed it and she told me how she has loved me more, on my 3rd visitation to her, i went with my 2 friends, she welcome us ,play and i took her out to buy her provisions, so the following week, i started writing my final semester exam, no time to call her like b4 and to visit her, she sent me messages expressing how much she miss me and needs to see me, shorty after i finished my exam for that day, i & my friend went to visit that my new endowed girlfriend , my friend went back to the hostel leaving me at my girlfriends place, after joking, lots to talks and romance, we had our 3rd sex, i went back to my hostel that evening relaxing outside on a bench, not up to 30min i got home,

I heard, this is the guy, a hot slap hit on my ear and push me down from bench, b4 i know whats happening, many guys has been beating me and stripped me to my boxer, i hold my balls and dick to protect it from getting hit and i was shouting for help cus i dont know those guys beating me ,i dont know what i did, many people gathered to watch , it was some elderly people in that street that came to rescue me from those guys , when one of those guys beating me switch on torch light to look at my face, he happens to be the guy i know and i do give him little change in street( he is a well know thug) . everybody was eager to know what have done to deserve the beating, those guys said it was a church brother to that my endowed girlfriend that raised alarm to them that i raped Bunmi, at this point,i was like which Bunmi, she stare at me and said i raped her, some guys started hitting me again, i was giving opportunity to talk, i showed them messages that Bunmi sent to me that same day expressing her love to me , i showed them proof that have once slept over at her room and this is our 3rd sex, Bunmi couldn't denied it cuz of the text messages i showed as evidence that we were dating, those thugs slapped her, hit and and tore her clothe, they started apologising to me and everybody that came to watch that scene started raising curse on Bunmi for accusing me wrongly, i know you'll want to know her reasons for accusing me of rapping her.

She said she felt bad for opening legs for me within 3 weeks that we meet , i also think she was dating her church member and they haven't had sex prior to the time i asked her out, seems they had issues b4 i met her and that reconcile on my 3rd visitation to her place , maybe she narrated her sex life with me to her church boyfriend , you know ladies always hide under rape to make them looks like they didn't consent to sex, Bunmi and her foolish sympathisers left in shame, police station is Opp her house, they asked her why she didn't went to report to police, as a poor boy i be then, no means to take up the matter legally but
Am still waiting for the best time to revenge.

Bunmi 2018 set of Office technology department OND @ the polytechnic Ibadan,living at Oluyole medical laboratory building sango ibadan opp police barack

back to the Issue of Fatoyinbo, he may truly had sex with Busola,been a married man and a Pastor, he is wrong if he is guilty,as for Busola Dakolo, you cant tell me a 17 years old girl is too young to resist sex back then, its like saying regina Daniel should come out in the next 10 years for accuse Ned Nwoko of raping her and forcefully marrying her if Ned later divorce her.

Timi Dakolo had issues with that pastor and want to use his wife as a tool to tarnish his image.

Say no to jungle justice, Say no to rape , Say no to false accusation

Fear girls!!!

I wish I was there then to beat the hell out of the devilish Bumming! Some women are just pure evil, Satan self dey learn where some women and their wicked strategy to bring down a man dey.

blaqroy:
This story will make other young girls in that church to either speak up or be more careful.... To me I believe she was so naive to have spoken up earlier beside the man is still in the act,evidence or no evidence no body should shut her up for speaking up no one knows what she went through

even if she speak then,,nobody go listen...in turn she would be seriously stigmatized,,av seen situation of this severally .....e be like say una no hear of ochanya story....

agbekeOreke86:
Madam Rika,irrespective of what you ma'am thinks or anybody else at that,Busola's gonna sleep peacefully with both eyes closed probably for the 1st time in 20yrs.does this look like a joke to u ma'am??molested/raped victims(either male/female) never heals ma...it can only get better when they talk about it.why do you think they send them to rehab abroad n subsuquently support groups to help them heal??u think Timi wanna expouse his wife like that??His ego is on the line here.no man wanna know who has 'been' with his woman/wife before.na strong head men dey use ooo.the reason why she could come out eventually is to find peace within herself despite the fact that she gat a happy home....sorry ma'am,marital status dosnt automatically absolve rape and molestation!!!!

who told u they dont heal...
If u have ever been raped and u are not healed, then u refused to be healed... because every rape victim go through healing process, u can say they heal differently....

Iyajelili:
I wasn't talking about Busola o, I mean the lady saying she shouldn't have said anything since she's married

I know but I still maintain that Timi & Busola need to fire the movie director coz there are lots of defects in the interview... lots of questions begging for answers.

Busola doesn't come across as clean IMO

KingAzubuike:
If I was fatoyinbo, I'd sue that idiot for defamation and blackmail. These women can be very devilish. They wait for you to be successful and popular before telling the whole world of a rape case that happened in 1945. There's no single evidence yet but see how people are already against an innocent fatoyinbo. God will fight for him.

Oga, leave that 1945 issue, most women who are raped or sexually molested live with it for the rest of their lives and never forgives or forgets especially when the rapist carrys on as if not has happened. The only healing process is to speak out.

