I hate to put it this way but i feel timi dakolo fell for one of the old trick in the book when it comes to women.." prove to me you a man" ..show you can defend me" ..fight my course"

In primitive lifeforms such as animal, the female hold back aggression and watch the male go at each other. The strongest or dominant of the species eventually get the mating right. This behavior is not out of touch in humans even as so called highly evolved species, We still display this premitive side consciously or unconsciously. need to show strength on the part of the man and need to feel like a won trophy and a thing to be protected and cherish on the part of the woman.


If timi had understood the term of his contract implicitly with his wife, he would have know that his protection rights start from the day their relationship took off. He is not oblige to go back in time to address every School boy or uncle that ever had a bad running with his wife. Unless he has been compelled by the " woman force" to do so. Which I am incline to think now.

Many women employ us this way wether we are aware of it as men or not. Wether she tell you a story of how she was coming from work and two men tried to touch her butt Or she tell you of a guy who try to rape her in secondary school..the point s she is testing to see how strong you are,..zeal to defend her and take side with her at all times.

Busola is a pretty bride. One that wish to be won by the "alphas" He needs to know if timi is "alpha" enough for her

Slay this dragon and win my love forever. Prove to me you can deal with any man who tries to intimidate me. Prove you not my man, prove your the man. Take him "coza" from my dream or thought of fear and worry and extall yourself there permanently.

Tim could have dodge this bullet. This is not his to fight. This posture is a false show of bravado. Highly unnecessary. He was in an alternate time line when this event happened. Coza man dI'd not know him then. So he could not have hurt him possibly with his act. If the case was treated back then, he would not have been remotely present. Therefor wisdom should have allowed him air on the side of caution.

In a bid to please his wife he could have confronted..he just need to prove he is a man to stand up to coza. He did not necessarily has to fight him to prove he is a man.

He should have let him know his wife is hurting because of his act. If he is smart he will apologize and he would have won a friend. This road is not a smart one. Again
The guy did not offend timi.

Timi is taking his husband duties too far in my view.

Op why don't you just leave them. They are adults and sure know what's right for them.

Olanireti:
Op why don't you just leave them. They are adults and sure know what's right for them.

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Olanireti:
Op why don't you just leave them. They are adults and sure know what's right for them.

Yeah they are. But this is not an adult move. Women are manipulative. We cannot judge there honest intent.

If she loves her family she should sacrifice. For the man the children not compelling them to come out and fight old wars with her. It's not fair. Her children don't need those distractions. Certainly not timi.funny thing about wars is that you can loose or win. That's it's reality.

I see sense

Only rapists and sadists defend rape

Oluwasaeon:
I see sense

Thank you sir.

JudgeOGBUNABALI:
Only rapists and sadists defend rape

So by your logic all lawyers that defend people accused of rape were once themselves "rapist or sadist"

JudgeOGBUNABALI:
Only rapists and sadists defend rape

How do you know that a rape occurred? Any evidence?

Martinez39:
How do you know that a rape occurred? Any evidence?

Let's wait for the Courts to determine EVANS case too.
Evans is innocent until proven guilty by the courts.

JudgeOGBUNABALI:

Let's wait for the Courts to determine EVANS case too.
Evans is innocent until proven guilty by the courts.

You are a big fool.

Martinez39:
You are a big fool.

Ok sir ... Wisest man

JudgeOGBUNABALI:

Ok sir ... Wisest man

My sister said you raped her. Her accounts were coherent and she gave an emotional outburst. Please make yourself available for arrest.

: : It is very obvious you are one of the foot soldiers of Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo, who has engaged you to water down his asrocity and, even cast aspersion on the truth of what Bukola said. Ok, tell your employer you have carried out his bidding; the contract you were paid for. But remember to equally tell him not every believe you.

Martinez39:
My sister said you raped her. Her accounts were coherent and she gave an emotional outburst. Please make yourself available for arrest.

Ok Sir ... Just give me her phone number fest. I wan clear my name with her personally in camera.

JudgeOGBUNABALI:

Ok Sir ... Just give me her phone number fest. I wan clear my name with her personally in camera.

No o. You are a rapist. Don't try to bribe my sister. Step down from your job and let your salary be cut until your name is cleared. Rapist.

From this thread you can see that Nigerians hate the man with passion just because he is doing well and they are not. This is akin to jungle justice, striking a man without any proof.

Adakintroy2:
I hate to put it this way but i feel timi dakolo fell for one of the old trick in the book when it comes to women.." prove to me you a man" ..show you can defend me" ..fight my course"

In primitive lifeforms such as animal, the female hold back aggression and watch the male go at each other. The strongest or dominant of the species eventually get the mating right. This behavior is not out of touch in humans even as so called highly evolved species, We still display this premitive side consciously or unconsciously. need to show strength on the part of the man and need to feel like a won trophy and a thing to be protected and cherish on the part of the woman.


