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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by zexy2030(m): 9:20pm On Jul 07, 2019
MissRaine69:

May I ask a bold question? If you have had unprotected sex at some point in your life how do you know there is a woman out there who might have done the same where you are the father? Secondly your trust issues are a reflection of you and your personality traits if she lies and you find out later would that not exacerbate matters more?
This was why I left my ex..she aborted but I got know, then asked her she denied.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by kunleweb: 9:22pm On Jul 07, 2019
Obodo999:


You need to confess and repent if you have killed your unborn child.


Leave them when they act badly they then sugar coat it guilt tripping men

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by LegoMetahuman: 9:41pm On Jul 07, 2019
MissRaine69:

70%?
And where did you pull out ( pardon the pun) that number from?
its sadly true.

you will hardly see sexually active woman that has not done abortion in nigeria

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Melonny(m): 11:07pm On Jul 07, 2019
I will be indifferent in as much she can give birth to a child in the future...

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by fcdgrand(m): 11:51pm On Jul 07, 2019
the logic truth is that my perception will change and the emotional truth is that i will rather not know; in summary, men should go for 19 to 22 yrs virgin as wife and 23 yrs non virgin and above as sex mate aka girlfriend

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 12:17am On Jul 08, 2019
When I saw this thread, it had 69 posts. I hate that number; 69. Had to make it 70 posts

Emi ika

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 12:24am On Jul 08, 2019
Tundevictorbet:
cry[color=#550000][/color]sure 2 odds Available

If I sand you ehn... why you quoting me with this jargon? Dem shekpe for you ni?

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 12:25am On Jul 08, 2019
as far as her womb is intact my perception wont change but if d womb has disappeared with d abortion she did i will stil forgive her still but i will wear my shoes put on my shirt and qiuetly walk away towards d horizon.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Michelle55: 12:28am On Jul 08, 2019
TBH, I'll just tell him and if he feels that I'm not good enough anymore then so be it.. It's best he hears it from me rather than a third party who knows about it from my past. Just keep a clean slate.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Ugosample(m): 12:31am On Jul 08, 2019
Joromi12:
Dont tell unless it has damaged ur womb . My ex had 1 that almost cost her life . She is married now with twins. The husband never knew


interesting
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Ugosample(m): 12:32am On Jul 08, 2019
fcdgrand:
the logic truth is that my perception will change and the emotional truth is that i will rather not know; in summary, men should go for 19 to 22 yrs virgin as wife and 23 yrs non virgin and above as sex mate aka girlfriend

why do you need a "wife" and a "girlfriend" at the same time?
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by MissRaine69(f): 12:49am On Jul 08, 2019
LegoMetahuman:
its sadly true.

you will hardly see sexually active woman that has not done abortion in nigeria
That’s not evidence saying “ sadly true”
Show me the source
Statistics are not Harry Potter where you conjure figures from thin air.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by MissRaine69(f): 12:50am On Jul 08, 2019
omokoginimi:
When I saw this thread, it had 69 posts. I hate that number; 69. Had to make it 70 posts

Emi ika
Oh wow.....
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by MissRaine69(f): 12:51am On Jul 08, 2019
fcdgrand:
the logic truth is that my perception will change and the emotional truth is that i will rather not know; in summary, men should go for 19 to 22 yrs virgin as wife and 23 yrs non virgin and above as sex mate aka girlfriend
I am sure you actually believe what you just wrote? If so it’s a pity!
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Beverlyjean(f): 1:32am On Jul 08, 2019
vivalavida:
I remember how that changed my relationship with One Mary Jane. Babe looked so holy and pious till the day she dropped the shocker. Told me she has had three abortions. That truth changed everything about us.

Really... when did this happen??... I had a friend in Enugu, unn to b precise Mary Jane ... I remember when she got pregnant then but aborted when she came to lag

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by fcdgrand(m): 5:43am On Jul 08, 2019
MissRaine69:

I am sure you actually believe what you just wrote? If so it’s a pity!
100 % sure, that is raw truth, i will rather not know her past because if i know everything will change to negative, now with fresh 19 to 22 yrs virgin no abortions of any form, so no need for pity or still pity the ABORTERS

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by abiolamitodun(m): 7:23am On Jul 08, 2019
RichardRexs:
Got back with my Ex,she told me that she did abortion (i knew the bastard) and the guy denied the pregnancy. i was moved when she told me the pains she went through. my perception didn't change but made me love her more
thumbs up...I'll do thesame...just that ladies never value ur type...not until they loose u...
ur a rear gem

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 7:34am On Jul 08, 2019
From my experience it is best to keep some past in the past, as longer as you know within yourself those information are inconsequencial on the long run, As a lady if you avnt lost your womb then why tell your man abortion shit in your past , a mature man will show understanding buh will that information make him love you more or show more respect, scale d purpose
Nevertheless any past that you know might affect the relationship when expose by a 3rd party ... is worth revealing to your partner asap. e.g Missranie is a single mom buh she is yet to tell me, why we broke up even b4 she go know i exist

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by vivalavida(m): 7:46am On Jul 08, 2019
Beverlyjean:


