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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nopanties: 6:59am On Jul 09
Truth be told, it really doesn't matter to me, what haven't I done sef
#Rape
#Abortion
#Child sex
#Gay sex, once tho and I was the one doing the fukking
#Fukking olosho n even sleeping for olosho joint n even having their numbers
#Pornography
#Uploading my own personal pornograghy, the girl was a good girl, she nearly died when she heard her ass was all over the internet. I even used her real full names, age and institution
#Fukking married women, everyone thought I was only their kids lesson teacher during my service year. Ah, God bless mama twins, my kind of specs. Tho I don't fancy twins

Wouldn't you rather be like me and enjoy life while it lasts than disturbing your head with if your wife is a virgin, if she had abortion, raped bla bla bla.
Fukk I can even marry Tonto dike, I really don't care!

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by emmnprince(m): 7:01am On Jul 09
Deicide:
Person way fit kill innocent life, her own child for that matter, fit kill you undecided

Not all.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by utenwuson: 7:05am On Jul 09
Fountainofyouth:



Diick hoppers feeling like psychological virgins grin
keep aborting, ur womb will be damaged and u will be running from pillar to post to hang on one innocent dude...

Keep aborting

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Kay25(m): 7:05am On Jul 09
RichardRexs:
Got back with my Ex,she told me that she did abortion (i knew the bastard) and the guy denied the pregnancy. i was moved when she told me the pains she went through. my perception didn't change but made me love her more
haa u loved her more?are u married to her?just looking at ur strength ni ooo

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by pepigeorge(m): 7:07am On Jul 09
MissRaine69:

How is his standards lowered? Because someone had a termination then that gages standards I am sure you are the same mofos who have issues with single mothers. Her body her choice your patriarchal view of perfection is skewed.

If ur fiance tells u he was a robber, kidnapper and killer.. Wud ur perception about him change?
The gals should learn not to ask stupid question abt a man's pass when u know u have a big skeleton in ur cupboard. I won't bother knowing if its not affecting d present.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by pepigeorge(m): 7:11am On Jul 09
omokoginimi:
When I saw this thread, it had 69 posts. I hate that number; 69. Had to make it 70 posts

Emi ika

Bad gal.... Killer position
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by emmnprince(m): 7:12am On Jul 09
MissRaine69:
Would your perception of her change or would you rather not know? Women would you tell him? If you are a psychological virgin this post is not for you.

I won't. Though the act isn't friendly or accepted by a moral and right-thinking person. Since she opens such deep secret to you, it is for you to reason with her to know the circumstance that made her do such. No matter how light/trivial the reasons are, sympathize with her and . . . life goes on.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by DominusPrime: 7:16am On Jul 09
MissRaine69:
Would your perception of her change or would you rather not know? Women would you tell him? If you are a psychological virgin this post is not for you.

if she tells me it won't change anyhing. but by default I'll find out. a simple vaginal examination will reveal this to me.
most ladies don't know that just by examining the vagina a doctor can tell if a lady has had an abortion yet they lie about it. the number of young girls I've seen who tell this lie is amazing. that's why from my perspective it's hard to trust these girls, both young and old.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by mixta140(m): 7:22am On Jul 09
U will just av to forgive her if u really loves her.



For stubborn STD check my signature.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Rosarie(f): 7:32am On Jul 09
Usanga35:

confession in marriage doesn't guarantee everlasting marriage ....if u like confess fro now till morrow...a marriage dat will shatter will still scatter
yes I know.i stated where u said the hubby does not know.
He might be in the know now or she liked to you.
U are an ex.that is her husband.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by adanny01(m): 7:34am On Jul 09
Its a complicated question.

If the guy asks when truth is really appreciated, only the truth should be told. A guy should not ask what he is not ready to hear.

If it remains a secret and child bearing becomes an issue, thats another point to tell.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Livefreeordieha(m): 7:36am On Jul 09
MissRaine69:
Would your perception of her change or would you rather not know? Women would you tell him? If you are a psychological virgin this post is not for you.
honestly speaking it won't change anything.... But I think if she loves me she should tell me if there were complications or not.. U feel me?? We could talk about the future which obviously has become unfortunate because I won't proceed if there's no womb to house my seeds... But if there wasn't any I careless my dear...


