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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by 24kmagic: 11:35pm On Jul 14, 2019

Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by julybaba(m): 11:35pm On Jul 14, 2019

Dont pretend to be someone else, just to marry a lady. In the end it doesn't pays. Be yourself. Anyone that will stay with you will stay.

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by MrCoker: 11:36pm On Jul 14, 2019

men of this generation. cry

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Edeteyongapla(m): 11:36pm On Jul 14, 2019

Oga from the things u have side... I can't see any concrete reason why u should divorce ur wife. Perhaps u should check urself too, maybe she is correct with her complains. That's ur wife if she See's any bad habit from u see has d right to complain. Or maybe she no longer see d man she saw before u two got married. U two should sort it out.

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by ImaIma1(f): 11:36pm On Jul 14, 2019

Why does she think you smoke? And why is she suspicious of your moves?

It could be that you have given her reason not to trust you.

Both of you know the full story. Sort it out

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Midas01: 11:40pm On Jul 14, 2019

You're lying but continue

You're fed up with your wife and just giving excuses. You must be keeping late nights and doing "things" with those friends for your wife to keep reporting you.

But no problem, divorce her if you want to and marry a worse person you'll also end up divorcing again

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Nobody: 11:42pm On Jul 14, 2019

I will advise you to bring 2 more LADIES home, you will see her SIT UP.
They detest competition in all forms.

MEN should start making plans of bringing more Ladies home. This updates the BRAINS of most stubborn wives.
Better still leave the apartment for her.
Go get a NEW ONE....

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Kaydiscography(m): 11:43pm On Jul 14, 2019

kayone6237:
Please house don't mind my construction but I will go straight to the point.

My wife always reports me to anybody that can help me spiritually and physically. What I mean by reporting is that, she always tarnishes my image everywhere, she has reported me to my Inlaw, her siblings, to the extent that I have amounted to nothing.

She reported me to my former pastor and now to my present pastor that I am a smoker of which I am not.

Anytime I go out of the house just to stroll or catch fun with my friends, the next thing is for her to tell me that I have smoked.

I am contemplating divorce because I don't see anything good about her anymore. I have corrected her several times but she won't listen.

I am saying this because it is my heart beat. I need a mature mind to give me candid advice.

Every contribution will be highly appreciated.

Let her know you have reported her to us.. Infact ,to the whole world �

Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Kaydiscography(m): 11:45pm On Jul 14, 2019

Let her know you have reported her to us.. Infact ,to the whole world �

Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Amanda4life: 11:46pm On Jul 14, 2019

kayone6237:
Please house don't mind my construction but I will go straight to the point.

My wife always reports me to anybody that can help me spiritually and physically. What I mean by reporting is that, she always tarnishes my image everywhere, she has reported me to my Inlaw, her siblings, to the extent that I have amounted to nothing.

She reported me to my former pastor and now to my present pastor that I am a smoker of which I am not.

Anytime I go out of the house just to stroll or catch fun with my friends, the next thing is for her to tell me that I have smoked.

I am contemplating divorce because I don't see anything good about her anymore. I have corrected her several times but she won't listen.

I am saying this because it is my heart beat. I need a mature mind to give me candid advice.

Every contribution will be highly appreciated.

In your caption " you said" how can i do away with my wife"
With this caption you have made up your mind to divorce her. If we plead with you not to. You will still divorce her in the future.
I think the best time is now, please set her free another reasonable man will find her.

You also said "i dont see any good on her" which means you have seen her finish, you no longer like her, infact all you see in her is bad bad bad. Nothing good can be attributed to her.

Now do you expect us to tell to live with a bad women just because she is trying to save you from having cancer of the lungs.

Infact i have better things to do with my life as you can see its already late, im sleeping already nobody should disturb my sleep mchew

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Suspect33(m): 11:46pm On Jul 14, 2019

EVILFOREST:
LOOK for the nearest TRASH CAN and empty her there
Nowadays Ladies lack Manners.
They NAG at slightest provocation.
If I have my way, NO MAN will ever marry any Lady.

How can a MAN, toil for many years, save up money only to use it to lure a DEVIL home...??
All in the name of marriage....

MEN should rather save up these cash, use such to adopt babies or better still pay off ladies that got pregnant for you.
More so, you can add 2 more wives to the one you already have. This will charge up the entire house, then the competition will start.

Take these kids of yours to your mothers for proper training.
We have lost it entirely..

there is too much sense in your write-up, u be man cool

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by awa(m): 11:47pm On Jul 14, 2019

TimFisher2:

Wake up from 1am and start doing incantation

Tie red ribbon on ur head and rub white powder on your face

Do it for one week,and see for yourself

She will run away from your life entirely!

Nigerians are the most funny set of people on planet earth....this guy came here for moral support and you guys are busy bursting here with laughter....

