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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Stillthebest: 9:57am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Does she just wake up and thinks you are a smoker? Reporting you to everyone is bad though. Correct her... If this is the only reason you think of a divorce then it is not jist yet it means she's good as a woman but only have a 'but' everyone does... |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Jeferious: 10:03am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Information is power. Information is life. My dear, if you are really serious that your wife reports you to every Tom, dick and Harry... including your enemies, then you're a dead man already. It's only a matter of time. I had a gf who is just like that. She can report for Africa. She even started asking after people around me who are influential in my life. Her reason was that those people can call me to order if I start "misbehaving". Meanwhile she had already made her aunts referees in our relationship. And she always complained to them that I am very secretive and mysterious. Those aunts will now start coaching me on how to be a good husband...blah blah blah. Sometimes I wonder if she used to tell them how I used to f**k her. The thing with people like this is that they can love for Africa. Very emotional creatures. And their go-to tool to keep their men in check is nagging and reporting. I understand them perfectly. But what I will not ever understand is how they tell your story to every living soul with an ability to hear. Op, if your woman is as bad as gisting your matter to your enemies, you'd better cut her off, because someone somewhere is definitely picking up all these gists and using them to weave a plan that would harm you, if not kill. In conclusion, try and correct her, while you work on your weaknesses, if there's any. Your family deserves some level of sovereignty, dignity and respect. I took over from my father after his death, and no uncle tells me how to run my domestic affairs. They don't even suggest- they plead. Even pastor must plead..if not I would walk you out of my house without remorse. Take charge. Be a man. |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Wettoid123: 10:26am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Tunagee: My brother no man is free from the hands of women including my wife at home we all are just managing each other. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Suspect33(m): 10:34am On Jul 15, 2019 |
EVILFOREST:*bar man, bring my boss two crate of Heineken * 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by sunday002(m): 10:43am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Take it up spiritually, devil might be using her against you. |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by babyfaceafrica: 10:57am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Franky826:i agree to an extent,but some things are obvious..we just let love cloud our judgement...a talkative and a malice keeper are not hard to.know,if qe want to,there is very little chance to hide both |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Nobody: 11:17am On Jul 15, 2019 |
90% of the people advicing you to leave your wife are not married. Calm down and talk to your wife, if u divorce her u will end up marrying someone that is worst . Make your wife your best friend, hanging out with friends will not help especially unmarried ones. I have been married since 12yrs now, I have issues too but I handle it maturely. Always hold hands and pray with your wife. Don't divorce stay strong 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by neoG(f): 12:31pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
The OP story doesn't seem complete to me. How will a woman just wake up and be inventing troubles daily if it is not madness that's her surname. |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by sixcargo: 1:04pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
wow! that's great advice i love it when a brother out of his pure heart is giving an olive branch to a fellow brother. oop kindly take this advice serious. Dpharisee: 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Eleponblue(m): 1:17pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
kayone6237:Divorce was , is , and never will be an option.Her actions are redeemable don't lose hope.Devise another method of dealing with her and most importantly, check yourself also and make amends accordingly. Cheers! |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Obakoolex(m): 1:20pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Her attitude is bad but why you self dey lie say u no smoke.... How can someone accuse u of smoking if not that they perceive the smell or your eyes turn super red after strolling 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by bigcasava1(m): 1:31pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
eezeribe:what shud I call this, advice or add fire? |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by bigcasava1(m): 1:33pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
[quote author=Eleponblue post=80287943][/quot] that kind woman is not redeemable she is not far from witch |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by olamy7(m): 1:38pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:and you think telling people what is not is not life and death? |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Nobody: 2:07pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
kayone6237:is her Zoodiac Virgo ? They are always like that, trying to 'fix' or separate you from everyone. Don't let her dictate your life. |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by afesco: 2:37pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Amakavula: olamy7: olamy7: olamy7: Ur wife reports u to ur pastors, in-laws etc because u re d problem of ur marriage. Maybe u will have divorce her n marry anoda woman dt can cope with ur irresponsible lifestyle (dt will spell doom for u if u do). Ur wife is not ur problem n she is just being a good wife. Be responsible. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by 1stNumeroUno: 10:17pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Dear Op, Only someone has asked directly if you do smoke (from the first 2pages). So let me add that if your guys you hang out with smokes, she will think you do too because you'll smell smoke. My 50cent advice, avoid places and people that smoke. Cos 2nd hand smoking is as dangerous as first hand smoking. Also it might be the only way to prove your wife wrong. |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by olamy7(m): 4:41pm On Jul 16, 2019 |
afesco:I think u have a problem with comprehension |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by kayone6237(m): 9:18am On Sep 22, 2020 |
don33310:yes we did |
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