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Pity on girls who visit men in their homes on a first date. Pity on girls who take risks and travel over. If a guy is really serious, let him visit first even if he's in another town, he can make arrangements to suit the situation. To me the first-three dates should be out doors. For any girl who lives in same town with a man, then goes on a first date to his house, I lack words to describe such a lady. Relationship should be for mature minds, if he ain't ready, quit it!!! Nice write up by the way.

vivypretty:
I think so too
it should be on a neutral ground where you can be able to know more about the person

I have heard about it too. I heard she later confessed to hubby that she was possessed. The said lady according to them sleeps with her two legs, carried up/ placed on the wall.

2dice01:
You try oo
one bae tell me say she dey like to put her leg on the wall when she want to sleep

baba na so relationship end
make den no go reduce person Glory to 0.004kb

LilMissFavvy:
Pity on girls who visit men in their homes on a first date. Pity on girls who take risks and travel over. If a guy is really serious, let him visit first even if he's in another town, he can make arrangements to suit the situation. To me the first-three dates should be out doors. For any girl who lives in same town with a man, then goes on a first date to his house, I lack words to describe such a lady. Relationship should be for mature minds, if he ain't ready, quit it!!! Nice write up by the way.

thank you and I totally agree with you

dingbang:
why eatery or somewhere fun? Na people like you girls dey use una mumu button.

so u expect me to bring girl for the first time to my house

am not sex starved like some of you

when you win her heart like a real G na you go dey run for sex sef

LilMissFavvy:
I have heard about it too. I heard she later confessed to hubby that she was possessed. The said lady according to them sleeps with her two legs, carried up/ placed on the wall.

well mine is a true story

the Bae is still my friend
But our friendship no pass WhatsApp

happy new months,Happy new year

no room for meetup

vivypretty:
so guys are becoming conscious of losing their glory thought it was just HIV and STD they're afraid of

Nawa for Nigerians o. What glory are you talking about? Lol

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Bossjakande:
any girl DAT visit me is asking for sex and I will give her

Oooooshey mr giver

Well said OP

dingbang:
Its good you are advising your sisters but you see, a woman will always be a woman! Her body cannot stay one place!

I can differentiate between a fact and a lie. what you said can not be proven and can't be a fact

2dice01:
You try oo
one bae tell me say she dey like to put her leg on the wall when she want to sleep

baba na so relationship end
make den no go reduce person Glory to 0.004kb

Guy! Na waa to you o... You don wound person with laughter here.

Biko, which one be to "reduce person glory to 0.004kb" Lol. Funny pikin.

vivypretty:
I can differentiate between a fact and a lie. what you said can not be proven and can't be a fact

lol, it is a fact because you won't admit.

vivypretty:
thank you and I totally agree with you

@vivypretty, I like your humorous style of writing. You remind of @Naijasinglegirl.

"Wehdon"

henrimoto:
@vivypretty, I like your humorous style of writing. You remind of @Naijasinglegirl.

"Wehdon"

thank you

dingbang:
lol, it is a fact because you won't admit.

because you are laughing I know you don't believe it to be true

2dice01:
so u expect me to bring girl for the first time to my house


I'm not sex starved like some of you

when you win her heart like a real G na you go dey run for sex sef

Much love,bro(no homo). I don't get why these guys feel meeting a girl one on one for the first time in a diner, restaurant or public park is considered being a mugu because they don't want to spend 2-3k.

Some of these girls are hookers that are thieves or undercover informant for robbers.

Only lazy youth are roaming about when their mates are busy working out something

thesicilian:
When you see a girl ranting like this you know she's been burnt so bad it hurt her pride.

You got her point for this write up.

NACE13:
Much love,bro(no homo). I don't get why these guys feel meeting a girl one on one for the first time in a diner, restaurant or public park is considered being a mugu because they don't want to spend 2-3k.

Some of these girls are hookers that are thieves or undercover informant for robbers

i tire for them

if they want quick action ashewo house full every street ..you can always help yourself


at the Bolded ..so true

henrimoto:
Guy! Na waa to you o... You don wound person with laughter here.

Biko, which one be to "reduce person glory to 0.004kb" Lol. Funny pikin.

we June Born are naturally Funny


Baba no mind me

Sonnobax15:
My first social media hook up was a qirl i met on 2qo(2011)...that qirl suffer cha 4 "piriri" after qushinq 1 bottle of pepsi on that day....but ever since then,i haven't really have time 4 that...many qirls dey my line but since d money never dey.wetin man qo do??

How hard will it be for you to replace that your "q" with the proper letter "g"

1 out of 100k rather

vivypretty:
lol 1 out of 100

lefulefu:
one of my guy till today always complainig about d girls he dey do hookups and dates with from instagram and facebook.always complaning they look different in real life from their facebook/instagram pics.a girl with big boobs on her facebook pix wen he meets her one on one will have very flat chest,a light skinned girl on her facebook pix will be very dark wen he meets her one on one etc. i have told him instead of wasting his time trying to do internet hookups just get a preety girl close to u. no need stressing urself over an illusion...not with in dis era dat we have photoshop gadgets used to decieve a man. i have told him but he wont listen.

he may be the shy type that can't meet a girl one on one and woow her...help him by going out to a social gathering where you can link him up...

vivypretty:
Social media platforms these days are filled with monsters, mean people, deceitful people

alongside charming people, funny people, angels in form of humans; who understand us, love us, check up on us etc.

