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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Acidosis(m): 4:00am On Jul 09, 2019
Lol. This thread is certainly not for virgins


I'm outta here grin
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by BizBayo: 4:13am On Jul 09, 2019
omokoginimi:
When I saw this thread, it had 69 posts. I hate that number; 69. Had to make it 70 posts

Emi ika


You mean you hate that position grin
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by BizBayo: 4:15am On Jul 09, 2019
AstroOG:




Take Heart,That's Naiija girls for you


That shit is very funny.. grin grin dumped our brother for the same person that denied the pregrancy. Chai, grin grin
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by KevinDein: 4:23am On Jul 09, 2019
RichardRexs:

IDGAF!
You'll some day.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by femi4: 4:35am On Jul 09, 2019
cucumbae:
No girl will date a guy for 5 months without committing abortion for him.
lol....what happened to condom?

My principle then: No condom, no sex

Even in sex, one has to be discipline
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by toprealman: 4:57am On Jul 09, 2019
ThothHermes:
Then it's over. My standards, especially concerning morality cannot be lowered for any one. angry
Moral vanguard.....Your type de do pass.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by silentshot(m): 5:02am On Jul 09, 2019
Truth be told there will always be varying perspectives to every issue. My reaction will depend on 'why' she did it.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by MondayOsunbor(m): 5:15am On Jul 09, 2019
Joromi12:
Dont tell unless it has damaged ur womb . My ex had 1 that almost cost her life . She is married now with twins. The husband never knew
and you witness all as active sidebyer
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Eroms4life17(m): 5:19am On Jul 09, 2019
RichardRexs:
Got back with my Ex,she told me that she did abortion (i knew the bastard) and the guy denied the pregnancy. i was moved when she told me the pains she went through. my perception didn't change but made me love her more
And she's now your ex? Hmm!

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by sisisioge: 5:24am On Jul 09, 2019
I will tell...
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by mascot87(m): 5:31am On Jul 09, 2019
iCauseTrouble:
70% of ladies that are not virgin have committed abortion. So it makes no difference whether she tells me or not. Will still love her if she deserves my love

Statement without data is just like any other opinion
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by cutesolo9ja(m): 5:37am On Jul 09, 2019
Benjaniblinks:
she killed for you and you never married her. Men are doggs......
This is the part I don't wanna hear from women, how can a Lady do an abortion and you'll put it on the guy "she killed for you". Can you kill your child because of love??
She was stupid to be pregnant, secondly she did abortion for her own selfish reasons.. And stop blaming men because abortion is not enough reason to pitifully marry her

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Neddyogu(m): 5:58am On Jul 09, 2019
MissRaine69:

70%?
And where did you pull out ( pardon the pun) that number from?

Right outta his butt.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by stubbornman(m): 6:14am On Jul 09, 2019
Michelle55:
TBH, I'll just tell him and if he feels that I'm not good enough anymore then so be it.. It's best he hears it from me rather than a third party who knows about it from my past. Just keep a clean slate.

That could be me and you on your dp.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Deepfeel(m): 6:22am On Jul 09, 2019
Mariangeles:

Her past might come back to haunt you don't you think ?
We all must account for our actions in this life .
If her past is something that will hunt me yes I will want to know, but if she has an abortion and her womb is still good to carry a baby, there is no need telling me
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by MrMou: 6:27am On Jul 09, 2019
RichardRexs:
Got back with my Ex,she told me that she did abortion (i knew the bastard) and the guy denied the pregnancy. i was moved when she told me the pains she went through. my perception didn't change but made me love her more
The three of una mumuness no get part 2.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by MrMou: 6:31am On Jul 09, 2019
If she tells you she's had an abortion before, you're a first class mumu because what are you even doing with a non-virgin in the first place

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Teymanhenry(f): 6:34am On Jul 09, 2019
well we have to understand that having an abortion is normal. its better to terminate a pregnancy than bring a baby to d world knowing fully well you cannot cater for it. For me it doesn't change my perception about my woman. What is done in the past doesn't matter. its what you have to offer now n d future that matters
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Allansmith: 6:36am On Jul 09, 2019
I swear na real Man you be....3 Gbosa for you.


Gbosa!
Gbosa!!
Gbosa!!!

RichardRexs:
Got back with my Ex,she told me that she did abortion (i knew the bastard) and the guy denied the pregnancy. i was moved when she told me the pains she went through. my perception didn't change but made me love her more

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Unrated900(m): 6:38am On Jul 09, 2019
I can’t do abortion for a lady

But she can do for me.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by seanwilliam(m): 6:39am On Jul 09, 2019
well it depends o. if TRULLY she was raped and she aborted ONCE, i will marry her. also if she aborted during her teen-years(22 downward) i MIGHT consider her. ANY abortion committed aside the two conditions above is no no no for me.
note; no matter the situation, the abortion must nt be more than ONCE O.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 6:40am On Jul 09, 2019
technicallyrich:

i have banged atleast 200 girls in the zoo and i notice one thing,they are all cheap and useless.and 200 is a good sample size as it cuts across almost all tribes.
Yes i am mean,because the truth is mean and bitter and i dont come here to form holy so as to get girlfriends.i already have many girls on my list as a young man doing well and riding a good car.
Apart from to liar,mess,pretend,cook different trash,watch movies,do their favourite abortion or keep the pregnancy and start getin fat like a piglet,can someone tell me what else an average girl in the zoo has to offer?