If timi had understood the term of his contract implicitly with his wife, he would have know that his protection rights start from the day their relationship took off. He is not oblige to go back in time to address every School boy or uncle that ever had a bad running with his wife. Unless he has been compelled by the " woman force" to do so. Which I am incline to think now.

Many women employ us this way wether we are aware of it as men or not. Wether she tell you a story of how she was coming from work and two men tried to touch her butt Or she tell you of a guy who try to rape her in secondary school..the point s she is testing to see how strong you are,..zeal to defend her and take side with her at all times.

Busola is a pretty bride. One that wish to be won by the "alphas" He needs to know if timi is "alpha" enough for her

Slay this dragon and win my love forever. Prove to me you can deal with any man who tries to intimidate me. Prove you not my man, prove your the man. Take him "coza" from my dream or thought of fear and worry and extall yourself there permanently.

Tim could have dodge this bullet. This is not his to fight. This posture is a false show of bravado. Highly unnecessary. He was in an alternate time line when this event happened. Coza man dI'd not know him then. So he could not have hurt him possibly with his act. If the case was treated back then, he would not have been remotely present. Therefor wisdom should have allowed him air on the side of caution.

In a bid to please his wife he could have confronted..he just need to prove he is a man to stand up to coza. He did not necessarily has to fight him to prove he is a man.

He should have let him know his wife is hurting because of his act. If he is smart he will apologize and he would have won a friend. This road is not a smart one. Again
The guy did not offend timi.

Timi is taking his husband duties too far in my view.

honestly the truth will shock Timi, they are many things he don't know.

Adakintroy2:
I hate to put it this way but i feel timi dakolo fell for one of the old trick in the book when it comes to women.." prove to me you a man" ..show you can defend me" ..fight my course"

In primitive lifeforms such as animal, the female hold back aggression and watch the male go at each other. The strongest or dominant of the species eventually get the mating right. This behavior is not out of touch in humans even as so called highly evolved species, We still display this premitive side consciously or unconsciously. need to show strength on the part of the man and need to feel like a won trophy and a thing to be protected and cherish on the part of the woman.


If timi had understood the term of his contract implicitly with his wife, he would have know that his protection rights start from the day their relationship took off. He is not oblige to go back in time to address every School boy or uncle that ever had a bad running with his wife. Unless he has been compelled by the " woman force" to do so. Which I am incline to think now.

Many women employ us this way wether we are aware of it as men or not. Wether she tell you a story of how she was coming from work and two men tried to touch her butt Or she tell you of a guy who try to rape her in secondary school..the point s she is testing to see how strong you are,..zeal to defend her and take side with her at all times.

Busola is a pretty bride. One that wish to be won by the "alphas" He needs to know if timi is "alpha" enough for her

Slay this dragon and win my love forever. Prove to me you can deal with any man who tries to intimidate me. Prove you not my man, prove your the man. Take him "coza" from my dream or thought of fear and worry and extall yourself there permanently.

Tim could have dodge this bullet. This is not his to fight. This posture is a false show of bravado. Highly unnecessary. He was in an alternate time line when this event happened. Coza man dI'd not know him then. So he could not have hurt him possibly with his act. If the case was treated back then, he would not have been remotely present. Therefor wisdom should have allowed him air on the side of caution.

In a bid to please his wife he could have confronted..he just need to prove he is a man to stand up to coza. He did not necessarily has to fight him to prove he is a man.

He should have let him know his wife is hurting because of his act. If he is smart he will apologize and he would have won a friend. This road is not a smart one. Again
The guy did not offend timi.

Timi is taking his husband duties too far in my view.

I like ur alternate view.

Yusuf001:

I like ur alternate view.

Thanks sir.

Adakintroy2:


Yeah they are. But this is not an adult move. Women are manipulative. We cannot judge there honest intent.

If she loves her family she should sacrifice. For the man the children not compelling them to come out and fight old wars with her. It's not fair. Her children don't need those distractions. Certainly not timi.funny thing about wars is that you can loose or win. That's it's reality.

Men are manipulative too,women have been sacrificing for decades, where has it gotten them? Stuck in loveless marriages with men who cannot fulfill expectations and are subpar.

the sooner women stop giving a Bleep where men are concerned the better. A man is meant to be a provider and a protector, if he cannot do that,he will be relegated to the role of sperm donor and ATM.

To me,

This is a show of shame.

What does Busola expect Timi to do after over 15 years a rape happened ?

If Biodun were a road side vulcanizer, will Busola bring up this issue ? Perhaps NO. She will probably drive by and splash him dirty water.

Appears like a useless revenge. I don't know. She is pained the rapist is popular. I don't see them win anything in court.

I condemn rape. But the allegations are getting too many. If he is guilty, let him pay for it.

stinflame:


honestly the truth will shock Timi, they are many things he don't know.

Like who informed Biodun that Busola was home alone that day ?

She said he walked in without saying a word and just dragged her to a sofa.

