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Re: I'm Doomed by uchedum(m): 7:18pm On Jun 27, 2019
after going through all the comments...I just recalled how I had unprotected sex with my then gf.. this is about two years again,,,though I trusted her n I NVA for once had any symptoms of HIV,,,but because I don read many comments here,,I just man off n go for test,,n glory be to God Im negative,, atleast my mind is now at rest,,,n I v now mk a vow,,I Wil NVA have unprotected sex again,,,...infact I no do again,,,I rather masturbate,,,,bt bro as pple don talk am,u v to take things easy,,u can stil live a normal life,,thank u

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Re: I'm Doomed by SkinnyNigga: 8:21pm On Jun 27, 2019
FootballAnalyst:
Menh, see as my hand dey shake as I dey read through all this comments.

A man has gat to man up and do this test once and for all o.
guy I dey fear OOO. I no fit do this test oo. I never see any symptoms. na just pimples wey dey do me for chest since 2014. before I even started having sex. and I donated blood in 2017. so I was tested..

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Re: I'm Doomed by FootballAnalyst(m): 9:35pm On Jun 27, 2019
SkinnyNigga:
guy I dey fear OOO. I no fit do this test oo. I never see any symptoms. na just pimples wey dey do me for chest since 2014. before I even started having sex. and I donated blood in 2017. so I was tested..

.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Fate111: 12:50am On Jun 28, 2019
Hello!
Guys, I would like to know if:
An HIV patient will be allowed to go for service? (in regards to being accepted at the orientation camp).
And also place where they can work during or after service.
Re: I'm Doomed by BentSpoon(m): 2:00am On Jun 28, 2019
u guys should stay strong the cure is here but it hasn't flooded the street ONE LOVE

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 2:45am On Jun 28, 2019
I am just sayin


You guys should expose the people who infected you

People are just too wicked, for people who say they shouldn't here is my point

1) these ladies knew they had HIV, thats why they insisted on not getting tested
2)they infected these guys without them knowing, without remorse,
3)they will do it for other people and will even force them to go raw on them
4)there is no point in protecting them. They will be saving others from the misery they are facing right now

These girls dont need protection, if you cant show their pics at least give us their full name. You are saving a life by doing so

Cheers

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Re: I'm Doomed by mayowa94: 9:38am On Jun 28, 2019
Ronaldo24682:
For those of you saying condom this and that. I can’t remember the last time I went raw. It’s been over a year ago. Just one condom break which I pulled out immediately(101% sure I knew when it broke)gave me this virus.
One can never be too careful. Abstinence still remains the best(if only I knew before now).

Keep fighting bro.
You said the last time you went raw was a year ago am i right?

If you insist on the condom break and you are sure you pulled after hearing the pop sound then maybe there's an exchange of fluid

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Re: I'm Doomed by Ppda: 11:53am On Jun 28, 2019
I traveled to Uganda sometimes in feburary and I called an escort with InMessage. I had sex with Condom but as I don finish 3 round condom don finish. I had to dive in RAW.... though it’s been over 3months now and I don’t have any symptoms I’m just too scared to carry out any test.

Any advice? I get one soar throat even before that February. And small cold like this I don day sneeze what do u guys think?

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Re: I'm Doomed by uchedum(m): 12:07pm On Jun 28, 2019
Ppda:
I traveled to Uganda sometimes in feburary and I called an escort with InMessage. I had sex with Condom but as I don finish 3 round condom don finish. I had to dive in RAW.... though it’s been over 3months now and I don’t have any symptoms I’m just too scared to carry out any test.

Any advice? I get one soar throat even before that February. And small cold like this I don day sneeze what do u guys think?
bro pls I beg u go test oooo
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jun 28, 2019
Karrma:
I have been feeling sick ever since i had sex with my girlfriend, so i went for a test today only to find out she's infected me with HIV. This is someone i trusted with everything. I've learned my lesson the hard way. My life is ruined right now, I've cried my eyes out and suicide is the only thing coming to my mind now. I'm still alive because of the thought of my mother, butt I'm not sure i can hold on.

