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1x2x3:
She's not talking about manipulation but repercussions of cheating on them...... Who cares anyway? 85% of these Nigerian girls are thrash and riff raffs looking for who to hook unto in the name of marriage to evade poverty. I say this without any form of apology.
THEY just marry anyone who's ready with cash not really who they are in love with.

1x2x3:
She's not talking about manipulation but repercussions of cheating on them...... Who cares anyway? 85% of these Nigerian girls are thrash and riff raffs looking for who to hook unto in the name of marriage to evade poverty. I say this without any form of apology.
THEY just marry anyone who's ready with cash not really who they are in love with.

Isha327:
I wonder if the op is really a lady So I should laugh/smile whenever my man cheat on me. No no Heaven will fall that day... To hell with ur opinions op Useless post.. Cheater

donbachi:
Even if my wife catch me untop..i go just pull.."wetin i dey do here,how i take reach here and who una be"..i form like sey d other woman charm me..i go even ask my wife,who she herself be?

donbachi:
Even if my wife catch me untop..i go just pull.."wetin i dey do here,how i take reach here and who una be"..i form like sey d other woman charm me..i go even ask my wife,who she herself be?

donbachi:
Even if my wife catch me untop..i go just pull.."wetin i dey do here,how i take reach here and who una be"..i form like sey d other woman charm me..i go even ask my wife,who she herself be?

Fountainofyouth:
It is only ladies with extremely low self esteem and lack self worth that will allow men to play mind games like the rubbish you posted up there, don't you guys have sense ni? If y'all caught your gf cheating red handed and she still try to deny it and not apologise, won't you call her all manner of whòrish names, break up with her and kick her out? Isn't that logical reasoning and sense functioning well? But you want a lady to be a fool and accept you back after doing the nonsense op wrote, y'all will wise up one day, bunch of rug rats claiming men by cheating prowess, nonsense.

Fuqman:
Cheat on a white woman and she will send ur a*ss to hell but in Naija, just become rich and you got a pass for infidelity. In fact, na she go dey fight for you.

P.S.. Imagine say, Jeff Bezos wife na Naija woman

1x2x3:
She's not talking about manipulation but repercussions of cheating on them...... Who cares anyway? 85% of these Nigerian girls are thrash and riff raffs looking for who to hook unto in the name of marriage to evade poverty. I say this without any form of apology.
THEY just marry anyone who's ready with cash not really who they are in love with.

TONYE001:
My dear sister, don't join issues with these guys. In everything about life, there are options. The good, the bad, the very bad et al.

No sane human would opt for a poor choice.

Our ladies deserve better than what this OP has out there. Hopefully, no lady would fall victim to the poster's poison.

People have so twisted the definition of being wise that when they are absolutely foolish, they feel they are wise.

Until you grow to learn that the human emotion isn't something anyone should gamble with, you ain't truly matured.

Dear ladies, I expect you all to read posts like this and be wise. When they try to act this script, kick them out with the biggest boots you have.

Parents, please train your daughters to be wise and independent. Protect them from deceivers like the OP and every other person that supports his course.

Ryan03:
Why wont they get married to Anybody who is ready when if they Dont get married within a certain age limit they will be tagged with different names by the male folks? If you say they all marry because of cash, how many well to do guys do we have in this country? So no average guy has gotten married in the past 10years? You just come online and type Rubbish just to sound woke, i pity the stupidity of this generation, wish i'm not from this country, their mentality is too low, especially most of the male folks.

1x2x3:
Mr high mentality its unfortunate you are in this country and will likely remain here with your high IQ. What you don't know is that our ladies don't put hustling as a priority rather marriage is their ultimate aim. The mentality of being dependent on men to escape poverty rather than working hard is my worry....... If you still don't get it then your so called mentality is abysmal.

Ryan03:
My sisters are all married and marriage was never a poverty escape route for them, just so you know, they are all working and supporting their homes. If its that way in your family, its not same everywhere, speak for your family only.

1x2x3:
Don't be a coward. I said 85%, I thought your high IQ will spot that.

1x2x3:
Don't be a coward. I said 85%, I thought your high IQ will spot that.

Ryan03:
Are you sure you didnt modify to include that 85% cause i didnt see it before maybe i was in a hurry to attack you. anyway, i'll still argue, who did the statistics? Did you share questionaires to help in your research? Have you met the 85% percent of Nigeria girls you referred to in your post?

