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| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Iyajelili(f): 11:24am On Jun 29, 2019 |
Neddstark:Not surprised |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Nobody: 11:24am On Jun 29, 2019 |
DaddySpyce:And you think you are wise because you jump into conclusions before you think just because others are on the same bandwagon? So many bitch niggaz parading themselves as men. Smh |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Giddyperson: 11:27am On Jun 29, 2019 |
Xda59:Did it occur to you that he could also be profiling his victims. Choosing his victims by studying their personalities and predicting their reactions, worse still grooming them before he attacks. He is a person in a position of authority, so to an extent they trusted him. How come most people who were raped by their parents for years never screamed or fought. Daddy probably said 'Just relax, everything would be fine'. It usually takes them a couple of hours, weeks, months and even years to realise everything isn't fine. |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by arimahoseloka(m): 11:29am On Jun 29, 2019 |
nwaguy01:Not all women have the courage to even fight back or scream there are many instances out of serious shock and fear they give in. It happens alot |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by DaddySpyce(m): 11:36am On Jun 29, 2019 |
Xda59:Exactly so many bitch niggaz and isnt it obvious you are one. I am not jumping into any conclusion yet but your low level of thinking called for some correction. You don't write stupidly and expect someone not to see it and say something to correct your stupidity. |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Nobody: 11:40am On Jun 29, 2019 |
Daeylar:Too many lying evil whores like you out there for us to accept everything hook, line and sinker without evidence. As we speak, you type are still booking space to fùck pastors and other married men and when things turn sour, you harlots will start screaming rape. That is what is fùcking happening bitch! |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by 3verblazing(m): 11:40am On Jun 29, 2019 |
PlanetOfApes:i didnt hear ese's story bu from ur comment u obviiusly didnt see n listen to all busola said ... |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by blessedaunty: 11:51am On Jun 29, 2019 |
Jayslicky:Once you sleep with someone less than 18 years of age it is called statutory rape. So whether she shouts or not. |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by hope4life: 11:52am On Jun 29, 2019 |
Rape is evil with psychological trauma that can last one's lifetime.But this is my take on rape.Except a man carries gun of dangerous weapon that is sure he can kill you except you cooperate, a man cannot rape you successfully without your consent. In my own view two types of rape 1.Rape by unfamiliar person e.g armed robbers,touts,thugs ,fulani herdsmen,biko harametc.They usually hold dangerous weapons You may have no option 2.Rape by familiar person e.g family members,colleagues at work or school, religious leaders,friends,neighbours etc Usually without weapon.This one you can fight it out by hitting,punshing,creaming etc even if he will eventually overpower you being a man,do something that shows you don't want it.Even Bible says so. Note: If you know what has been transpiring between a lady and a man before rape takes place,you will slap the lady for claiming rape.Yes not in all cases but life experience proves it right.A.man studies a lady before making any attempt. Every lady should prepare for any eventuality |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by ccollins(m): 11:57am On Jun 29, 2019 |
PlanetOfApes:not Monica Lewinsky as she had a amorous affair with bill Clinton hitherto ,it was actually the CIA who leaked out damning information of their illicit affair that made them separate and bill Clinton was impeached from being the President. the CIA technically messed up bill Clinton |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Evercurious(f): 11:57am On Jun 29, 2019 |
Zombiekiller010:Thank you for this |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Jamersirwin1971: 12:01pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Jayslicky:Would you expect a young lady of 13 years old who doesn’t know a thing to shout and fight when she feels over powered and threathened with an object . People come here and write things I sometimes wonder if we don’t think or we expect everyone to be the same . A lady of 30 years who is matured would be raped at gun point and won’t scream and fight . Just pray it doesn’t happen to someone close to you and you will undertand |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Emanodimo(m): 12:01pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Jayslicky:Yes Bro... If rape is a crime... And u allow it peacefully.. Later to react.. It means u are partner in crime. |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by henribj(m): 12:11pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Jayslicky:I wonder if you have ever been in "shock". If you have, then you won't write what you wrote up there |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Insectkiller: 12:12pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Kemi adetiba must surely be a victim of rape.. can you see how she narrated their characteristics... Hmmm... What is it abt d ckza man.. Is it bad for a Man to be handsome...and all this naija fake celeebrity wants to bring d man down.. Meshaanu! Apiaa |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by nimabusta(f): 12:15pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Jayslicky:People have different ways of reacting to things.. People can be dull or are unsure of what to do in cases like that .Speak only for yourself! |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by GraGra247(m): 12:35pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Zombiekiller010:Please share this your false rape story everywhere online. It has opened my eyes more. Hopefully it will open the eyes of blinded Nigerians everywhere and liberate countless innocent men that have been brutalized and locked up over rape that never happened |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by zomoears(m): 12:38pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