I will never judge decisions made under circumstances beyond our control..

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Livefreeordieha(m): 7:37am On Jul 09
adanny01:
Its a complicated question.

If the guy asks when truth is really appreciated, only the truth should be told. A guy should not ask what he is not ready to hear.

If it remains a secret and child bearing becomes an issue, thats another point to tell.
valid
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Livefreeordieha(m): 7:45am On Jul 09
RichardRexs:
Got back with my Ex,she told me that she did abortion (i knew the bastard) and the guy denied the pregnancy. i was moved when she told me the pains she went through. my perception didn't change but made me love her more
don't speak such about another guy... U might become ex someday.... Remember he didn't rape her I mean ur luv now.. There were moments they shared that are embedded in both of their memories for eternity.. But u were told bitter things to get u to were u are now.. Bro live the life u love and love the life u live...

I don't mean to rattle up ur cage but I like to be real and deal with things the way they are... Hasn't earned my alot of friends but I careless because quality ones will remain.. U know don Carlos the prophecy..

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by kaima1984(f): 8:05am On Jul 09
AwkaetitiBabe:
If he tells you a deep secret, then you can tell him. Atleast the pot won't call d kettle black undecided
Hmmm Sister mi,not in every case
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by kaima1984(f): 8:10am On Jul 09
My past is my past,I don't t disclose it anyhow,the only time i talk about it is when am having a heart to heart talk with someone walking wrongly in that part of bad life,if not believe you me I don't talk about my past.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by 042reports(f): 8:13am On Jul 09
Biko how can I abort My two month pregnancy
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Montanasnr(m): 8:14am On Jul 09
Deicide:
Person way fit kill innocent life, her own child for that matter, fit kill you undecided
Relax man. It's still an unborn baby.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Isoduwa(m): 8:15am On Jul 09
Phenomenal16:
Pls which one is psychological virgin abeg?


Enter house your toto never strong �
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by ledaman: 8:21am On Jul 09
Why should you discuss about your past life especially ur ex, I hate to listen such gist. it should be dead and buried.#my opinion though!
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Deicide: 8:28am On Jul 09
Montanasnr:

Relax man. It's still an unborn baby.
So it doesn't have Life grin
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Obodo999(m): 8:33am On Jul 09
Fountainofyouth:



When the foetus has formed, it is killing, when it is just mere blood, it is not killing, that is my stand on abortion, if we should go by the biblical "thou shall not kill", what of soldiers that kill or executionists? So it is relative.

Your view is wrong. You were once a "mere" blood, you know.. Do you have conscience at all?

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by AwkaetitiBabe(f): 8:39am On Jul 09
kaima1984:
Hmmm Sister mi,not in every case
You right.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by vicben27(m): 8:57am On Jul 09
for all Have sinned, it's no big deal life goes on

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by MissJoy29(f): 9:25am On Jul 09
kunleweb:




To think that they're both photocopies of one another is scaring. I didn't judge her. I have expectations for her to be a decent lady. Doing that shii at 33 implies plain stupidity. If I follow through with this project, shell answer to me cheesy


I easily forgive mistakes but not deliberate actions. Doing this shii at 33 doesn't make sense. No lady above 22 should so cheaply babydump. What's not right isn't right.


I take my sperm very serious. It would require serious work to have my sperm. I place a premium on my self. So there's no one out there carrying my seed, cause even as a kid, I placed premium on my seed. This has been my mentality since as a teen


Hmmmm....this is a very sensitive issue, Kunle. See, I find it difficult to judge people anyhow nowadays. I have seen things. I always tell myself, "you will never know what you will do if you find yourself in the situations of people you judge". This helps me show empathy & most importantly, be objective in my views.

I'm more concerned about doing good and living right. That I don't/can't do some certain things doesn't mean I will crucify those doing it. Yes there's a place to frown at what some people do or wonder at their level of reasoning...but I try not to appear too sanctimonious. It's only in extreme cases that I vehemently condemn an action & before I do that, I must have analysed the situation objectively and found the person guilty on all levels. But even at that, the person can still change.

Btw, if I were a guy, I would still marry an abortionist. I'm wired that way. The love in my heart is too much to stop what I feel for someone based on such things.

Come to think of it, isn't any form of sin, sin? I have discovered that people who judge too much sin the most. Go ask Jesus and the accusers of the adulterous woman.