Guy still talk to her she will change and try to be more open with her just in case you are not. I think there is nothing good about reporting you to everyone. Smoking is your personal decision and I guess you are above 18 years

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Safari29: 11:47pm On Jul 14, 2019

He needs a mature answer, yall stop blaming him na. The deen has been done, he need resolutions. Divorce is not the answer. Pls sit her down and talk sense into her. Also u can take her to meet someone that's circumspect to give her advise.

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Amanda4life: 11:49pm On Jul 14, 2019

EVILFOREST:
I will advise you to bring 2 more LADIES home, you will see her SIT UP.
They detest competition in all forms.

MEN should start making plans of bringing more Ladies home. This updates the BRAINS of most stubborn wives.
Better still leave the apartment for her.
Go get a NEW ONE....

What kind of advice do you think can come from "EvilForest?

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Nobody: 11:50pm On Jul 14, 2019

Suspect33:
there is too much sense in your write-up, u be man

WOMEN HATE COMPETITION.
....and they cherish MEN they can POCKET.
My EX tried it, but the pit she dug swallowed her.
Great MEN take no shitttt
That's why u see them marry many wives...
ONE BAD WIFE na BIG TROUBLE..
But 3 BAD WIVES will fight one another and finish themselves... while the MAN survives.
Visit the US and see what WOMEN have done to the MEN.
MEN are now useless and rendered homeless.
AFRICA takes no shiiittt

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by nicepoker101(m): 11:50pm On Jul 14, 2019

EVILFOREST:
I will advise you to bring 2 more LADIES home, you will see her SIT UP.
They detest competition in all forms.

MEN should start making plans of bringing more Ladies home. This updates the BRAINS of most stubborn wives.
Better still leave the apartment for her.
Go get a NEW ONE....

you are so on point. Competition increases productivity

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Megabig: 11:52pm On Jul 14, 2019

kayone6237:
Please house don't mind my construction but I will go straight to the point.

My wife always reports me to anybody that can help me spiritually and physically. What I mean by reporting is that, she always tarnishes my image everywhere, she has reported me to my Inlaw, her siblings, to the extent that I have amounted to nothing.

She reported me to my former pastor and now to my present pastor that I am a smoker of which I am not.

Anytime I go out of the house just to stroll or catch fun with my friends, the next thing is for her to tell me that I have smoked.

I am contemplating divorce because I don't see anything good about her anymore. I have corrected her several times but she won't listen.

I am saying this because it is my heart beat. I need a mature mind to give me candid advice.

Every contribution will be highly appreciated.

if una never born pikin, better jakpa..if una don born, then you can keep searching for other solutions

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by julybaba(m): 11:53pm On Jul 14, 2019

Sorry to say this...Your wife lacks wisdom, she will destroy her marriage with her own hands.

Sharing problems with mere mortals who are equally laced with their own imperfections is not the way to an enduring solution.

The solution to every problem lies within the problem itself. I admonish you to wake up, and take back your role as the man of the house and set rules and boundaries necessary for the survival of your marriage.

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by victorian(f): 11:53pm On Jul 14, 2019

DavidEsq:

. She would fear OP may be planning to mine her skull

And she will spread the news like wildfire !!!!!

Lol

People start running away from the op, even police might arrest him as an alleged ritualist. He can be thrown in prison

Biko the advice is wrong ..lol

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Nobody: 11:55pm On Jul 14, 2019

kayone6237:
Please house don't mind my construction but I will go straight to the point.

My wife always reports me to anybody that can help me spiritually and physically. What I mean by reporting is that, she always tarnishes my image everywhere, she has reported me to my Inlaw, her siblings, to the extent that I have amounted to nothing.

She reported me to my former pastor and now to my present pastor that I am a smoker of which I am not.

Anytime I go out of the house just to stroll or catch fun with my friends, the next thing is for her to tell me that I have smoked.

I am contemplating divorce because I don't see anything good about her anymore. I have corrected her several times but she won't listen.

I am saying this because it is my heart beat. I need a mature mind to give me candid advice.

Every contribution will be highly appreciated.

1)Ask her wat makes her think you smoke, she might have seen something these women are very very good at finding things ,
2)Do you snuff ?, that is take powdered tobacco , if you do that is equivalent to smoking and its bad for your lungs
3) Telling her not to carry your name round isn't enough , listen to her reason for doing so, although it isn't right , we all have our flaws
4) Divorce isn't an option pls , I came from an almost dis functional family , if not for the grace of God , pls work it out and attend wat so ever you can attend together, pls don't let your children go through the mental pain, it's very real

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Kelvin30286063(m): 11:56pm On Jul 14, 2019

Hmm

Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Nobody: 11:56pm On Jul 14, 2019

nicepoker101:
you are so on point. Competition increases productivity

When you visit the U.S. you will see MEN who have been dating a lady for 20years without professing nor proposing marriage to her.
The REASON is simple....
When unmarried, no law recognises such.
You break up, you take your hard earned wealth and leave.
But when MARRIED u can be rendered HOMELESS by the lady you brought from AFRICA...
Women rarely manage POWER well.
Our HOLY BIBLE pointed out that when a KING asked her daughter to make a Birthday wish, she went as far as requesting for the HEAD OF JOHN the BAPTIST.
Her FATHER, the KING became demeaned..

