MrBrownJay1:


The minute a man cheats, whether wifey knows or not, makes no difference on the issue of HIM having any respect for his wife or family. He has none, because if he had any he wouldn't cheat.duh!

Today we ALREADY have broken marriages everywhere, and just because deluded women stay in these miserable Marriages certainly does not make these marriage any RIGHT/PERFECT.
IMHO, better a broken marriage where you now have two happy single parents than a miserable marriage where you have two disrespectful bitter married people teaching ARRANT RUBBISH way to live to their kids.

Cheating happens on different grounds sm pure mistakes, bad judgments and others bad habits and adopted way of life. U can’t treat each same way. Beyoncé still has her marriage and seems to be on the right path and even tho I don’t believe marriage defines u, it’s great when with the right one and that doesn’t mean its perfect. We need to apply reason depending on what u want in life without being stupid. I agree with u only to sm extent.

This lady that smokes like a chimney with her friend waje. From one club to another

MrBrownJay1:


NEWSFLASH: your disrespectful unfaithful dishonest untrustworthy husband is the person who will allow these slay mama to take over your home, and you will have no say on this matter... since you will clearly accept any type of rubbish from your husband.

Easy tiger

Or is something bothering you?

Of course she won't leave, that because she will be fvcking different men as well. Marry this type of woman at your own risk.

MrBrownJay1:


NEWSFLASH: your disrespectful unfaithful dishonest untrustworthy husband is the person who will allow these slay mama to take over your home, and you will have no say on this matter... since you will clearly accept any type of rubbish from your husband.

get over yourself. It's nothing personal. Maybe these women see life from a better angle than you.

jaxxy:


Cheating happens on different grounds sm pure mistakes, bad judgments and others bad habits and adopted way of life. U can’t treat each same way. Beyoncé still has her marriage and seems to be on the right path and even tho I don’t believe marriage defines u, it’s great when with the right one and that doesn’t mean its perfect. We need to apply reason depending on what u want in life without being stupid. I agree with u only to sm extent.

Come on bro.... whatever excuse you quoted up there does not matter to the fact that it is a lack of respect towards your partner. Yes, you certainly can't judge one cheating from another, but the result of that act is the same.... whether some women are still with these cheating men or not is irrelevant to the issue of lack of respect and low self esteem.

Many husband are truly remorseful of their disrespectful act and may be forgiven for it....but forgiving any cheater before he even cheats is a clear sign of a desperate low self esteem person.

Weathered:
get over yourself. It's nothing personal. Maybe these women see life from a better angle than you.

By all means tell us all what that " better" angle may be...if not a desperate desire to stay married at ANY cost.... as stated in my earlier post.

luminouz:

Easy tiger

Or is something bothering you?

Let's just call a spade A SPADE, instead of you focussing on the wrong issues.

MrBrownJay1:
Low self esteem African women...doing what they do best to stay married at ANY cost

wetin carry low self esteem come here now?

I don't know why when females get fatter, they become foolish.
Mumu woman.

We men are polygamous by nature, and she is smart to know this, and she can't defy science especially when he's a black man, a woman as wise as her is seen as a powerful figure in any marriage. Side chics you can now leave, the wife has arrived.

MrBrownJay1:


NEWSFLASH: your disrespectful unfaithful dishonest untrustworthy husband is the person who will allow these slay mama to take over your home, and you will have no say on this matter... since you will clearly accept any type of rubbish from your husband.

Before u continue d rain of insults, not all men cheat o n d question is just what if and not that they already caught him cheating.

MrBrownJay1:


NEWSFLASH: your disrespectful unfaithful dishonest untrustworthy husband is the person who will allow these slay mama to take over your home, and you will have no say on this matter... since you will clearly accept any type of rubbish from your husband.

Ask for wisdom..If you loose your husband because he cheats..wet in u gain

koyyess:
I don't know why when females get fatter, they become foolish.

Mumu woman.

She's is wiser than you...mumu

Cheating on your wife is NOT a mistake. It’s a premeditated action. You consciously decided to cheat, betray and lie to your wife. A mistake is forgetting to turn off the light.

RockHard:


I get where you are coming from but you have to realize that life is not in black and white, some mistakes do occur for different reasons. Nothing wrong in giving someone a second chance if he's sorry. Of all the good things/sides of the man, why pick on that one mistake especially if he's remorseful?

MrBrownJay1:


Why wouldn't men cheat when women think like the OP?! It's a clear confirmation that, whatever he does, his desperate wife would forgive him and stay by his side regardless.... thus fucking the maid, beat her black and blue etc



The issue is not really about forgiving anyone who is remorseful...it's about a low self esteem woman who is accepting failure before it even happens.

