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Genevieve Nnaji Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation / Lady Destroys Sapphire Perfume After Wale Jana Defended Pastor Fatoyinbo On Rape / Busola Dakolo And Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation: 5 Shocking Things (2) (3) (4)
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by KanuSE(f): 11:44am On Jun 29|
Rape can be reported anytime, with damning evidence though in order to make a strong case.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by Carlyboi(m): 11:45am On Jun 29|
OmoDavido:Tho what the girl did is quite wrong or evil but the guy self no try no be everytime person go dey form sharp guy na he obtained sex by trick and the girl been a virgin killed it for him next time he should just make sure they both wanted it or she wanted it more instead of getting into her head to get it!!!
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by Gbemishile1(m): 11:46am On Jun 29|
MarieSucre:Madam,make we assume,Good forbid,say person rape u
Ur sisters and family members come say make u still dey go d church to save face and respect for the pastor,u go fit do am,abi u no go tear craze for ur Papa and ur sisters.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by tunjilana: 11:46am On Jun 29|
Me I have learnt to group these things into buckets
And my initial reaction is always based on this...
1. Violent non consensual sexual acts with someone above 18 ( deserves all the condemnation and damnation it deserves)
2. Sexual act with a minor whether consensual or not.. minor below 15 deserves total damnation and if possible death sef... between 15 and 18 without consent deserves all the damnation and even death...between 15 and 18 with consent deserves condemnation and legal punishment but not as grave as other categories
3. Non violent non consensual act with someone above 18.. deserves all the condemnation, punishment and damnation possible
4. Non violent, circumstantially non consensual(borderline) sexual act with someone over 18. required further proof of consent or non consent before I make a comment....
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by TONYE001(m): 11:46am On Jun 29|
Wow. Wow. Chibok girls healed? Says a certified psychologist?
It would interest you to know that the said victim has all the attention she needs before this saga. She and her husband are in the show business so what other attention is she seeking? It's only sad that even in this very tough times, you have decided to call her names, unprintable names at that.
I was not there when this whole thing happened. I don't have any direct info about this whole thing. What we have now is her word. But question, is it coincidence that others have also come out to tell similar stories? Are you aware that this man has been consistently associated with stuffs like this in the recent past? Haven't you read stories of some of his members call him out?
I suggest you consider a different reasoning about this whole thing.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by MarieSucre(f): 11:47am On Jun 29|
Judging by your comment history, you weren't concerned about them till Busola"s story came up.
You know that the average human brain can be concerned about more than one thing at the same time. I did say the average human brain tho.
Good thing, she doesn't need your concern for her story to carry on.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by Sprumbaba: 11:47am On Jun 29|
you actually did make sexual advances towards her. Also, are you a She Boy? Your profile says F
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by jimmyLd101: 11:47am On Jun 29|
IneedSugarMumy1:This is the only sensible comment have read on here . So the man suspend them for him church. If thats true no case to answer
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by MarieSucre(f): 11:48am On Jun 29|
Who cares where he is at in life? Nigerians worship wealth too much. Explains why our politicans get away with anything because they're "rich and famous" like you said.
If someone is guilty, it shouldn't matter their financial situation, they should be brought to book.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by AMI3(m): 11:51am On Jun 29|
can somebody explain to me without any insult because I want to know how this thing works.
Your Pastor came to your sit in the sitting room the next moment he pounced on you over power you then use one hand to cover your mouth then use the other hand to ,
PULL HIS TROUSERS ; AN THE VICTIM IS LYING ON THE FLOOR MOTIONLESS WATCHING HOW HE REMOVE HIS BELT OR LOOSED HIS TROUSERS,
the victim does not react or struggle.
THEN WENT FURTHER TO STILL PULL YOUR CLOTH PLUS YOUR PANTIES
AND U STILL LAY MOTIONLESS.