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Checkerd: 11:57pm On Jul 14, 2019

Bros. marriage is for better for worse. God hate divorce. You manage her, make her gain your trust, perform your duties as a husband and don't let her frustrate you. And finally, commit her to God. May God help you.

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by TheFacelessMan: 11:59pm On Jul 14, 2019

Don't listen to the kids screaming DIVORCE.

Her vice isn't a pleasant one but still one that can be corrected with A LOT of patience

I can recommend divorce for cheating but even that...believe me, some spouses cheat and still don't divorce.

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Ekugbeh(m): 12:01am On Jul 15, 2019

Stop giving her those petty attention and ignore any snitching behaviour. Don't ve time gibberish

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by nicepoker101(m): 12:02am On Jul 15, 2019

EVILFOREST:

When you visit the U.S. you will see MEN who have been dating a lady for 20years without professing nor proposing marriage to her.
The REASON is simple....
When unmarried, no law recognises such.
You break up, you take your hard earned wealth and leave.
But when MARRIED u can be rendered HOMELESS by the lady you brought from AFRICA...
Women rarely manage POWER well.
Our HOLY BIBLE pointed out that when a KING asked her daughter to make a Birthday wish, she went as far as requesting for the HEAD OF JOHN the BAPTIST.
Her FATHER, the KING became demeaned..

That particular set of God's creation has taught a lot of men bitter lessons and more are still eager to be taught same lessons.

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by obowunmi(m): 12:03am On Jul 15, 2019

kayone6237:
Please house don't mind my construction but I will go straight to the point.

My wife always reports me to anybody that can help me spiritually and physically. What I mean by reporting is that, she always tarnishes my image everywhere, she has reported me to my Inlaw, her siblings, to the extent that I have amounted to nothing.

She reported me to my former pastor and now to my present pastor that I am a smoker of which I am not.

Anytime I go out of the house just to stroll or catch fun with my friends, the next thing is for her to tell me that I have smoked.

I am contemplating divorce because I don't see anything good about her anymore. I have corrected her several times but she won't listen.

I am saying this because it is my heart beat. I need a mature mind to give me candid advice.

Every contribution will be highly appreciated.

Divorce her.

Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by densiks: 12:04am On Jul 15, 2019

Both of you are comedians

I’ll advise both of you to start hosting shows, because you’re underutilizing your joint talent.

Marriage is never a bed of roses,and your wife is a foolish woman that needs a brain reset.
You have to engage wisdom and patience for some time in resetting her brain.

If the brain can’t be reset after a reasonable amount of time,then you might need to take her for psychiatric evaluation and ask yourself if you deserve to die young.
When you’ve answered that question,you’ll know what to do.

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Amanda4life: 12:04am On Jul 15, 2019

kayone6237:
Please house don't mind my construction but I will go straight to the point.

My wife always reports me to anybody that can help me spiritually and physically. What I mean by reporting is that, she always tarnishes my image everywhere, she has reported me to my Inlaw, her siblings, to the extent that I have amounted to nothing.

She reported me to my former pastor and now to my present pastor that I am a smoker of which I am not.

Anytime I go out of the house just to stroll or catch fun with my friends, the next thing is for her to tell me that I have smoked.

I am contemplating divorce because I don't see anything good about her anymore. I have corrected her several times but she won't listen.

I am saying this because it is my heart beat. I need a mature mind to give me candid advice.

Every contribution will be highly appreciated.

most people telling trash here are not married, some are with wives whose character is worst than your wives character and they come here to spill trash.

You said she reports you to pastor. Why dont you report her too to your pastor that you have quit smoking and she still reports that against you.

Secondly since your two legs likes strolling, why don't you tell her to tag along so she can see for herself you have quit smoking.
I guess you are a christian . do you people pray and have devotion together.

What do you want your kids to learn from you? You want them to see you as a nights strolling father?

Okay, papa you want your children to learn the strolling from you.

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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by shumuel(m): 12:05am On Jul 15, 2019

kayone6237:
Please house don't mind my construction but I will go straight to the point.

My wife always reports me to anybody that can help me spiritually and physically. What I mean by reporting is that, she always tarnishes my image everywhere, she has reported me to my Inlaw, her siblings, to the extent that I have amounted to nothing.

She reported me to my former pastor and now to my present pastor that I am a smoker of which I am not.

Anytime I go out of the house just to stroll or catch fun with my friends, the next thing is for her to tell me that I have smoked.

I am contemplating divorce because I don't see anything good about her anymore. I have corrected her several times but she won't listen.

I am saying this because it is my heart beat. I need a mature mind to give me candid advice.

Every contribution will be highly appreciated.

i am not bothered about your wife, most women are like that, it only shows she does not trust you, try and win back the trust that should be between you both.

My concern is with those whom she reported you to, that did not bother to find out the truth before judging you, including the Pastors, hmmm

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