Please be careful with who you say you love.
it is quite possible that you were infected long before you had sex with your girlfriend. the thing about HIV is that it takes a long time to incubate i.e from the moment you are infected till when you start feeling illness takes minimum of three months till years.

something is not adding up. what's you and your girlfriend's sexual history like
Re: I'm Doomed by Eze2000(m): 12:53pm On Jun 28, 2019
funmisticqueen:
it is quite possible that you were infected long before you had sex with your girlfriend. the thing about HIV is that it takes a long time to incubate i.e from the moment you are infected till when you start feeling illness takes minimum of three months till years.

something is not adding up. what's you and your girlfriend's sexual history like

Greetings babe!

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Re: I'm Doomed by tetula123(m): 4:08pm On Jun 28, 2019
Dothraki:
I am just sayin


You guys should expose the people who infected you

People are just too wicked, for people who say they shouldn't here is my point

1) these ladies knew they had HIV, thats why they insisted on not getting tested
2)they infected these guys without them knowing, without remorse,
3)they will do it for other people and will even force them to go raw on them
4)there is no point in protecting them. They will be saving others from the misery they are facing right now

These girls dont need protection, if you cant show their pics at least give us their full name. You are saving a life by doing so

Cheers
why will you advise they expose the girls , do you know if they were sick before the sex with the girls. One can never be too sure and exposing the girls means indirectly exposing themselves. Or do you think they don’t have friends who are on nairaland who might know who they are dating. Seeing the girls picture they might know he’s the one who posted it and that way they know he’s HiV positive.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 5:18pm On Jun 28, 2019
Guy i suspect HIV..go for test
Ppda:
I traveled to Uganda sometimes in feburary and I called an escort with InMessage. I had sex with Condom but as I don finish 3 round condom don finish. I had to dive in RAW.... though it’s been over 3months now and I don’t have any symptoms I’m just too scared to carry out any test.

Any advice? I get one soar throat even before that February. And small cold like this I don day sneeze what do u guys think?
Re: I'm Doomed by Zoroaster: 5:58pm On Jun 28, 2019
mayowa94:


Keep fighting bro.
You said the last time you went raw was a year ago am i right?

If you insist on the condom break and you are sure you pulled after hearing the pop sound then maybe there's an exchange of fluid
i have a feeling he got it earlier than that

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Re: I'm Doomed by ThothHermes: 6:59pm On Jun 28, 2019
COOL10:
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So sad to hear your story. Pls try to stay alive smiley. What brand of condom did you use?
grin grin cheesy grin
Hilarious.

You no go ever near that brand abi grin grin grin
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 10:53pm On Jun 28, 2019
Goddys:



If something is non-living, is it still alive? Can't you apply common sense Mr know it all


First you lack manners, I often wonder how people can stoop low to resort to abuses when trying to express your opinion. I wouldn't expect less from an immature person.

Secondly, I never claimed to know it all. I'm just stating a fact which you could research.

VIRUSES DO NOT DIE!!!
Re: I'm Doomed by SkinnyNigga: 11:52pm On Jun 28, 2019
Ppda:
I traveled to Uganda sometimes in feburary and I called an escort with InMessage. I had sex with Condom but as I don finish 3 round condom don finish. I had to dive in RAW.... though it’s been over 3months now and I don’t have any symptoms I’m just too scared to carry out any test.

Any advice? I get one soar throat even before that February. And small cold like this I don day sneeze what do u guys think?
haha. na em OOO. why you dive in raw? Uganda of all places.. after south Africa na Uganda

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Re: I'm Doomed by Ppda: 12:16am On Jun 29, 2019
SkinnyNigga:
haha. na em OOO. why you dive in raw? Uganda of all places.. after south Africa na Uganda


Hmmm Na War oooo... how do I test it... and I day enter France by September. Hope this thing no go cause kasala. I’m very scared to carry out the test. Especially the way they will be lecturing u when u do d test. I no get any other symptoms sa ooo...

