₦airaland Forum

Icesnow:
Exactly my thought. Poorly trained boys in d country. So whites dat sign pre nuptial agreement b4 marriage are gold diggers as well. No wonder there is high divorce rate in d nation.

Nyamiri:
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Maybe the needs to type it in your native language before it can sink into your head.

Not only would he lock the shop up, if there was mismanagement of any kind, he would jail her.

Since you women think you're wise with your feminism and all, men would start showing you the other side.

DrObiHogan:
Mention one reason why you think the kids are his.

Nyamiri:
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Maybe he needs to type it in your native language before it can sink into your head.

Not only would he lock the shop up, if there was mismanagement of any kind, he would jail her.

Since you women think you're wise with your feminism and all, men would start showing you the other side.

post=80989223:
A man laying his hands on a woman is nothing but a beast.

A woman having concubines while still under her husband's roof is nothing but a dog.

They are both guilty as charged.
We Rise!

GrabHisBalls:
So, you're saying in essence that if you set up a business for your wife and your marriage fails along the line with kids, you would demand for the money the shop is worth or demand she locks it up.

Is evident from the comments how the average Nigerian guy reasons. Y'all need wisdom.

hush15:
Abegi, whats low...

only God knows what transpired but things must have been really bad for him to want his car back. Forget all these nonsense that he stoop low o. even dangote would have collected it back if it warrants it. Afterall, we are all equals.

TSRC:
Forger all these things you are saying. The guy is not mature and sensible.

An ex wife with your children would always deserve special consideration.
Even if she bang the whole guys in the neighborhood after divorce, you can't treat her the way you would treat an ex girlfriend with no attachment to you.

You can deal with her in any other way, but ensure it won't affect her to the point where it would impact your kids..
.Forget about who deserves custody.

GrabHisBalls:
Get married first. You sound like an underage kid. No atom of wisdom in your words other than what a young Nigerian boy from a poor background would say with little or no care from parents. It's not an insult, just my observation.

GrabHisBalls:
So, you're teaching them on how not to be taken advantage of by fighting their mother and creating a public scene. You're the smartest man alive.

Hope you also know kids are more attracted to their mothers than fathers? I'm sure we won't argue on that one. Goodluck with "advising them not to be taken advantage of" in such manners.

gypsey:
Yes! i would ask for every thing back, infact, demand for even more. Depending on the CIRCUMSTANCES of the marriage break up. if you marry just so i can set up a business for you and then ruin the marriage just so you could keep the business, NO bloody way! you are keeping a pin from the shop or business, come to the US here and see what happens when people divorce, both parties fight brutally to get what belongs to them rightfully.

NkayStory:
This nonsense you lots do is why your children abandons you to face their mum in your old ages while you cry and wail in loneliness

Na una dey do unaselves with your wicked and evil hearts

Chukapage:
this is the greatest joke of the century a propaganda that has been spread by bitches for long .CHILDREN ARE MOSTLY ATTACHED TO THAT PARENT WHO IS MORE AVAILABLE TO THEM ,WHO THEY CAN RELATE WITH BE IT FATHER OR MOTHER. I have a friend a first son at that who have not even called or visited his mom since he was 17 you know why?? His mom abused him physically not just her even her lovers ,you can imagine being always maltreated by your mom's lovers while your mom watched.Till this day he doesn't talk or give a Bleep about his mom ,Obi will not always be boy. And mind you his heavily attached to his dad because his dad came back for him ,took him away from the hell he saw being with his mom.I hope you've heard about the Arsenal rich footballer whose mom is homeless? You know why? Go read up..mother or father if you treat your kids badly the will trample on you with hate and disrespect .That's how it works so don't think your a "mother" automatically they'll love you more ,if you don't play your roles and be responsible your in for a Shocker!

TSRC:
But his kids live with her.
They would benefit from the car.