1x2x3:
I don't think you know how statistics are conducted even with your high IQ. I don't need to meet all the girls in Nigeria. If only 2 out of every 10 of them are self sufficient and completely independent then it's obviously clear 80% of them are parasitic.

Are you a learner? How old are you? You obviously don't know much about your ladies.

Ryan03:
I know my sisters and girlfriend, i guess yours fall into the 85% and i think you really Dont know what statistics is, not everything your brain tells you is correct, go read up And yes, my I.Q is high, any problem with that?

1x2x3:
You are still a baby. When you grow up and acquire enough exposure you will be ashamed to read your writeup. Until then have a nice time

1x2x3:
I don't think you know how statistics are conducted even with your high IQ. I don't need to meet all the girls in Nigeria. If only 2 out of every 10 of them are self sufficient and completely independent then it's obviously clear 80% of them are parasitic.

Are you a learner? How old are you? You obviously don't know much about your ladies.

TONYE001:
Kindly tell us the sample size of this your study. I'm very, very interested. Who wouldn't be? A study that says 85% of our ladies are thrash looking for whom to hook on to in the name of marriage.

I'd really like to know your sample size, your sampling method and your research methodology. What statistical tool did you use to arrive at this assertion?

Or did you just use the ladies in your circle? If I should conduct this study using only the ladies in my circle, then I'd probably arrive that 95 to 99% of Nigerian ladies are independent and hard working. I can sit you down and look right into your eyes and tell you that most or all of the ladies in my circle are professionals (doctors, etc) that are very very financially independent. I can go on and tell you that these ladies have jaw-droping ambitions, some are resident doctors, consultants or in one form of postgraduate education or the other. Can further make my case by giving you hard figures showing that most of them attained their breakthroughs before marriage. And I can go on and on.

You see?

Or is the problem the kind of girls (people) we have in our circles? If this were the case, the prognosis would be terribly bad for you.

Don't come out here and make baseless assertions that reek of your uninformed and biased mind. Imagine you saying this about 85% of Nigerian girls. Imagine you arguing with the gentleman that was trying to correct you.

My dear brother, I'd advise you desist from making unfounded statements that you cannot defend even before a 10 year old kid.

I hope you are teachable.

Good evening.

1x2x3:
You are looking at your professional circle per say. My analysis ain't even based on a particular field of work or financial class but random selection. If you want to conduct your own research kindly leave your professional zone or you can as well head to social media to get started.

TONYE001:
Sadly, your response is a poor attempt to answer the questions I raised. You mentioned random selection. Do you really know what this is? If you did, you certainly would not make that initial submission. You totally did not understand my submission. I did not conduct any research, with or without my professional circle. I was only drawing your attention to how unbelievably terrible your assertion is.

You must know and accept this. Can you comfortable tell me you have sampled a tenth of Nigerian ladies? Heck, have you sampled a tenth of the ladies of your local government area for a start? Do you know the tools of a research and the conditions a researcher must meet before declaring the results of any study?

Come on. I was really hoping you would see reasons and withdraw that statement of yours. Really hoping.

You cannot come to a public forum as this and say 85% of Nigerian ladies are thrash. You just can't. Alright?

1x2x3:
I said that without apology and yes I can say that in a public forum. 85% of Nigeria girls marry who is ready and with cash not who they love. There is a reason why the girls won't argue this but you, the ladies man want to argue.

TONYE001:
My dear sister, don't join issues with these guys. In everything about life, there are options. The good, the bad, the very bad et al.

No sane human would opt for a poor choice.

Our ladies deserve better than what this OP has out there. Hopefully, no lady would fall victim to the poster's poison.

People have so twisted the definition of being wise that when they are absolutely foolish, they feel they are wise.

Until you grow to learn that the human emotion isn't something anyone should gamble with, you ain't truly matured.

Dear ladies, I expect you all to read posts like this and be wise. When they try to act this script, kick them out with the biggest boots you have.

Parents, please train your daughters to be wise and independent. Protect them from deceivers like the OP and every other person that supports his course.

This is coming from a man. Wow.

TONYE001:
Kindly tell us the sample size of this your study. I'm very, very interested. Who wouldn't be? A study that says 85% of our ladies are thrash looking for whom to hook on to in the name of marriage.