KingAzubuike:
That's it bro.. I've been a victim of something close before so I know what I'm saying. Mine happened at my place of work. There was this lady who was fond of talking dirty things and saying thrash. A day like that rain was falling then she was like "this weather is for two o". Jokingly I told her I was available to make it a weather for two for her. She even laughed about it. 3 weeks later we had a disagreement over some missing documents which led to us not talking for days and could you believe she flashed back to the " weather for two" stuff and started telling my colleagues I was making sexual advances at her and wanted to sleep with her? ..I was so dumbfounded and shocked.

Today I've left.the job since more than 10 years now and a successful entrepreneur. I'm sure if she has the chance to prey on me again she will. After the devil, women comes next. It takes a whole lot to deceive Adam and condemn him just by manipulating him to eat a forbidden fruit.

With all your stories, you eventually ended up with a female moniker. Shame on you!

Did we expose you? No, you did so yourself.

mimilogistics:
Very true; it downgraded her marriage and family.

Yes people will be cheering her on now go girl go girl we are solidly behind you, but deep down their hearts they are laughing at her, and reeling in laughter behind closed doors and wondering that so this woman was debased by another man before her husband even though it is not a crime.

The dent this will leave on her marriage and reputation may out leave the current attention and presumed supports she is getting now

People are laughing that a man debased her before her husband? Is that the kind of things you people find funny in your area.
Let me even imagine it sef.

"Biodun Fatoyinbo came to the house of an underage girl one day hahahaha

Biodun Fatoyinbo a married man with kids now choked her in the car and raped her hhehehe haha haha lmaooo

Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo, spiritual leader of thousands now climaxed in her after sweating for 20 seconds hheheheheheh haha haha hohohohoho

Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo father to two great kids, husband to a wonderful wife, as his bio states and who told his kids bye bye that he will buy them biscuit when he comes back now went and brought Kresh drink/local birth control inside and forced it on this girl ahhahahahahahahah

And now to end this very funny story, we are going to proceed to laugh at her, not him Biodun Fatoyinbo, a father, a husband, a pastor, and adult man who just had non-consensual sex with this girl, we are going to laugh at her HAHAHAHAHAH. Aren't we funny? Isn't it funny?

Jesus, Nigerians can be disgusting at times sha!

cococandy:
Na them. Always shaming the victims . Making it seems like you’re the one to be ashamed for what someone else did to you’d empowering wickedness among men.
Misogyny’s foot soldier

Let's not ride on emotions - it's a dangerous adventure.

Iyajelili:
I watched the clip on Instagram yesterday. She speaks like a child requesting for candy and I don't know what to make of her and her statement

she is looking for cheap pity.... wel she has gotten it

KingAzubuike:
If I was fatoyinbo, I'd sue that idiot for defamation and blackmail. These women can be very devilish. They wait for you to be successful and popular before telling the whole world of a rape case that happened in 1945. There's no single evidence yet but see how people are already against an innocent fatoyinbo. God will fight for him.

they mist have raped u enuf

agbekeOreke86:
Madam Rika,irrespective of what you ma'am thinks or anybody else at that,Busola's gonna sleep peacefully with both eyes closed probably for the 1st time in 20yrs.does this look like a joke to u ma'am??molested/raped victims(either male/female) never heals ma...it can only get better when they talk about it.why do you think they send them to rehab abroad n subsuquently support groups to help them heal??u think Timi wanna expouse his wife like that??His ego is on the line here.no man wanna know who has 'been' with his woman/wife before.na strong head men dey use ooo.the reason why she could come out eventually is to find peace within herself despite the fact that she gat a happy home....sorry ma'am,marital status dosnt automatically absolve rape and molestation!!!!

Oga,this healing process should have happened a long time when they were still courting.all this drama shoukd have resulted in bukola's family or timi dakolo filling a suit against the he-goat of a pastor.
Or are u telling me timi dakolo just knew about the rape story?

mimilogistics:
Very true; it downgraded her marriage and family.

Yes people will be cheering her on now go girl go girl we are solidly behind you, but deep down their hearts they are laughing at her, and reeling in laughter behind closed doors and wondering that so this woman was debased by another man before her husband even though it is not a crime.

The dent this will leave on her marriage and reputation may out leave the current attention and presumed supports she is getting now

In situations like this, you consider your family image. Yes it hurts but God fight the battle for you if u are innocent, trust in God, move on

See this useless rapist.

You are scared that your own victims will come out abi?

Instead of you to concentrate on duping people with your fake bizness, you are here spewing thrash.

Idiot

CookieLaVee:
You lots know nothing about this monsterous thing called Rape. You know nothing really.
I only pray that none of you all asking why she didn't come out early or why she continued with her life after the incident and chose to come out now, experience this or have someone close to you go through such.
I don't know the actual truth or what really happened but please, let's learn not to ask some insensitive questions when dealing with rape victims. We only end up dessuading other victims from coming out.
If some of us start recounting some horrible stuffs that happened to us, I think this country and the world at large will be better because we will get to see most people for who they really are. Anytime someone founds his/her voice to open up about such abuse, please do not question the timing.

SayNoToRape

Oga nobody is supporting rape here

She didn't just continued with her life, she continued worshiping in that church, even chorister self