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Datazone:
It might not be easy to break up completely with her, I understand. Just start planning for a different relationship, slowly break her grip in your life. How? Don't call her again at all. You can chat her up once in a while and don't reply swiftly (like 6 hours - 24hrs before any reply). Don't do her those baby this that bullshit you have been doing on your chats. Go for 2 days without replying her chats. If she doesn't reply your chat, so be it. Don't answer her, till.she replies that chat - bone her, this will put guilt in her mind later on. Do this within 3 months and the gap will stand to widen . Slowly search for a new girl, study her and prepare for a new relationship. There are other tricks in my bags, but typing isn't my thing

if as if you know what going on
sometimes u send her message and she won't bother to open the chat in her WhatsApp and she be online chatting randomly with other people

mosho2good:
I stay in the island and her off is on Monday
would u mind telling me her name cos she has many names

Island Well, she doesn't stay island as far as I know

mosho2good:
I'm sick and tired of her now and don't know what to do
it all started 3 years ago when I first meet her without knowing she was working for my brother then before she finally said yes to be my girlfriend and everything was going on fine until last year when her attitude change towards where by my girlfriend will be telling me that I need to have a good and solid reason before she can stay or be with me and lately she be telling me that she's busy almost throughout last year cause in her place of work she has a day off which is Monday that we do spend together but now she keep on telling me that she's busy and she be chatting with different guys and I'm no where to be found in the list.

I really love her and I'm planning my life with her but her last words to me that hurt me most was when she said the winner will be announced on the 31st of December this year.
what can I do

What you can do it that
“GO AND MAKE MONEY “

mosho2good:
I'm sick and tired of her now and don't know what to do
it all started 3 years ago when I first meet her without knowing she was working for my brother then before she finally said yes to be my girlfriend and everything was going on fine until last year when her attitude change towards where by my girlfriend will be telling me that I need to have a good and solid reason before she can stay or be with me and lately she be telling me that she's busy almost throughout last year cause in her place of work she has a day off which is Monday that we do spend together but now she keep on telling me that she's busy and she be chatting with different guys and I'm no where to be found in the list.

I really love her and I'm planning my life with her but her last words to me that hurt me most was when she said the winner will be announced on the 31st of December this year.
what can I do

She is probably an Aries or Leo and you're a Cancer. Cancers are too clingy. So she wouldn't have a life appt from relationship abi. Let he be, focus on work and make time to see each not every time. Let she have her space.

Girls ehn well maybe ur joystick too small or u no b real man 4 bed coz girls of nowadays are horse dey need like cucumber or tuber of yam, bruh move on n wave ur hand to her no go dey shout at her Ooooooooo.

ehn...wait till dec31...but make sure u deh bang her well

mosho2good:
I'm sick and tired of her now and don't know what to do
it all started 3 years ago when I first meet her without knowing she was working for my brother then before she finally said yes to be my girlfriend and everything was going on fine until last year when her attitude change towards where by my girlfriend will be telling me that I need to have a good and solid reason before she can stay or be with me and lately she be telling me that she's busy almost throughout last year cause in her place of work she has a day off which is Monday that we do spend together but now she keep on telling me that she's busy and she be chatting with different guys and I'm no where to be found in the list.

I really love her and I'm planning my life with her but her last words to me that hurt me most was when she said the winner will be announced on the 31st of December this year.
what can I do

Since she said the winner will be be announced in December, that means you already have a competitor ❓
If I wee in your shoes, wait for the final result, if you are not the winner, move on

You will get some that will make you her winner and you will be asking yourself where was she all this while ❓

frozen70:
Since she said the winner will be be announced in December, that means you already have a competitor ❓
If I wee in your shoes, wait for the final result, if you are not the winner, move on

You will get some that will make you her winner and you will be asking yourself where was she all this while ❓

Thanks so much for the advice but is it normal to stay loyal to a girl and she's now playing u like a ball telling u to wait
it means she ain't loyal to u
if another guy that has money show up definitely she will go

Blurr:
ehn...wait till dec31...but make sure u deh bang her well

the things is she won't allow me to bang her but then it almost every week that I do bang her

Mathew1999:
Girls ehn well maybe ur joystick too small or u no b real man 4 bed coz girls of nowadays are horse dey need like cucumber or tuber of yam, bruh move on n wave ur hand to her no go dey shout at her Ooooooooo.

thanks so much but I'm trying to move on now since we don't talk to each other again but it ain't easy cause u love her truly with my heart

Amakavula:
She is probably an Aries or Leo and you're a Cancer. Cancers are too clingy. So she wouldn't have a life appt from relationship abi. Let he be, focus on work and make time to see each not every time. Let she have her space.

I've given her all the space she need in the world

mosho2good:
Thanks so much for the advice but is it normal to stay loyal to a girl and she's now playing u like a ball telling u to wait
it means she ain't loyal to u
if another guy that has money show up definitely she will go

Love is not based on money,
Love is based on selfless love for each other

You are asking if it was nice staying faithful to a lady and she is not faithful to you ❓

You must learn to date your class

If you date your level, you will experience peace and satisfaction but if you go higher and you don't have the money to give, you will have to endure what goes with it

frozen70:
Love is not based on money,
Love is based on selfless love for each other

You are asking if it was nice staying faithful to a lady and she is not faithful to you ❓

You must learn to date your class

If you date your level, you will experience peace and satisfaction but if you go higher and you don't have the money to give, you will have to endure what goes with it

I'm dating my class even she's not my level but choose to be with her since she proved to me that she loves me then until after everything change to worst but now she choose to be with those fine guys that she can but on social media and makes other lady to jealous since I'm not a social media freak like her

mosho2good:
I'm datijg my class

Then sit her down and talk sense to her

If she refuse to make good use of the outcome of your discussion

Be prepared to move on

frozen70:
Then sit her down and talk sense to her

If she refuse to make good use of the outcome of your discussion

Be prepared to move on

I've tried several time to understand to the extent that I've introduced her to my family as the lady I want to spend the rest of my life with
can u imagine

The girl bad gan....

Na competition una dey do....

"The winner will be announced 31st December"

Some girl don crase finish

emelda86:
The girl bad gan....
Na competition una dey do....
"The winner will be announced 31st December"
Some girl don crase finish

I swear

bros back out there are many fish in the river ;Dbros back out there are many fish in the river

I've finally break up with her cause I cant cooked with her anymore

mosho2good:
I've stop calling her already but the moment she see that I didn't call her for 5 days she start to pestering me with calls

maybe she missed those benefits she was getting from you.

Which competition biko

I still wonder many a time how guys would think being in a relationship with a girl is best thing that happened after chocolate. Damn as a guy, you don't love a girl, even if u do, do not show it I repeat, do not show it. This is the kind of mess you get yourself into when she realises u can't do without her. It's quite pathetic how most guys have this beta nature and would never learn.
And when I thought I've heard it all, which one is the winner will b announced on 31st of December? This really weakens me.