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There Is An Issue Bothering Me.... by SPOLO(op): 10:31am On Aug 13, 2019
Is thus ordinary??
Ever since my first relationship ended few years ago, others I have been meeting didn't work in fact most have rejected me...
The funny part is some will want to come my way but they will ended up as false.
And I do play my games well..

So just recently I was chatting with a girl in same Town as mine and she was like oh u are so funny and she was the one that requested for my phone number which I gave her,and she do calls but I don't really have time to call and when she finally come online, her message to me is 'you don't call me why?'

Then just before Sallah we insisted on seeing each other for the first time and I can't even imagine what happened or what have I done wrong that she put my line on 'Busy' at first I thought it was network issh the, not until I called her with another line and it rang but no answer...

Just like that, to me it sound weird I think my village people have used my relationship or hookup lifestyle to play nairabet...
Bcus I see no reason someone I haven't even done anything bad to will decide to put my calls on busy..



Pls advice me but don't tell me to go and make money bcus to me I don't hustle bcus of ladies but for my betterment tomorrow
Re: There Is An Issue Bothering Me.... by empire2017(m): 10:33am On Aug 13, 2019
Spacebook!!!
Re: There Is An Issue Bothering Me.... by durubennie(m): 10:34am On Aug 13, 2019
Ehya sorry

Re: There Is An Issue Bothering Me.... by baba6ix(m): 10:38am On Aug 13, 2019
i think its because you are always available
so that makes you appear needy in thier eyes

na man you be
do shakara small na,u aint dat cheap ogbeni

then they will fight to make you available wink
Re: There Is An Issue Bothering Me.... by SPOLO(op): 10:42am On Aug 13, 2019
baba6ix:
i think its because you are always available
so that makes you appear needy in thier eyes

na man you be
do shakara small na,u aint dat cheap ogbeni

then they will fight to make you available wink
Am. Not read the part I said, she will message me that why I don't usually call her... Am the type that doesn't call or chat with a lady I meet in fact of she was to be my gf a times I might call once a day and tull the next 48 hours before I give her a call again
Re: There Is An Issue Bothering Me.... by Nobody: 10:45am On Aug 13, 2019
@Op appear busy. Give that attitude of a rich busy dude with no time to spare on nonsense and watch the calling you.

Even if you are broke, don't discuss it with them, don't wear it on your sleeves.. Be confident in the little you own.
Re: There Is An Issue Bothering Me.... by RiyaGoddess(f): 10:58am On Aug 13, 2019
The prayer door won't open if you don't prepare yourself for what you are praying for and allow your actions to mirror what you are seeking. It's time to open the door to what God has in store for you. Send the word of God on an assignment NOW!
Good morning FAM and happy Sallah break to you all once again.
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Re: There Is An Issue Bothering Me.... by XhosaNostra(f): 11:10am On Aug 13, 2019
So who must have time for you if you don't want to put in effort? She calls but you don't call because you "don't have time". That may be misinterpreted as no interest. This love thing is a give & take.
Re: There Is An Issue Bothering Me.... by millionboi2: 11:28am On Aug 13, 2019
SPOLO:
Is thus ordinary??
Ever since my first relationship ended few years ago, others I have been meeting didn't work in fact most have rejected me...
The funny part is some will want to come my way but they will ended up as false.
And I do play my games well..

So just recently I was chatting with a girl in same Town as mine and she was like oh u are so funny and she was the one that requested for my phone number which I gave her,and she do calls but I don't really have time to call and when she finally come online, her message to me is 'you don't call me why?'

Then just before Sallah we insisted on seeing each other for the first time and I can't even imagine what happened or what have I done wrong that she put my line on 'Busy' at first I thought it was network issh the, not until I called her with another line and it rang but no answer...

Just like that, to me it sound weird I think my village people have used my relationship or hookup lifestyle to play nairabet...
Bcus I see no reason someone I haven't even done anything bad to will decide to put my calls on busy..



Pls advice me but don't tell me to go and make money bcus to me I don't hustle bcus of ladies but for my betterment tomorrow
ur village girlfriend is d manipulative type,she is working on ur emotion already.

Don't call her again after a week ,try to show up at ur usual meeting spot,invite her to ur house....b4 she leaves ur house make u kiss her yes datz if u like her by don't touch her oo.
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