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Re: I'm Doomed by ehmmy11(m): 12:06am On Jul 13, 2019
uckennety:



Of all this symptoms I have only night sweats
hey bro sorry if this is coming late.. About your diarrhea and night sweats I also experienced this mine even extended to sweating in the day time.. I advise you go for a h.pylori test as its present in most ulcer and gastritis patients this bacteria infection can cause so many symptoms not even related to the stomach.

And yes I did HIV test twice in the space of 7 months (second one today) all negative.. So calm down and get all your tests done

I also noticed anxiety in ur comments ( also a symptom of h pylori)
One last thing you can treat the gastritis for good tho the treatment will drive you insane.. Hope this helps

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Re: I'm Doomed by uckennety(m): 12:21am On Jul 13, 2019
ehmmy11:
hey bro sorry if this is coming late.. About your diarrhea and night sweats I also experienced this mine even extended to sweating in the day time.. I advise you go for a h.pylori test as its present in most ulcer and gastritis patients this bacteria infection can cause so many symptoms not even related to the stomach.

And yes I did HIV test twice in the space of 7 months (second one today) all negative.. So calm down and get all your tests done

I also noticed anxiety in ur comments ( also a symptom of h pylori)
One last thing you can treat the gastritis for good tho the treatment will drive you insane.. Hope this helps


you just nailed it bruv

Please what's the treatment

I'm always hungry no matter what, when or how I eat
Re: I'm Doomed by ehmmy11(m): 10:03am On Jul 13, 2019
uckennety:



you just nailed it bruv

Please what's the treatment

I'm always hungry no matter what, when or how I eat

as for the treatment it's not a good idea prescribing drugs online. But you an adult.. send me a pm
Re: I'm Doomed by uckennety(m): 2:19pm On Jul 13, 2019
ehmmy11:
as for the treatment it's not a good idea prescribing drugs online. But you an adult.. send me a pm


Pm sent

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Re: I'm Doomed by Ayanfeoluxyz(f): 4:56pm On Jul 13, 2019
Karrma:
I'm at crossroads and really confused right now. Got another invite for an interview, but the medical tests which i got to know involves HIV screening. My parents are on my neck to go for the interview because it's likely I'll get it(the HR manager is a family friend). I snubbed the first invite lying i did not get a notification, now the HR manager had to send me another one personally. I just don't know what to do.

Really confused and mad at myself right now.
Well life can be so cruel a times. imaging an open door that has come your way! May the lord be with you through this your hard time!
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 9:45pm On Jul 13, 2019
Karrma:

Do you know know what it is to be on pills for the rest of your life?
People with diabetes live on pills their whole life, some take insulin. Injections 3 times every day. People with hypertension live on pills the rest of their lives. There hundreds of other diseases that requires you to live on pills. It doesn't make your live the worst case scenario because you have to take anti retroviral every day. Those drugs will keep you healthy for the rest of your live. They are not a course. Being HIV positive will not stop your live except you stop it yourself.
You are sad bc your tested positive, probably your are afraid you are going to die. Why kill your self then? If you are afraid of death, why are you running to it your self.
By the way, it will take about 3months from the time you got infected before a routine screen will detect the virus in your system. So if you did this test less than 3months of having sex with this person, it would be unlikely you got it from her.
Which ever be the case, think forward. Go do a confirmatory test first.
If it's still positive, enrol and start the drugs right away. That way your present health status will be maintained. I'll strongly advice you join a group. It helps. You will be mo motivated when you see other people living highly productive life , doing far better than you, with beautiful families, having HIV free children.
Stop self pity. Pick yourself up and count

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Re: I'm Doomed by Litigant(f): 2:16pm On Jul 28, 2019
hello karrma how are you doing... I really really want to be your friend. please oblige me and and send me a pm.
I've been following this thread as a guest, I joined NL and I know I just have to get in touch with u
happy Sunday everyone

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Re: I'm Doomed by monerozi5590: 4:05pm On Jul 28, 2019
ehmmy11:
hey bro sorry if this is coming late.. About your diarrhea and night sweats I also experienced this mine even extended to sweating in the day time.. I advise you go for a h.pylori test as its present in most ulcer and gastritis patients this bacteria infection can cause so many symptoms not even related to the stomach.