WHAT HAPPENS TO YOUR TOO HANDS
USE THE SAME ONE HAND TO SPREAD YOUR LEGS
YOU ARE STILL MOTIONLESS AND YOUR TWO HANDS ARE FREE
REMOVE HIS DI*CK INSERT IT IN YOUR PUS*Y THAT HAS NOT BEEN TEMPERED BEFORE.
AND U ARE STILL BEING LYING MOTIONLESS.
FINALLY THE DI*CK JUST HAVE EASY PASSAGE INTO PUS*Y THAT HAS NOT BEEN TEMPERED BEFORE; IS IT EASY LIKE THAT? I ASK
HOW MANY HAVE DISVERGIN A GIRL BEFORE IF HAVE DONE THAT MAY BE U WILL KNOW WHAT IT TAKES
ALL THESE PROCESS TOO PLACE IN THE GIRLS PARENT HOUSE ;
IF YOU ARE PASTOR KNOWING FULLY WELL THAT ANYBODY CAN WORK INTO THE HOUSE THAT U DON'T CONTROL OVER, WILL YOU EMBARK SUCH RISKY VENTURE.
I BELIEVE THE PASTOR IS OLD ENOUGH TO SPEAK FOR HIMSELF .
WETIN CONCERN ME SEF.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by MarieSucre(f): 11:52am On Jun 29|
I feel sorry that this woman tarnished your name is such a way. Is there a way to sue her for defamation? The reason I say this is because, if no one challenges this wrong actions, she might be emboldened to keep doing it. She needs to be brough to book entailing serious consequences that will deter others from maligning their co-workers in such a way.
Finally, bros if women are really to be feared after the devil. Then who should we fear for all the world wars and the way Nigeria is?
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by KanuSE(f): 11:53am On Jun 29|
Please put down the picture coz it's distasteful - cruelty to an animal.
The pic doesn't make sense, please do the needful.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by Iyajelili(f): 11:55am On Jun 29|
You know what? I don't jump into conclusion or take sides when it comes to rape but she was 17 for fvck sakes.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by AdorableJosh(m): 11:56am On Jun 29|
She should have moved on? What a dunderhead.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by MarieSucre(f): 11:56am On Jun 29|
Ok. I'll bite, what makes you think this is it?
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by Gulher: 11:57am On Jun 29|
mimilogistics:it is in your dreams people are reeling in laughter. You must be a child. Even your wife or future wife will likely have been touched by a man before you in this sexualized world. this is not a big deal in this world. contrary to your thoughts most of the world will support her if this story is real and she will feel better and enjoy her marriage. No one laughing.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by CookieLaVee: 11:57am On Jun 29|
Are you a rape victim? I am 100% sure you are not. Then chill, you know next to nothing of how a rape victim should carry on with his/her life. Every rape victim has this darkness within, how he/she chooses to manage it has nothing to do with anything.
I was a victim, few people know my story. I once penned it down her on nairaland but I had to erase everything as I still felt I was not ready to let it all out. I have forgiven the person but have I forgotten? No way in hell! Closure is one sure way to heal and it takes some people years to get that closure. If Busola was actually raped and feels the time is right to confront her fears, leave her being a chorister and an active member of the said church out of it.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by flowx(m): 11:57am On Jun 29|
KingAzubuike:I thought as much... So you're male and you identify yourself as female on Nairaland Forum. God punish you overthere... Idiot!
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by Neoteny(m): 11:58am On Jun 29|
Practice what you preach (eh)
I'm not saying he isn't, but how do you know he's innocent?
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by IneedSugarMumy1(m): 12:00pm On Jun 29|
Had it been neymer never got evidence to shut her accuser up, you will still support the girl
We know how girls behave
What if tomorrow it happen that all these are all mere allegations
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 12:00pm On Jun 29|
Iyajelili:When you want the world to buy your story, you act like the victim. What other way of acting like the victim than walking the way she did? If Biodun did it, I feel sorry for her and God's wrath will befall him, otherwise, God will punish her!
