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She Needs Advice. by Olamsoh: 10:22am On Aug 16, 2019
SHE NEED ADVICE.

I met my guy since January,we started dating he promised he will never hurt me because I told him I don't want to go into a relationship due to the hrt brk I experience in my past relationship which was my first relationship in 2018,so,when I met this my guy he talk as a nice person I decided to give him a Chance, but the worsted part of his own is that he always hide his phone from me he doesn't allow me to touch his phone, but one day,he drop his phone and went into the Barth room to had his bath I took his phone and go through his chat on WhatsApp, to my greatest surprise all his chat with girls was I miss u,when are u coming, I don't have a girlfriend I love u and a girl who know me ask him if am not his girlfriend, he denied me that if is the girl that gave me to him,I was dumbfounded.

The funniest part of this matter is that he doesn't spent on me ooo but he's spending for those gals but I don't mind because I am not interested with his money because am also working all I need from was his sincerity and honest,but that day due to those chat I saw in his phone I got upset and started showing him atitude, he gave me 3k for tp I collected it and tore it in his present and he got angry and returned back home since then he haven't call me nor chat me,I want to know if there's anywhere I went wrong there so that I can know and apologize to him.
Re: She Needs Advice. by Nobody: 10:28am On Aug 16, 2019
How old are you and the guy. Let's start from there.
Re: She Needs Advice. by SaucyBenks(m): 10:31am On Aug 16, 2019
Hanty, he's doing all that because of your English.


The young man couldn't canted can... cry cry cry

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Re: She Needs Advice. by Soulmender: 10:33am On Aug 16, 2019
Sorry to ask but what exactly do you want to apologize for?

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Re: She Needs Advice. by XhosaNostra(f): 10:34am On Aug 16, 2019
Maybe you shouldn't have torn his money. That's kind of disrespectful. However, your fault ends there. Leave him alone. Apology for the why? He can kick rocks!

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Re: She Needs Advice. by schumastic(m): 10:36am On Aug 16, 2019
Olamsoh:
SHE NEED ADVICE.

I met my guy since January,we started dating he promised he will never hurt me because I told him I don't want to go into a relationship due to the hrt brk I experience in my past relationship which was my first relationship in 2018,so,when I met this my guy he talk as a nice person I decided to give him a Chance, but the worsted part of his own is that he always hide his phone from me he doesn't allow me to touch his phone, but one day,he drop his phone and went into the Barth room to had his bath I took his phone and go through his chat on WhatsApp, to my greatest surprise all his chat with girls was I miss u,when are u coming, I don't have a girlfriend I love u and a girl who know me ask him if am not his girlfriend, he denied me that if is the girl that gave me to him,I was dumbfounded.

The funniest part of this matter is that he doesn't spent on me ooo but he's spending for those gals but I don't mind because I am not interested with his money because am also working all I need from was his sincerity and honest,but that day due to those chat I saw in his phone I got upset and started showing him atitude, he gave me 3k for tp I collected it and tore it in his present and he got angry and returned back home since then he haven't call me nor chat me,I want to know if there's anywhere I went wrong there so that I can know and apologize to him.


Is this low self esteem or you just want to be stupid or you didn't learn a thing or two from your previous relationship?

Am asking all of this because is obvious, he is not into you or proud of you, reason why he is still sleeping around.
on top of all of these, you still want to call him to apologise, for what if i may ask?
just move ahead, you took a bold step the moment you tore his money and walked out.
so let it stand, that way he would know you are not that kind of lady to mess with.
hope you told him about the stuffs you found out so he will be aware of stupid acts.

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Re: She Needs Advice. by SaucyBenks(m): 10:39am On Aug 16, 2019
XhosaNostra:
Maybe you shouldn't have torn his money. That's kind of disrespectful. However, your fault ends there. Leave him alone. Apology for the why? He can kick rocks!
hanty awon chronic feminist... Mo kin yin oo

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Re: She Needs Advice. by Diamond23(f): 10:39am On Aug 16, 2019
Olamsoh:
SHE NEED ADVICE.

I met my guy since January,we started dating he promised he will never hurt me because I told him I don't want to go into a relationship due to the hrt brk I experience in my past relationship which was my first relationship in 2018,so,when I met this my guy he talk as a nice person I decided to give him a Chance, but the worsted part of his own is that he always hide his phone from me he doesn't allow me to touch his phone, but one day,he drop his phone and went into the Barth room to had his bath I took his phone and go through his chat on WhatsApp, to my greatest surprise all his chat with girls was I miss u,when are u coming, I don't have a girlfriend I love u and a girl who know me ask him if am not his girlfriend, he denied me that if is the girl that gave me to him,I was dumbfounded.

The funniest part of this matter is that he doesn't spent on me ooo but he's spending for those gals but I don't mind because I am not interested with his money because am also working all I need from was his sincerity and honest,but that day due to those chat I saw in his phone I got upset and started showing him atitude, [/b] he gave me 3k for tp I collected it and tore it in his present [b] and he got angry and returned back home since then he haven't call me nor chat me,I want to know if there's anywhere I went wrong there so that I can know and apologize to him.
@ d bolded, dat z were u went wrong

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Re: She Needs Advice. by XhosaNostra(f): 10:41am On Aug 16, 2019
SaucyBenks:
hanty awon chronic feminist... Mo kin yin oo

Overused word.