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Re: I'm Doomed by Goddys(m): 12:48am On Jun 29, 2019
Thiwalade:



First you lack manners, I often wonder how people can stoop low to resort to abuses when trying to express your opinion. I wouldn't expect less from an immature person.

Secondly, I never claimed to know it all. I'm just stating a fact which you could research.

VIRUSES DO NOT DIE!!!

Commonsense could have informed you that once a virus is exposed to an unfavourable temperature, it becomes sterile and ineffective for the purpose of infecting its host. If a virus couldn't infect its host, it's dead in the above context.

By saying a virus doesn't die, what are you trying to showcase Mr. Science? That a virus that is sterilized is still alive? How does that impact on the knowledge of HIV transmission between hosts?

Sometimes 1diotic fo0ls like you formed from demented sperm tries to show yourself knowledge above all but remains a mediocre

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Re: I'm Doomed by czarina(f): 12:51am On Jun 29, 2019
Thiwalade:



First you lack manners, I often wonder how people can stoop low to resort to abuses when trying to express your opinion. I wouldn't expect less from an immature person.

Secondly, I never claimed to know it all. I'm just stating a fact which you could research.

VIRUSES DO NOT DIE!!!

Make una carry una arguments comot here.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 2:48am On Jun 29, 2019
Goddys:

Commonsense could have informed you that once a virus is exposed to an unfavourable temperature, it becomes sterile and ineffective for the purpose of infecting its host. If a virus couldn't infect its host, it's dead in the above context.

By saying a virus doesn't die, what are you trying to showcase Mr. Science? That a virus that is sterilized is still alive? How does that impact on the knowledge of HIV transmission between hosts?

Sometimes 1diotic fo0ls like you formed from demented sperm tries to show yourself knowledge above all but remains a mediocre

Can you see yourself again, using these kinds of words while expressing your opinions doesn't show your maturity at debates. You could say all these responsibly and respectfully. You do not have to address anyone anyhow. This life is so dynamic.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 6:16am On Jun 29, 2019
Eze2000:

Greetings babe!
hi
Re: I'm Doomed by SkinnyNigga: 7:39am On Jun 29, 2019
Ppda:



Hmmm Na War oooo... how do I test it... and I day enter France by September. Hope this thing no go cause kasala. I’m very scared to carry out the test. Especially the way they will be lecturing u when u do d test. I no get any other symptoms sa ooo...
no mind me oo. e fit not be em.. but still get tested. but Uganda is highly risk.. next time, don't make that mistake.. east and Southern African countries HIV too much there.
Re: I'm Doomed by cooljude(m): 8:48am On Jun 29, 2019
Karrma:

I can't tell them Sir, I have disappointed them already. What am i to tell them?? that the son they suffered for under the rain and sun to make sure he's a graduate and have a bright future has gotten HIV. The thought alone can harm my mother and my father will be let down because he even uses me a standard to other people.

Why do humans prefer bad advise to good one. You need Avery strong emotional support at this time. Go close to people who will be there for you and never try to isolate yourself because it will affect you more.
Re: I'm Doomed by cooljude(m): 8:52am On Jun 29, 2019

oga HIV is among the seven last plagues that was dispatched, it must complete its time and there's nothing anyone can do about it, no amount of pity can change it.
“Then I saw another sign in heaven, great and marvelous: seven angels having the seven last plagues, for in them the wrath of God is complete” (Revelation 15:1)

Gush! Some people just intentionally love ignorance and bullshit stories. Tragic!