And yes I did HIV test twice in the space of 7 months (second one today) all negative.. So calm down and get all your tests done

I also noticed anxiety in ur comments ( also a symptom of h pylori)
One last thing you can treat the gastritis for good tho the treatment will drive you insane.. Hope this helps


Have u cured ur gastritis?... Having similar problem.
Re: I'm Doomed by Earth2: 4:40pm On Jul 28, 2019
czarina:
They're close to a permanent cure. I read that somewhere. Just continue on this. You'll be fine and it's just once a day like you said.

It is well.
What about cure for staphylococcus aureus cry cry
Re: I'm Doomed by ehmmy11(m): 5:26pm On Jul 28, 2019
monerozi5590:



Have u cured ur gastritis?... Having similar problem.

Yes sure.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 12:07pm On Jul 29, 2019
Karrma:

It's not been long i finished my NYSC program how am i supposed to get a job when every firm needs your medical report. It's a matter of time before i get sacked from where i'm putting up with because i'm very sure i won't concentrate at work again.
How am I supposed to pop pills everyday without my parents noticing? I'm confused
I understand ur plight and pain brov,,but pls do not take ur life..just chill and encourage urself...The hour of building ur faith and strongly believing in God is now..attend more church programs on healing,,put all ur trust in God,,and ull be amazed how u got healed.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 1:00pm On Jul 29, 2019
Karrma:

I don't know how you do it, but your posts makes me smile. You and others have given me a new lease of life. I appreciate y'all.

I'll like to go through this journey with you, if you don't mind??
Awww..am happy u are a bit releived now.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jul 29, 2019
Vega100:

U are a fool!!! U better stop all this nonsense u and other fools use in deceiving people, else u will soon meet your doom!!! Wicked heartless soul... Instead of you to sympathise with the young man and allow him to griefly come to terms with his reality, u want to start that nonsense, better stop it, and if u have nothing to say u better keep shot and get the fvck outta the thread!!!
Heartless wicked riffraffs everywhere.
Am so sorry if I had offended u,,just thought I could give my own little advice too..I never knew I would be getting on someone's nerves by this..Apologies pls

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Re: I'm Doomed by czarina(f): 9:50pm On Jul 29, 2019
Earth2:
What about cure for staphylococcus aureus cry cry
No idea.
You should go to the hospital, you know?

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Re: I'm Doomed by Neddstark: 11:47am On Jul 30, 2019
llade:
I dont know why girls are too secretive and engage in unprotected sex when they know they are putting lives of hard working Nigerian guys in harms way. Except they were ignorant, the girls might know their status. I only want to introduce and advise on PEP (Post Exposure Prophylaxis) for guys who have unprotected intercourse and experience condom break. Just start PEP within 72 hours and complete the drug regimen in 28 days if you can. WHO recommends Truvada for PEP as standard regimen and a combination with a third drug as preferred regimen. Its very effective to stop transmission for risky exposures like the experiences highlighted here.
q

Where can one get this drug abeg??
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jul 30, 2019
Karrma:

Do you know know what it is to be on pills for the rest of your life?

Apart from HIV, there are several diseases and disorders that requires patients to be on pills daily.
For example, hypertension, diabetes.
Some diabetic people inject themselves daily.
Having HIV is child's play compared to some diseases. You'd be shocked.
Re: I'm Doomed by PECON1(m): 1:24pm On Jul 30, 2019
wealth25:

Am so sorry if I had offended u,,just thought I could give my own little advice too..I never knew I would be getting on someone's nerves by this..Apologies pls
U've displayed maturity, forget the guy and his rants

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Re: I'm Doomed by PECON1(m): 1:35pm On Jul 30, 2019
Before my father died, he was on injection for 40 years.he had diabetes.op believe me diabetes is worse than HIV. If ur not well to do u will die of diabetes.the experience we had, u will not wish your enemy the sickness.Hiv is not the end, there are people suffering more sickness thats deadly than HIV. Chai, and I have been having unprotected sex with my girlfriend that is 21yrs since last year.
Re: I'm Doomed by desoul2004(m): 2:04pm On Jul 30, 2019
PECON1:
Before my father died, he was on injection for 40 years.he had diabetes.op believe me diabetes is worse than HIV. If ur not well to do u will die of diabetes.the experience we had, u will not wish your enemy the sickness.Hiv is not the end, there are people suffering more sickness thats deadly than HIV. Chai, and I have been having unprotected sex with my girlfriend that is 21yrs since last year.

We're in the same shoe, after going through this thread, I have been having small HBP, I don't have mind to run the test. Any little health issue, I will be scared. May God help me. � � �
Re: I'm Doomed by essentialB(f): 3:27pm On Jul 30, 2019
Karrma:

I know you're trying to be nice but popping recreational pills ain't the same as popping HIV pills. Any mistake the virus becomes resistant to the drugs. So they're way too different.