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Re: She Needs Advice. by SaucyBenks(m): 10:44am On Aug 16, 2019
XhosaNostra:


Overused word.
when are you coming to Nigeria? Was actually tryna get your attention.

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Re: She Needs Advice. by XhosaNostra(f): 10:48am On Aug 16, 2019
SaucyBenks:
when are you coming to Nigeria? Was actually tryna get your attention.

When someone invites me over tongue

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Re: She Needs Advice. by Hamachi(f): 11:05am On Aug 16, 2019
10NK U oLamsoh am following

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Re: She Needs Advice. by Nat404: 11:34am On Aug 16, 2019
Olamsoh:
SHE NEED ADVICE.

I met my guy since January,we started dating he promised he will never hurt me because I told him I don't want to go into a relationship due to the hrt brk I experience in my past relationship which was my first relationship in 2018,so,when I met this my guy he talk as a nice person I decided to give him a Chance, but the worsted part of his own is that he always hide his phone from me he doesn't allow me to touch his phone, but one day,he drop his phone and went into the Barth room to had his bath I took his phone and go through his chat on WhatsApp, to my greatest surprise all his chat with girls was I miss u,when are u coming, I don't have a girlfriend I love u and a girl who know me ask him if am not his girlfriend, he denied me that if is the girl that gave me to him,I was dumbfounded.

The funniest part of this matter is that he doesn't spent on me ooo but he's spending for those gals but I don't mind because I am not interested with his money because am also working all I need from was his sincerity and honest,but that day due to those chat I saw in his phone I got upset and started showing him atitude, he gave me 3k for tp I collected it and tore it in his present and he got angry and returned back home since then he haven't call me nor chat me,I want to know if there's anywhere I went wrong there so that I can know and apologize to him.
Not really but what she did wrong was tearing his money. She could have given the money back to him.

The girl sounds like a good girl though.

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Re: She Needs Advice. by Lonestar124: 2:19pm On Aug 16, 2019
As a patriotic Nigerian, this op should be charge for degradation of our currency (Naira)....I wish I know you in person, I will pick the all issue by myself.

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Re: She Needs Advice. by KpagoGIN(m): 2:59pm On Aug 16, 2019
If you planning to go back all I can tell you is make sure you are returning as a better you if not na your body go tell you........most second tenure na looting things. that bobo will so show you pepper in fact let me tell you the truth for shredding that cash his planning on what/where to treat your Bleep-up you actually did dent his ego.

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Re: She Needs Advice. by jimyjames(m): 5:35pm On Aug 16, 2019
Well Nigerian girls always want a Mr perfect guy, and there is no perfect guy out there,
The only perfect guys out there are the ones that paint themselves perfect with lies

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Re: She Needs Advice. by WhiZTiM(m): 5:44pm On Aug 16, 2019
Madam, just go to school and upgrade your English smiley

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Re: She Needs Advice. by Nobody: 5:46pm On Aug 16, 2019
Olamsoh:
SHE NEED ADVICE.

I met my guy since January,we started dating he promised he will never hurt me because I told him I don't want to go into a relationship due to the hrt brk I experience in my past relationship which was my first relationship in 2018,so,when I met this my guy he talk as a nice person I decided to give him a Chance, but the worsted part of his own is that he always hide his phone from me he doesn't allow me to touch his phone, but one day,he drop his phone and went into the Barth room to had his bath I took his phone and go through his chat on WhatsApp, to my greatest surprise all his chat with girls was I miss u,when are u coming, I don't have a girlfriend I love u and a girl who know me ask him if am not his girlfriend, he denied me that if is the girl that gave me to him,I was dumbfounded.

The funniest part of this matter is that he doesn't spent on me ooo but he's spending for those gals but I don't mind because I am not interested with his money because am also working all I need from was his sincerity and honest,but that day due to those chat I saw in his phone I got upset and started showing him atitude, he gave me 3k for tp I collected it and tore it in his present and he got angry and returned back home since then he haven't call me nor chat me,I want to know if there's anywhere I went wrong there so that I can know and apologize to him.

If you were my sister I would knock your head for that statement, someone denied and all and you wan go apologize. Aunty japa mehn not worth it

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Re: She Needs Advice. by rosy1992(f): 5:57pm On Aug 16, 2019
Why do ladies find it difficult to let go? it's crystal clear that he is a cheat and there is no guarantee he will change even if he marries you.

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Re: She Needs Advice. by Facelessforum: 6:10pm On Aug 16, 2019
Please, how old is the guy first?
And you too, how old are you?

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Re: She Needs Advice. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:21pm On Aug 16, 2019
You will be a fool to apologize. Instead of you to be happy you dogged a missile,you there killing urself..

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Re: She Needs Advice. by Nobody: 9:12pm On Aug 16, 2019
And someone will tell me 'checking your partner's phone is bad'.
Dump him ASAP

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Re: She Needs Advice. by Olamsoh: 8:50am On Aug 19, 2019
Lonestar124:
As a patriotic Nigerian, this op should be charge for degradation of our currency (Naira)....I wish I know you in person, I will pick the all issue by myself.
undecided
Re: She Needs Advice. by Hamachi(f): 10:58am On Aug 19, 2019
wink

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Re: She Needs Advice. by Hamachi(f): 8:16pm On May 31, 2022
grin
SaucyBenks:
Hanty, he's doing all that because of your English.


The young man couldn't canted can... cry cry cry

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