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| Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 9:50am On Aug 06, 2019 |
I've explained a man's attractiveness to women is chiefly determined by his physical looks. A man can make enough money to buy a woman's body, but not her heart. Yet the alpha male camp, the pick-up artists(PUA) disagree. They tell the young men that it is all about personality and that young men should just become an 'alpha male'. The pick-up artists are a bunch of con artists who claim to have unraveled female psychology, the so-called "Red Pill"; and then they sell the young men strategies to get women, they call these strategies "Game". They say that any man with "Game" can get just any woman. But how? Let's say A is a young man of 27, 5ft 8" tall, average face, and a little skinny. He is the stereotypical alpha male character the PUA endorses, so he often comes across as aloof & distant. Then consider B, 27, 6ft 3", considerably handsome face, and athletic build. He is not the stereotypical alpha male, but not a doormat, rather he is laid back and is there for everyone. Let aside money and status, who among these two are women likely to prefer for a date or relationship? If you don't match a woman's standard for male beauty, being 'alpha' won't get you anywhere. She may respect you, but she won't love you. Even if you manage to get her number and go on dates, if you internalize all those misogyny and psychopathic principles of the PUA or Red pill philosophers, you will lose her because of your attitude. Especially if she is an intelligent woman. The PUA will say "Hey, am not even so tall or handsome, but I have easily dated and hooked up with many girls". Even if this is true, do not be easily convinced. There will be a host of factors contributing to their success - their dick size or how good they are in bed, the kind of girls they pick, the area they live, the culture of their area. You can follow their Game to the letter but if all the above factors do not contribute in your favor, you will end up frustrated and bitter. Remember, physical attractiveness is most important, only after a woman finds you physically attractive will any fair "game" or personality benefit you. |
| Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by ChiefGuru24(m): 10:07am On Aug 06, 2019 |
You are right and wrong at the same time. Ive been in the dating world for a long time. Ive fûcked and dated tons of girls that sometimes its hard for me or anyone to believe that i was so shy to talking to girls, i usually hide when my female cousins come around. Pick up or alpha male tips and tricks work 100% . Getting a girl or fucking one is more of personality, attitude, charisma and dominance. Looks play a role but a very very small one. Remember, the goal is not for her to be attracted to you. The goal is for her to want you so bad she'll want to fûck you and do whatever you wish and i can tell you 100% that looks count very little. What you need is attitude, confidence, charisma, dominance etc |
| Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 10:23am On Aug 06, 2019 |
ChiefGuru24: Pfft..... Why write in all bold? There are many men that have tried it and it didn't work for them. |
| Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 10:37am On Aug 06, 2019 |
^^^^^^^^^^ I predicted one of the PUA will come to deny it. Let's look at @ChiefGuru24. He said he used to be shy, even around his female cousins. Obviously, shyness constitutes a barrier to meeting women. So, logically getting some confidence could've been all he needed. Probably all other factors I've discussed were favorable to him, thus explaining his success. Many have tried and have failed by the techniques of the PUA. I know no case in Nigeria since the local PUA community is not active online. But abroad I know a few cases. Research a bit on "George Sodini" or "Elliot Rodgers". You'll come to my point. |
| Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by ChiefGuru24(m): 10:58am On Aug 06, 2019 |
HealingHeart: Sometimes people implent strategies wrongly. Either they interpret it poorly or they use a method in the wrong situation or they over do it or under do it. Pua tactics work. There are lots of guys that it has worked for. Just so you get it, Rich dad poor dad is a book that has sold more than a million copies world wide. With so much readers, how many millionaires are made? Some people read or see something and then implement it wrongly. Thats why you must read and understand so you can be the best. |
| Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 1:10pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
ChiefGuru24: I don't understand your logic. So because you succeed means you implemented it well, while those that failed didn't implement it well? 1 Like |
| Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by ChiefGuru24(m): 2:56pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
HealingHeart:Im saying wrong implentation is the biggest cause of most failures. You have to be sure you know what you're doing first before anything |
| Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 4:45pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
ChiefGuru24: Fair enough |
| Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by ubunja(m): 4:54pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Pick Up Artist tips work or else pick up artistry wouldn't be a booming business it is. Also try to read comments by women tricked by these tricks. Do you even research or you write your opinions down on paper? |
| Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 11:06am On Aug 07, 2019 |
ubunja: It is booming because every year ignorant newbies enter the dating market and suffer plenty of losses. Then they turn to the internet for a clue, which leads them to the PUA. Also try to read comments by women tricked by these tricks. I've read comments. Some of the women admitted they were already physically attracted to the men. It confirms my position. Do you even research or you write your opinions down on paper? There are large online communities dedicated to exposing PUA. Many of the members were former students of PUA who became disillusioned because it didn't yield them result. Man, until recently, I believed in PUA. Sure, I felt the 'Game' a little too shady, but I was convinced it worked. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by ubunja(m): 11:08am On Aug 07, 2019 |
HealingHeart:widen your research. The info is free out there |
| Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 11:15am On Aug 07, 2019 |
ubunja: But let me ask you a question. How many short dudes, with ugly face, overweight/skinny and with small/average dick size have succeeded have with PUA? 1 Like |
| Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by ubunja(m): 11:29am On Aug 07, 2019 |
HealingHeart:Even money itself can barely save you at that state. 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by Momoney77: 7:20am On Aug 08, 2019 |
HealingHeart: Now i believe you are a woman masquerading as a man. Ubunja is mostly right |
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