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by Insectkiller: 12:02pm On Jun 29|
Even if it's true..
You are just confessing.. busola dakolo is deludedd
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by MarieSucre(f): 12:04pm On Jun 29|
Oga see ehn, this is why I say a lot of y'all don't have the range for this discussion. You are Jon Snow, you know nothing.
A lot of us! A lot of us are living with, forced to smile and greet, even kneel down in family meetings to uncles/aunties/neighbours/pastors/lecturers/supervisrs/managers etc that have assaulted us.
Why haven't we separated ourselves?
Because they form part of social circle, our family, our church circle, our school circle, our work circle etc
Withdrawing from them would be highly noticeable, you can minimise interaction, depending on the kind of relationship not everyone can even do this but too much of a withdrawal will raise suspicion.
Then people will start asking uncomfortable questions and dredging up bad memories. You can choose to lie, so as forestall the trauma of having to repeat again word for word to different people or you can tell the truth and do what Busola did, which is strip yourself and expose yourself and risk being stabbed all over again by people's words.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by CookieLaVee: 12:04pm On Jun 29|
IneedSugarMumy1:You have committed fallacy of generalisation with your knowing how "girls" behave statement ...
If Busola is accusing him wrongly, she will face the full wrath of the law and social media justice. For now, all we have is her word, do not condemn or ask insensitive questions.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by Barbequeman: 12:07pm On Jun 29|
The woman is lying about been a virgin, am not supporting d pastor nor blaming d woman but what I know vividly is that there's no Way a man can rape a virgin successfully if she's struggling with d rapist. No Way
There are two things involved
1. Is either d girl was no more a virgin then or
2.she submitted herself for d pastor to penetrate and she might enjoyed it.
My own views is that this woman is trying to cover something that's y she came up with this. I remembered some weeks ago when a woman told
Timi dakolo to have a DNA test of all his baby that pastor fatoyinbo is father to one of his child. A lot of people mock d lady, abuse her and call her so many names and now BUSOLA has come out to accused d pastor of a RAPE. WE all should look into this issues and reason well. My opinion though.
SAY NO TO RAPE AND AT D SAME TIME SAY NO TO FALSE ACCUSATIONS ✌ ✌
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|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by Newmanluckyman(m): 12:08pm On Jun 29|
KingAzubuike:..."innocent Fatoyinbo" and "There's no single evidence" . How much confused are you?
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jun 29|
That rape thing is dangerous for people.
My girlfriend wouldn't wanna stay lonely with me even without evil intentions.
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by ashantitope: 12:08pm On Jun 29|
What is blackmail if is innocent of it let him go to court but is she the first person to say that so don't you know how many people have been keeping this kind of secrets just because they don't want people to tag them with different name and I even like her husband for supporting her and remember it not now that just happened so she have been in prison of that issue for so long and if she didn't say it out and she fortunate to be one on one with the pastor she can kill him if she still remember
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by prizequest: 12:11pm On Jun 29|
there was this girl back then, we were 18 then and she was our neighbour upstairs in a block of flats apartment. whenever we met at the stairs, she'll hold me and press her mammary glands on me and other funny sexual advances. she wanted sex and i rejected her request. she promise to deal with me.
few weeks after, my uncle called me and gave me serious scolding for writing a letter to our neighbour daughter begging for sex even putting money inside the envelop to entice her. i denied even when he had "the evidence" in his hand. the girl was called to substantiate her claims and she narrated how i had been harrassing her on the stairs.
till date no one believe my story. lol
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by Monaco2(m): 12:14pm On Jun 29|
[quote author=KanuSE post=79776163]
Have you been raped b4, please let the real victims of rape enlighten us on the bolded text.
Someone close to me was a rape victim, so I know wat I’m saying
|Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by AverageAnnie(f): 12:18pm On Jun 29|
even your moniker reminds me of an idiot... My only consolation to all rapists in the world is that their beautiful daughters will taste more of what RAPE is.
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