She became incoherent at a stage. Many hidden things.

Drake2021:
: : It is very obvious you are one of the foot soldiers of Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo, who has engaged you to water down his asrocity and, even cast aspersion on the truth of what Bukola said. Ok, tell your employer you have carried out his bidding; the contract you were paid for. But remember to equally tell him not every believe you.

There is no truth there in busola account of rape. The guy is just handicap to come out to say his accout. He is preacher. If he says no rape, he still may admiite to sleeping with her when married. Which amount to adultery


They paint that story. Just under the 18 yrs old mark gives it a dark tone of a pedophile. That's if he excape the rape allegation of rape directly. He still falls into a dish of sleeping with a minor.

If the guys comes out and claim it happens when she was 19 and they kiss while the sex was on what will she say next. Her word vs his.

He committed adultery yes..but rape I doubt. That guy is too good looking for that. Women want to screw him.by defaulth. Most guys are beefing.

Make una learn to think..

400billionman:


Like who informed Biodun that Busola was home alone that day ?

She said he walked in without saying a word and just dragged her to a sofa.

She became incoherent at a stage. Many hidden things.

The hurting part for Timi is when he knows his wife had repeated sex with that guy, you know how all this teens fancy handsome elders . Of a truth I feel she gave her heart to him and it's seriously affecting her marriage and sexual life with her husband . She's just using the rape card to buy sympathy from her husband and Nigerians.

One question... How about if Busola is right? This is many years ago. There are things that I saw and passed through many years ago and never made mention until I was sure I can let it out. Timi is a STRONG MAN. I expect you had wanted him to shut his wife up cos she talked about a pastor. You guys would have said more nonsense if she had said it happened with a roadside mechanic. So, no one is trying to pull anyone down. It is a dicy case and the Pastor might be innocent but it is also one case too many.

funmisticqueen:
Men are manipulative too,women have been sacrificing for decades, where has it gotten them? Stuck in loveless marriages with men who cannot fulfill expectations and are subpar.

the sooner women stop giving a Bleep where men are concerned the better. A man is meant to be a provider and a protector, if he cannot do that,he will be relegated to the role of sperm donor and ATM.

. I Like the one of sperm donor, pls relegate me to the role of sperm donor, I can donate multiple, and I don't shoot blank, but ATM, mbanu, it can't happen to me.

It's always easy to analyze issues that aren't related to you. Believe me if Busola were your wife, you'd do more than Timi did.
A rapist easily move on but rape victims never forget and who knows what Busola was going through all these years which might also have been affecting their marriage. So you expected Timi to fold his arms and watch the Pastor enjoy his marriage while his own marriage is something else.

funmisticqueen:
Men are manipulative too,women have been sacrificing for decades, where has it gotten them? Stuck in loveless marriages with men who cannot fulfill expectations and are subpar.

the sooner women stop giving a Bleep where men are concerned the better. A man is meant to be a provider and a protector, if he cannot do that,he will be relegated to the role of sperm donor and ATM.

You talk too much for a weaker of the species that one of your problem. I don't know were you get this whole ideal about women always being the ones to sacrifice yet contradict yourself by inclining that we are meant to provide and protect..

If we give sperm, provide and protect, what sacrifice do you bring to the table in a real and honest sense.

When we started working we provided for you..some of you with no jobs we engaged. Some of you in the village we married and brought to the cities. Our love was not conditioned.

What happened to you when you got your librrations. How many of us have you looked out for mrs. Lovers.

How many times have you been able to take an unemployed male under your wings. How many male have you gone to the village to bring as lover or husband. Your wealth are for yourself and yourself alone. You buy high shoes and do nails and make wigs and when you tired of making your hair, you make your Hair some more.

400billionman:


Like who informed Biodun that Busola was home alone that day ?

She said he walked in without saying a word and just dragged her to a sofa.

She became incoherent at a stage. Many hidden things.

Lol incoherent. If you go to courts lawyer will force that incoherence out from you. You will need to prove beyound all reasonable doubt. Onus of prove is on you the accuser. With no real circumstantial evidence. You as good as lost. Your stories is as good as a thoery. Everybody has their own version of that event. There a three side to every stories.

J111333:
It's always easy to analyze issues that aren't related to you. Believe me if Busola were your wife, you'd do more than Timi did.
A rapist easily move on but rape victims never forget and who knows what Busola was going through all these years which might also have been affecting their marriage. So you expected Timi to fold his arms and watch the Pastor enjoy his marriage while his own marriage is something else.

So what has she gained by coming out. Don't tell me it's healing. If we have to correlate all the shiiit that has taken place in our life's, we will be full and overloaded by now.

Tim is a christian. You urge on the part of forgiveness and moving on. The only thing I see there is the pain that the guy has moved on to big things. That's all. He just want a pound of flesh. But I pray like the biblical Samson she does not die with her enemies. Theses are were these kind of revenge ends.