NkayStory:
The joke is on you Nigerian fathers and would-be Nigerian fathers supporting tnis ...Your children are watching

.they will simply abandon you to rot away in your old ages while they face their mum alone..We see that happening all the time.

You wont be young,virile and strong forever..

NkayStory:
This nonsense you lots do is why your children abandons you to face their mum in your old ages while you cry and wail in loneliness


Na una dey do unaselves with your wicked and evil hearts

hush15:
True... it tells you whats fundamentally wrong. If the woman can careless and behave herself because of the kids, then...

[b]Another option is i go with my car and the kids too. [/b]look, i dont want to sound insensitive here but when it comes to woman matters, atimes you just have to command that respect.

hush15:
Look small girl, i no get your time o. just maintain your lane. na una type dem dem do this to....

mtschew....

spiceadole:
Typical of what my father would do.
I was a teenager when I vowed I will work hard and be able to afford stuff I need without a man.
When I saw the way my father quickly collected things he bought for my mum whenever they had any quarrel.
At the slightest thing,he would seize her phone, stop her from driving his car,stop her from eating even after giving her money to cook..He would carry her food with the plate and dispose in the waste bin.
The one that broke the horses back was when he set her box of clothes on fire..because he bought the clothes.

My parents marriage was painful to witness
But I learnt a very important lesson.
Thank God for me today.
Car that I bought as a spinster..A man is going to beat up his ex wife and collect a car of 2 years...
Women,please leave what society says and work hard.
Make money and be contented with what you can afford.
Personally,Gifts never freak me.
I believe anything I didn't buy by myself can be collected from me tomorrow.

Chukapage:
this is the greatest joke of the century a propaganda that has been spread by bitches for long .CHILDREN ARE MOSTLY ATTACHED TO THAT PARENT WHO IS MORE AVAILABLE TO THEM ,WHO THEY CAN RELATE WITH BE IT FATHER OR MOTHER. I have a friend a first son at that who have not even called or visited his mom since he was 17 you know why?? His mom abused him physically not just her even her lovers ,you can imagine being always maltreated by your mom's lovers while your mom watched.Till this day he doesn't talk or give a Bleep about his mom ,Obi will not always be boy. And mind you his heavily attached to his dad because his dad came back for him ,took him away from the hell he saw being with his mom.I hope you've heard about the Arsenal rich footballer whose mom is homeless? You know why? Go read up..mother or father if you treat your kids badly the will trample on you with hate and disrespect .That's how it works so don't think your a "mother" automatically they'll love you more ,if you don't play your roles and be responsible your in for a Shocker!

Nyamiri:
Just so you know, Ojukwu abandoned his first wife, Buhari divorced his first wife when she was greedy, Afe Babalola divorced his first wife, Michael Otedola has children by another woman before Femi's mother, I can go on and on.

Lesson: the man would have other children, have a happy family and the woman would regret her stupidity forever.

Nyamiri:
Approach the court and present your request when initiating divorce. The court would grant you.

Just ask your lawyer to look for a judge outside Lagos who is Pro-divorce and won't waste your time.

GrabHisBalls:
So, you're saying in essence that if you set up a business for your wife and your marriage fails along the line with kids, you would demand for the money the shop is worth or demand she locks it up.

Is evident from the comments how the average Nigerian guy reasons. Y'all need wisdom.

NkayStory:
Your assertions are as meaningless and useless as used toilet tissue...You can use your mouth to pack poo and anus to eat..none of my business..

Just take your smell away from my mentions and quit polluting this space.

Nyamiri:
Bla bla bla

The man would remarry, give birth to other children, have a happy family and his stupid ex wife would be walking in the hot sun to bleep her concubines.

NkayStory:
The joke is on you Nigerian fathers and would-be Nigerian fathers supporting tnis ...Your children are watching

.they will simply abandon you to rot away in your old ages while they face their mum alone..We see that happening all the time.

You wont be young,virile and strong forever..