I'd really like to know your sample size, your sampling method and your research methodology. What statistical tool did you use to arrive at this assertion?

Or did you just use the ladies in your circle? If I should conduct this study using only the ladies in my circle, then I'd probably arrive that 95 to 99% of Nigerian ladies are independent and hard working. I can sit you down and look right into your eyes and tell you that most or all of the ladies in my circle are professionals (doctors, etc) that are very very financially independent. I can go on and tell you that these ladies have jaw-droping ambitions, some are resident doctors, consultants or in one form of postgraduate education or the other. Can further make my case by giving you hard figures showing that most of them attained their breakthroughs before marriage. And I can go on and on.

You see?

Or is the problem the kind of girls (people) we have in our circles? If this were the case, the prognosis would be terribly bad for you.

Don't come out here and make baseless assertions that reek of your uninformed and biased mind. Imagine you saying this about 85% of Nigerian girls. Imagine you arguing with the gentleman that was trying to correct you.

My dear brother, I'd advise you desist from making unfounded statements that you cannot defend even before a 10 year old kid.

I hope you are teachable.

Good evening.

Intelligence is very far from some of these guys, I tell you!

lalyiva:
The last time your girlfriend caught you cheating, how did that go?

The last time she saw a chat on your phone or heard something about you, how did that end?

Let me guess,

She screamed,

She cried,

She packed her bags,

She left.

Then you called, texted, begged…

You called her friends,

You called your friends,

You asked everyone to beg her on your behalf

But she didn’t listen.

After she decided to forgive you,

She still brought it up again in the future. She made you keep apologizing for the same thing over and over again

I do not know about you, but that sounds exhausting.

What if I told you there was a better way…

A way to make her forgive you without you begging….

Without apologizing

Without you sacrificing your dignity as a man?

You see, women are the easiest set of people to manipulate in this world. You can manipulate a woman into doing anything you want,

Including forgiving you when she catches you cheating….

Yes,

There are deep psychological tricks you can use on any woman to make her your SLAVE if you want.

The women who will see this will rant, and shout,

But ignore them…

That’s all they do in life

I know how the woman’s mind works,

I have seen it over and over again in play.

So, I will tell you precisely what you should do when she catches you cheating…


Step No 1

Never admit the crime

Sounds obvious, yet so many men fail.

Relationships are like courthouses. The one who wins is usually the one who has the most convincing narrative.

You are innocent till God proclaims you guilty ( and that will never happen)

If a woman comes with accusing fingers, resist the urge to make a case in your defense.

Step No 2

Flip the script

So, she walks in, and asks you to explain a chat she saw…

Or she gets angry over a chat she saw…

DO NOT try to explain yourself.
Instead, ask her why she decided to invade your privacy.

When you flip the script, you disarm your accuser…..

You accuser ALWAYS seeks to be in control of the narrative… take away that control, and your chances to win become higher

Step 3
Walk out

When women get angry, they walk out, eaving you confused.
The first person to walk away, always has the highest leverage.

Once you flip the script, walk away

leave her chat unread...
Just walk out on her


when you do this, she is left confused, flustered, and embarrassed

This is what you want her to feel

let her float in her shame and confusion...

Step 4
Do not apologize

Apology means you have accepted guilt

yes, she will throw tantrum

she will cry,
she will pack her bags, she will leave

IGNORE HER

she will sit by her phone waiting for your call

or a text

she will stalk your social media to see if you have moved on.... please post pictures of you living your best life

A confused woman is easily bent, and manipulated

At this point, her anger wouldn't be that you cheated,

her only anger will be that you didnt apologize

In that moment, all she will want is your apology,

At this stage, there is only one thing left for you to do to get her crawling back to you and forgiving you without any form of apology

It is in the video...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YxLpdOC1kw

P.S…These are dark psychological tricks and I will not be held liable for the consequences when you use them…

donbachi:
Even if my wife catch me untop..i go just pull.."wetin i dey do here,how i take reach here and who una be"..i form like sey d other woman charm me..i go even ask my wife,who she herself be?

omothayoh:
shoo!! Who she be abi? U never get partner wey get certified craze for head...all these reversed psychology is easy to read BT wen u r caught ,guy u go freeze