That's the standard I try to use!
People can change for good. That's the most important thing!
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Ifyy25(f): 9:29am On Jul 09
Fountainofyouth:



Do you think everyone is naive and won't take an after pill? See your thinking abeg, how old are you? Do you want me to ring a bell near your ear for you to understand that NOBODY GIVES TWO FVCKS WHAT YOU THINK OR EXPECT undecided
my dear one can still get pregnant after taking morning pill
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by kudos4god(m): 9:32am On Jul 09
Deepfeel:

Before u love someone it might be for a reason right? Now hearing some past happenings about that person might give you some mental images of how that person was in the past, your heart won't remain the same

Example u meet a churchy guy falls in love with him cause of his churchy character and one day he says to you look I used to be a cultists, a drug addict ,a killer I killed women for rituals but now am a born again, what will u think of the guy after hearing this confession?
True talk

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by kunleweb: 9:33am On Jul 09
MissJoy29:

Hmmmm....this is a very sensitive issue, Kunle. See, I find it difficult to judge people anyhow nowadays. I have seen things. I always tell myself, "you will never know what you will do if you find yourself in the situations of people you judge". This helps me show empathy & most importantly, be objective in my views.

I'm more concerned about doing good and living right. That I don't/can't do some certain things doesn't mean I will crucify those doing it. Yes there's a place to frown at what some people do or wonder at their level of reasoning...but I try not to appear too sanctimonious. It's only in extreme cases that I vehemently condemn an action & before I do that, I must have analysed the situation objectively and found the person guilty on all levels. But even at that, the person can still change.

Btw, if I were a guy, I would still marry an abortionist. I'm wired that way. The love in my heart is too much to stop what I feel for someone based on such things.

Come to think of it, isn't any form of sin, sin? I have discovered that people who judge too much sin the most. Go ask Jesus and the accusers of the adulterous woman.

That's the standard I try to use!
People can change for good. That's the most important thing!



Yeap. Not judging. Its how it is. Rationalism isn't being sanctimonious BTW. Its just how it is.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by MissJoy29(f): 9:40am On Jul 09
kunleweb:




Yeap. Not judging. Its how it is. Rationalism isn't being sanctimonious BTW. Its just how it is.
Ok sir.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Obodo999(m): 9:41am On Jul 09
MissJoy29:

Hmmmm....this is a very sensitive issue, Kunle. See, I find it difficult to judge people anyhow nowadays. I have seen things. I always tell myself, "you will never know what you will do if you find yourself in the situations of people you judge". This helps me show empathy & most importantly, be objective in my views.

I'm more concerned about doing good and living right. That I don't/can't do some certain things doesn't mean I will crucify those doing it. Yes there's a place to frown at what some people do or wonder at their level of reasoning...but I try not to appear too sanctimonious. It's only in extreme cases that I vehemently condemn an action & before I do that, I must have analysed the situation objectively and found the person guilty on all levels. But even at that, the person can still change.

Btw, if I were a guy, I would still marry an abortionist. I'm wired that way. The love in my heart is too much to stop what I feel for someone based on such things.

Come to think of it, isn't any form of sin, sin? I have discovered that people who judge too much sin the most. Go ask Jesus and the accusers of the adulterous woman.

That's the standard I try to use!
People can change for good. That's the most important thing!

I like your last sentence but the problem is most people don't accept they have done bad things. They will still argue. There must be confession, repentance, redemption and revival. It is when all these have been completed, will one can change for good.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by MissJoy29(f): 9:51am On Jul 09
Obodo999:


I like your last sentence but the problem is most people don't accept they have done bad things. They will still argue. There must be confession, repentance, redemption and revival. It is when all these have been completed, will one can change for good.
You are right sir. So right.
But how can someone argue on such things?
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by kunleweb: 10:03am On Jul 09
Sex is both intentional and deliberate so as the consequences. Let's stop being sanctimonious with the everyone has done bad. Above 22 people should be aware their actions have consequences and should not guilt trip other people to come into commitment with them to conpulsorilty bear the guilt of their actions. Its annoying abeg. Anyone who feels its okay to marry an abortionist fine, anyone who doesn't believe shouldn't be chastised. Its individual preference abegi

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