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Re: I'm Doomed by drajjay: 12:28pm On Jun 29, 2019
uckennety:



I feel for you bruv


I don't know if I v HIV ooooooooo but I have been purging for months now
your case is suspicious of HIV o. Any diarrhoea lasting more than a month is one of the case definitions for HIV. The additional night sweats you mentioned is another symptom. But you may still be negative. The only way to tell is to get tested. And save yourself all unnecessary stress.
Re: I'm Doomed by uckennety(m): 3:09pm On Jun 29, 2019
drajjay:
your case is suspicious of HIV o. Any diarrhoea lasting more than a month is one of the case definitions for HIV. The additional night sweats you mentioned is another symptom. But you may still be negative. The only way to tell is to get tested. And save yourself all unnecessary stress.


Your right as for the diarrhea I have ulcer gastric ulcer

As for the night sweat even in the day I sweat alot as long as am not in an AC room

But I'll do test when am stable
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 9:26am On Jun 30, 2019
Vega100:

Its easy to dish out this advice, pray not to be in that Guy's shoes, you will understand the despair and utter hopelessness he is facing!!! That HIV is about the worse thing that could happen to someone...
Are u aware at the moment he can't travel to some countries, and will have difficulties taking up most paid employments? Even finding a spouse is an uphill task as most people will run from him... This is someone whose life just changed like this, at an instance!!! Bro, it isn't easy, I can only imagine what he is going through!!!
I'll advice him to be strong, but to be true!!! If I was in his shoes, I ain't sure what I'll do!! I tell u...
I have a HIV strip test with me, in my ward drop... Any girl I have issue of burst condom with, or mistakenly did raw, my strip is always handy!!! This is terrible mehn!! I'll advice all guys to get that.
Bless you Sir.
Not like i blame anybody but they don't know how it feels.
I'm not even bothered about marriage because it's the last thing i'm worried about, but how to push my family to a comfortable level and shiit just happened.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 9:30am On Jun 30, 2019
Kingosytex:



Having read this far, i have to chip in my opinion. i understand how you feel, believe me, i seriously do.


have u heard about the word "hypochondria?"... this is a term used to refer to an imaginary sickness or illness. Just think about a particular illness and in no distant time the brain will send the required signal to the central nervous system and the symptoms will appear

Drug dispensers, pharmacists and medical experts have capitalised on this and reaped millions


I still maintain you run a confirmatory test like Czarina and other well meaning nairalanders opined. Be strong because this is not the end of the road for you. Don't even attempt suicide because its not an option, it will surely make matters worse


Think about the emotional and psychological pains your parents and loved ones will go through if you commit suicide! There is still hope for you!! The only problem without a solution is death

STAY STRONG! YOU SHALL OVERCOME!!


Cc Marialavina Ogb5 Cuteguy14911 Alutapastor Siraj Anthonyuncle Olamega78 Goddys Rex444 Czarina and other well meaning nairalanders who contributed immensely to boost the morale of our friend karrma, you guys are rare gems, i love you all and i wish you all the very best


KINGOSYTEX!!
Thank you Sir.
I know about hypochondria but trust me it's not what you're talking about.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 9:35am On Jun 30, 2019
Ronaldo24682:
she gave him the virus. The girl who even gave me has refused to go for the test(that’s even if she has not but keeps denying)

Don’t trust anyone, not a single person. I am still down don’t even know how to cope anymore. I am to pass out in this batch B stream 2. Life’s funny sha. I already told myself if the pain gets so much I can’t bear it. Before them stop the sale and of sniper I will get it, people die every day not like anyone cares. So mine can’t be any different. Mr Karma about that work thing just relax work will come. Just open to your parents that will be better. Already gave mine the hints I might be + so it doesn’t come like a shock to them. But last last I heard it ain’t a death sentence but if I try and it makes my already miserable life more miserable I go do the needful.
I can't open up to my parents. They're not that educated on stuff like this. My dad will be angry forever but my mom's case would be the worst, she'll think herself to death (I'm her favorite child).

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 9:41am On Jun 30, 2019
ALCOHOLKILLS:



hey, i can be your friend if you are in lagos...... hiv is not a death sentence cool
I'm in Lagos.

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