Bro, companies refer you to their hospitals for tests because they are the ones paying for it. So, there's no way you can try anything funny

Consistently taking anti retroviral for the period between 3 - 6 months suppresses the virus in the body and no blood test will ever detect it any more. And at that stage you can’t transmit the virus to your partner even if you have unprotected sex. But that does not mean you should stop taking your medication else it will become more deadly and resistant to drugs. So no need of being scared of blood screening for job interviews.

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Re: I'm Doomed by PECON1(m): 10:39am On Jul 31, 2019
Ferdinandu:

I was in the same condition as you but was lucky, my then girlfriend was positive but on her drugs but she never told me. To be sincere with you I was having unprotected sex with her all the while but was never infected.
It is now I knew why I was never infected. I watched on CNN the other day about a new study that shows that positive people who are consistent with their drugs are not able to transmit the disease, then I realise where my luck came from. I had already made myself a Guinea pig for that study before even the scientist did that albeit unknowingly gringrin, so I was like nodding with the findings the day I was watching it.

You see it is not a death sentence. Staying close to that my Girlfriend all the while, I never see anything much different from her lifestyle though she takes the drug secretly without me knowing. please hang on. Taking pills every day till the rest of your life sounds scary but it is not, it is hardly any different from the food you eat 3 times a day. It is alright, you found out in time, please stop the regret make enquiries and find out where you can be getting your drugs. Daily believe me nothing has really changed about your life.
your girlfriend is wicked,she wanted u to go down with her.chai
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 12:06pm On Aug 03, 2019
essentialB:


Consistently taking anti retroviral for the period between 3 - 6 months suppresses the virus in the body and no blood test will ever detect it any more. And at that stage you can’t transmit the virus to your partner even if you have unprotected sex. But that does not mean you should stop taking your medication else it will become more deadly and resistant to drugs. So no need of being scared of blood screening for job interviews.
A blood test will always show it.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 12:07pm On Aug 03, 2019
Litigant:
hello karrma how are you doing... I really really want to be your friend. please oblige me and and send me a pm.
I've been following this thread as a guest, I joined NL and I know I just have to get in touch with u
happy Sunday everyone
Okay.
Re: I'm Doomed by Litigant(f): 12:41pm On Aug 03, 2019
Karrma:
Okay.
check your email
Re: I'm Doomed by monerozi5590: 2:45pm On Aug 03, 2019
ehmmy11:
Yes sure.

Good afternoon, please check ur email.
Re: I'm Doomed by ehmmy11(m): 5:06pm On Aug 03, 2019
monerozi5590:



Good afternoon, please check ur email.
I didn't see any thing there.. Send pm again
Re: I'm Doomed by monerozi5590: 6:55pm On Aug 03, 2019
ehmmy11:
I didn't see any thing there.. Send pm again

Done
Re: I'm Doomed by DonroxyII: 10:52pm On Aug 03, 2019
Hmmm, I fear oooo .... May God help us all ooo ...
This life self na something else .... alot of sheezs everywhere .... Even Abroad that suppose safe self na wah .....

May God strengthen you all !!!

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 1:47pm On Aug 16, 2019
Nawao.
Be patient, be strong. Help is on the way.
Re: I'm Doomed by TechCapon(m): 2:53pm On Aug 16, 2019
essentialB:


Consistently taking anti retroviral for the period between 3 - 6 months suppresses the virus in the body and no blood test will ever detect it any more. And at that stage you can’t transmit the virus to your partner even if you have unprotected sex. But that does not mean you should stop taking your medication else it will become more deadly and resistant to drugs. So no need of being scared of blood screening for job interviews.
not true abeg. How can you say that
Re: I'm Doomed by tot(f): 3:37pm On Aug 16, 2019
Hello Karrma,

I came across your post from another post (https://www.nairaland.com/5362124/how-got-infected-hiv), and I just want to encourage you that the downfall of a man is not the end of his life. Think long term, in 10-15 years time, would this matter? Answer is No. You will have started your own family, built a successful career, found a better alternative for the drugs (as I believe research/technology would have made immense progress in the space by then), become an advocate in this area and impacted others' lives and will be able to look back on this as the hiccup it was rather than the end. That you still have a life is a sign that you still have a purpose.

Don't bother looking back, forget the past, don't waste your life with regret. Pick yourself up, create a long term goal for yourself and focus on it.

Wish you all the very best.
cheers

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