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Nigerian musician and actress, Omawumi, has said that she would not leave her husband even if he cheated on her.

The 37-year-old said this in episode of actress, Mercy Johnson’s, cook show, Mercy’s Menu.

Answering a hypothetical question of if she would leave if she caught her husband cheating, she said: “No, never. I can’t leave because of that one error. It’s not a good way to do these things but you know, I call my husband my partner, it’s a partnership, na two of us na hin dey inside (we are both in the relationship together). So, what you would not want me to do to you, don’t do it to me.

“It’s not feminism, it’s very simple mathematics. I didn’t say it’s equal partnership because my husband is the head of my home and it’s not feminism but when you go and cheat, and you say it’s by mistake, did you fall inside by mistake? But he needs to explain to me, do you want to do it again?

Those are the questions we would discuss and then he will pay a penalty under punishment like say you aren’t visiting home front again because you have gone to visit outside. It has never happened to me before, I and my husband are not saints but we are just blessed and you don’t know a man to the end,” she said.

She also said she had learnt to communicate with her husband as they grew together.

In January, Omawumi had celebrated the first anniversary of her traditional wedding.

Omawumi and Mr Yusuf have been legally married since 2015 but only had their traditional ceremony in Warri, Delta State, in 2018.

The couple has two children.

Source; https://foxmeek.com/entertainment/i-wont-leave-my-husband-if-he-cheats-omawumi

Low self esteem African women...doing what they do best to stay married at ANY cost

I won't too, because I won't allow any slay mama to take over my house.

Adepet222:
I won't too, because I won't allow any slay mama to take over my house.

NEWSFLASH: your disrespectful unfaithful dishonest untrustworthy husband is the person who will allow these slay mama to take over your home, and you will have no say on this matter... since you will clearly accept any type of rubbish from your husband.

That is because nobody wants a used tool like you

Or he is cheating already?

Am happy for your husband...

Good luck in all your endeavors

The formula couple A use in sailing the boat of his or her marriage is different from that of couple B. You all should take note.

License to cheat.......

MrBrownJay1:
NEWSFLASH: your disrespectful unfaithful dishonest untrustworthy husband is the person who will allow these slay mama to take over your home, and you will have no say on this matter... since you will clearly accept any type of rubbish from your husband.

you get sense so

For your plasma mind.... We're waiting for you here to come and read the book of lamentations for us...

Feminists are coming for your head.

..1..2..3..GO!

My type of lady

MrBrownJay1:
Low self esteem African women...doing what they do best to stay married at ANY cost

You are so ignorant.

MrBrownJay1:
NEWSFLASH: your disrespectful unfaithful dishonest untrustworthy husband is the person who will allow these slay mama to take over your home, and you will have no say on this matter... since you will clearly accept any type of rubbish from your husband.

I get where you are coming from but you have to realize that life is not in black and white, some mistakes do occur for different reasons. Nothing wrong in giving someone a second chance if he's sorry. Of all the good things/sides of the man, why pick on that one mistake especially if he's remorseful?

Most women cheat. So I understand her viewpoint. Why leave when you are also cheating low-key?

Low self esteem women with no hope say this

Lexusgs430:
License to cheat.......

A man wey wan cheat go cheat.

Nothing fit stop am. Just that a reasonable man will never cheat on his wife with impunity.

MrBrownJay1:
Low self esteem African women...doing what they do best to stay married at ANY cost

This is just silly from you. That's how we just run away at any slightest obstacle

Wise woman, it rains everywhere.
Ask Beyoncé and Cardi B, they were all cheated and they never left their home.

and when he finally cheat for real

MrBrownJay1:
NEWSFLASH: your disrespectful unfaithful dishonest untrustworthy husband is the person who will allow these slay mama to take over your home, and you will have no say on this matter... since you will clearly accept any type of rubbish from your husband.

Staying the marriage does not mean u accept his rubbish, and leaving doesn't mean u didn't accept..

Been able to sort out differences when they occur in marriage is a sign of maturity ...

Even in the western world, women don't just quit their marriage because their husband cheat, they try to rescue the situation and if they can't and is obvious the man refuse to change then they consider quitting

Lol

A woman with experience is talking

MrBrownJay1:
Low self esteem African women...doing what they do best to stay married at ANY cost

Please check your skull your brain Don leak finish

dewaskillz:
This is just silly from you. That's how we just run away at any slightest obstacle

Why wouldn't men cheat when women think like the OP?! It's a clear confirmation that, whatever he does, his desperate wife would forgive him and stay by his side regardless.... thus fucking the maid, beat her black and blue etc

RockHard:
I get where you are coming from but you have to realize that life is not in black and white, some mistakes do occur for different reasons. Nothing wrong in giving someone a second chance if he's sorry. Of all the good things/sides of the man, why pick on that one mistake especially if he's remorseful?

The issue is not really about forgiving anyone who is remorseful...it's about a low self esteem woman who is accepting failure before it even happens.

The above you wrote also sends a wrong message out there: just do what evil rubbish you want in marriage, then just say you are sorry, and your desperate low self esteem wife will forgive any act.

Toks2008:
You are so ignorant.

Love you too my brotha...

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