The above you wrote also sends a wrong message out there: just do what evil rubbish you want in marriage, then just say you are sorry, and your desperate low self esteem wife will forgive any act.



Love you too my brotha...

sense is not just far away from u... Its very far away from u

martowskin1:


Staying the marriage does not mean u accept his rubbish, and leaving doesn't mean u didn't accept..

Been able to sort out differences when they occur in marriage is a sign of maturity ...

Even in the western world, women don't just quit their marriage because their husband cheat, they try to rescue the situation and if they can't and is obvious the man refuse to change then they consider quitting

I like how y'all all trying to give answers that point to reconciliation, I hope when it is the other way y'all will still do the same.

Toks2008:


A man wey wan cheat go cheat.

Nothing fit stop am. Just that a reasonable man will never cheat on his wife with impunity.

Cheating is a already an impunity and an indignity inflicted on your spouse. Check my message below.

MrBrownJay1:


Let's just call a spade A SPADE, instead of you focussing on the wrong issues.

I hate SPADES!!!
Gimme Dangote truckload!

MrBrownJay1:
Low self esteem African women...doing what they do best to stay married at ANY cost

This is not always the case. A lot of women are socialised to hold on shams of marriages.

wizardus:


She's is wiser than you...mumu

See fish head yapping from the anus.

swerve!!

Scammer.

I just hope story won't change later ooo.

MrBrownJay1:
Low self esteem African women...doing what they do best to stay married at ANY cost

As you are neither a woman nor married,KEEP SHUT..

No one cares for your THEORETICAL opinion..

MrBrownJay1:
Low self esteem African women...doing what they do best to stay married at ANY cost

That's how she wants it.
What makes her happy.
Human Rights!

MrBrownJay1:


NEWSFLASH: your disrespectful unfaithful dishonest untrustworthy husband is the person who will allow these slay mama to take over your home, and you will have no say on this matter... since you will clearly accept any type of rubbish from your husband.

Truth is bitter

Correct Bae


If Beyonce, over sexy woman and supposedly amongst the richest black women alive didn't leave Jay-Z, whenever he cheats on her. With her great beauty to behold , Na me one come leave my husband if I eventually marry?

Nope I'm not leaving either. It's simple mathematics.

MrBrownJay1:


People cheat everywhere in the world and many low self esteem women stay with these cheating men....the issue is what you do if/when you find out about it OR when your husband remorsefully tells you about it.... instead of accepting it before the evil deed is done.



I am sorry to say that, if husband fukcs around like a goat then why shouldn't we live like goats?! At least we would all know what we are.

There is a huge difference between having two heads in a family AND having one person disrespect their partner by sleeping with women outside marriage. Being faithful to your partner is actually one of the foundation of marriage.

so if a woman cheats,and the man decides to still have her.does that make him a low self-esteem man?

I get what she is saying but what if it happens again?,what if he cheats on you with ya friend or sister?,what if his mistress is pregnant for him?,what if he apologises but does'nt connect with you anymore?,how long can you condone his nonsense?..knowing one's self worth is the key o,just saying

MarieSucre:


Cheating is a already an impunity and an indignity inflicted on your spouse. Check my message below.

Continue writing grammar and not face reality.

If your husband for any reason cheats on you please leave him you hear.. And let's see if you will marry a man that will not even do worse.

Infact I always look at any lady with your opinion with great pity cos I see them as potentially depressed women.

A lady once called me and crying profusely that she is lonely and I told her to go back to her husband that she left cos he cheated on her...4 months latter she called back full of joy to thank me.

Let me tell you this home made truth and it's up to you to take it or continue to live in delusion.

The fact that polygamy is a choice and not a crime means no reasonable lady needs leave her marriage cos her husband cheats on her...rather than leave just switch the guy to a booty call and use a condom to be with him whilst you face your life n that of your child or children...but if you foolishly leave I bet you have just signed yourself into possible misery cos most guys out there will use you as proper intimacy gadget...you will lose your dignity and value in the hands of Randy men and even the one that chooses a to be with you will think he is doing you a favour

Stupid marriage counsellors will tell you leave but I am telling you this minute that if you leave, the guy will move on with his life and whilst he will be having a swell time, you will be their sulking, lonely and depressed.

Let me stop here.

Adepet222:
I won't too, because I won't allow any slay mama to take over my house.

Aunty Ronke ...
How you dey?

Ay77:

Aunty Ronke ... How you dey?

Deji how u dey?

MarieSucre:
This is not always the case. A lot of women are socialised to hold on shams of marriages.

Ure butiful like u though but far from me, can u dm me 07036440359