nwaguy01:I think this case is more about sexual manipulation and sexual predation than it is about rape. At 15 she was naive and was manipulated by a pastor who was supposed to be her spiritual chaperone. It is a gross abuse of previlege! |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Jayslicky:U are speaking out of gross ignorance |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by mysteryman2014: 12:42pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Jayslicky:Sure that's what the bible says , there must be resistance expect in an isolated place where no one is around |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by mvem(m): 12:44pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Jayslicky:you are very wrong....do you know what it means to be shocked and not able to scream. Do you think intimidation can only come with a weapon but not by words. |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by mvem(m): 12:46pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
nwaguy01:so someone can't be intimidated by words it must be with weapon.. Guy in the right situation you can intimidate someone without any weapon like a young person without the person screaming |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by therajah: 1:36pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
nwaguy01:Have you ever heard of 'statutory rape' ? |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Ekaka1(m): 1:41pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Iyajelili:That's the second part actually. The first part is the utter shock the victim might receive because they don't know how to react.. In the specific case making rounds...busola said, she and her siblings simply looked up to biodynamic as a "father" figure and of course "pastor" . The Op is right..people react differently to rape, a friend of mine told me how an "uncle" living in their "yard" many years ago raped her when she was 9 and she tried telling her mom when she got back even with the evidence, but the woman told her to shut up as she did not know what the implication of accusing such a man will mean in the compound...that incident affected her and strained her relationship with her mom to an extent till date....these things are neither here nor there...I mean a 16 or 17 year old would probably not fight too hard or even scream too loud if the predator starts out telling her 'it's not what you think it's gonna happen..." blablabla .. What do I even know...scream or , no screams and fight some people will still pick a hole in your experience but nobody can take your experience away with their bogus and ammature investigative analysis. An adult can pin you down with his/her dead weight and simply signal that you don't even open your mouth...they don't need a weapon to do that |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by HomeOfMe(f): 2:06pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
nwaguy01:How do you expect a minor prolly between 10/13 to resist a full fleged nan? The minor might not even understand what is being din to her. |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by laudate: 2:08pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Jayslicky: nwaguy01:Wubbish! There are cases where people can be paralysed with fear, in the face of aggression or in a crisis, that they become too powerless to respond, or even fight! ![]() Jaynom:Thank you, o! Tell them ....please. ![]() |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by LordAdam16: 2:39pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Zombiekiller010:Thankfully you had evidence to acquit yourself. I sincerely hope you've healed tho'. -Lord |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Femeto: 2:41pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Jayslicky:Terrible. A full man climbed a 17 year old and covered her mouth is not rape abi. |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Zombiekiller010: 2:47pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
LordAdam16:i haven't, i was harassed and embarrassed in public, imagine moving around my street with thought of been wrongly accused of rape |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by LordAdam16: 2:54pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Zombiekiller010:Sorry to hear that. That said, our experiences mold us. Everyone goes through terrible sh*t at some point and very few have access to professional help. I do hope you don't let it keep you down. Life is a MF, but we've got to thrive in adversity. That's what makes the success, the laughs, and the good times worth it. Hope that helps. -Lord |
| Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Olibboy: 2:59pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
maybachmusic:Busola is just an attention seeker. the bonnet part says it all |
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