Well I'm not really against ppl going into relationship wit whichever tribe, race or nationality. I only want ppl to know what they getting themselves into.
Here in d north, many ladies who are non Hausa look forward to hausa guys asking them out bcoz they believe d guys are cool or can spend so much on a lady. Many ladies even dump their relationship with a promising suitor with whom they share much similarities for some random hausa guys and later regret it.
To begin with, hausa guys might be naive in dating or spend recklessly on ladies but are quite bad in many aspects
1. The possibility of a hausa guy marrying a non hausa fulani lady is very low
2. Hausa guys mostly like to marry underage virgin girls, so ladies frolicking with them are only fooling yourself
3.If relationship with hausa guys leads to pregnancy, they may not deny impregnating d lady, but they will not accept it. That is the time the relationship will die, you may never see the man forever again. I have met ladies with babies telling me how their hausa boyfriends impregnated them and later told them that such pregnancies and their products are not accepted in their places. In fact you can hardly see a lady pregnant without marriage in a typical hausa community, they abort them - so if you their non hausa wajoko refuse to abort they . Tleave the baby with you and disappear. This hausa practice of abandoning their babies with their girlfriends is quite common all over the north. They do it even with southern kaduna ladies, even though hausa n southern kaduna pop don't really like each other. I could remember some years ago when their was a conflict between hausa and d southern kaduna ppl and a colleague Hausa was complaining to fellow colleagues from southern kaduna about how his ppl were dealt with, his colleagu simply replied that "yaran ku ne suka kashe ku" , meaning it's their abandoned kids with them that fought them .This clearly testifies that the atrocities of hausa men dating, impregnating and abandoning non hausa ladies is quite known and is now some sort of culture among d bad hausa guys.
Well any lady who wanna go after hausa guys should know beforehand what she stand to gain or lose-thats all I'm trying to point out.

Well I'm not tribalistic either but don't classify a whole tribe and write .. true many Hausa people are so primitive ... and hate you for being better than them .. but fact is they control this country at the moment so if you have an encounter with any of them .l make him/she feel special collect what u need and bolt

Came4amod:
Well I'm not tribalistic either but don't classify a whole tribe and write .. true many Hausa people are so primitive ... and hate you for being better than them .. but fact is they control this country at the moment so if you have an encounter with any of them .l make him/she feel special collect what u need and bolt

bolt wit pregnancy?

My own bi say do not be equally yoked with an unbeliever

Quality20:
bolt wit pregnancy?

A male can't get pregnant and for the women use your head ... postinor is less than 500

Phenomenal16:
My own bi say do not be equally yoked with an unbeliever

As in?

lol,it seems you people are obsessed with us

Phenomenal16:
My own bi say do not be equally yoked with an unbeliever

I dumped a girl for this simple reason. I can't stand a Christian girl who has ever dated a non christian.

scaramucci:


I dumped a girl for this simple reason. I can't stand a Christian girl who has ever dated a non christian.

but it's just casual dating and sex not marriage

OP I disagree with you on this..you can't generalize a whole tribe just because some of them are doing it..
Your tribe too is not free from all the things you mentioned or even something worst than that

Well, what I will say is next time be very, very specific. This is because to an average southerner, all northerners are Hausa, meaning all northerners do this, which is not true.

So, instead of just saying Hausa, how about saying Hausa/Fulani Muslims?

I'm from central North, Hausa is the general language here but we all have our different languages. My dream is to marry from the south. (South south or south east), so don't come and discourage my future wife, she might be here on nairaland, who knows?

Again, when it comes to marriage, Central north doesn't discriminate ( I mean the xtians). Any human being you present to your people as your choice, they'll support you. Of course they will advise you if they need to, but at the end of the day, your decision stands.

So, what the op is trying to say is relationships between a southern girl and a Hausa/Fulani Muslim man is almost not going anywhere, which is 99.9% true. Except you'll convert, which is not always the best for both parties. Even the northern Christian girls are not exempted, they mess them up too!
But you sef, as a southern girl or Christian girl, wetin you find go near aboki man? E no fit pass money. Cos you sef suppose know say the package no de go anywhere. Him go mess you up I swear.

Phenomenal16:
My own bi say do not be equally yoked with an unbeliever

so what makes hausa man unbeliever? if u dont know, real believers full north pass the south.