The latter set of people make us want to be online all the time no matter how expensive data is, even better now that there is free facebook(sorry you can’t view pictures).smiley

With time, a new friendship is created and tick-tock visiting hours are here. winkThe visiting plans are made between the man and woman to cement the already blossoming relationship into a concrete affair.

Gone are the days of,
girl : babe send me transport money.

The new thing is,
Boy : babe just come with your money or borrow money from your friend, I will pay you back when you get here.
(Boys are now men lol)laugh

Most often than not, it is the girl that goes the extra miles to meet the boy (well hello sister, we are in a man’s world)angry

Here are few reasons why we girls shouldn’t make that trip.

1. He may not be who he says he is:

Let me start by reminding you that all you know about him is all he told you he is;
hear say (NB hear say evidence is not always admissible in court in all cases, ask a
lawyercool). That means if he says he is an alpha male like teddy A, you would be banking on his word until you go there and meet a he-she (like our bobby somebody).
Don’t even depend on his profile or his pictures because a native doctor is also a doctorlaughlaugh. This reminds me of when a luscious diva sent me a friend request on facebook. Of course I wasn’t going to accept such a person with that kind of name (for God’s sake!! I am protective of my male friends as an elder sister shouldangel) but I was surprised to see that almost all of her picture backgrounds had strong resemblance with either my black gate or my range rover sport (except that the plate number is always covered). I got the shock of my life when I went to buy food from the food truck seller very close to my house one evening.
Her reply to my good evening was “madam you no want accept my friend request for facebook abi?" surprise(see me see wahala, how am I to know that madam Veronica is the same with lusa cious diva?)
Little wonder phones are expensive these days, filter cameras are the bomb!!

2. What took you there?

If your answer to the above question can convince any audience beyond all reasonable doubt then aunty carry your bag and make that trip but if not, aunty super glue your butt to your house. That would be the first question people will ask you when you chemically react to uncle’s touchwink in an agressive way.
So many other questions would be thrown at you if you can’t answer the above question, examples are “is he your brother?”
“shebi na you carry yourself come abi na kidnap he kidnap you?”
“ashawo, he no pay you complete?”
Once upon a time I didn’t know the answer to the above question when one brother invited me over to his place. He sounded so harmless over the phone and mature. He even promised to douse himself with cold water if his body should misbehave (wink). For my church mind, I have found a brother in Christ. The day came and I prepared looking as beautiful as always. I called my partner in crime aka my sister to inform her of my journey , only for her to narrate to me how daddy called her and told her about a bad dream he had concerning the death of one of us.
Hmmmm, heaven knows I am not liable to die young so I had to retreat and surrender (this type of hear say evidence is admissible in my court, thank you yes!!). The problem became how to tell my brother in christ that our planned mission has been aborted after all my promise and past disappointments.

Our beloved brother finally called sounding all happy like the MMM founder after it was introduced in Nigeria(laugh). Just know that the brother dropped the call before I could finish apologizing for not keeping my promise and he never did call back nor chatted me up again. Surprisingly after a year, bros remembered me and wanted us to meet again. I was still stating my terms and conditions one of which was ‘no sex’ when bros replied with “I am not your brother. We go just do am and I go satisfy you so tey you go ask for more”.(surprise)
That was how my ear went back to factory reset and all I could say was thank you God for stopping me from going the first time.

3. Are you up for sex with just anyone?

The first question you should ask yourself before embarking on that journey is “are you up for sex with just anyone?”. Irrespective of the Anthony Joshua’s body you think he has or the Andy Ruiz’s body you think he doesn’t have, are you up for ‘bedmatics’ with random people?
If you can’t have sex with random people please do save your taekwondo skill for Anthony Joshua and remain in your house except you have the strength to fight from dusk till dawn. Or do you not mind being raped?
The generally perceived notion is that "women want sex even when they say no because they are just being shy to give in easily”(sad
)

That was how another brother was inviting me over. I was yet to make up my mind, so I told him I will think about it. The bros started asking me the naughtiest thing I have ever done in life (aside from lying I know I am a saint). I told the brother I can’t remember but when I do I will tell him. I then asked bros the naughtiest thing he has ever done. Bros confessed to having engaged in twosome, party and the other somes but all have always been consensual (brethren, what does he really mean because I don’t understand)frown

4. In the middle of nowhere

Does it ever occur to you that you could be going to a no man's land, not like Lagos but a land where you don’t know your way, a land where you have no friends, relations or village people and a land where all you have got is yourself surrounded by strangers who could be worse/ better than your village people.
Who do you turn to if things don’t go as planned?
What do you do when you get lost in such a place? (my own is to keep praying that you at least have your transport fare with you)
Will the boy even be worried for a sec if something should happen to you on your way to see him?

Brethren, here comes the end of my sermon but remember that this sermon is for all the good girls.




Thank you.

cc : Farano
cc:Rocktation
cc:Lalasticlala

Very educative! But some of us will not like it.

vivypretty:
lol lol lol I love myself too much to risk that kind of journey

hmmmm inside life

Exactly why I was so reserved all through the time I gained freedom from my parents.I ask myself so many questions. Especially, is this the type of life you want for yourself?