_Fuccckkkk
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 6:41am On Jul 09, 2019
Phenomenal16:
Pls which one is psychological virgin abeg?

Nonvirgins in denial... they have nacked only a few times and took a break for five years or more ...so because they’ve not nacked ever since, they have claimed virgin status in their mind
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 6:42am On Jul 09, 2019
akaahs:
My now ex gf once told me that she had abortion during her college days for a man she met on Facebook and the man later denied the pregnancy, she aborted the 5 month pregnancy without any of her family members knowing not even her close friend (her mother ). On hearing this my love for her grew more because most ladies ll rather go to the grieve with this secret but she later dump me for the same man that denied everything about the pregnancy.

Aaaaahahahahahahahahahaha
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 6:44am On Jul 09, 2019
technicallyrich:

yes.
Already made women also look for succesful or already made men.
Rich women will not date a broke guy,except they see some extra ordinary talent,they can invest on and start manipulating him.
I have fukd several zoo girls and i keep noticing that they are all useless.
Some cant even reason like a human being.only to mess,cook trash,liar,do abortion and keep opening their legs like scissors to differnt men.


Guy this mess you dey always emphasiZe on, wetin happen na? Be like 9ja girls don mess well well for your car. grin grin grin

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 6:54am On Jul 09, 2019
Teymanhenry:
well we have to understand that having an abortion is normal. its better to terminate a pregnancy than bring a baby to d world knowing fully well you cannot cater for it. For me it doesn't change my perception about my woman. What is done in the past doesn't matter. its what you have to offer now n d future that matters

This is what the world has become....I’m not a saint ooo Oga....so don’t think that’s what I’m saying ooo...but let’s always call a spade a spade..
Abortion is not normal.. years ago adultry is not cool, now girls openly and gladly fvck people’s husband...youth gladly say they ar fraudsters and make a living out of making other people miserable....
it wasn’t normal putting dick where pple Shiit from now there’s a marriage just for that..like I said I’m not a saint...:but let’s always tag a bad thing a bad name..::we might be doing it oooo....like, I’ve straffed Ashawo a couple of times but I will never say it’s normal just because a lot of people do it to ease of sexual tension and it has become a general parole

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by IMASTEX: 6:54am On Jul 09, 2019
MissRaine69:
Would your perception of her change or would you rather not know? Women would you tell him? If you are a psychological virgin this post is not for you.
I can't date let alone getting married to a woman I don't know her past. As a psychologist, I will certainly find out whether she volunteers the info or not. So it would be wise she told me. My perception won't change depending on the factors surrounding it.

Note: It is becoming more & more difficult to see a lady who hasn't engaged in it. Humans are good in living a life of deception & pretense. And this over religiousness isn't also helping matter. The narrative should be more of safe sex. Than don't do at all.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 6:55am On Jul 09, 2019
kunleweb:




To think that they're both photocopies of one another is scaring. I didn't judge her. I have expectations for her to be a decent lady. Doing that shii at 33 implies plain stupidity. If I follow through with this project, shell answer to me cheesy


I easily forgive mistakes but not deliberate actions. Doing this shii at 33 doesn't make sense. No lady above 22 should so cheaply babydump. What's not right isn't right.


I take my sperm very serious. It would require serious work to have my sperm. I place a premium on my self. So there's no one out there carrying my seed, cause even as a kid, I placed premium on my seed. This has been my mentality since as a teen


Missjoy29
You male take your sperm serious,but many men don't, some women don't take their wombs serious too. is it their fault?partly,but some people truly do not know the consequences of such carelessness. it's mostly due to youthful exuberance and ignorance.

kunleweb please remember that shit happens, especially where pregnancy is concerned. i am no longer so quick to judge. i hope you know that married couples do come for abortion too. i am not even 25 yet, but i have seen too much, too many stories in my line of work to not lock shop and protect my womb from unworthy sperm, if i Bleep up and mistakenly end up with an unwanted pregnancy, i will be blamed harshly because i cannot afford the ignorance card. i also know better than most which steps to take to prevent such complications.

but my loved ones wouldn't have had such exposure. Telling them can never be enough, maybe showing them will, but living it, i reject it for them.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 6:57am On Jul 09, 2019
lilyheaven:
shocked
Not true okay
I dated my ex for 3 good years there was no pregnancy.
Also a course mate of mine dated her guy from 1st year till after national youth service , they got married, till now, no sign of pregnancy.
I can go on and on to give you examples.

If a lady can calculate her menstrua cycle very well, she will never make a mistake with unwanted pregnancy.
forget that one o, things happen, hmm

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