Really... when did this happen??... I had a friend in Enugu, unn to b precise Mary Jane ... I remember when she got pregnant then but aborted when she came to lag


She schooled at Madonna
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by LegoMetahuman: 8:07am On Jul 08, 2019
MissRaine69:

That’s not evidence saying “ sadly true”
Show me the source
Statistics are not Harry Potter where you conjure figures from thin air.
seriously? asking for stat for something that is illegal or religiously unacceptable in nigeria? WHO will go to doctors and say how many people come to you for abortion and they will be like "oh yeah 22 may be"

by the way, if i cook statistics and put it on some website or wikipedia, would you believe me then?



anyhoo, you dont have to believe it. but i'm sharing my experiences and thoughts with you. based on what i do and what i have seen.

my post is not to belittle or judge anyone. you either believe or you dont.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Obodo999(m): 8:52am On Jul 08, 2019
MissRaine69:

When was the last time you saw someone smile because you entered a room?

I always see evils people sad and fleeing.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 9:00am On Jul 08, 2019
I can't live with such all through my life. I will definitely end the relationship immediately I hear it. I once adviced my friend to end his relationship with a pious girl that told him about her abortion.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by technicallyrich(m): 10:06am On Jul 08, 2019
I have never seen a nigerian girl,above 25 that has never done atleast 2 abortions.
A girl i dated told me she has aborted more than 8 times,and she was about 24..
When you start making good money in nigeria,you will know that the zoo girls are all prostitutes.even the married women.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 10:10am On Jul 08, 2019
technicallyrich:
I have never seen a nigerian girl,above 25 that has never done atleast 2 abortions.
A girl i dated told me she has aborted more than 8 times,and she was about 24..
When you start making good money in nigeria,you will know that the zoo girls are all prostitutes.even the married women.
You are very mean. Better go pickup your home training where you thrashed it.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Offpoint: 10:14am On Jul 08, 2019
Deepfeel:

The pot can easily call the kettle black in this case, cause the pot might claim he only sat on a gas cooker while the kettle sat on Smokey firewood grin

Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by technicallyrich(m): 10:18am On Jul 08, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
You are very mean. Better go pickup your home training where you thrashed it.
i have banged atleast 200 girls in the zoo and i notice one thing,they are all cheap and useless.and 200 is a good sample size as it cuts across almost all tribes.
Yes i am mean,because the truth is mean and bitter and i dont come here to form holy so as to get girlfriends.i already have many girls on my list as a young man doing well and riding a good car.
Apart from to liar,mess,pretend,cook different trash,watch movies,do their favourite abortion or keep the pregnancy and start getin fat like a piglet,can someone tell me what else an average girl in the zoo has to offer?

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by AstroOG: 10:35am On Jul 08, 2019
technicallyrich:
I have never seen a nigerian girl,above 25 that has never done atleast 2 abortions.
A girl i dated told me she has aborted more than 8 times,and she was about 24..
When you start making good money in nigeria,you will know that the zoo girls are all prostitutes.even the married women.
.

Seconded by Me(AstroOG).

Naija girls and prostitution,whether coded,business,for WhatsApp admin,classy or corporate is like Tea and Bread

TUFIA!!!!

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by laughitall(m): 10:40am On Jul 08, 2019
technicallyrich:

i have banged atleast 200 girls in the zoo and i notice one thing,they are all cheap and useless.and 200 is a good sample size as it cuts across almost all tribes.
Yes i am mean,because the truth is mean and bitter and i dont come here to form holy so as to get girlfriends.i already have many girls on my list as a young man doing well and riding a good car.
Apart from to liar,mess,pretend,cook different trash,watch movies,do their favourite abortion or keep the pregnancy and start getin fat like a piglet,can someone tell me what else an average girl in the zoo has to offer?
on point brotherlee...you said it all
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 10:40am On Jul 08, 2019
technicallyrich:

i have banged atleast 200 girls in the zoo and i notice one thing,they are all cheap and useless.and 200 is a good sample size as it cuts across almost all tribes.
Yes i am mean,because the truth is mean and bitter and i dont come here to form holy so as to get girlfriends.i already have many girls on my list as a young man doing well and riding a good car.
Apart from to liar,mess,pretend,cook different trash,watch movies,do their favourite abortion or keep the pregnancy and start getin fat like a piglet,can someone tell me what else an average girl in the zoo has to offer?
You need therapy. You empty but don't know it

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by AstroOG: 10:42am On Jul 08, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
You need therapy. You empty but don't know it



See Painment tongue tongue

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by AstroOG: 10:43am On Jul 08, 2019
technicallyrich:

i have banged atleast 200 girls in the zoo and i notice one thing,they are all cheap and useless.and 200 is a good sample size as it cuts across almost all tribes.
Yes i am mean,because the truth is mean and bitter and i dont come here to form holy so as to get girlfriends.i already have many girls on my list as a young man doing well and riding a good car.
Apart from to liar,mess,pretend,cook different trash,watch movies,do their favourite abortion or keep the pregnancy and start getin fat like a piglet,can someone tell me what else an average girl in the zoo has to offer?



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